It’s often repeated here that apps like Tinder and online dating have ruined the ‘dating market’ by giving women an inflated sense of their smv, making it harder for average men to get women. It also repeated like it is a fact, that online dating has basically allowed women to order male model dick at their disposal without ever having to leave their house. Understanding trp ideas, online dating apps like Tinder should be attractive for women because it allows them to further maximize their dating strategy. They don’t have to be limited to just men in their area, but they can also find men as far away as 100 miles or even in different countries. The abundance of men makes it easier to shift through and find the Chads, and more opportunities for dates. It also gives them the opportunity to find tons of betas that can orbit them and later settle down with after riding the cc.

However, according to statistics:

“In the US, Tinder users skew heavily male. As of December 2019 it was estimated that 78.1% of Tinder users were male, compared to 21.9% female, according to stats published on Statista. In the UK, it was estimated by Ogury that 85% of the online dating market was male, as of April 2019. This imbalance was even more pronounced among Tinder users, for which the ratio was 9:1 in favour of male users.”

https://www.businessofapps.com/data/tinder-statistics/

“Online dating trends: Men outnumber women on Tinder by 9 to 1 ( while Grinder wins for age diversity) Men outnumber women on Tinder by almost nine to one, while even “female-friendly” apps like Bumble have fewer than 20% of Bumble users, according to new research.”

http://www.netimperative.com/2019/04/online-dating-trends-men-outnumber-women-on-tinder-by-9-to-1-while-grinder-wins-for-age-diversity/

“Men outnumber women dramatically on dating apps; this is a fact. A 2016 literature review also found that men are more active users of these apps—both in the amount of time they spend on them and the number of interactions they attempt. Their experience of not getting as many matches or messages, the numbers say, is real.”

https://amp-theatlantic-com.cdn.ampproject.org/v/s/amp.theatlantic.com/amp/article/606982/?amp_js_v=0.1&usqp=mq331AQFKAGwASA%3D

The statistics also don’t take into account bot accounts which are usually women, so the ratio could be worse for all we know.

So my question is if online dating is so great as a lot of men make it out to be for women, why aren’t more using it? If online dating gives women the validation they crave and a steady stream handsome men to fuck, then ideally more women should be on it, right?