How important is kissing?

MyPasswordisPutin · 2018-01-15T17:59:37+00:00

I would feel very sad and deprived without kissing. It’s so amazing, erotic and intimate. It’s true some guys are bad kissers and seem to think they’re a sewing machine needle lol but I def think guys are “meant” for kissing. I once read a comment in mrp where a guy said he didn’t like kissing. I was so surprised, it was the first time I’d heard such an opinion. Since it’s a necessary prelude to sex for me, I felt sorry for his wife.

GinSmokeLies · 2018-01-15T14:35:16+00:00

Kissing is the best. If I kissed a guy and he wasn't good at it, or he felt like one of those guys who see kissing as sex's lame little brother and want to get it over with as quickly as possible, I was out. It's very important to me.

My husband is the best kisser I've ever encountered and that played no small part in my falling in love with him.

KrispyMcSockington · 2018-01-15T13:13:37+00:00

Kissing is fine if you don't have a cold or sinus issues.

Nothing breaks immersion more than a desperate gasp for a breathing break.

DebatePony · 2018-01-15T13:16:31+00:00

I love kissing and it seems that my husband also loves to kiss. Which is nice since we're good at it together.

pinkgoldrose · 2018-01-15T13:37:38+00:00

I think if you kiss a guy he gets a boner so he does feel something. But I agree kissing a guy with a bear sounds gross (which I'm sorry to say because shaving every day must be pretty annoying).

carefreevermillion · 2018-01-15T14:01:52+00:00

To me, very important, and to my relationship, also very important. My boyfriend is the best kisser I've been with (and I find his facial hair is pleasant because it's not too long but very masculine), and we love to kiss just to be intimate and show affection.

Alth12 · 2018-01-15T17:16:37+00:00

I dunno. As a guy I love kissing, but I'm not that bothered by getting blowjobs. I'd say I'm weirder than you.

Contradict-- · 2018-01-15T18:14:42+00:00

Yes your wife is deprived, kissing is sexual contact.

A hormonally balanced man wants that shit. Better do some push-ups or something if you ain't got no sex drive.

goatismycopilot · 2018-01-15T13:06:52+00:00

Ask your wife if she feels deprived?

i_have_a_semicolon · 2018-01-15T14:32:48+00:00

Kissing is great but it's an art. If you don't kiss the way I like I'll avoid it (tounge kissing). After years of not really kissing durring sex with my man, I decided I missed kissing. I gave him a crash course in how I like to be kissed. He learned and now making out is an important, erotic, and intimate part of our sex life. I know he enjoys it as well, because it makes us closer.

Uncommon_Sense_123 · 2018-01-15T15:02:28+00:00

For me kissing is a form of intimacy and will be the first deterent to sexual progression.

When you are kissing, you take in and exchange your germs, the others scent and the first sign of sexual compatibility.

If you taste bad, smell "off", and can't be bothered to coordinate your lips and tongues so that the two dance together, you are probably not suitable mates for each other. The bad taste and "off" body smell will repulse me at a subconscious level.

The lack of kissing coordination, and willingness to work together on it, will imply for me that we are not going to be able to meet each other's sexual needs and will not be what others term sexually compatible.

I've always used kissing as a form of partner selection. If the kiss is off, so is the continuation of the relationship.

Once paired, kissing remains a form of intimacy and becomes more about an act that continues the bond rather than an act that weeds out incompatible mates.

Taipanshimshon · 2018-01-15T18:01:07+00:00

If you do not enjoy kissing, you are doing it wrong, or with a partner that is bad at it.

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RockinSocksII · 2018-01-15T12:43:01+00:00

Good lord, who cares? It's one minute aspect of a relationship. The amount of importance it has in a relationship is the amount of importance either party in the relationship gives it.

a_mans_perspective · 2018-01-15T14:37:29+00:00

My wife doesnt really like kissing. I half suspect it is because she doesnt really like me. Maybe thats just my insecurity talking though.

whichbladeN · 2018-01-15T15:37:28+00:00

Kissing women actually exchanges testosterone in their system and makes them hornier.

Assuming you use tongue.

mistercheeez-o____O- · 2018-01-15T22:51:08+00:00

Kissing feels amazing, and it's an essential part of bonding to me, that and eye contact, and touching. It does things to your brain to cement an unspoken bond.

Blue_Violet23 · 2018-01-16T01:58:41+00:00

Very important. I love to touch and feel a guy's rugged jawline (+good jawline +1 day stubble...swoons) while kissing (men have such nice jawlines sometimes)

newName543456 · 2018-01-16T07:27:45+00:00

To me - not terribly.

But sth tells me I'm not your wife :3.

despisedlove2 · 2018-01-17T04:18:49+00:00

I used to enjoy kissing my ex wife. I am unlikely to ever be in the position of kissing a woman again, but I don't think I would enjoy it much, even if I were.

PieceBringer · 2018-01-15T14:32:53+00:00

I get annoyed of kissing easily, annoyed like "won't she stop" and most girls think I'm being playful, but no, I just don't want to kiss anymore. My ex obviously concluded if I didn't like to kiss 24/7 then I didn't lovd her..

notworthmuch20xx · 2018-01-15T17:03:53+00:00

Very!

Maikowski2 · 2018-01-15T12:30:23+00:00

I am not very into kissing marathons either. I have to be aroused to feel some pleasure from it and even that is temporary. Kissing is for women, true.

MrPerfidy · 2018-01-15T14:31:57+00:00

So far the general consensus from women is, yes I suck. I'm really not interested in doing anything about this though

Entropy-7 · 2018-01-15T16:12:11+00:00

I guess it depends on the placement of the lips.

Title	How important is kissing?
Author	MrPerfidy
Upvotes	3
Comments	123
Date	January 15, 2018 12:20 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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