This is in part a rant, but I'll try to keep it short.

The subject was the whole "Tree vs Woman" thing, and in one of the threads I brought up Nora Vincent(Google if you don't know the story), and was having a pretty reasonable discussion until someone else responded to my points by basically saying because a small number of men commit heinous crimes against women, that she doesn't care about "teh menz feelings".

My response was that men are also the reason why she had a roof over her head with climate control, running water, indoor plumbing, and electric light. That response is what got me banned.

The moderator who banned me said I was used to preferential treatment when I pointed out the blatant hypocrisy of allowing an obvious misandrist to spew hate, as well as calling me KHHV. I had to look that one up. For the record I've been married to the same extremely liberal, self identifying feminist for almost 27 years.

My politics are mostly left of center, but calling out misandry from the left is basically not allowed on the internet anywhere unless it's in right-wing spaces, and since I'm not right-wing myself, I would like to go to a place where I can express my opinion about what I think are modern feminism's many, many shortcomings without getting immediately perma-banned.

So my question is, is this the right place for that? Or will me simply saying that men actually do provide many positive things to society get me immediately banned.