Summary: 26 year old virgin guy on the ForeverAlone sub is a willing beta orbiter for a girl for four years. When she finally lands a hot boyfriend, she brags about him to OP, who starts getting depressed/angry. Girl immediately shames him for standing up for himself, and successfully horse-whips him back into orbiter status. Welcome to female nature.

Original post here.

Update here.

I don't usually like putting my cross-hairs on Foreveraloners, because these guys are the most miserable beings on the planet. We're not even talking betas, we're talking omegas. Men who are so undesirable girls don't even want to use them as providers. But this story (and its update) is a stellar example of female nature and cruelty, and a warning to all of you never to fall into such a trap.

We begin with the original thread...

So I've recently been very frustrated because the girl I like is dating a guy right now.. Before you jump to conclusions- I've known her for 4 years, she's my "best friend" and she knows that I like her. She lives in the UK so I see her pretty sporadically. We talk to eachother every day. When we're together, we're never apart.

Whenever she mentions her boyfriend, I don't respond to her, or try to change the subject. Quite frankly, I don't give a shit about him.

She called me out on it. .. Whatever.. She starts messaging me again saying I'm an asshole and I tell her it's not exactly easy hearing the girl you like talking about her boyfriend, and I didn't have anything nice to say so I just kept it to myself.

Again, she starts messaging me and starts talking about how perfect he is. I'm honestly just raging at this point.. I don't give a fuck about him. I don't wanna hear about him.

How do I handle this? Should I just cut her off? I'm not used to being this angry. I hate it. I'm not sleeping anymore, I'm barely eating, and I can't focus on anything.

If I do cut her off, should I just blow up on her? Or should I just do what I normally do and not say anything? - That obviously hasn't worked.

I know I'm acting petty and stupid right now. she's supposed to be my best friend.. but I can't man.. this sucks and it's messing with my head. On one hand, I'm literally losing the only person I talk to. On the other, I'm really tired of this stress.

side note- Before anyone gives me advice- I lifted and gained 30 lbs of muscle between the last two times she saw me. I cleaned up my looks, gained an extensive amount of hobbies and was overall a much happier person. I bluntly told her how I felt about her and she said "we would never work well together" and yadda yada let's not ruin our relationship, I like us the way we are, you'll find someone some day etc.

Couple of RedPill truths in here. #1: women shit test all the time, it's just what they do. Even to omegas. Notice this girl rejected OP but coerced him into remaining friends, and now is trying to prod at OP and hurt his feelings by incessantly talking about "ommmmgggg my new flame Raoul is sewww hawt". And then getting pissy when OP demonstrates frustration at this. Destroying your self-esteem is one major way in which girls will try to keep you in the friendzone and orbiter zone.

Second redpill truth: even lifting won't solve all your problems. OP said he lost weight and gained lots of muscle mass but nothing changed. That's because alpha and beta are not just body descriptions, it's in the soul. Your dominant and aggressive personality is equally important to attracting a girl.

Anyway. A while later OP updated us today...

Today is my 26th birthday. I was somewhat surprised that she sent me a message telling me Happy Birthday. Then we started talking:

Her: Hey listen. I don't want to be strung along. Are we still friends or do you just want to call it quits?

Me:I've honestly been thinking about it the past 2 days. I actually have a huge lump in my throat thinking about It now. There's nothing I would hate more than to lose you (her name). But honestly my mental health just can't take it. I'm in a really bad place right now. I think we should be friends but I just think we need some space

her: Well instead of pushing me away, sounds like you need a friend You act like I've murdered someone man. You're honestly being ridiculous. We have this amazing relationship and such great things together, and for the sake of jealousy that I went on a fucking date, you're just gonna delete everything? You know how much I love you and want you in my life, but I'm not a boomerang you can just keep tossing away and expecting to come back. You make a decision. You either want me in your life or you don't. I'm not gonna be dragged along.

Me: Of course I want you in my life There's no one I want more in my life We just need some space.. This isn't good for the either of us. You didn't do anything wrong and you shouldn't feel like you did. You also don't need to be going through bullshit like this. Right now I'm in a worse place than I've ever been. All because I'm way too attached to you and get ridiculously jealous. Maybe some time apart can help me get over you and allow us to be the friends you always wanted us to be

Her: No, you're mistaken - I know I didn't do anything wrong

She isn't one to show emotion a lot so her telling me that she loves me means she is pretty hurt by this. I'm pretty upset but I do feel somewhat relieved in a way.

So OP tried to regain control of his balls and put space between them, but the woman isn't having any of this. She immediately unloads her entire verbal arsenal of insults and emotional weapons. Saying she "loves him" (while getting plowed by her hot fuckbuddy on the side, of course). Says that he's being a "boomerang" for daring to stand up for himself and leave.

And of course OP, being the omega he is, quietly goes along with it, constantly apologizing for himself, calling himself mentally ill, etc. It's fucking painful to watch.

Gentlemen... do not be a doormat. I know most people will think to yourselves hey, that's easy, I'm too strong to be a doormat! but women are more subliminal and dangerous than you could possibly imagine. Women have ways of pulling strategically at your heartstrings and pushing all the right buttons to make you feel like a piece of shit.

The Red Pill will help you overcome that and become your own man. And hey... maybe one day OP will come by, read our wisdom, and become the man he was meant to be instead of a limp doormat.

TL;DR: Do not be fooled by women trying to keep you in the orbiter-zone. They will lash out and use any emotional weapon they can to justify treating you like shit. Don't fall for it, be strong and be independent.