Body count?

upvotersfortruth · 2025-05-21T04:23:19+00:00

Not divorce related.

MR-Ozmidnight · 2025-05-21T04:07:15+00:00

In today’s society, women have the freedom to explore their relationships and have multiple partners if they choose to do so. They need to embrace their choices, even if some individuals hold different views on the matter.

I came across a situation where a woman had many partners in a short period, and she seemed confident in her decisions, possibly even sharing her experiences on a platform like OnlyFans. While I respect her right to live her life as she sees fit, I personally would draw the line when it comes to a potential long-term relationship. This highlights the importance of having personal boundaries, which can vary greatly from person to person.

If someone is seeking a relationship, both parties must be honest with each other from the beginning. If one person has certain boundaries, such as preferring a partner with a different relationship history, it’s their choice and should be respected. Discovering important information later on can lead to misunderstandings and hurt feelings.

In any relationship, honesty should be a mutual commitment. If one partner isn’t willing to be open about their past for any reason, it may be beneficial to reconsider the relationship. Ultimately, everyone is entitled to their own opinions and perspectives on these matters, and it's essential to approach them with understanding and respect.

ProfessorIanDuncan · 2025-05-21T03:56:43+00:00

I’m separating from my first and only partner after 25 years together. Is there a class I can take to learn about this ridiculous world of dating? 😩

Short_Doubt2300 · 2025-05-21T03:56:21+00:00

Better count would be body count after she married

popolenzi · 2025-05-21T03:54:12+00:00

Body count questions are deeply rooted in insecurity, it’s a red flag even asking the question be it form him or her. Focus on the person in front of you, do they make you happy, date them

stent00 · 2025-05-21T03:52:28+00:00

If she tells you rhe number multiply by 3... that's rhe real number. Women don't count one night stand either

MoxieRoxxie · 2025-05-21T03:46:21+00:00

Let me preface this by saying I adore (most) men lol. I only wanted to shed light on her side? Like you, she probably isnt the same person she once was. None of us are the people we were 3, 5, 10+ years ago. She wants you to see her as the person she presents herself to you now. Is it awful she wants you to think highly of her? She could have lied to you, said 5 and kept it moving. She chose to be honest. As women, we are raised to have shame about A LOT of things. Especially if there is a cultural or religious upbringing behind it.

Instead ask her, what's something you've never tried before? Make new memories 😈

Ill_Coffee_6821 · 2025-05-21T03:30:22+00:00

Who asks for body count after high school? I understand you’re getting divorced so you probably haven’t dated in a while, but that feels very childish and extremely personal.

ElFrijole · 2025-05-21T03:24:28+00:00

Sounds like a hit n run for you brother enjoy

Common-Cucumber4364 · 2025-05-21T03:11:46+00:00

Brother, if she's uncomfortable saying the number out loud, youll be uncomfortable hearing it.

Reflog1791 · 2025-05-21T03:11:22+00:00

I would be offended if someone asked my body count because it is personal. Then again I consider myself a scholar and a gentleman.

Reddit would consider me a brute and a chode so who cares what I think.

deep66it2 · 2025-05-21T03:10:29+00:00

Shouldn't be asking. And not likely to be truthful. Why? It's history. Her history. One is too many if it caused her problems. 20 be fine if she's fine with it. Some stuff in the past belongs there.

Get that she feels a certain way. Not a good way either. Nothing to do with count for most women. It's the asking & judgment thereafter. Whether said or not.

MonarchistExtreme · 2025-05-21T03:03:44+00:00

I'm in my mid 40s....I just assume an ungodly number and never ask (you won't get the truth).

I don't see myself ever marrying again so for me it doesn't really matter.

zvekl · 2025-05-21T03:01:47+00:00

Body count / years sexually active. You then decide what's a ratio you can accept.

1 is my max I'd accept and anything lower than .5 is good for me. Of course this is just silly, who really cares

CommercialConcern828 · 2025-05-21T02:49:42+00:00

Research shows there is a direct correlation between a woman’s body count and her capacity to successfully pair bond in a long term relationship.

If I remember correctly women who got married while virgins have the lowest divorce rate followed by between 1-3 and the numbers keep going up as do the divorce rates.

Add the lesser studied theory of michrochemorisim and you will feel different.

You should definitely care about body count.

dawglaw09 · 2025-05-21T02:42:03+00:00

Being worried about body count is 15 year old incel behavior.

Heavy_Guitar_4848 · 2025-05-21T02:41:46+00:00

Look for if they’ve been in long relationships. If somebody could stand them they might be ok. Single for long periods of time and they’ve probably been around

rumblegod · 2025-05-21T02:39:27+00:00

You know what it means move on

HistoricalRich280 · 2025-05-21T02:36:27+00:00

I am leaving a 20 year marriage and I don’t think we ever shared body count. I don’t think you should have to

a_day_at_a_timee · 2025-05-21T02:31:37+00:00

If you want a church girl, only date women from church. If you want a partner to do gangbangs in the orgy dome at burning man a high body count is meaningless.

To each his own.

BornBandicoot2515 · 2025-05-21T02:25:54+00:00

Yeah that’s a tough one. I honestly don’t know how to feel or to tell you how to feel. I know that in today’s age we aren’t supposed to care but I probably care a little bit. Is it 30 (so averaging like one a year)? Or is it like 300?

I care bc I think it impacts people’s ability to connect. After a certain number their ability to attach or form a bond seems suspect. But that’s my opinion and I’m just sharing, not looking to indoctrinate.

I would like to know what ballpark we are in. If we care for eachother we should be able to share.

engineered-chemistry · 2025-05-21T02:23:46+00:00

If she has a problem with it then there’s an underlying issue. Red flag for me. Have you already added yourself to her body count? 😂

Confident-Crawdad · 2025-05-21T02:13:53+00:00

I'd be bothered that you give a shit.

jimmycrackcode · 2025-05-21T02:13:49+00:00

Personally, it makes me question how she feels about sex. If she can’t communicate something as simple as that, we won’t get along. I’d run. But I also value sexual openness and exploration. You may be different.

Title	Body count?
Author	DudeforRighteousness
Upvotes	10
Comments	39
Date	May 21, 2025 2:08 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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