A lot of men specifically get criticized for their main goal in life being romantic pursuit. Me personally, all of my hobbies, goals, dreams and ambitions all are a means to the end of finding a romantic companion. Of course I’d never admit this in unlicensed only because people would rather not hear it, but there shouldn’t be anything wrong with it.

If your main motivation in life is to find a girlfriend and it’s the only *Real* goal you have pretending to believe anything else is delusional. If you want muscles for women, better that than bullshitting and saying it’s for something else and lowering your morale. That goes for money, skills, competency etc.

Honestly with the right mindset it’s a goal that is noble and helpful as long as you have your head on straight. The main issue people take is the mere mention that love is your main motivation. For some reason speaking on it is worse than the desire itself.