It's been 8 months and I have no desire to date anyone at all. The idea of sharing my life with someone like that makes me cringe. I have a fwb whom I find very attractive. I like having sex with her and think she’s a good person, but if she started trying to get more serious I would definitely cut her off. I value my space so deeply. I can't stand the idea of someone trying to enmesh with me again like my ex. I truly do not see myself ever cohabiting or marrying again. Maybe never even have another committed monogamous relationship again. Nothing stressed me out more in my entire life than my marriage. I'm grateful it's over and I do not EVER want to go back. That said I don't feel bitter. It's just that I don't even desire that sort of relationship anymore. I'm happy single, with friends and family to provide companionship. Anyone else feel this way?