Man in YT comment section explains why he won't reject a woman who makes the first move even if he's not attracted to her

daisy_0720 · 2021-01-13T17:33:13+00:00

"Pure loneliness, feeling like shit, low-self esteem, sexually frustrated, depressive"

There it is, ladies. Straight from the horse's mouth. This is the reality for single LVM. This is how they feel inside. This is why they say to women "you'll end up alone" like it's a fate worse than death. Because for men, it is. They will literally never believe a woman can be happy single because it is so far removed from their own reality, the very idea is beyond their comprehension.

While single women live in their beautifully designed clean houses (that they own), excel in their careers, sleep better, have lower stress levels, no resentment, add to their bank accounts, have close female friendships, meet their fitness goals, give abundantly to their family, friends and pets, travel, pamper themselves and thrive, single LVM are trapped in their own personal hell of unemployment, videogames, porn and self-loathing. This is why they will string a woman along for years for sex and companionship. Because they cannot live with the person staring back at them in the mirror. This guy's comment is selfish and pathetic but I think it is the reality for the vast majority of men out there. My sympathy is limited because they refuse to get help for their issues and insist on polluting the dating pool with their fucking issues and making it our problem.

ASeaOfQuotes · 2021-01-13T15:06:55+00:00

Wow he must be an absolute joy to date. If a man you’re interested in rejects you, move on. It’s the same advice we give men, for exactly this reasons. A relationship without desire is dead on arrival.

IgetUsernameScraps · 2021-01-13T16:11:00+00:00

I’ve never heard “mental well being” be a synonym for “dick”.

AcctJustForMe · 2021-01-13T16:38:21+00:00

Don't forget we are their reason to live, which makes it that much more satisfying to shut them out. Go back to feeling like shit , being depressed, and having low self esteem you parasites, by all means.

AyemHerself · 2021-01-13T16:09:57+00:00

This kind of thinking isn't uncommon among men and it speaks to their complete lack of a support system outside of relationships. That doesn't mean women are obligated to step in, far from it. MEN need to start showing up for other men and cultivate friendships that don't revolve around sexual gratification.

Men's mental health needs more attention than becoming the occasional anti-feminist talking point. But this is MEN'S issue to tackle.

PasDeTout · 2021-01-13T16:36:27+00:00

I honestly cannot fathom agreeing to be in a relationship with anybody I didn’t actually like a whole lot. Spending time with somebody I don’t like is honestly my idea of hell.

TheSuspiciousChard · 2021-01-13T17:25:10+00:00

They literally need us and use us for supply like the narcissist shits they are. They use us to bring them up while continually bringing us down. Read about narcissism if you haven’t.

RiasXgremoryX · 2021-01-13T17:05:36+00:00

WTF? this guy doesn't need a relationship, he needs a therapist. There's SO many red flags here.

honeybeeroll · 2021-01-13T18:36:15+00:00

Holyyyyy shit GO TO THERAPY, you fucking creep!! If anyone, man or woman, is THAT depressed when they are single and not in a relationship, that is unnatural and unhealthy, and it's their individual responsibility to recognize that. You do not go out and date literally anyone just to not be alone, honestly it's a form of self harm. And harmful to others!

I did this and so did my last ex, and it was painful for us both and I pushed close friends away. I just got worse after that relationship, until I finally started trying to help myself. My ex had even more issues than me, and if he didn't go to therapy after being depressed for a year+ cuz of his last relationship before me, then he def still hasn't gone and is still just like this scrote, looking for a woman to fix him 🙄.

I hope any man, woman, whoever thinks like this dies alone. No one deserves to be in a relationship where they are expected by their partner to be responsible for the entirety of their partner's emotional wellbeing, and responsible for "fixing" their partner.

_tinyimp · 2021-01-13T17:35:20+00:00

Lol he took so long to explain that he’s lonely and never gets laid 🤣 like you aren’t this cool calculating guy. You’re delusional

tartlollipop · 2021-01-13T16:37:10+00:00

Imagine needing another human being to date you to not feel depressed, lonely. Also imagine needing romantic interest from another person to have self esteem. What a sad life.

Emergency-Feed8216 · 2021-01-13T19:07:23+00:00

He doesn't need to get laid, he needs a suicide hotline.

Wow, a new way to objectify women: human Prozac. Like the drug, there are potential deadly side effects. Unfortunately, the risks are probably incurred by the person who dates a guy like this, not so much the guy himself. Run.

MagnfiqueMaleficent · 2021-01-13T20:33:37+00:00

So being alone causes sexual frustration which leads to depression for LVMs and they’ll take it so far as to use a women as a shield or buffer to prevent their own demise? This is the very definition of an LVM. Completely dependent on women in every way. I’m so glad to be a woman and not like this guy. 🤡

Unfit_Needleworker · 2021-01-13T17:50:18+00:00

His mental well being sounds the most important. Forget hers when he’s crap to her.

pinkcloudzzz · 2021-01-14T00:50:31+00:00

This is why you never make the first move or chase a man.

Apprehensive_Ad_7917 · 2021-01-13T18:56:04+00:00

LVM and NVM will literally do anything but go to therapy and fix their issues.

Kitchen_Heron_4562 · 2021-01-13T15:40:58+00:00

You deserve someone that's excited to see you.

Platipus6 · 2021-01-14T00:33:56+00:00

How is he sexually frustrated? He's got hands. Boom, done. Wow, I'm so tired of solving men's problems for them :D

But he probably means "frustrated by the human rights of women which means I'll get in trouble for r-ping them".

pickadaisy · 2021-01-14T05:05:20+00:00

Men can’t go without women for one to two years without serious depression.

Vs.

FDS women who voluntarily opt out for one to two years.

Tell me again which sex is the stronger of the two?

throwaway111qqq · 2021-01-13T20:25:51+00:00

They have very little value for the other person. They are ok leaving her depressed.

mostlycoder · 2021-01-13T21:45:46+00:00

What a monster. Would be with a woman he doesn't like just to make himself feel less lonely and have access to sex. Hmeboy needs therapy.

aquietsword · 2021-01-14T00:48:28+00:00

One or two years...how ever will I know what that's like? Surely a pandemic where I haven't so much as spoken to a man online should have me feeling such despair as this? But then why do I feel so great? Why am I thriving? Gosh, those poor men truly are the victims of society. To be so mentally and emotionally weak must be so hard in the harsh climate of 2021. I shall write to the incoming first lady at once. In hopes that this worthy cause takes her time and energy during her stay at the white house.

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