People in this sub tend to be hysterical about finding partners, whether it be serious relationship or partners for casual sex at a young age. There seems to be some kind of an idea here but also in the broader society that you should have things figured out as soon as possible.

I think that's utter bullshit. The less impatient you are, the better results you get. As you age, you begin to understand yourself better, the people you date understand themselves better. Everyone is better at knowing who they are and what they want. Bullshit like body count stops mattering. This is when you can actually date meaningfully. Get what you really need and want out of it instead of dabbling in anxiety.

If you stop overanalysing every little aspect of human relations and making up theories and just wait and see what happens, you will objectively get a more gratifying result.