You can whine all you want about how you think men have high standards to meet in dating when in reality we all know it's not the case. The bar is LOW for men. So so very low, even they know it. Men showing basic human decency is considered remarkable by most women. I truly believe it's 100% because women allow this. If women had the standards of men the world would be better off. We would filter out garbage men much more efficiently. There would be less misery among us collectively. Men rarely settle and that's why women are stuck with settling. You can turn this into a standards debate but we all know who is usually the most attractive in relationships (99.9% of the time the woman is). You can use the excuse men and women's standards are just different but you never see a man settle for anything less than the very best he can do. A man is always only as faithful as his options.