Shifting preferences is the root cause of bitterness and trp

Bitterness, Redpill, nice guys and women's changing preferences

The root cause of the bitterness among men, is women's preferences changing over time

Women love to talk about how their tastes evolve over time, like one day they wake up and suddenly the guy with the 401k is hotter than the guy with the felony. But what’s really happening is that they’ve had their fun, lived out their wildest fantasies, and now they want the safety net they once rejected. And that’s what pisses guys off, being treated like the safe option after the bad boy has run her life into the ground.

Every guy has prolly heard about a girls that one “toxic” ex.. And it’s not because she didn’t see the red flags, it’s because those flags were the exact shade of excitement she was craving. Let’s be real what they’re doing is angling to have their cake and eat it too. They don’t want consequences for their wild years, they want to hit the reset button and find “home” when the bad boy starts looking more like a dead end than a thrilling ride.

And thats what RP is basically all about. Making sure that the girl in question doesn't get to have her cake and eat it too. Thats why RP guys are hell bent on ridiculing men who marry single moms who slept with Chad(the serial womaniser), or their whole obsession with bodycount(the assumption is that if a woman has a big enough bodycount she was more likely engaging with men who closely mirror the badboy image above).

The bad boy isn’t just some edgy dude with a motorcycle and a cute face. The bad boy is supposed to be the one who encourages all her worst impulses, like leaving school because fuck it, drink like crazy, drive like maniacs, have crazy raunchy sex together, sneak to go smoke some pot, he fuels her need to not want to be confined by human/societal rules anymore, be more susceptible to darkness(darker urges/illicit things in life). He’s the enabler of every reckless thought she’s ever had. He’s the fuel for her wildest impulses, the part of her that craves risk, craves darkness, craves the thrill of skating on the edge of oblivion. When she’s with him, it’s not about society, it’s not about what’s “right”, it’s about her and him against the world, burning like a comet that’s destined to crash and burn. He’s the guy who whispers in her ear that life’s too short for rules. The point of of the bad boy, is that he represents this mysterious path, full of fun, risk and potential danger, its a lonely road with only room for her and him, its supposed to be all consuming.

Now, enter the nice guy, the guy who’s basically the human embodiment of home-cooked meals and cozy Sunday afternoons. He’s the one offering safety, stability, and that warm, fuzzy feeling of having someone who actually gives a damn about her well-being.

Nice guys are just men/boys who have a very idealistic way of viewing life, relationships and women.They like to think of themselves as the type of guy women say they want, the type of guy, who is respectful, caring, compassionate, and considerate of their partner's feelings and needs. The type of guy who communicates openly, listens attentively, and supports his partner's aspirations and goals. Trust, loyalty, and emotional availability are also things they strive to live by or at the very least used to. Basically, everything women say they want in a man. But here’s the kicker, he’s been shaped by a world(bluepill) that values female comfort and protection above all.

Most of them, grew up in very female dominated households or with a lot of female influence(in the form of mothers and sisters) and this contributes greatly to how they view girls especially in their formative years. I've routinely heard of women on Reddit telling stories about how they are surprised that their sweet little brother ended up turning out into a bitter angry misogynist.

By virtue of growing up with a lot of female influence in their lives(mostly through their mothers or sisters)they end up being sympathetic to alot of women's struggles (esp in their formative years) , and consequently they have been stuck in this space where they're very quick to see women as victims, always willing to give them the benefit of the doubt(the attractive ones end up being male feminists or left wing males, and the unlucky ones end up stuck in the friendzone or worse being incels). Their issues they basically internalized alot of their mother's prescriptions to what it means to be a good man and how to treat a woman right and I think it ends shaping who they become usually for the worst as soon as reality sets in, that women would rather be with a man with a spine who mistreats her, than a spineless left-wing male who'll treat them like a princess. They might appreciate the good treatment but it gets boring real quick and they'll often wonder what's it'd be like being with a real man.

But when you choose mystery and danger you loose your home. Thats the point. Your life gets torpedoed.Your old life moves on without you. You choose a different path, you don't have the privileges and benefits of having "home" anymore. And thats what RP is basically all about. Making sure that the girl in question doesn't get to have her cake and eat it too. Thats why RP guys are hell bent on ridiculing men who marry single moms. This is what most of the men on here are pissed about. That the woman's preferences only start to change after having all her fun with chad, now they want to return and find "home" since the the badboy is really not conducive for a family setup.

The assumption? If she’s racked up a high body count, she was probably spending her time with dudes who fit that bad boy mold—living fast, loving hard, and leaving nothing but wreckage in their wake. And now that the fun’s over, she wants to double back and find a nice guy who’ll pick up the pieces and build that white-picket-fence life she suddenly craves.

And that’s the essence of what Redpill is hammering home: you don’t get to have it both ways. You pick the bad boy, you’re saying goodbye to the comfort and security of the nice guy’s world ( I'm talking about real nice guys, not the made-up demonized version that women on Reddit like to peddle around). This is why there's a lot resentment inducing rhetoric in the manosphere. The point is to make these men feel mad enough to not be captain save a hoe. They want these women to face consequences for overlooking them in favour of Chad (that's why RP has such rage inducing concepts like Af/BB, alpha-widow, monkey branching etc). And that’s what really grinds these guys’ gears—this idea that they’re expected to be the fallback plan after all the fun with Chad is over, and that they should be happy because the woman chose them to have a forever with.

And why the bitterness of the nice guy??

The poor soul, has been sitting there with his homemade lasagna waiting in the sideshows, offering her a life full of love, respect, and stability and still being overlooked for exciting chad (when he was young, he was prolly consoled that he'd make some woman so happy some day). He’s the guy who’s spent his whole life being the “good man”—the one who believes in happily ever afters and open communication, who treats his girl like a queen because that’s what he’s been told women want. He’s been marinated in every lesson his mom, sisters, and society could throw at him about how to be the perfect partner. And for a while, he actually believed that if he’s just nice enough, patient enough, and supportive enough, she’ll pick him over the guy who’s one missed call away from a criminal record.

TL;DR: Redpill's agenda is all about rewiring nice guys to stop being the safety net for women who chase bad boys and then want to settle down. By toughening up the nice guys, RP is ensuring that women face the consequences of their choices—no more playing the hero after she’s burned herself out with Chad. It’s about turning nice guys into the ones who say, "You made your bed, now lie in it."