As a man you should be paying child support if you have a kid. Because it is YOUR kid. You dont just get to bail out and leave all the responsibility on the mum like so many guys do. The very least you can do is help out financially. If you dont want a kid KEEP YOUR DICK IN YOUR PANTS where a condom, dont have sex. And if you do have sex take some responsibility for your actions for once in your life! It seems too many guys like to put the responsibility for every. single. thing. on to women. Im sorry boys but that isn't how the world works. If you're old enough to have sex you're old enough to take some responsibility.