There are a lot of examples of society crapping on men with misleading explanations of certain statistics, like men do less childraring and less household chores, or men make more money, or men abuse women more..
There are - of course - elements of truth to all these. Like a certain group of men do make more money a men in general do not do as much chores and childraring as women and when men abuse women it does lead to physical injuries more frequently.
What rarely seem to be discussed in mainstream/pop media however is that there are valid reasons to most of these issues and those reasons are usually nothing to do with the common sentiment which is in a nutshell: "men are bad" and "women suffer because of men".
Married men with kids make more money, because they work more hours for instance, not because they are paid better for the same job. This is also the same reason why they do less chores and childraring at the home. Women initiate more abuse, even in the context of reciprocally abusive relationships which is about 50% of all abusive relationships and in the context of the remaining 50%, women are abusive a little more then 70% of the times.
From the correct understanding of the data, it seems to be clear that men and women are about equally flawed, or suffer about equally but different ways. It is not to say that there are no women who suffer because of bad men, but there are also men who suffer because of bad women, so it's not as simple and bi-dimensional as "men are bad" and 'women are the victims". And yet, this is how it appears to be in most of the times, and according this, society created/creates policies and reforms. Anyone who questions the status quo is deemed to be mysoginystic and stamped with all sorts of nasty labels.
So my question is, in your opinion, what does this do to the mind of young people who grow up in an environment, in which there is clear bias against men? How does this effect girls, boys? How does this effect romantic relationships, marriages, interpersonal relationships, friendships if at all? Is there any connection between the falling marriage rates, the increasing prevalence of single motherhood and the increasing numbers of children, born out of wedlock? What can we do differently? Should we do anything differently at all?
Edit: Sources:
Topic of IPV:
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1854883/
Topic of men working more hours:
https://www.google.co.uk/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.oecd.org/els/family/LMF_2_1_Usual_working_hours_gender.pdf&ved=2ahUKEwiRtc-pxsv1AhWDUMAKHRi5DY0QFnoECAMQAQ&usg=AOvVaw19uom-8Sxg5_akhIn8bZLv
In UK:
https://www.statista.com/statistics/280749/weekly-hours-of-work-in-the-uk-by-gender/
In regards of marriage:
https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2021/10/05/rising-share-of-u-s-adults-are-living-without-a-spouse-or-partner/
https://www.jec.senate.gov/public/index.cfm/republicans/2020/4/marriage-rate-blog-test
[–]TheRedPillRipperAn open mind opens doors. 8 points9 points10 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Siukslinis_acc 8 points9 points10 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]EdessaKandros 24 points25 points26 points (37 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 19 points20 points21 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Pola_Lita 10 points11 points12 points (34 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points (33 children) | Copy Link
[–]Ayesaynay 2 points3 points4 points (29 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points (25 children) | Copy Link
[–]Ayesaynay 3 points4 points5 points (23 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]Ayesaynay 1 point2 points3 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Ayesaynay 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points0 points (14 children) | Copy Link
[–]Ayesaynay 2 points3 points4 points (12 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point (10 children) | Copy Link
[–]Ayesaynay 0 points1 point2 points (9 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted]1 point [recovered] | Copy Link
[–]Mysterious_Detail_621 point [recovered] | Copy Link
[–][deleted]2 points [recovered] | Copy Link
[–]Mysterious_Detail_621 point [recovered] | Copy Link
[–][deleted]1 point [recovered] | Copy Link
[–]Mysterious_Detail_621 point [recovered] | Copy Link
[–][deleted]2 points [recovered] | Copy Link
[–]Ayesaynay1 point [recovered] | Copy Link
[–]Ayesaynay0 points [recovered] | Copy Link
[–][deleted] (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]Ayesaynay 0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Ayesaynay 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]RottingVillain666 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Stahlboden 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]fifththrowaway 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Pola_Lita 0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Pola_Lita 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]chalkandapples 18 points19 points20 points (7 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 15 points16 points17 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]tonyghow -1 points0 points1 point (1 child) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]SuperSupremeKaiGrey -1 points0 points1 point (2 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]SuperSupremeKaiGrey 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Siukslinis_acc -1 points0 points1 point (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]throwawayblue900ss 5 points6 points7 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]SuperSupremeKaiGrey 2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]throwawayblue900ss 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Aclopolipse 14 points15 points16 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]gauts2103 1 point2 points3 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]M3taBusterTrad Volcel 1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]gauts2103 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Smitten_Squire 8 points9 points10 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]SuperSupremeKaiGrey 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]chromie96Purple Pill Woman 7 points8 points9 points (13 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]chromie96Purple Pill Woman 5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]FPSzero 5 points6 points7 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Mysterious_Detail_62 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]chromie96Purple Pill Woman 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]EstablishmentKooky50[S] -1 points0 points1 point (6 children) | Copy Link
[–]chromie96Purple Pill Woman 1 point2 points3 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]EstablishmentKooky50[S] 0 points1 point2 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]CFinCanadaI'm Problematic 2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]EstablishmentKooky50[S] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]chromie96Purple Pill Woman 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]EstablishmentKooky50[S] 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Vtridolla 3 points4 points5 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]EstablishmentKooky50[S] 2 points3 points4 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]Vtridolla 1 point2 points3 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]EstablishmentKooky50[S] 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]CFinCanadaI'm Problematic 5 points6 points7 points (6 children) | Copy Link
[–]EstablishmentKooky50[S] 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Mysterious_Detail_62 -1 points0 points1 point (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]Ayesaynay 2 points3 points4 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]Stahlboden 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]EstablishmentKooky50[S] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]CatchPhrazeMaster Of Memeology 8 points9 points10 points (27 children) | Copy Link
[–]indaknffr -2 points-1 points0 points (25 children) | Copy Link
[–]CatchPhrazeMaster Of Memeology 4 points5 points6 points (24 children) | Copy Link
[–]indaknffr -1 points0 points1 point (23 children) | Copy Link
[–]CatchPhrazeMaster Of Memeology 0 points1 point2 points (22 children) | Copy Link
[–]indaknffr 0 points1 point2 points (14 children) | Copy Link
[–]CatchPhrazeMaster Of Memeology -1 points0 points1 point (12 children) | Copy Link
[–]indaknffr 0 points1 point2 points (11 children) | Copy Link
[–]CatchPhrazeMaster Of Memeology -1 points0 points1 point (10 children) | Copy Link
[–]indaknffr 0 points1 point2 points (9 children) | Copy Link
[–]CatchPhraze1 point [recovered] | Copy Link
[–]indaknffr1 point [recovered] | Copy Link
[–]CatchPhraze1 point [recovered] | Copy Link
[–]indaknffr1 point [recovered] | Copy Link
[–]CatchPhraze1 point [recovered] | Copy Link
[–]indaknffr1 point [recovered] | Copy Link
[–]CatchPhraze1 point [recovered] | Copy Link
[–]caption291 0 points1 point2 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]CatchPhrazeMaster Of Memeology 2 points3 points4 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]caption291 3 points4 points5 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]CatchPhrazeMaster Of Memeology 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Im_The_Daiquiri_Man -1 points0 points1 point (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]CatchPhrazeMaster Of Memeology 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Pola_Lita -1 points0 points1 point (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]NotGoingoutofMW 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]TryLambdaRed Pill Man 4 points5 points6 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]manfrom-nantucket 1 point2 points3 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Siukslinis_acc 5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]TryLambdaRed Pill Man 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]flapperfemmefataleew gender roles 2 points3 points4 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]EstablishmentKooky50[S] 2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]flapperfemmefataleew gender roles 7 points8 points9 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Barneysparky 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]LalaTheSecond [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]kyjolski 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]ruboyuri 0 points1 point2 points (7 children) | Copy Link
[–]evenst5ven 1 point2 points3 points (6 children) | Copy Link
[–]ruboyuri 3 points4 points5 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]evenst5ven 0 points1 point2 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]ruboyuri 4 points5 points6 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]evenst5ven -3 points-2 points-1 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]ruboyuri 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]EstablishmentKooky50[S] -1 points0 points1 point (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]sarkington 1 point2 points3 points (11 children) | Copy Link
[–]evenst5ven 3 points4 points5 points (10 children) | Copy Link
[–]sarkington 0 points1 point2 points (9 children) | Copy Link
[–]evenst5ven 0 points1 point2 points (8 children) | Copy Link
[–]sarkington 0 points1 point2 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]evenst5ven -1 points0 points1 point (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]sarkington 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]evenst5ven 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Ayesaynay -1 points0 points1 point (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]evenst5ven 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Pola_Lita 0 points1 point2 points (15 children) | Copy Link
[–]manfrom-nantucket 4 points5 points6 points (7 children) | Copy Link
[–]Pola_Lita -1 points0 points1 point (6 children) | Copy Link
[–]manfrom-nantucket 1 point2 points3 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]Pola_Lita 1 point2 points3 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]manfrom-nantucket 1 point2 points3 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]Pola_Lita 0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]manfrom-nantucket 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Pola_Lita 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Runoutofideas777Women ☕️ 1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Pola_Lita 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]EstablishmentKooky50[S] 0 points1 point2 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]Pola_Lita 2 points3 points4 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]EstablishmentKooky50[S] 0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Pola_Lita 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]EstablishmentKooky50[S] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]pubgmisc 0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]SuperSupremeKaiGrey 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]pubgmisc -1 points0 points1 point (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]UnitedIntroduction48 -3 points-2 points-1 points (23 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] (22 children) | Copy Link
[–]GrantmepmOffline pill 2 points3 points4 points (14 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] (13 children) | Copy Link
[–]GrantmepmOffline pill 4 points5 points6 points (12 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] (11 children) | Copy Link
[–]Ayesaynay -1 points0 points1 point (7 children) | Copy Link
[–]UnitedIntroduction48 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]EstablishmentKooky50[S] 0 points1 point2 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]Ayesaynay 0 points1 point2 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]EstablishmentKooky50[S] 0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Ayesaynay1 point [recovered] | Copy Link
[–]EstablishmentKooky501 point [recovered] | Copy Link
[–]GrantmepmOffline pill 0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]GrantmepmOffline pill 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]UnitedIntroduction48 2 points3 points4 points (6 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]UnitedIntroduction48 4 points5 points6 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]UnitedIntroduction48 2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]NotGoingoutofMW 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]logiauser -1 points0 points1 point (9 children) | Copy Link
[–]EstablishmentKooky50[S] 1 point2 points3 points (8 children) | Copy Link
[–]logiauser -2 points-1 points0 points (7 children) | Copy Link
[–]EstablishmentKooky50[S] -1 points0 points1 point (6 children) | Copy Link
[–]logiauser 0 points1 point2 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]EstablishmentKooky50[S] 0 points1 point2 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]logiauser 0 points1 point2 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]EstablishmentKooky50[S] 0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]logiauser 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]EstablishmentKooky50[S] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]AutoModerator[M] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]MGTOW_and_Bitcoin 0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]EstablishmentKooky50[S] 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]MGTOW_and_Bitcoin 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link