I'm a 24F, decent salary (engineering in tech making 130k yearly), i workout everyday: skiing, hot yoga, hiking, soccer etc. I am in really good shape and most guys would label me attractive. However, when it comes to dating, all the guys I've talked to have crazy ex "baggage." When the guy starts to develop feelings for me, they always pull back because "well my ex was super clingy, i lost my freedom and i don't want to lose my freedom now." It is super frustrating. I always give guys space- I don't text 24/7, I let guys plan things for me, compliment them, super touchy, even wear sexy outfits for them. And despite all of that- that "clingy" ex is still in their mind. That somehow, my crazy side will come out eventually. Now obv, if they start pulling back, I also pull back. I'm not going to go out of my way when a guy starts acting distant. I usually talk to guys 30-35 age, so I mean if they are playing the field and talking to other girls, I can't really control that. Just seems strange that guys I've talked to all have some crazy ex, clingy, insecure girl and that mentally stops them from picking out a decent girl.