[Q4M] What makes you notice a woman? What makes a woman high/low value to you (if you're redpilled)

lmSoBored · 2020-07-03T22:12:40+00:00

Outside of looks, I see someone as LTR material if she's interesting and fun to talk to, kind, open-minded, and independent. I don't really care about what her job is or how much she makes as long as she's able to take care of herself and doesn't expect me to financially support her lifestyle.

Also, lack of social media usage is a HUGE plus. I hate social media and if a girl is always posting on there and trying to show off then it's a massive turn-off. I'm cool if she uses it for something creative such as photography or art but I'm noping the fuck outta there if she's posting selfies and bikini pics all the time.

theguytheguy1000 · 2020-07-03T22:39:17+00:00

people don't mention this enough but NOT LOOKING MISERABLE.

I swear ome of the most attractive things is when a girl walks around with a face like she's actually happy. it literally makes them glow, it stands out A LOT.

now look obviously being hot is very important but as long as she's hit the threshold of prettiness to me then if she has a smile on her face and some light in her eyes then that makes them very very attractive.

it's rare to see this because most people walk around in a haze of stress and general apathy.

so basically 1. look good 2. be happy.

Tyler_Gatsby · 2020-07-03T22:06:58+00:00

Hair, and shape mostly. I'm a little more flexible than most here in that area, she can be thick or alternative. I admittedly have a thing for boobs, butts and thighs, so will gladly overlook a little, "muffin' top" if she is stacked well enough in those three areas. It's an acceptable compromise, imo.

Edit: Oh, now we're not being manbearpigs and talking about personality.

As for mentally, I do prefer more, "girly girl" I admit, but not a pushover. She can be an introvert, but still hold her own in a conversation. The weirder the better. The one I have now is witchy, into crystals, multidimensional beings, and other supernatural what nots.

indredthrow · 2020-07-03T20:08:05+00:00

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SeemedGood · 2020-07-03T21:15:16+00:00

Doesn’t look like Every Other Chick (has her own style)

Feminine

Less makeup is better, none is best

Eschews social media

Kind, curious, thoughtful

Has something interesting to say when she opens her mouth

Is attractive (this is a very broad category helped greatly by the above).

Sultmaker_9000 · 2020-07-03T21:55:20+00:00

If she's going into bed the same date, pretty much all men will compromise their standards to a significant degree.

For relationships, I have and will date women that weren't as good looking as other women if the're very feminine and as close to unconditionally loving towards me as possible.

stats135 · 2020-07-03T21:25:11+00:00

What makes me notice a woman?

I find her physically attractive. Since I find most young women attractive, I notice most women in my surrounding.

What makes a woman high or low value?

Assuming she meets the previously mentioned attractiveness threshold, what I value most is low risk and low maintenance. It doesn't matter how hot you are if I have to risk you leaving with half of everything I have and will have. Its equally bad having you stay, but at the expense of dealing with high maintenance in a relationship.

Joey_Lopez · 2020-07-03T23:46:15+00:00

What makes me notice a woman : Tits, a nice smile, being feminine, and just being cheery.

What makes her high value : Low body count, not a single mom.

What makes her low value : Being a hoe, being a single mom, and just having a bad attitude.

JesterMcGavin · 2020-07-04T11:47:37+00:00

Women have cooties

XtoDoubt · 2020-07-03T20:44:12+00:00

No woman is high value if you're red pilled.

CentralAdmin · 2020-07-04T00:30:00+00:00

What makes them noticeable is how they present themselves. I like curvy, thicker women so if they show off said curves it's going to get my attention. Extra points for clean/neat hair and solid makeup game though it's not a requirement she does more than the basics. But what makes her more than a sex partner is her personality.

For me, it's if she's fun to be around and isn't a difficult bitch. Women often assume men feel intimidated by their 'strength' when no man wants to put up with her because she's difficult. Men like women who are feminine, who are playful, kind, intelligent and enjoy sex. That softness women can exude is attractive. A high value woman has class and stays in shape (very lenient on the shape as I do like curves). She isn't a reformed slut who thinks she deserves a good man after years of sleeping with the worst kind of guys because she likes hot assholes.

Some red flags include a lot of visible tattoos, always taking shit about her exes, very brightly coloured hair and poor treatment of service staff. High value women don't treat waiters like dirt and unfortunately I've noticed a slave/master mindset among some women when they're at restaurants. It's shitty to treat them that way. It's also short sighted because they handle your food and I'm not ready to ingest someone else's bodily fluids because my date has delusions about her value and status.

JesterMcGavin · 2020-07-04T01:13:45+00:00

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TheGirlGetter9000 · 2020-07-03T22:51:34+00:00

Appearance is obviously number one. If she's not where I want to be appearance-wise, I won't even look her way enough to notice her.

From there I like a laid back demeanor. A "chiller." Laughs, good sense of humor. Easy to talk to without feeling like I'm going to get judged for making a joke.

Also, off the bat, prefer a lack of attention-seeking behavior. I don't want to hear her talking to other women about any combination of "omg men are so terrible! my dates are all so bad!" or "I just need a man who is _____" or "Omg so many men hit on me." And yes... I do notice and overhear women who say these things to their friends. Lots of other things along these lines I could have listed but I had a particular girl in mind who I met that looked almost just like my LTR, but I went for my LTR and not her (met her first) because she would say these things. And it was off-putting.

Once I get to know her more is accounted for but off-the-bat this is what I notice. Are you attractive? Do you seem cool? Are you damaged? That's what I see.

TheJim66 · 2020-07-03T20:35:50+00:00

Well, looks are an obvious one. Hot women grab our attention and are high value. Other than that being nice, feminine and not a slut make her LTR worthy.

Anthony-waltzs · 2020-07-03T23:14:06+00:00

Her looks. Her body type, and how she carries herself. Is her face cute? Does she have nice clean teeth or smokers teeth. Does she wear tattoos or not. Just things like that.

Grand_Duty · 2020-07-04T12:37:54+00:00

Her Elegance!

richlad · 2020-07-04T02:24:53+00:00

No woman is high valued.

Some women are pretty, others are not.

As a man if you've bunch of women available to you, you go for the one who you think is hotter. That's best investment for your time.

Other than this, there is no crazy drama or things that a woman can do that will catch my attention.

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OXOzymandias · 2020-07-03T22:43:46+00:00

Vibe

TheBookOfSeil · 2020-07-03T23:05:06+00:00

That all depends on how we meet. If it's in person, looks are always the first thing everyone notices. That can't really be avoided unless you're meeting online in a chatroom where you can't see each other, so looks are always usually what causes us to notice someone. The second part might be something about their looks. Are they cute? Quirky? Pretty? Tall? Short? Thin? Overweight? Nerdy? Geeky? Photogenic? Everyone has their preferences in what they look for that makes a person stand out.

The last girl that I was genuinely interested in on a physical level was this foreign-exchange student from Egypt that went to my college for a short time. She was on the track and field team and she was quite muscular for a girl, but it looked good on her so I was all for it. She was kind of young though so I didn't try to approach her or talk to her.

What makes a woman attractive to me is a combination of how she looks with who she is. If she's not the prettiest but she's cool, has a good personality and we get along, she's ahead of a woman that is physically attractive but boring, dumb, basic, and/or bitchy.

BROWN-TOILET-PAPER · 2020-07-04T05:09:23+00:00

What catches my attention is her being good looking to me. There is no point in explaining why she looked good to me. A chick that is hot to me might not be someone else's type so it doesn't matter.

After that, having a personality I can stand and gel with, is utmost important, otherwise she will have just been a looker, and nothing else.

And important 3rd, is if we are into similar things and I like women who are creative and into the arts in some way, be it a job or a hobby. I've honestly had a hard time coming across such a woman that ticks all of these boxes. I find most woman terribly uninteresting, and 'basic', personally. (most people are such though)

MetalPrincess14032 · 2020-07-04T05:33:38+00:00

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Pastelitomaracucho · 2020-07-04T06:16:49+00:00

Kindness, intelligence and education.

geyejoe7 · 2020-07-04T13:25:46+00:00

I love to see a strong character. Open to talking about any topic, and has strong views. Preferably an atheist (a whole different world view comes into the picture then).

I also ofcourse prefer highly intelligent women. Who can keep up in such conversations.

What makes me notice them? A nice face, rack, butt and waist. I notice women from looks first. If that doesn't pass, I don't care about anything romantic with them. Friends? Sure. Not anything more.

Sir_manalot · 2020-07-04T14:06:33+00:00

Physically, hair and eyes are the first. Especially colored or dark hair with blue eyes.

Personality wise, a teaser who is pleasant to be around.

Grave_Heresy · 2020-07-04T14:27:20+00:00

HIGH VALUE WOMAN

Personality: High conscientiousness moderate agreeableness moderate neuroticism moderate openness low extraversion IQ above 105 External locus of control Low in Dark Triad traits Moderate emotional intelligence Moderate high sex drive Restricted sociosexual orientation

Physical: Age: 18-28 Height: 5'5-6'0 Body Fat: 20-25% Symmetrical face, forehead ~1/3 of face length, fairly high cheek bones. Eye, hair, and skin color unimportant NO facial hair!!! NO spider veins/vericose veins! NO skin tags or warts!

Misc:

Has a good job

Has a body count of 0

Good sense of fashion

College educated w/o grievance studies degree (i.e, gender studies etc).

Exercises regularly.

Eats healthy

Critical thinker (Enjoys philosophy).

Believes in God

Enjoys learning

Has hobbies

LOW VALUE WOMAN

The opposite of everything that would make her high value.

The biggest ones are

Body count of 10+ (Instant disqualifier)

No job or low paying job

Boring (97% of women)

Low IQ

Aged 35+

Overweight/out of shape

wtknight · 2020-07-04T16:03:16+00:00

Cute face, slim body, smiles a lot, intelligent mind, doesn't like to talk too much

anime_lean · 2020-07-04T20:51:23+00:00

not redpill but fashion i study it and it’s my main hobby and you can tell a hell of a lot about a person from their personal style, if their style is very personal to begin with

snatchsnatcher92 · 2020-07-05T01:17:58+00:00

Outside of looks, having her own hobbies outside of work/school. I don't care if her hobbies are coin collecting and tap dancing, she's gotta have hobbies outside of going to the bar on the weekends to be considered for a LTR

staypositivebrad · 2020-07-05T02:49:23+00:00

There is no high-value, just varying degrees of low value.

What makes her attractive to me is her body. I tend to prefer them thicker.

Cleanit_up_Jannies · 2020-07-05T09:02:37+00:00

what makes your notice a woman

Looks

what makes a woman high value?

Virginity, home making skills, intellect, good looks, and thats all there is to it. If you can talk about shit that isnt netflix or shopping, can whip up a meal, look good and arent a whore, thats a pretty high value (most men will be fine with low partner count). If you think these are pretty low standards and that there has to be more to this, then you're wrong. The bar is set that low yet most women cant jump over it.

Workaholiconew · 2020-07-06T05:57:02+00:00

What makes a woman high/low value to you (if you're redpilled)

Same as every other man. A higher valued woman has

Looks,
Youth,
Helpfulness,
Reasonableness,
Not being unpleasant (aka, not crazy/nuisance/bother),
Not too much of a resource sink,

I've always wanted to truly know what catches a guys attention?

What makes you notice a woman?

Same as every other person. Being different, and standing out, but those characteristics do not mean higher value, just that you will get my attention/make me notice you. It can make your value go higher, or lower, after all, Karens get my attention, but not in a nice way.

What makes her attractive to you?

I think you mean what makes her attractive as a romantic partner instead of a sexual one.

Same as every other man, she needs to be

Sexually satisfying (Why have a relationship if I gonna be sexually starved?)
Reasonable (aka, not crazy)
Not too much of a bother/nuisance (aka, not too much of a resource sink)
Loyal (well... self explanatory)

Title	[Q4M] What makes you notice a woman? What makes a woman high/low value to you (if you're redpilled)
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Date	July 3, 2020 5:57 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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