I think if you have been rejected most of your life as a man or a woman and have a sudden glow up, it’s only natural to start being as picky as possible. When men do what it takes to become attractive as a man they usually take the ball and run with it often leading to more problems in the market. I feel like the only other option is taking who you attract and quietly leaving the dating market. Only some of the men who find their way do this.

I also think this happens to women who have glow ups as well. They use to be unattractive for whatever reason and once they grow beyond that they tend to not want anyone.

I think it’s fair. Where was the attention before I was pretty? Why is it that my interests are now interesting but they weren’t before? I didn’t change, my attractiveness level changed. I think it’s fair that some men run rampant on the market because it’s so easy to pick a well meaning but dorkish guy if you really wanna avoid this issue.