I have no words

UpbeatIncubator · 2020-04-20T23:14:51+00:00

Well, sis. You found that porn you could 'watch together to get into the mood' and hey, good thing there's 'nothing wrong with having it'.. what's the issue? 💀 /s

krisy1990 · 2020-04-20T23:29:58+00:00

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ErikaNaumann · 2020-04-21T00:58:08+00:00

Since she is such a cool girl ™ and so ok with porn, I guess her next step is to buy some bodypaint and do black face for their sexy time

👍

EclecticBarbarella · 2020-04-20T23:28:16+00:00

Just when I think I’ve heard it all, this is definitely a new one. Just.... what? Who even thinks of that?

teampinata · 2020-04-21T02:16:13+00:00

Porn really makes these men insane. A friend told me once she was having sex with a guy who wanted her to say “I love fucking your big black dick”. The guy was white...

mermaid_jaws · 2020-04-20T23:48:12+00:00

Not gonna lie this made me laugh. But it’s so sad the extent to which she feels the need to prove the validity of her concerns. Like that’s some really weird shit.

popfriday · 2020-04-20T23:20:25+00:00

This girl wants to “gently” bring this up?

I don’t care if he photoshopped her green. Sis needs to “gently” file a restraining order.

Sometimes the calm, unsure, borderline forgiving/defensive tone of these posts written by women disturbs me more than the content.

Men are deprived deep in their bones and it is scary how intensely we have been brainwashed to accept it.

radical__daphne · 2020-04-20T23:41:36+00:00

Somehow I just didn't see that coming 😮

pinkyberries · 2020-04-20T23:49:49+00:00

Ah, yes, men who turn WOC into their own f*cked up fetish.

He just wants to see black women get abused and used...

aneverconfusedbeing · 2020-04-21T03:01:54+00:00

Worst part is people in the comments were telling her it’s cute and she should be flattered he loves her so much to photoshop her face on the black women he fetishizes 🤢

mightbethrowawayyy · 2020-04-21T01:10:09+00:00

That’s fucking racist and disgusting

VaporwaveVampire · 2020-04-21T03:14:58+00:00

Anyone with 2 working neurons can look at this and see he has a fetish rooted in stereotypes and deep racism. But no, we’re told not to kinkshame

moriahqri · 2020-04-21T04:46:37+00:00

Not really surprised by this. I have had the most white bread guys hit on me on the DL. Like they have everyone at work and on insta think they are sooo happy with their white girlfriends but they are hitting up all kinds of WOC on the sly.

Barnabas1993 · 2020-04-20T23:51:34+00:00

Oh man, this is a nightmare. How could people (men, cough) be so fucked up in their heads? They are insane and she should run away as fast as she can.

modernmedusaa · 2020-04-21T03:12:16+00:00

Oh fucking hell. Another one who thinks 'assertiveness' is an optional character trait in life. Me thinks she's a long long way off standing up to/ leaving him.

Passive pickmeisha's will always hiss at you 'but I don't want to be like that...why should I HAVE to be assertive and less passive/ empathetic?'

Because otherwise you will get your ass run by a pornsick man who photoshops your face onto black pornstars. That's why sis. This is literally what men will try to get away with if you have a 'passive' personality.

Reachingout365 · 2020-04-21T09:18:15+00:00

Unpopular opinion; women should be allowed to look into their partners devices. It's not "double standards" when men set the damn standards; men have proven to be untrustworthy and if they want to prove that they should be open with that shit.

Ever woman who has ever been suspicious and looked through her partners shit ended up being right anyway.

And yea this just goes to show this concept that men aren't competing their partners to porn stars is dishonest bullshit men tell women, women choose to believe despite how contradictory it is, but it's Bullshit and they totally do.

She needs to dump him. How sad though if she feels she felt this "deep connection" for knowing him so long..

gjin-tonikaj · 2020-04-21T09:26:36+00:00

I swear at this point any woman who doesn't check her mans phone and browser history is just being an idiot

CatlovesMoca · 2020-04-21T12:03:04+00:00

As a black woman I am highly disturbed.

watchoutwoman · 2020-04-21T01:57:12+00:00

She should have bailed when she first learned of his racist fetish.

sashimi_girl · 2020-04-21T04:48:11+00:00

How long until she starts blackfishing

jimmbie · 2020-04-21T04:23:29+00:00

I wouldnt even call this depravity, this is like one of those fucked up internet legends like the fucking wonder bread fetish guy. It’s like he’s jerking off to blackface lmao

VaporwaveVampire · 2020-04-21T03:23:13+00:00

She needs to stock up on Sharpies

MagnoliaMirage · 2020-04-21T05:53:49+00:00

This is so.... different. Wow.

SourceInHerEyes · 2020-04-21T07:48:50+00:00

LOL! Okay it's time for me to log off Reddit. See y'all later.

2020-04-21T07:51:50+00:00

girl i-

lickyblickyuhh · 2020-04-21T04:17:31+00:00

Man what- 💀

Reachingout365 · 2020-04-21T09:19:03+00:00

Ok I need a nap or something cause this irked me but the comments are cracking me up.

Snowmist92 · 2020-04-22T01:26:00+00:00

Eww.

I saw this posted on a Facebook page called "Reddit Ridiculousness" and the amount of PickMes and nasty men who need to be schooled is astounding.

They actually find this endearing.

Just sick

sake_maki · 2020-04-21T03:42:08+00:00

Sounds like a horror show. There's levels to this shit.

Jumpingonair · 2020-04-21T18:49:26+00:00

Holy shit

Title	I have no words
Author	BasieSkanks
Upvotes	218
Comments	80
Date	April 20, 2020 11:09 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/g53kjs/i_have_no_words/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/i-have-no-words.677946 https://theredarchive.com/post/677946

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