I’m not a child who is incapable of making decisions 🙄

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-12-09T01:59:54+00:00

He has definitely sent this to many women.

KittenyCat5 · 2020-12-09T02:40:53+00:00

Any guy that says "you seem to have the rare combination of beauty and smarts" is such a red flag. Any man that puts down other women/women in general is NVM. So many women are beautiful and smart. Guys that's speak like this are hoping that the woman has such low self esteem or deep rooted hate for their gender to be flattered by this.

NoMoreWordsToConquer · 2020-12-09T02:02:59+00:00

I can't stop laughing.. "your poor, poor choices... how you foolishly passed on me". Does this moron not realize he's trash-talking the supposed object of his affections? Like that's supposed to make you swoon lol?

ulqui4nn4 · 2020-12-09T02:11:36+00:00

"the best unions are made because of the man harassing the woman until she finally gives in" yeah I don't think so

daisyinflux · 2020-12-09T02:45:58+00:00

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AbundantOverflow · 2020-12-09T02:23:14+00:00

They need to hand boundaries out when they start giving out the vaccine because some ppl truly have none of their own. Just wow.

RhiannonEmilia · 2020-12-09T03:34:40+00:00

“I’m sorry but that’s just not going to work for me” was the first trigger point for me. This dude is creepy and seems dangerous as hell. That and he’s just delusional.

SuitablePerformance3 · 2020-12-09T02:35:37+00:00

Ew what the heck, the audacity. Is he trying to argue a stranger into a relationship?? And future kids?? Creep for real.

fairywakes · 2020-12-09T03:10:49+00:00

I know so many beautiful, intelligent, and incredible woman. What a loser.

BleuRaspbery · 2020-12-09T03:40:38+00:00

This is creepy and delusional behavior. He thinks he can talk his way into anything and ignore the fact you don’t want to speak to him. He insulted women with his “smarts are rare” comment as well.

Marigold-ink · 2020-12-09T05:23:40+00:00

I decided to send you this unsolicited and invasive instant chat because...

At least he admits he’s self-aware...

And now I make edits:

~~you’re gorgeous~~ [I don’t care about your boundaries and I don’t see you as a person with your own autonomy, only as my future baby maker, as I admit this when I mention our future kids.]

unbelyevable · 2020-12-09T05:57:48+00:00

"Besides, imagine telling our children how you foolishly passed on our muzmatch..."

Pro tip: that means he's gonna have no problem turning future kids against you. #redflag

Nah, sis

romantickitty · 2020-12-09T06:49:37+00:00

"Beauty and brains" How did you manage to not swoon? /s

So condescending. Anyway, this is demented. There's a way to chase and this ain't it.

EveSerpent · 2020-12-09T04:29:39+00:00

Wow, he’s irritating.

2020-12-09T03:57:02+00:00

Wow that was a rollercoaster and in the end you get to have kids!

Sounds like a red checkered flag with the end in plain sight.

liondale · 2020-12-09T09:03:09+00:00

Nothing reeks more than desperation from a man who cannot accept no for an answer

eluriaeve · 2020-12-09T05:39:17+00:00

The audacity 🤡🤡🤡

clairemaffeis · 2020-12-09T06:23:59+00:00

My jaw dropped to the floor. Boundaries? None.

failuretolaunchbf · 2020-12-09T12:53:52+00:00

Out of curiosity, does this mean he also pays a subscription to see who has looked at his page but did not match with him? A couple of other dating apps have this option.

Aaaaaaand, if so... Why would anybody want to check out people who saw them and still didn't want to match with them?! No self respect.

Suspicious-Leg-1407 · 2020-12-09T13:10:51+00:00

Omg r/cringetopia

straighthairgreece · 2020-12-09T02:43:44+00:00

Which app is this?

late4church_ · 2020-12-09T21:41:45+00:00

Imagine having to deal with him for many, many years. Sounds terrible and draining.

CoffeeBeforeAdulty · 2020-12-09T03:22:23+00:00

Probably Match? Looked like match.

GoldandGlowing · 2020-12-09T18:03:14+00:00

Muzmatch is a trip ☠️🤣

BabyBlankieieieieie · 2020-12-11T04:02:43+00:00

Also “imagine telling our kids” stop it ya weirdo

Title	I’m not a child who is incapable of making decisions 🙄
Author	Jamaissa
Upvotes	109
Comments	39
Date	December 8, 2020 9:49 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/k9dvms/im_not_a_child_who_is_incapable_of_making/
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