Dating Ted Flags

MyLastBestChance · 2022-09-21T23:36:57+00:00

Who is Ted Flags and why should we care about dating him?🤔

Ainsleygz · 2022-09-21T23:39:29+00:00

Typos

Such_Substance_320 · 2022-09-22T03:58:36+00:00

Honestly wokeness and bad hygiene

BlackPorcelainDoll · 2022-09-22T00:54:52+00:00

The cigarette smoking doesn't bother me. It isn't good or pretty, I never picked up the habit but my parents both smoked. Both cigarettes and cigars. It would mix with their scents and perfumes. It is a little homely. They were strong as an ox. I just grew up around a bunch of smokers. Granddad would smoke over 6 packs a day and say about 3 words a week.

Aromatic_Shop9033 · 2022-09-22T06:41:33+00:00

Hates/doesn't want children.

Drug/alcohol/tobacco addiction.

RadFem.

Hates cooking.

Vegan. Just...no.

Poor hygiene.

Is a "taker", not a "giver" (I'm a "giver", and won't tolerate selfish women)

Swears worse than a sailor.

Attempts to order me around. No, sweetheart, this is a partnership. I'm not your subordinate, and I lead.

Has no hobbies other than her career and social mania.

Obsessed over social mania.

Plus the obvious (single mom, 200+lbs., tattoos, wild hair colors, face piercings).

These red flags eliminate 90%+ of single ladies in the US.

I avoid these train wreck people at all costs.

TheRedPillRipper · 2022-09-22T00:06:13+00:00

Instant date ender

I wouldn’t end the date instantly; but how a person treats service staff, is a huge indicator.

Godspeed and good luck!

DisasterPeace7 · 2022-09-22T00:29:44+00:00

8 is enough

Feminist
Smoker
Don't want an extreme either way but a super liberal is a definite no
Pronouns in bio
Wants to go out EVERY weekend
All her exes are "insecure"
Bad with money
Substance abuse past

Fun_Push7168 · 2022-09-22T02:35:13+00:00

Drugs

Disrespect

I'm sure there's some blatantly dumb shit someone could do I can't think of.

Otherwise everything else I'm pretty sure I'd have filtered before I ever ended up on a date with them.

staggerlee718 · 2022-09-21T23:58:51+00:00

I keep telling men who post dating profile review requests to ditch the cat photos, because in my and many women's opinion men with cat photo = a man who hasn't gotten laid in years possible ever.

But curious about your take on it.

AstronautLoveShack · 2022-09-22T00:19:42+00:00

Hard drug use. Republican/conservative. Gun nut. Too old or too young. Into country music. Bad teeth. Among other things.

purplish_possum · 2022-09-22T00:46:44+00:00

Mine would include:

1) Not educated

2) No career

3) Smokes

4) Racist

5) Votes Republican

6) Has never lived on her own

InfamousBake1859 · 2022-09-22T02:51:24+00:00

Red flags i have…? Or red flags for me?Lol

howdoiw0rkthisthing · 2022-09-22T14:54:19+00:00

Thank you for coming to my Red Talk.

Ohmaygahh · 2022-09-22T15:03:52+00:00

Vegan. I fucking love BBQ, burgers, hot dogs, adventuresome eating snake and random things in the world.

Vegans are no fucking fun, often imposing their own, often arbitrary (not health related) limitations and snootily look down at omnivores, as if they are superior form of human.

Which is stupid as fuck because if it weren't for our meat eating ancestors, eating organ meats and scavenging, we wouldn't fucking be here.

bunnakay · 2022-09-21T23:38:17+00:00

Not so much red flags, but general deal breakers: being conservative, having or wanting kids, adhering to traditional gender roles, wanting to live in a rural area, bragging about income, religion, and a few more I'm forgetting.

urbangoth · 2022-09-22T02:50:05+00:00

Hard drugs. Likes gender roles. Religious is a BIG red flag to me. Conservative. Overly masculine/ripped. Won't let me put things in his butt. Has a cat. Wants kids. Has a kid. Country music. Drives a truck. Can't support his basic needs. Pro-life.

Luckily I rarely have to deal with those types but if they were in my dating pool I'd be throwing them all into the trash.

flakybottom · 2022-09-22T02:28:55+00:00

Republican

Hates video games

Social media overuse, especially Tiktok

Into any of the alternative/homoepathic medicine bs

moderate to heavy drug user

religious zealot

KissMyAsthma-99 · 2022-09-22T00:30:57+00:00

Not dating, but as a mental exercise, my list is:

Body count > 1
Single motherhood.
US liberal regardless of reasons.
Vegetarian or vegan.
Cat owner.
Smoker.

bossman146 · 2022-09-22T05:05:41+00:00

For me

Has dogs (it’s not that I don’t like dogs but more of the “lifestyle” dog owners live)
Talks about exes
Known for fighting
Drives an “entry level” luxury car like an Audi A4 or C class Mercedes. Shows that she’s concerned with image and willing to make a poor financial decision for a mediocre car with a prestigious badge.

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Hungry-Nebula · 2022-09-22T02:34:00+00:00

Does not want to date me.
Actively abusive EDIT: towards me (although this is negotiable).

Film2021 · 2022-09-23T00:37:25+00:00

A heavy drinking problem, crying constantly, zero plans for the future.

Title	Dating Ted Flags
Author	anonymous-platypus1
Upvotes	0
Comments	84
Date	September 21, 2022 11:33 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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