There are a lot of examples of society crapping on men with misleading explanations of certain statistics, like men do less childraring and less household chores, or men make more money, or men abuse women more..

There are - of course - elements of truth to all these. Like a certain group of men do make more money a men in general do not do as much chores and childraring as women and when men abuse women it does lead to physical injuries more frequently.

What rarely seem to be discussed in mainstream/pop media however is that there are valid reasons to most of these issues and those reasons are usually nothing to do with the common sentiment which is in a nutshell: "men are bad" and "women suffer because of men".

Married men with kids make more money, because they work more hours for instance, not because they are paid better for the same job. This is also the same reason why they do less chores and childraring at the home. Women initiate more abuse, even in the context of reciprocally abusive relationships which is about 50% of all abusive relationships and in the context of the remaining 50%, women are abusive a little more then 70% of the times.

From the correct understanding of the data, it seems to be clear that men and women are about equally flawed, or suffer about equally but different ways. It is not to say that there are no women who suffer because of bad men, but there are also men who suffer because of bad women, so it's not as simple and bi-dimensional as "men are bad" and 'women are the victims". And yet, this is how it appears to be in most of the times, and according this, society created/creates policies and reforms. Anyone who questions the status quo is deemed to be mysoginystic and stamped with all sorts of nasty labels.

So my question is, in your opinion, what does this do to the mind of young people who grow up in an environment, in which there is clear bias against men? How does this effect girls, boys? How does this effect romantic relationships, marriages, interpersonal relationships, friendships if at all? Is there any connection between the falling marriage rates, the increasing prevalence of single motherhood and the increasing numbers of children, born out of wedlock? What can we do differently? Should we do anything differently at all?

Edit: Sources:

Topic of IPV:

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1854883/

Topic of men working more hours:

https://www.google.co.uk/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.oecd.org/els/family/LMF_2_1_Usual_working_hours_gender.pdf&ved=2ahUKEwiRtc-pxsv1AhWDUMAKHRi5DY0QFnoECAMQAQ&usg=AOvVaw19uom-8Sxg5_akhIn8bZLv

In UK:

https://www.statista.com/statistics/280749/weekly-hours-of-work-in-the-uk-by-gender/

In regards of marriage:

https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2021/10/05/rising-share-of-u-s-adults-are-living-without-a-spouse-or-partner/

https://www.jec.senate.gov/public/index.cfm/republicans/2020/4/marriage-rate-blog-test