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[–]Love_ArtemisThrowaway Account 254 points255 points256 points 5 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
If he doesn't see it working out, then why doesn't he... Oh I don't know...
Break up with her maybe???
[–]HostileovariesFDS Apprentice 160 points161 points162 points 5 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
I've noticed that some people just cannot stand to be single. They jump from relationship to relationship like some kind of needy monkey, constantly needing the validation from having a partner. These people ultimately are unhappy with themselves.
It's one of the reasons FDS teaches that one should only enter a relationship AFTER learning to be happy being with yourself and knowing what you actually want.
[–]dembar126FDS Newbie 93 points94 points95 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
There's literally a r*dpill term called "monkey barring" which means when someone only leaves their current relationship when they have someone else lined up as a backup plan to immediately jump to. Apparently all women do this lol.
Everything they say about us is projection, but this one is one of the bigger ones.
[–]kreutzwortraetzelFDS Newbie 54 points55 points56 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Many people do this but it's mostly men. They are comfortable in a relationship and stay, until they find a fresh bangmaid who is more keen to please, younger or more beautiful.
Women have more to gain being single. They drop household chores to do, s*xual favors to give, and justifying his misogynistic behavior to themselves.
[–]thinktwiceorelseFDS Newbie 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I knew my ex would never leave me even though he didn't want to be in a relationship, because he was fucking lazy to find somebody new.
[–]GourmayFDS Apprentice 26 points27 points28 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, I have never met a woman with a forever-boyfriend she didn’t really care for but was keeping around for years just for sex and whatever.
[–]catlady4uFDS Newbie 15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So true. When I've ended relationships, most men have thrown 'who's the other guy? ' at me, which I now know is projection. I'm not anywhere near thinking about starting over again right away with a new person, but they sure are. My exes all hooked up with someone right away, or already had someone when we broke up.
[–]HostileovariesFDS Apprentice 14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It shouldn't surprise me. I purposely kept my original post gender neutral, because it's not specific to any gender. But yeah it's ridiculous they think all women do this
Edit: autocorrect fail
[–]BasieSkanksRuthless Strategist 19 points20 points21 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I have a friend like this. In the 10 years I’ve known her, she’s always had a man in the picture. She’s literally been in back to back relationships the entire time. Of course she always ends up with a scrote because she doesn’t take the time to vet and shackles herself to the first guy that is nice to her. I’ve tried to bring her to FDS, but it’s been without success so far. I’ll keep trying, though!
[–]Lazy-Design1979FDS Newbie 16 points17 points18 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I also love the giant red flag of "yeah it's not working out because my girlfriend doesn't put any effort in", yet it's his ass all over the dating sites. Wonder who he's gonna blame when his next relationship goes to crap. Spoiler alert: it's not him.
[–]ItsFreezenFDS Newbie 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He won't. What a loser.
[–]Platipus6FDS Apprentice 154 points155 points156 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
“Current woman I’m breadcrumbing isn’t as eager for crumbs as she used to be 😔 who wants this 1% effort I have spare now?”
[–]HomeGrownInDallasFDS Newbie 117 points118 points119 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Another example as to why us ladies need to give up OLD.
There’s an absurd amount of men on these apps that are already in relationships or even married. This should solidify in your mind that men view OLD as unlimited access to sex.
[–]AyemHerselfFDS Disciple 52 points53 points54 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
And you're "lucky" that this guy is being upfront about his scumbaggery. Soooo many of them try to hide it or pretend to be "PoLy."
[–]GourmayFDS Apprentice 12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I weep for the women who enter into these things thinking that maybe they’ll become his number one ans hell stop seeing other women.
[–]Amazing_Wolverine_37FDS Newbie 28 points29 points30 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yup, after I realized several of my crushes or mainstays were "taken", I deleted and never looked back.
[–]whiskey_and_oreosFDS Newbie 57 points58 points59 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I doubt it's ever crossed his mind that just maybe the relationship might be improved if he, oh I don't know, CALLED HER instead of going on OLD? For fuck's sake. At least the breakup will be easier long distance when she finds out.
[–]Big-Respond8481FDS Newbie 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They are probably talking all the damn time and he acts as if hw loves her like nothing else. But why would he care, she is not there to give him sex.
[–]MACMUAFDS Apprentice 27 points28 points29 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don’t even have the words lmao
[–]spinsterchachkiesFDS Disciple 25 points26 points27 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Men try to monkey branch onto new women like they try to leverage new job positions. Ew
[–]laffytaggyFDS Newbie 23 points24 points25 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Well at least he’s honest..smh. What app is that? Never seen a temperament thing..
[–]222-muchFDS Newbie[S] 34 points35 points36 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Believe it or not it's a Catholic one called Catholic Match. It's pretty awful in many ways (case in point) but it's the only OLD profile I've held onto for the past 3 years because the usual suspects (Bumble, Hinge, etc.) were even worse.
[–]yeahhh22FDS Apprentice 24 points25 points26 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol why would you volunteer to be his new "within the US" gf who doesn't put in enough effort.
[–]raphaellastormFDS Newbie 15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
What app is this? Also it’s not going to work because of distance but he’s open to someone anywhere in the US? Also why the heck hasn’t he just broken up with her? He can’t work up the nerve? Men are horrible.
[–]IAteTheDragonFDS Newbie 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
OP says it's Catholic Match 😩
[–]raphaellastormFDS Newbie 20 points21 points22 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yikes, the mindset of this man is just so terrifying. He literally thought, I need to find myself a nice Catholic girl believing she’ll probably be very traditional and dote on him while planning to CHEAT on his long distance girlfriend (who obviously has no idea). Horrific.
[–]IAteTheDragonFDS Newbie 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly. The way I see it, the themed old apps(like Catholic, women initiating, downright sexual etc) is not about finding an man according to them at all. It's for the guys to find a scpecific "flavor" of woman!! "Oh, I'm fed up with a slutty Tinder vamp, I'll order a nice Catholic innocent girl this time". This is so obvious to me right now. Disgusting ☹️
[–]aenema46n2Throwaway Account 13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Seriously disgusting 🤢
[–]anotherdamnloserFDS Newbie 12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wow so gross, what a POS
[–]restlessGalFDS Newbie 12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
As a person in a LDR this makes my skin crawl 🤢
[–]kreutzwortraetzelFDS Newbie 11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
effort = bl*wjob
[–]IAteTheDragonFDS Newbie 10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Classic 😩 As somebody already stated here, OLD to a man means unlimited access to sex. The way I see it, almost every man, taken or single, has a "pocket sex emergency catalogue" at their fingertips at all times . Once they stepped into OLD they are already plugged to it for a lifetime. It's like google maps or something. A handy sex browser. That's what it really is to them. Quick, easy, convenient- and indisposable to them by now. This is sad and disgusting. No wonder it changed shitty man in disguise to out right shitty. Access to this service made them drop every last facade of effort. At least we can see through them sooner🙄
[–]asupernova91FDS Newbie 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That whole "Willing to date within the US" screams: if you're not local that's even better because that makes it harder for you to find out how many local (and non local) women im banging or "talking to". The idiot is saying he's unhappy on his long-distance relationship and is here to look for another? Bye.
[–]fireforestfairyFDS Apprentice 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
owns a construction company
Seems legit. There are way too many guys on OLD who claim to be business owners so I highly suspect some of them are fake.
[–]Geocities_SEO_ExpertFDS STRATEGY COACH 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
As if he's really going to break up with the long distance girlfriend. Anyone foolish enough to engage with him will get played.
[–]BasieSkanksRuthless Strategist 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Okay, if his girlfriend isn’t putting in the effort, why is he still with her. The way men lie is scary. Men don’t stick around in situations they’re getting nothing out of. I’m sure his girlfriend isn’t even aware that she isn’t putting in any effort.
[–]europoor24FDS Newbie 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh he wants a side piece, so he can have more then one woman. ew
[–]GiraffeLibrarianFDS Newbie 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“Politically conservative “ SHOCKING.
[–]nnanna11FDS Newbie 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
he can’t even use commas. some ‘business man’ he is.
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[–]dembar126FDS Newbie 93 points94 points95 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]kreutzwortraetzelFDS Newbie 54 points55 points56 points (1 child) | Copy Link
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[–]HostileovariesFDS Apprentice 14 points15 points16 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]BasieSkanksRuthless Strategist 19 points20 points21 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]Platipus6FDS Apprentice 154 points155 points156 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]HomeGrownInDallasFDS Newbie 117 points118 points119 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]AyemHerselfFDS Disciple 52 points53 points54 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]GourmayFDS Apprentice 12 points13 points14 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Amazing_Wolverine_37FDS Newbie 28 points29 points30 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]whiskey_and_oreosFDS Newbie 57 points58 points59 points (1 child) | Copy Link
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