Working on a divorce. Wife is playing nice once I brought up that I’m getting a lawyer instead of doing our own paperwork like she wanted.
Going through her call logs, it looks like she’s been having an inappropriate relationship with a coworker in neighboring state. In NC, I can use this as grounds for a bed and board divorce which removes her from the house. It also helps me when it comes to alimony and child support.
I’m medically retired military on ssdi. She makes about $30k more than me. Has a 401k we were going to use as our retirement. My lawyer says I’ll be entitled to half her 401k from marriage date and even with 50/50 custody, she will pay me child support.
Once my wife figures all this out after seeing the separation agreement, I’m sure she’s going to flip out and it’s going to be war.
Is it worth going after what I’m entitled to? Or should I cut back to play nice.
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