Am I wrong for feeling this way?

Standard-Broccoli107 · 2023-01-02T10:25:46+00:00

She is allowed to have her history, you are allowed to not accept it. This is a perfectly valid reason to break up. Even though you might be fine with sexual promiscuity that doesnt mean you are fine with many abortions. I certainly wouldnt be even though I support abortion rights I also believe in responsible use of contraceptions.

You are right to feel the way to do. If you want to work with her then therapy is smart, but you might Also want to just leave.

fmj542 · 2023-01-02T15:02:03+00:00

If you're not cool with it you have every right to bail.

Due-Caterpillar-2097 · 2023-01-02T17:04:47+00:00

Honestly as a woman it's okay to feel that way, I don't think it's really theraphy material, ( unless you want to hurt that person ) I mean if it bothers you alright. Just don't date her, for example I am not interested in casual hookups and would feel better knowing my partner has simmilar mindset, it would feel very weird if my boyfriend would tell me he paid for a lot of girls abortions. It's not wrong to have sex, abortions, kids, whatever, but if it bothers YOU just know that you are incompatible and that's all. You're not wrong for thinking it's bad, she's not wrong for making those choices.

Nonomnis128349 · 2023-01-02T10:53:18+00:00

get tested

ConsiderationSea1347 · 2023-01-02T17:21:45+00:00

You have standards. That is okay.

Edit: there is a person who replied to me but then immediately blocked me which prevents me from replying in thread to them. A coward. Anyways, to that person, I don’t actually care about a woman’s body count, but I will die on the hill that people should always be allowed to leave a relationship they are uncomfortable in. If OP doesn’t want to be in this relationship anymore, it is really creepy to try to tell him he has to stay.

BlowDryerrr · 2023-01-02T11:26:54+00:00

Everybody has to draw a line somewhere. Your line is in between her promiscuity and her reckless behaviors. It's ok to have limits my dude.

The_Bearded_Cyclist · 2023-01-02T09:39:52+00:00

Do you want to continue to have her in your life?

If yes, then you need to communicate with her about this and come to the conversation with a solution, like the therapy you suggested.

If no, then you are simply not compatible because you have different core beliefs and different morals. Neither of you are right or wrong, you just aren't the right fit and shouldn't hold each other back from finding the right partner.

icemanww15 · 2023-01-02T12:59:24+00:00

u dont need therapy. if it’s important to u just break up

cuppa_tea_4_me · 2023-01-02T13:11:05+00:00

Are you disgusted that she has had many partners that were purely hookups, are you angry that she seems not to care about birth control or are you angry that seemingly she has abortions with little ill conscience? Why would you keep dating her? And you should go get tested for any STDs. Unless you were both checked prior?

CharmingShogunsama · 2023-01-02T12:45:19+00:00

I think what you feeling may be disgust.. not much is said towards men finding women anything other than attractive, and I think that when it comes to the opposite of attraction, repulsion doesn't have a vocabulary as well exercised as attraction is for the male ( or female ) mind to comprehend.. as being repulsive isn't as often associated with women as often as it is for men.. imo.

CawlinAlcarz · 2023-01-02T17:43:22+00:00

You're not wrong for feeling however you feel. Your feelings are presumably based on your own morality, which is pretty reasonably mainstream and nowhere near as "fringe" of a morality that many today would attempt to gaslight you into believing it is.

However, she doesn't owe you an apology. She is responsible for doing those things, and accountable for them, but she didn't do them to you. She didn't do them against your wishes (she didn't even know, or wasn't dating you when she did those things), and so, she is not at fault for the way you feel about these things.

Neither of you owes the other anything here - you don't owe her some apology for feeling this way, and she doesn't owe you an apology for the actions she took that didn't involve you.

coffeeinvenice · 2023-01-02T12:30:24+00:00

If I were in your situation, I would feel...appalled, revolted, mislead. I would probably feel anger at them too, but more disgust than anger. I would not want to be in a relationship with a person like that nor would I want to be associated with someone like that. And there is a difference between dating history and sexual history; the latter can have health implications for others.

spinbutton · 2023-01-02T15:50:24+00:00

It looks like this isn't the right relationship for you, and that is fine. I recommend you clarify to yourself what turned you off. You want a woman with experience and this woman was short with you; that's good. Identify to yourself what specifically you didn't like, her not taking responsibility for her fertility? Her having short term rather than long term relationships? Knowing what set you off the rails will help you be discerning in the future. Best of luck.

odysseytree · 2023-01-02T17:48:44+00:00

What you are feeling is not because she had lot of abortions, it is because she doesn't have a social proof on that she can be trusted. It's like a business deal, if you are comitting to a partnership with some company and that company says that they had terminated business relationship many times in the past because "their business their choice", it will immediately raise your alarm whether it can be trusted.

Listen to your gut feelings. Yes past matters because past tells you more about the person than a present can tell.

readndrun · 2023-01-02T09:43:23+00:00

I’m not a clinical psychologist, just a man, and I can’t explain why, but when I hear of a woman constantly letting dudes finish in her raw (not that she would disclose that information) it disgusts me too. Unless she’s paid to do it on film, then she’s a talented actress.

knightrun · 2023-01-02T17:18:36+00:00

One night hook-ups implies meeting a stranger and couple of drinks then off to bed. She is perfectly within her rights if that is what she wants. If it is that easy with her, I wonder does this mean anything in the way of loyalty to you. In other words what would be her pattern if she was challenged while on a business trip for instance. I know there is no direct relationship between having a boyfriend and being loyal, but it is a red flag for me. The drug testing is a good idea, and abortion shouldn't be used as a form of birth control.

stompin77 · 2023-01-02T14:27:54+00:00

Congratulations for having general common decency and morals. Its rare these days. Your morals realise the problem with these types of girls. You need to find a new girl you can respect. Its not your fault. Body count matters.

AurreshenReddit · 2023-01-02T09:51:22+00:00

I guess it depends if she intentionally misled you or not. But either way you can’t really control how you feel about things in the short term, only how you react.

If you don’t like something about a person (even it may be strange, shallow, insensitive, or too emotionally cumbersome) then you have every right to be as picky as you want when it comes to relationships.

I personally find past sexual experience irrelevant in partners, but past pregnancies from hook-ups is a red flag for me personally, and I would need more context.

With that said, just don’t be mean or mad at her, that won’t do anything. Instead calmly tell her how it makes you feel, and that you could not, in good conscious, continue the relationship because of that new information, if that’s the way you want to go.

CertainRound4464 · 2023-01-02T17:31:18+00:00

Just leave bro, you deserve better than a bed hopper

ScottishSam · 2023-01-02T17:28:55+00:00

You are NOT wrong to feel the way you do. Listen to your gut. You are setting yourself up for a lifetime of pain and regret if you ignore your instincts.

Learn from this experience. Women with lots of experience come with lots of undesirable baggage.

genzbiz · 2023-01-02T11:50:04+00:00

one night stand pregnancy? she doesn’t value herself. if you’re contemplating, neither are u

Bishop21 · 2023-01-02T16:41:27+00:00

Her having multiple precious partners isn’t the issue. Her having multiple abortions due to her refusal to use birth control is it and it’s appalling. That would be a massive deal breaker to me. Time to dump her.

rochesterslim · 2023-01-02T13:20:36+00:00

dump her

ReWildingOfMen · 2023-01-02T09:43:14+00:00

No my friend you are absolutely right to feel this way.

This is a MASSIVE red flag and warning to get out of there, from the feeling and the content of your message.

If she'd of been honest in the beginning that'd be different.

My guidance is this, first of all get out of that relationship and do NOT look back, you are opening yourself up for a world of hurt.

As part of this step start looking into narcisism and covert narcisism, you are expressing certain red flag warning signs of coming into contact with one.

Here's a good start: https://youtu.be/BWUDLnMfH7Y

Secondly I will suggest an update to your ideas.

You don't want an experienced woman as a man, unfortunately (as a general rule) the more experienced a woman is, the more traumatised she is. And the less sustainable your relationship.

Focus on find a sweet and feminine and kind and submissive and loyal woman, the kind that wants to be a mother and a wife, the kind that feminists pick on viciously.

Such women you can gently and lovingly LEAD in your intimacy and lovemaking, which is more empowering to you as a man and more satisfying to her as a woman.

A woman that is overly career focussed or masculine is going to lead you into a world of hurt.

Focus on building yourself as a man, your purpose, passion and hobbies, become the type of man that draws women to you.

And focus on the right kind of women, women that bring you peace and rest and joy and happiness... They are less flashy in ways, but they are nourishing and good and wonderous.

That's my advice.

XaviRequiem · 2023-01-02T14:15:46+00:00

Nothing wrong with you, should you expect any type of responsability and compromise from a person who takes abortion as contraception? I swear this pro choice speech ends up being more like pro-not being held accountable for any actions and decisions Ive made.

Kwen_Oellogg · 2023-01-02T10:56:18+00:00

Bro, she's damaged goods. Its society that's trying to tell you she's ok. She isn't.

Don't worry about what anyone says. She will never be able to pair-bond.

Take her to the curb like last weeks garbage and don't feel bad about it.

WA0SIR · 2023-01-02T17:30:07+00:00

Seek therapy? Lol bro don’t. The fact is you don’t like women who are promiscuous. There’s nothing wrong with that. I’ve stop talking so many women because suddenly you find out they have three kids by two different baby daddies. Just stop talking to her and move on. If she wants an explanation then tell her what you feel. Keep it simple and don’t say shit to her again.

dukesaces · 2023-01-02T10:07:30+00:00

It's natural to feel disgust at a partner with an extensive past. She's also done irreparable damage to her womb. Why do you even want someone with experience? You're supposed to learn and grow together, would you marry a hooker if you want someone with experience? After all they've got the most experience.

End the relationship, dump her and find someone who's body isn't a graveyard.

Forcetobereckonedwit · 2023-01-02T18:12:04+00:00

Move on. Wrong partner. If you force yourself to "get over" your gut feelings on this, it'll come back and haunt you later, perhaps when she's pregnant with your child.

Sorry mate, run and block.

mvong123 · 2023-01-02T19:15:17+00:00

Honestly I would gtfo out of such situation, because I wouldn't want that kind of problems. Imagine this scenario, you break up after a while, and than you find out the same thing about you two.

How would you feel in such situation? If you're cool with it, than keep going.

selitos · 2023-01-02T20:18:39+00:00

Youre not obligated to be comfortable with that type of behavior and you don't need therapy. Wish her the best and find someone who is a better match for your values.

Emotional_Art_4628 · 2023-01-02T22:43:12+00:00

You are allowed to have feelings about anything. I don’t believe therapy is necessary, but it might be worth something if you are having trouble finding the core of why you’re angry so that you don’t continue running into it in this relationship or the next.

Reading what you’ve stated so far It just sounds like you haven’t really expressed any of them to your partner and it’s coming out in a more passive way. Did you consider bringing this topic up with her at a time that you are angry about it so you can discuss them in a healthy and open conversation (possible writing down some points before hand so that you make yourself clear and say what you have to say). Maybe you can get some context as to how it all happened and resolve these feelings without therapy.

If you have already tried this than I’m really sorry to say but it doesn’t seem like you guys are compatible on this level and it might end up breaking the relationship.

Also: There are so many people who are inferring that her unplanned pregnancies are due to promiscuous behaviour. However, there are so many who get pregnant while using birth-control. So all of those comments are very unwarranted.

If OP wants to get tested sure, that is healthy behaviour when anyone is sexually active and is encouraged on a regular basis by many physicians. Nonetheless, it is not a well informed response to someone saying they have had unplanned pregnancies.

Difficult_Ad_3234 · 2023-01-03T04:05:04+00:00

Understandable considering the circumstances guaranteed!✈️

Daman_1985 · 2023-01-02T14:01:27+00:00

I don't think you are wrong.

The problem I see here it's that your partner lied to you from the start. I understand that your partner decided to tell the truth only after a time on the relationship.

But better later than never to have this information. Now you can decide the best course of action before going forward with that relationship. I think that people who wants a relationship deserve a trustworthy partner, it'sthemost important thing imo.

Aimless-Nomad · 2023-01-02T16:46:18+00:00

Dump her ass. You don't need to accept anything.

sveinn33 · 2023-01-02T18:25:14+00:00

first: it's your feelings. they can't be wrong. second: I personally can't understand it. it just wouldn't matter to me. but I would be more concerned about that than being afraid of becoming a father. maybe I'd still be a little surprised how someone I like could be so stupid.

BravesSteelers74 · 2023-01-02T18:23:52+00:00

The more partners a woman has, the less ability she has to pair bond or put any value in sex at all. She will then use sex as a weapon with anyone since to her, it means nothing and if that’s all people want from her, she will give it to anyone she thinks she can manipulate.

If she is even remotely close to the age of 30, she is trying to find her “nice guy” to settle with so he can pay the bills and take care of her meanwhile she’s had more wangs than an Japanese phone book.

Dump this chick ASAP. Not because of her past but because there is no future

DeddestNash · 2023-01-02T13:21:13+00:00

Are you mad because you feel more lied to or solely because of the information?

And try to think more about the now, this woman has chosen to be intimate with you and only you in this relationship right now after all. Surely that is quite important too?

You're okay to not like it, and it's your decision whether you want to end it completely with this woman. But my suggestion would be too try and get a clearer head before making decisions first.

AdAcademic4290 · 2023-01-02T15:21:07+00:00

Has she practiced safe sex with you? If yes, then she ( hopefully) has learned from her past.

Are you both sexually healthy?

Was it a fantasy you had, about being with someone experienced, or is it something that you felt you would be comfortable with?

In the former case, a lot of people have fantasies that don't work out the way they thought. It's OK to be disappointed in your own head about this, but not to upset the other person.

In the latter case, you found something new out about yourself.

BTW The ' purity ' culture is bizarre. Followed to It's logical conclusion, it effectively means that males are so fundamentally filthy, that any sexual contact with a male renders the female ' soiled '.

It's extremely sexist against males and females.

The major sticking points here are the unprotected sex, (certainly if she is still doing that), and whether or not you are in a monogamous relationship.

Remember, there may be number of reasons why she was involved in those past behaviours, including a history of SA, or CSA.

smfuel87 · 2023-01-02T20:22:46+00:00

I don't think it's unreasonable for a man to not want to seriously date a cum sponge. Women have requirements for a man's income and status and men at least should have a requirement for her relative chastity or exclusivity to him. Leftist propaganda and MSM will gaslight you into thinking you're the problem. Not the girl getting the bukakke choke slam from randos and philanderers 8 days a week.

pauliepablo2 · 2023-01-02T23:26:43+00:00

She is for the streets !

AdComprehensive1312 · 2023-01-03T04:04:53+00:00

Never wife up hoes

TwoTowerz · 2023-01-02T14:41:06+00:00

Yeah you wanted a new car and instead it was used but you didn’t check the car facts till now. It’s ok you didn’t put a ring on it so just move on

OperationAdvanced531 · 2023-01-02T17:37:32+00:00

You are absolutely right about his you feel. You don't need therapy. Se judge a person by their actions. Her actions aren't promising. You need to get rid of her. What others got for free, are you going to pay and sacrifice for that?

Know your worth man. Get rid of her.

Professional-Put-682 · 2023-01-02T18:08:12+00:00

Just wondering if she is Chinese. This is very common, and very acceptable in China, almost to the point that it is expected.

BreathDry4830 · 2023-01-02T19:28:59+00:00

You need to get checked king, that’s disgusting that a person has that many abortions and just shows how reckless and careless they are.

Serious-Nebula5584 · 2023-01-02T21:26:09+00:00

Neither of you are in the wrong, especially if she is getting her life together. She isn't what you are looking for and there is nothing wrong with that.

eyes_beyond_the_void · 2023-01-03T04:53:52+00:00

It’s completely natural, and most, if not all, men would feel exactly the same as you. I do recommend restraining yourself from doing anything too emotionally driven, but it seems like you’ve already got that. If I were you though, depending on her history and how “colorful” it is, I’d recommend leaving her.

OrganizationThen8345 · 2023-01-03T07:04:08+00:00

Only you can decide what you are and aren’t prepared to accept from your partner.

Feminism subs will tell you that you’re a bad person for not accepting a “modern, independent woman”.

Rational people will tell you that not wanting to date someone who doesn’t share the same values as you do is perfectly acceptable.

Personally, I don’t date women who have had loads of sexual partners. That’s always a conversation I have at the start, “what does your dating history look like?” or words to that effect. If someone has been in a long term relationship for 7 years, it’s pretty safe to say that she’s a) had less sexual partners than a woman who has been single throughout that period and b) she’ll place more value on intimacy and will likely he able to form a stronger bond with a new partner.

As for the pregnancy thing. Absolutely not. If a woman thinks that frequent terminations are an acceptable form of birth control then she’s a scumbag, end of story. Just get an implant.

Spare_Development615 · 2023-01-03T08:12:57+00:00

She has a right to use her body as a dumping ground, but her values and your values are so far apart, there's no point in having a relationship, I don't care how nice she is or how much she has going on.

Don't ignore your gut instincts, they're usually right.

I don't mind if someone used to be a prostitute, it doesn't mean I'm gonna marry one.

Abortion is disgusting, what kind of a person thinks, "I think I'm just gonna terminate the life growing inside of me."

I don't want to touch that with a 10 foot pole.

slaveknightgael40 · 2023-01-02T18:29:04+00:00

Youre allowed to have standards from your choice in a partner people think it would be petty to break the relationship off just because of sexual history but if it affects you this much in the long run its never going to work out therapy or not really its up to you to where this relationship is going to lead in the future you liked this person before you knew their past and a minor detail just destroyed your expectations but as everything life has taught most people that the reality of it all is that nothing will be perfect

2023-01-02T10:55:16+00:00

Yes wanting purity from a woman is misogynistic. As is thinking lowly of her for being incapable of Plan B or condoms. Matter of fact, being unhappy with any woman, in any way, ever, is misogynistic 😆

Anger comes from expecting something different. Don’t expect different. 99% of the women u meet will not be worthy of a ring.

It’s ok to be angry. But move passed this. Sorry that happened to you. Don’t lose hope. There’s still gems outbthere

XaviRequiem · 2023-01-02T14:25:04+00:00

Theres this account talking bullshit here so wanted to say this too: Yeah, a human right until she finds a good daddy that she can baby-trap, this speaks a lot about the girl and the kind of guys shes getting pregnant from if she doesn't has the maturity and compromise to fucking take care of her actions in any other way than just bailing out. I suppose that she informed all her partners about her intention to abort... or you tell me, should they be informed? Or should only them be charged with diapers and milk formula 9 months later out of the blue? Piss off of this sub.

2023-01-02T20:37:00+00:00

Look up White Night Syndrome, I have it and it was one of the main causes of feeling negative or angry towards my partner for her past. Her past was t even that bad and I would get jealous. People have a sense of wanting to save people from their pasts, the only kicker is sometimes people don’t need saving and they’re entitled to have their own pasts.

Seamonkey_Boxkicker · 2023-01-02T13:11:08+00:00

Why are you angry with her?

NullIsUndefined · 2023-01-03T01:42:16+00:00

It might honestly be part of our biological programming. Having a partner who is promiscuous and has the potential to get pregnant from someone else instead of you is a downside in a relationship.

After all evolution and our attraction toward the opposite sex at a instinctual level is about reproduction, mating, and passing our genes to the next generation. If that is put at risk then it may naturally cause repulsion and anger.

You could try to rationalize these things but these instructs may always be there deep down influencing our behavior

Though props to her for being honest and bringing up bad news early in a relationship, rather than later. She may want your honest opinion as to whether or not it's a deal brekaer for you. Either way is fine and 100 percent your choice with no guilt or shame.

ehWoc · 2023-01-02T11:23:03+00:00

Can you explain rationally why this is making you feel so bad? It doesn't really affect you and it's in the past so yes, it's something for therapy... Feeling this way towards your partners for things that are no longer relevant, you'll only end up hurting yourself in the end because you'll discard good partners for nothing.

Are you against abortions? Or do you mind that she had unprotected sex quite regularly, apparently?

I'd only be worried about STDs myself in this scenario...

VindictivePrune · 2023-01-02T18:15:29+00:00

Unless she directly lied to you or lied by omission then yeah feeling anger over it is unreasonable

Bernard245 · 2023-01-02T20:09:30+00:00

So, if someone makes a decision, and you weren't there to have any input, and you don't like the choice they made at that time, it's true that such a thing is a potential deal breaker. But just like how your partner had no choice over your sexual history, they can have any opinion of you that they like, but it's weight is only that of an opinion.

Now if she was having children with lots of men, and abandoning them, then that's an active situation that you would need to deal with.

If she has STDs then that's a thing you might need to be concerned about.

If she was getting pregnant on purpose with intent to abort, that's pretty serious and should be looked into.

But to be mad at her for making decisions that you would not have made is incredibly closed-minded of you.

You have different lived experiences and moral values. At the very least she is brutally honest and that's good to know. Because most women would not admit to multiple failed pregnancies if they had the option to conceal it.

I'm not saying you need to stay with her or be labeled as a bad person. But I think you should go back and reframe the problem from a different perspective because you are treating this woman as if she were your clone, and you expected her to make all the decisions that you would have made in her circumstances.

But, if she made any of those decisions even a bit more differently, you probably would have never even met her right?

But maybe you're an idealist, and you would have preferred her to live a life according to your moral values, even if that means that you would have never met her?

I'm sorry if that's a bit of a ramble. I wish you both the best of luck going forward, it's not wrong to have firm morals, just be careful with how you mesh them with reality in the future.

Difficult-Will2235 · 2023-01-02T15:50:41+00:00

Yes you should seek help from therapy

DrowningInPussycats · 2023-01-02T22:19:36+00:00

I think this thread just convinced me to unsub. The shit posted here is just terrible sometimes.

Significant_Rub6632 · 2023-01-02T17:15:43+00:00

It is fine to have history, as long as your partner doesn’t have any std it is perfectly acceptable to not even disclose it. Your emotions are understandable but don’t let them get in your way. Act the way you feel like.

Lolocraft1 · 2023-01-02T17:14:18+00:00

It’s understandable if you feel jealous about it, and she should have told you in person and not by text. But right now, you are angry at her because you aren’t her first.

I’m not a fan of one-night hookup, and she is stupid to get pregnant each time like she never heard of contraception, but now that she made a 180 degree turn and want a serious relationship with you, and only love you.

Try to talk to her about it. Ask her why she didn’t told you earlier, and why she did it by text. And tell her how it is making you angry. There is no shame in feeling insecure in a relationship, but you can’t just suck it up until you can’t look at her anymore.

archit1405 · 2023-01-02T17:36:27+00:00

at least get her tested for STDs

ulpisen · 2023-01-03T01:50:08+00:00

Therapy being a good option doesn't mean you are "to blame"

Your feelings are valid.

DaJosuave · 2023-01-03T07:06:20+00:00

Yea this issue will pop up again, it seems to be a core issue.

No need to go into how her history reflects her compatability as along term partner.

GN-z11em · 2023-01-04T06:47:02+00:00

okay forgive me for not jumping to conclusions as fast as the rest of you, but how are you all landing on the descriptor that OP's girlfriend is "promiscuous"?

I think he should do whatever he wants, and leave if that is what he wants and how he feels. End of story.

But all he said, she's in her mid twenties. That makes her quite young. I just want to point out, having one night stands is not promiscuous, nor is getting pregnant. We also don't know whose choice it was to not use protection nor why/how she got pregnant in the first place. This "promiscuity" could have easily been the actions of a teen girl/young adult who didn't yet know the risks, or her partners role in them as well.

Be wary of what you are picturing as "multiple pregnancies". Already showing and demanding partner/bf to cover abortion cost? Or missing her period, taking a test and it being positive?

Again, OP should do whatever he wants, he has that right. His feelings are valid and he needs to listen to them always. But I just don't think it serves anyone, even him with what he is looking for, to phrase it as "standards", "sexual promiscuity" etc; when there is info that nobody but her and maybe OP seem to know.

I was a teenager too at one point, I'm 21 now, I've been pregnant twice and miscarried both times, one because of an assault. I'm in a long term relationship with a loving partner who wants the same thing that OP wants. I was a dumbass at 17 but I was in a bad situation too, but I know my bf still has confidence in our relationship and shared values all the same, regardless of how many men have had sex with me.

I just want to say that, and feel free to downvote since I'm sure I mistepped somewhere.

hello38r84e · 2023-01-16T18:22:07+00:00

Your feelings are valid but you are only hurting yourself in my opinion. You care way too much about someones actions who didn't seem to care herself

Anger always comes from any kind of insecurity. You said your insecurity came from finding a women this valuable is rare.

Why do you need a women that is highly valuable? Why do you care so much about history? Why need a women at all?

Only care enough to get in the relationship not to go way too hard to find this perfect women that doesn't exist.

I suggest taking some supplements or maybe caffeine to keep you relaxed. Right now you are stressing over some hoe that got ran through 😂.

I'm guessing you don't smile a lot do you? There is always something wrong or problem that needs to be fixed. Give yourself some self love and peace and just let go a little bit.

If I take caffeine It relaxes me maybe because I have ADHD. I don't know if it works the same way with normal people. I heard ltheanine is great, anything that puts a smile on your face and is healthy should be good.

Title	Am I wrong for feeling this way?
Author	lastServivor
Upvotes	280
Comments	186
Date	January 2, 2023 9:06 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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