Just started dating a RPM. He's very sweet, caring, great job, provider mindset, fun to be around, etc. In addition, he's incredibly ambitious, health conscious, etc.

The only thing is, throughout our courting phase, he's said some things that I believe to be red flags. For example, he's said:

1.) That men are biologically wired to cheat, and that women are not, thus he understands why men cheat
2.) That if a man is a total provider, most women probably won't care or be hurt if he cheats (to which I responded that women have feelings and absolutely do care about cheating as much as men do).
3.) That he expects his woman to "do as I say,' which he clarified as meaning "that a couple should consult one another on major decisions, as partners, but as the man, he makes the final decision" (I hated the initial wording he chose)
4.) That a woman's peak of attractiveness is 24-26, in his opinion
6.) That he feels that men can train women, but women cannot train men.
7.) He doesn't believe in apologizing unless he's truly sorry or sees that he's wrong about something (which I find strange as many times, apologies are warranted when you've simply offended or hurt someone)
8.) He uses the words "pussy," "beta male," and "weak" a lot to describe men he feels are not ultimately masculine enough. He also considers himself to be an "alpha male"
9.) He calls gay men "cups" (as in fruit cups)
10.) He's super into conspiracies

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Again, he's a nice guy, super sweet and fun, and I'm attracted to his masculine qualities, but are these normal things for a man to say to a woman?