My ex was a dickbag but he knew a lot of good places for dates around the city (because he was taking so many other women on dates). I really loved it when he picked a place because he always did it with confidence. On the few occasions the place turned out to be empty (usually if we went on a weekday), it still was a great place when I went on weekends. Also I am very indecisive so I appreciated that he was able to make decisions as to where to go, and take matter into his own hands.

I was talking with a guy as of recently and when we talked about going out he was like “Where could we go? So many places are still closed. Ummm?” It was obviously not because he wanted to take me into his bed. He was genuinely confused and lost. And it was a complete turn off.

I understand not knowing where to go now that only some places are open. But did he have to make it this obvious?

In the past I probably wouldn’t have cared but at this point I’m 32. He’s 38. I don’t want someone who acts like a teenager. I’m done with sub-par men. I want someone whom I feel is as classy and confident as I am.