No quarter for coomers

IAteTheDragon · 2021-05-23T08:36:09+00:00

The second part about kissing vs jerking is soooo spot on! This is such a pitiful sight to witness. I have had it with a 20 something guy, it was terrible. And not only at the start of intercourse- this man had to include these jerking intervals in sex to not lose the boner. Jesus, and I was just lying there thinking "Is this right? Should I do something? Do I even want to be here? ". This was such a stark difference to the healthy men I have encountered, they really got hard from just kiss and touch. You Will gauge PIED right away this way!!

Montanegro · 2021-05-23T12:33:40+00:00

Along with what op said if he isn’t pleasing you vocalize it. Don’t spare his feelings, don’t allow to him to (for lack of better words) fuck on you. Tell him to do better or he needs to go!

cantsextihavebills · 2021-05-23T08:01:32+00:00

I just think it's funny how men criticize us for not being wet with 0 minutes of foreplay looking at their hairy, sweaty, gross bodies and that's our fault, but when they can't get hard immediately with a girl that stays in shape, does her hair and makeup, cute lingerie, etc that's... Also our fault?

Davina33 · 2021-05-23T07:13:22+00:00

Last night, I watched this harrowing podcast on YouTube. It was about this woman who was trafficked into the sex industry when she was about 16/17. She said the men in porn did it so much that had to inject stuff into their dicks to make them work. It's graphic but now she is trying to save other women and girls from being trafficked. She talks about how wrong it is that Onlyfans is seen as normal and kids have Cardi B to look up to while we had the Spice Girls. I recommend we all see it.

https://youtu.be/n8uQHkQ-rjg

BellaHadont · 2021-05-23T06:34:16+00:00

I was on a particular men’s subreddit and he said porn should be normalised because it helps in ‘’exploring our sexuality’’??? I was disgusted

Averyhvw · 2021-05-23T06:44:39+00:00

☠️🪦🌱

sjw__7 · 2021-05-23T07:19:42+00:00

It’s so vile and depressing laying next to a guy desperately pulling himself off trying to get hard. This shit did not happen 15 years ago. (And I was laying next to guys in my 20s then and still am now 😂)

Nothing turns me off more. Last time I just got up and left.

freelancepsychic · 2021-05-23T16:44:43+00:00

It's pathetic if a guy can't get hard. I stopped dating a guy because of it. He was so insecure that he put the blame on ME! He then verbally assaulted me and acted like he was ending things with me! LOL! I'm not sorry that I prefer having sex with a hard dick

AllieBirdL · 2021-05-23T16:53:41+00:00

THANK YOU. I had limited sexual experience before my ex husband, and the sex started out pretty great with him -- BUT it was like I was the frog introduced to room temp water and slowly boiled. By the time I filed for divorce he had to be blown to get hard, had trouble maintaining an erection, and could pretty much only get off to "lesbian" porn. Foreplay was a chore, and my orgasms were irrelevant.

Also he was cheating on me.

ketodietclub · 2021-05-23T12:56:01+00:00

Thanks to healthy living my hubby has had zero issues with floppiness even in his fifties.

Diet and exercise, and maintaining a healthy mind, do make a real difference to sexual performance. Young guys take note.

Can't imagine someone getting the flops in his twenties. Eww.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-05-23T06:41:58+00:00

Remember ladies, always test out his function when making out. A little feeling around will tell you all you need to know.

PinturaMagnifica · 2021-05-23T11:23:00+00:00

This reminds me of a post on some other sub where young men were claiming that they were recieving targeted Viagra ads.

This was before I found FDS, but in my head, I said, "Well duh, half of y'all are porn addicts and death grip your teeny dicks every day."

The entire thread was these loser guys reassuring each other that they were all recieving these because of BIG, EVIL PHARMA trying to make money off of more men now!! 🥴 I saw one person with common sense that brought up my points- downvoted to hell.

AnniaT · 2021-05-23T10:35:11+00:00

I was with a guy before in his 20s that would get hard while kissing and touching but then when it came the PIV part he'd always lose it or could barely keep it. I never associated it to porn usage since he could get an erection at the beginning, he just couldn't keep it (specially after putting on the condom). It's indeed not normal.

EffectiveHoneydew422 · 2021-05-23T14:10:53+00:00

My only criticism is that is IS normal to struggle to get and maintain an erection in your 20s. ED is normal because excessive porn use of men in there 20s is the norm. Its not healthy, its not optimum, and its way too normal.

modernmedusaa · 2021-05-23T15:01:56+00:00

Yeah but even some men are only ‘quitting porn’ for pathetic self serving reasons, in a futile bid to up their testosterone levels etc. They only care about the erection part- not the humanity of women.

There’s a growing portion of the manosphere /red pill who is only stopping porn so they can have more stamina to plate more women (they believe porn is turning them into women obsessed cucks).....and the thing is by the time they quit they’re already dead behind the eyes and have been sufficiently trained to see women as objects to consume. They’re already broken hollow gaslighting shells by that point.

I’m very weary of men who ‘claim’ they don’t watch porn and want a ‘traditional family’ - most of them do behind closed doors.

Most modern ‘right wing’ men sell women dreams about wanting to be a provider/family man (their public so gooder mask to tie down HV women) whilst taking advantage of the lefts misogyny - degenerate porn, casual sex with various women on the side etc, going halfsies on their bills/no ring on the finger. They are hypocrites.

Both the left and the right are deeply misogynistic to women for different reasons. And most men claiming they’re porn free are lying.

Right wing men like to have a classy stable option anchored at home that makes them look good/boosts their status but they won’t try their whacked out pornsick shit on her- they save that for the women they cheat with in order to maintain the ‘wholesome man’ image.

suckmypussy143 · 2021-05-23T16:02:48+00:00

Yeppp, never ever dating a man with porn addiction or ED. It’s gross

anxietythrowaway69 · 2021-05-23T07:29:30+00:00

You are at much greater risk from a guy who can get hard regardless of if he is attracted to you or, quite frankly, cares about you in any way.

To be brutally clear, your pain makes rapists hard.

Being able to fuck on demand is a terrible way to judge potential life partners.

Title	No quarter for coomers
Author	ghbdrhjn
Upvotes	1091
Comments	49
Date	May 23, 2021 6:03 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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