This is gonna be a hard pitch like all the others I make but there is a lot of discourse around who treats who worse. I think it’s honestly irrelevant to put it to gender. I believe that we just treat everyone that isn’t “the one” like shit until we bump into someone that makes us “shape up”

What I mean is the people that only want you for one thing be it sex or money don’t actually behave that way. They only do that because you aren’t the one to earn that good behavior from them.

That’s why I say there are no good/bad women or bad/good men. There are people who are into you and therefore willing to treat you right or they aren’t.

Someone will act like an absolute demon with you and then beg for mercy from their next partner like they didn’t step on your heart. Someone will claim to not be the clingy type but then do it for you because you amazed them. Every behavioral archetype is negotiable depending on what your presence and personality or looks or whatever metric of attractiveness you wanna use can pull out of someone.

Some women can claim to not care about sex then meet someone they carnally wanna fuck to death. A man can be afraid to spend money on a woman but meets the sweetheart of his dreams and wants to spend everything.

I’m using basic and very shallow examples but you can take this to pretty much any level you want and it still applies.