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High School Boy Taught Himself to Sew Because His Prom Date Couldn't Afford Her Dream Dress

glendoraza

January 3, 2022
1248 upvotes
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Title High School Boy Taught Himself to Sew Because His Prom Date Couldn't Afford Her Dream Dress
Author

glendoraza

Upvotes 1248
Comments 37
Date January 3, 2022 3:53 PM UTC
(4 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/rv4rxa/high_school_boy_taught_himself_to_sew_because_his/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/high-school-boy-taught-himself-to-sew-because-his.1094897
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Comments

[–]slayeroftruthFDS Apprentice 180 points181 points182 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's very sweet to make her beautiful dream prom dress. Good luck to him.

[–]lolmemberberriesFDS Newbie 192 points193 points194 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is awesome. He's got an eye for design and he wanted her night to be magical.

[–]keyome1990FDS Newbie 488 points489 points490 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Prime example of “if he wanted to he would”, very sweet

[–]MOzarkiteFDS Newbie 148 points149 points150 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

One, two , three-

Awwwwwww-!

I hope he fulfills his dream of being a Broadway designer.

[–]capresesalad1985FDS Newbie 410 points411 points412 points 4 years ago (35 children) | Copy Link

So I am a college fashion professor (and taught hs fashion for about 10 years before jumping over to college) and I have noticed that men just tend to have weaker fine motor skills than women. I don’t know if it’s because little girls are encouraged to do more activities that develop those skills than boys are, but it’s just something I have noticed over the years. Also my female students tend to have much more attention to detail.

So…I give this young man A LOT of credit. Learning to sew is hard and I honestly think it’s a bit harder for males than females (of course there are exceptions to this rule but again just something I have noticed over years of teaching) and learning to sew a dress like that in a relatively short amount of time is no easy feat. I get a lot of students who major in fashion because they thing it will be easy and drop the major during their first semester of apparel construction!

[–]tarhoFDS Newbie 87 points88 points89 points 4 years ago (23 children) | Copy Link

I wish I knew how to sew! Operating the machine is so dang hard for me… Once I borrowed my mum’s sewing machine and watched countless YouTube videos… nada. If you have any YouTube channel recommendations please share :)

[–]Aphor1stFDS Newbie 58 points59 points60 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I taught sewing lessons on zoom over the pandemic for free (I’m in a medieval reenactment group and it involves a lot of costuming which is VERY expensive if you can’t do it yourself). Would be happy to start them up again for any queens looking to learn!

[–]tarhoFDS Newbie 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Oh wow, talk about heroes! would we need special equipment or would a basic beginner’s sewing machine suffice? Count me in if you do!!

[–]Aphor1stFDS Newbie 16 points17 points18 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Basic sewing machine is completely fine! Also I can teach hand stitching.

[–]capresesalad1985FDS Newbie 33 points34 points35 points 4 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link

I have a channel! I sent you the name in a private message :)

[–]OTD-esiFDS Newbie 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'd like to watch your channel as well please!

[–]ciciplumAt-Risk Pick Me Youth 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

could you send it to me?

[–]m_r_rosewoodFDS Newbie 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Please also pass along your channel to me! I just signed up for sewing classes in my neighborhood!

[–]illillillesttFDS Newbie 14 points15 points16 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Could you send me the name of your channel also? Currently have a sewing machine and no idea how to start 😅

[–]NotYourCirceFDS Newbie 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I’d like to watch your channel too!

[–]lostmilleniaFDS Newbie 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Also same please!

[–]smolcontrolledburstsFDS Newbie 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'd like to join in too.

[–]thatshadywitchFDS Newbie 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Can I also have the link please? Thank you!

[–]hotandreadynukesFDS Newbie 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I would love to watch as well!

[–]jewdifulFDS Newbie 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I never thought I’d learn to sew but I taught myself in a few days using YT videos and web articles. I’m no expert but I’m definitely proficient, and it truly is like learning to ride a bike. It’s hard and frustrating at first, until it just all of a sudden makes sense and before you know it you can do it with your eyes closed. I recommend getting a simple machine and just trying it out. Just set small goals at first, like learning to thread the machine one day, then sewing a straight line, etc, and promise yourself you’ll walk away and take a break if you get frustrated. Don’t push yourself to “get it” immediately, it will take time! But truly it’s not that hard once you get used to the steps

[–]bookworm1896FDS Newbie 40 points41 points42 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

My fine motor skills ate terrible. But my husband can sew and always helps me out. 😁

Sewing a prom dress on the other hand is a huge task!

[–]capresesalad1985FDS Newbie 35 points36 points37 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

After being in education for a while, I would really like to study fine motor development through education. I get students who have really well developed skills and then I get students who struggle to cut a straight line. I’m just curious how much is talent/natural skill and how much is lack activities at younger ages. I tend to think the cutting back of arts programs more focus on testing instead of hands on projects has something to do with it.

[–]fakeprewarbookFDS Newbie 33 points34 points35 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

My mother worked in secondary ed from 1975-2020 and she said that there has been a huge decline in manual dexterity due to apps, premade kits, and virtual learning. You can learn a frog’s anatomy through an app but it doesn’t feel the same as actually dissecting a frog. You can color using an app, but it’s not the same as learning to use real pencils or crayons. She said instructors from the medical, art, and culinary programs all complained about it. Students with high info, low dexterity.

[–]bookworm1896FDS Newbie 18 points19 points20 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I think that basic sewing and stuff like cooking should be part of education. I think I'm lacking talent, but if I would have to do it regularly I might be at least tolerable.

[–]AnniaTFDS Disciple 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I also have awful fine motor skills and need my boyfriend to help me with some tasks.

I once was in a sewing course and I needed lots of help from the teacher with the sewing machine. And even simple things like hand sewing something or putting the damn line in the needle took me longer than the others.

I don't know if this is something that I'm just bad at or is it because I never had lots of practice or incentive as a child to do stuff that uses fine motor skills. But I'd love to be able to sew. Though I also can't draw to save my life, I have some ideas in my head I'd love to be able to execute.

[–]mypetchickensFDS Newbie 44 points45 points46 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't buy that men have worse fine motor skills than women. This seems like manufactured incompetence to me. I'm in med school, and I know a lot of male surgeons that do intricate surgeries. I know many male musicians that have excellent fine motor control.

I would encourage you to not lower the standards for men and buy into manufactured incompetence.

[–]allthedates2018FDS Newbie 19 points20 points21 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm a pretty experienced seamstress and I think he's done a great job. She's got lovely curves but that can be challenging to fit right and he's really done a commendable job with it.

[–]queeninprogressFDS Newbie 17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Aw what a sweetheart!

[–]StrawberryMoon3FDS Apprentice 40 points41 points42 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is really cute

[–]DeclineNDashFDS Newbie 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I was gonna say that she reminds me of Cinderella but Cinderella WISHES her Prince Charming could listen to her needs & make her a dress (no farm animals needed lol)!

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[–]fresiparFDS Newbie 25 points26 points27 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

we're so glad he's an ex! life is better without him.

[–]cinderella_risingFDS Apprentice 55 points56 points57 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

They are “best friends” and I’m thinking he’s probably gay—as such this would not be a romantic overture. Which would make this even more meaningful when he doesn’t want sex! Either way, an absolutely wonderful gesture and job!

[–]xdecadentFDS Newbie 22 points23 points24 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If he is gay it’s still a beautiful gesture. And honestly my gay male friends/family members have poured so much love and care into me - it’s always good to have HVM around who dote on you. I’m happy for this young lady.

[–]WhyComeToAStickyEndFDS Newbie 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thought the same! Hope his career gets better because he seems sweet.

[–]luvmyvulvaxoxoFDS Disciple -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is highly questionable. Sewing can be in fact MORE expensive than thrifting or TJ Maxx… so I find it hard to believe she couldn’t find any other dress she could afford.

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