what would you do with your life if you had been born a woman?

jdobrila · 2020-12-19T15:12:25+00:00

This question is impossible to answer because my thoughts, personality, and life experiences would have been completely different as a result.

cloudydays84 · 2020-12-19T14:32:38+00:00

The exact same thing I'm doing now as a man

Mammoth_Ad_5181 · 2020-12-19T15:59:07+00:00

I’d be a really big slut and proud

WomenHavItHarder · 2020-12-19T16:24:45+00:00

I’d be an athletic lesbian with a nice ass who gets laid every night (only with hot women)

2020-12-19T14:34:20+00:00

I would find and marry current me.

welcometothejl · 2020-12-19T20:29:16+00:00

Make an Onlyfans account as soon as I turned 18 in order to pay for college. Graduate without debt and immediately start investing since I am cash positive. Retire early.

ivy176 · 2020-12-19T14:46:52+00:00

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John_Oakman · 2020-12-19T15:09:57+00:00

Being born a girl in mainland China in the 90s would have been... interesting to say the least, assuming I wasn't just aborted in the first place. Assuming my parents major life events were similar after moving to the US the bullying would have been worse. On the other hand probably wouldn't have been ran over by a van (happened in China) or getting shot by someone's homemade bow & arrow (happened in the US), mainly because I suspect my parents would have kept more tabs on my activities.

As far as sex-ed and teen development I suspect I would have been more guilt wracked and paranoid then OTL, given that my parents have stated multiple times that in the event of a daughter they would have advised her to be much more careful.

Post high school I would have gone to a different college (no chance that fem-me would have gone to an all male college). After that no idea...

Less_Detail · 2020-12-19T14:23:33+00:00

have a family.

lemme_tell_you · 2020-12-19T14:33:57+00:00

I'd be a lesbian. Everything else in terms of lifepath = literally the same as i am now.

DuncanIdaho88 · 2020-12-19T14:53:52+00:00

The same thing I'm doing now (engineering), while maybe making a little extra on Only Fans or YouTube per month.

TimelessMystic · 2020-12-19T14:58:49+00:00

Do drugs and fuck nerds

Barely-moral · 2020-12-19T15:01:13+00:00

I am making three assumptions. If any of this assumptions is not true in the scenario in which I was born a woman then the answer would not be the same.

First assumption is that I was also born straight.

Second assumption is that I a being born into similar economic/social circumstances. Same country, same culture, same socio economic status etc.

Third assumption is that I get to keep my current personality. If I didn't then that would not be me and the tought experiment is no longer about what I would do but about what other person that has nothing in common with me would do.

Now with that out of the way... what would I do/have done if I was born a woman.

I would spend all the time and effort that I had to and have to put now in my job, my career and my studies into becoming a better, more attractive partner and into meeting, vetting, attracting and keeping a partner. Then I would be a stay at home mother/partner depending on what my partner wants. My goal would be to keep n-count as close to 0/1 as it is possible and go full tradcon. About the idea of marrying young I think that as long as the marriage happens before the wall hits that is young enough. Sure, the younger the better because that would mean that I found the right guy early but I rather take my time in the vetting process because my life and future will depend on it.

Most women don't spend any real effort into being good partners, they just use the SMV nature gives them instead of building on top of it. A woman that takes the effort and time that usually goes into a job/career and uses it to dedicate herself to being a better partner is so far above her competition that she might as well have no competition at all.

I would use the advantages that come with my gender and put the effort to get the life I want... if I fail rope is always an option.

After writing that sentence I could say that I am doing the exact same thing now as a man. The only difference is that the advantages that come with my gender/sex are not good for me to get the life I want (stay at home parent/partner) so I went after option number 2 instead (provider of a partner that is worth the effort).

Jakes1967 · 2020-12-19T21:46:39+00:00

I'd be Stunning and Brave...🤣🤣🤣

Sufficient-Ad-3586 · 2020-12-19T22:06:27+00:00

Same thing every man would do if they turned into a woman.

Play with my boobs all day.

NotGoingoutofMW · 2020-12-20T00:06:41+00:00

I would be a fitness influencer since i'm sure that i'm more fit than many female fitness influencer. Other than that i would pursue the same careerpath in HR but as a women i would probably be already 2 years in because i wouldn't waste time with job interviews etc.

And i would definetely try DP and let me tie up on a sybian just because i want to know the feeling of being stuffed full and get your brain fucked out with multiple orgasms :D

Bandit174 · 2020-12-19T16:17:44+00:00

I'd have casual sex with a handful of hot fun guys in my teens and early 20s, maybe make some extra cash from onlyfans or twitch as I pay my way through college, then settle down with a normal looking dude who earns 20-50% more than me. At that point I'd probably pop out a few kids and either cheat or divorce at the 8-12 year milestone then have more casual sex with hot fun guys for a few years, get married again then finally rince and repeat the last two steps until I die.

NinjaOfTheSouth · 2020-12-19T14:23:19+00:00

Same as I would do now? Being female doesn’t change anything except the amount of attention you get.

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alialahmad1997 · 2020-12-19T15:10:07+00:00

I would not change a damn thing but i would probably be in more relationships because i am not in one because i am too proud to persue other people But no big change i am planning to. Marry in 34 orr something close (after finishing my specialty and return to my country and begin ultra successful) if i was a woman i would choose 27(finish my specialty but don't have to be ultra successful before the marriage)

TheBookOfSeil · 2020-12-19T15:43:19+00:00

Hard to say because I'd have different hormones affecting my thought and development.

I most likely wouldn't be single, and I say that with certainty. Possibly another single mother trying to make it in the world at some point.

Starter91 · 2020-12-19T17:33:50+00:00

Fuck around

Physiologist21 · 2020-12-19T17:54:24+00:00

Id probably end up as sad and pathetic as the women cruising around fds and such. I wouldve never learned any discipline or virtuous skills and never would have had to and probably self destructed greatly.

Being born a man is rough, but the greatest harm to success is comfort. True and a great parallel to why many women are the way they are.

psypD · 2020-12-19T18:29:01+00:00

Blow my brain out most probably. Having a vagina Eww

evolutionary_suicide · 2020-12-19T21:20:00+00:00

marry a military cuck asap and then same thing as a man: career

acron5n5 · 2020-12-19T21:45:15+00:00

Chill all day and night

Existing_Resource · 2020-12-19T22:52:44+00:00

Assuming it’s just a gender swapped me. I would have gotten with an acceptable looking guy in high school who came from one of the “good” families in town and dated him, but preserved my virginity for marriage under the guise of bieng Catholic.

Worked for my older brothers girlfriend, he’s an investment banker now, and would have worked for the girl I simped for back in the day (getting my kinda comeuppance is one of the better points of my life)

Bieng an upper middle class white girl who’s catholic it would not be hard to find a good simp who would take care of me.

PMmeareasontolive · 2020-12-20T01:38:13+00:00

Date interesting guys. Sure you can't always get what you want, but women don't realize the options they have when it comes to dating. You can date people who are actually into the things you are into. Guys have to find someone that's a good person and is hopefully good in bed, but to expect to have much else in common would be a luxury. That's what I would do as a women, find guys who were into stuff I'm into, or were interesting in other ways that I'd like to know more about.

etzio500 · 2020-12-20T02:25:17+00:00

I’d be a porn star

2020-12-20T03:53:42+00:00

I would get as much plastic surgery as possible and make millions off IG, videos, and being a sugar baby. I would become the woman with the largest ass in the world.

Mayhem977 · 2020-12-20T05:08:34+00:00

Show empathy to others, be kind, hit the gym, basically the same thing I’m doing now as a man. Only difference is it’ll be easier for me to show my softer side as a woman since it is expected and people will respect me for it also. I will never understand why women reject femininity these days. It actually makes them more powerful than being masculine. Masculinity doesn’t look good on women anyways.

Kukri23 · 2020-12-20T20:42:35+00:00

Lick vagina, the same as I do as a man

Workaholiconew · 2020-12-21T01:13:17+00:00

I would be quite the different person, after all, I am quite masculine as a man, as a woman it would be a demerit.

I would probably find a single person to share my life (I am quite the antisocial person, so I presume it would stay) and help him to get away from society as a way to avoid society myself.

Iron-Giant169 · 2020-12-21T22:26:26+00:00

Start an onlyfans and raise my simp army

SonicBackScratcher · 2020-12-19T17:03:51+00:00

My brain would be wired different. I'd be most likely somewhat lower IQ. I'd be weaker and shorter. I've had different desires from whats fun to do to who I want to have sex with.

Basically unless I was born the butchiest of butch lesbians I'd be so different the question is unanswerable.

If you put me as I am right now, brain wise, like a bad movie then butch lesbian it is, though how I would react mentally to the change is hard to say, perhaps I'd lose it.

vagbutters · 2020-12-19T17:32:01+00:00

I come from a good home so I doubt I'd be a whore like most western women are, but you honestly never know. I think that I'd have more social media presence by virtue of being attractive, and a line of simps to buy me things.

haikusbot · 2020-12-19T19:29:30+00:00

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MakotoGreen · 2020-12-19T23:05:30+00:00

Hustle in school so I’m not financially dependent on a man in my 30s.
Get into relationships starting as soon as high school (16) to start getting relationships experience (which is what men want from a women they’re considering an LTR)
In college, I’d always entertain multiple options, but be really strict with who I’d sleep with. I wouldn’t be a slut, having a high notch count could mess me up mentally.
By 26-27, start to lock down a high value guy in his early thirties.
Have kids. Telling women that sacrificing kids for a career is a straight up lie.

DerekMorganBAU · 2020-12-21T10:27:33+00:00

What a gay thought experiment you want me to describe my life if I had a pussy hell nah 🤢

Title	what would you do with your life if you had been born a woman?
Author	Federal_Quiet_1230
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Date	December 19, 2020 10:53 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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