Another example of sunk cost fallacy... 'but its been two years!'

ShoshannaDreyfus · 2020-12-12T11:09:47+00:00

Guess what.. Nearly all the comments tell her she's overreacting 🙃 apparently 'interest in human flesh' isn't a valid deal breaker. Are women really more scared of ending up single than ending up a serial killer victim?

sstena · 2020-12-12T12:06:54+00:00

When I read this kind of post I can't help but feel like the woman is asking for the specific words that will make her pathetic psycho boyfriend suddenly develop empathy and love for her.

Like asking for a witch spell that will suddenly fix his boyfriend so that she doesn't have to throw it in the trash.

Women have such a hard time understanding that there is no caring, loving human being behind his terrifying sadistic tendencies. No amount of perfectly worded self-humiliations will uncover what is not there.

Thattonertho · 2020-12-12T12:43:32+00:00

And multiple men in the comments admitting they're into it. I'm going to fucking hurl.

Gambit12345 · 2020-12-12T13:59:16+00:00

Yea that’s like when my ex out of the blue said he wanted to mount my head on the wall but was totally jk because it was a quote from always Sunny. Then he had the audacity to try and make a disclaimer that if he says some weird shit I should just assume it’s an allusion to something. Fuckin psychopaths

localgirlcult · 2020-12-12T14:50:24+00:00

Today in titles I never expected to read.

What a feeling when you realize you're living in the same household with and you're romantically invested in someone who you clearly don't fully know and who's weird in such a profound way. You know it's wrong but him and the people you asked are pretending it's normal. Crime statistics are such that it's insane to stay with a man who would talk about an interest in eating HUMAN FLESH to you. And casually saying it can be your flesh.

Edit - I just looked at that thread myself. They really are like 2 YEARS DOWN THE DRAIN JUST BECAUSE HE WOULD CANNIBALIZE YOU?! Who has never been curious? (Uh, me.) ComMUniCatE that it freaked you out. And as soon as they started being all shocked at her, she was like "Hahaha lol I was just kidding about leaving!" It really is a major thing that keeps people in bad situations. "I spent 2 years on building this." Thankfully I'm seeing a few comments saying that 2 years is nothing if she doesn't feel safe anymore and she doesn't need to stay with that freak and waste the rest of her life just because it's been 2 years.

"So cannibalism is actually a very common curiosity for humans. I wouldn’t be too worried about it. Some cultures still practice it to this day." is a real response in that thread. And op was heavily downvoted for saying "True but he seemed super super serious".

Heavy clownery as usual.

Pasdepromesses · 2020-12-12T12:32:27+00:00

Did you notice how he casually threw the cannibalism into the convo and when she asked further the depravity came out? He conveniently told her over drinks so he can blame it on ‘weird drunk conversations, don’t be so serious’.

They will always tell on themselves and he’s telling her to run.

Edit: also, stay vigilant and ask (further) questions.

2020-12-12T12:03:49+00:00

I almost threw up in my mouth.... Girl, RUN

Unfit_Needleworker · 2020-12-12T15:43:01+00:00

DoNt JuDgE hIm Or He’Ll No LoNgEr TeLl YoU aNyThInG

2020-12-12T14:33:59+00:00

Serial killers start with porn addiction. That escalate over time to harder and harder meterial untill you reach a stage of dipravity to actually doing it. I read alot about the topic and fantasies play a dangerous role. If your man starts demanding weird shit. Just check out.

failuretolaunchbf · 2020-12-12T12:15:31+00:00

What in the fucking Jeffrey Dahmer-

NO! Just, NO.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-12-12T14:14:07+00:00

Every day another reason to go through a man's phone and make sure he's not hiding weird shit like this. It's self-defense. Understand that whenever a man tells you something crazy like this it's probably ten times worse than what he's letting on. Just like if volunteers information about kissing another woman, you know he slept with her and cheated on you. Same thing goes for any sexual fantasy he reveals.

thewetdog_ · 2020-12-12T14:36:51+00:00

I asked my man this question once and he was digusted and said even if we were in a plane crash and he was the only who made it and had to eat human flesh to survive (like that movie about the soccer team?) the last person he would touch would be me. Edit to add: I meant that he did say he would do it eventually, but only after eating other options I guess.

whydenny · 2020-12-12T14:55:54+00:00

Pff.. he probably thinks he's soo edgy

Novemberinthechair · 2020-12-12T15:10:34+00:00

Umm, what?

babyqueso · 2020-12-12T15:16:58+00:00

What in the Kentucky fried fuck did I just read

srkambbs1 · 2020-12-12T17:59:28+00:00

It could've been a joke but he went into such detail that there is no way it's a joke

__kamikaze__ · 2020-12-12T19:18:34+00:00

At first I thought he was going to jokingly say “yes, I’d eat you out”.... not full blown cannibalism 😭

burpleseaurchin · 2020-12-13T00:05:37+00:00

This reminds me. I've heard lab grown meat is getting closer to becoming a reality lately, but also apparently some researcher somewhere has made "human steak" through the lab. I suspect creepy cannibal fetishists are soon going to come out and use a lot of pedo-logic... "B-b-but I have these urges and lab grown human meat helps me sate them and it's a ViCtiMLeSs action"

throwmefaraway85 · 2020-12-12T18:12:39+00:00

Can someone link this woman here? 😫 I don't know what thread this is from

I honestly believe she is probably in danger.... If not immediately, some day. This is not okay

AnniaT · 2020-12-12T18:24:04+00:00

I'm so scared for her!

your_last_braincell · 2020-12-12T16:25:54+00:00

I would’ve booked it! That guy is a potential cannibal.

LevelTurbulent · 2020-12-12T20:52:46+00:00

Two years is nothing, she needs to get the hell out of that.

riotous486saturn · 2020-12-12T20:53:23+00:00

Omg.

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yggiwtmiih · 2020-12-12T15:42:08+00:00

"TwO YeArs DoWn tHe DrAiN bEcAuSe hE SaiD He WoULd EAt yOuR diSmEmBeReD FLesH?"

What the fuck is wrong with the people in the comments??? I'm baffled.

Revy_Ur_Engines · 2020-12-13T06:13:47+00:00

Omg what the flying fuck. She gonna end up as a main course if she don’t gtfo

Title	Another example of sunk cost fallacy... 'but its been two years!'
Author	ShoshannaDreyfus
Upvotes	204
Comments	53
Date	December 12, 2020 11:08 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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