Hello, long time lurker here. Made an account with the sole reason to share this with you guys. Im from Norway, so my english might not be top notch, but i'm going to try my best for you to understand.
https://imgur.com/6wHSkLu
This is what met me when i signed into Facebook. It makes me absolutely sick to my stomach to see how many people agrees with this. It is written in norwegian, but i can translate for you guys:
You, as a man, read and share. Enough is enough.
We are on the brink of withering. Let's talk a little bit about ourselves, without starting to put the blame on the girls. Equality. I am for it. More women in leading job positions. Equal salary for equal work. Women discrimination is the worst thing i see. Anyhow, we should not let this go at the expense of the gentleman-culture. These two cards should not be mixed, like it is being now, where we (men and women) should be as equal that it ends going at the expense of both of us. This is how we wither. Men dies. Becomes something that is a middleground between a man and a woman.
It is not about being tough, bench a ton in the gym, or to be a top-leader like the training-magazines and self-help books are talking about. A real man is a real man on the inside, and acts like it. Especially in his treatment of women.
We should look forward and evolve, yes, but sometimes we need to look backwards. Some things were hella much better before. And the respect starts in the small. The small things, which actually are the huge things, that amounts to the big difference. Are you going out this weekend?
Then the post goes to list a bunch of things a "REAL MAN" should do. I continue to translate:
Dress properly.
-Hold the door, and if you can pull the chair out for her. When she stands up to go to the toilet, stand up, and stand up again when she comes back.
-Pick her up, walk her to the door if you can. If you dont have a car, pick her up in a taxi. If you dont have money, aquire money before you start inviting out girls. Nobody likes a cheap idiot.
-Always reserve a table when going to a restaurant. Dont be the guy who doesn't reserve and stands there like an idiot. Let her pick out where she wants to sit.
-Dont pull out your phone, and always have the sound off. No, it is not accepted even though you have a good excuse.
-Always pay everything. Tip the waiter, and always more than 10%. Be nice to the waiter.
-If it's cold, give her your jacket. DONT ASK if she wants it. Put it over her shoulders. If you ask, she will tell you no out of courtesy.
-Dont "try anything" on the first date. Even though how many "signs" you're getting.
-Burn and forget everything you know about "pickup" and "getting laid 101". This trash is written by superficial non-men that are only after superficial gold-diggers. This is not the girl you want to take out, or later, home.
Massive cringe list over, but wait, theres more...
Easy driving rules, isn't it? If you're now thinking "Oh my god, do i have to pick her up and stand up when she is going to the toilet?" No, you dont have to. You dont have to do anything. You can keep withering with the rest of the people who wonders if the "have" to do anything.
So onto the next, the everyday stuff...
BLABLABLA this white-knight goes on to list a bunch of courtesy stuff, like smiling to strangers, and questioning the readers if they are doing any of this, or are they just thinking about themselves.
What kind of society do we want? I know what kind i want. I wish to see young boys growing up to become real men, that treats women with the respect they deserve, and that do the little extra so that women can feel safe in a society that are becoming more and more "use and throw", where it is socially acceptable in most gangs of boys to touch girls sexually on a night out in the city. (If you do that i hope you break both of your arms, and that they wont heal for years to come"
blablablabla
We "elders" should set an example for our sons, younger brothers and others. The man's duty is, and has always been, to protect and care for the woman. In their way, they take care of us too, so it goes both ways. This should not change, even though how far equality reaches, because equality is not about men and women being alike, but it is about acknowledging the differences nature has given us, respecting eachother and take care of eachother. We men should keep holding the door, giving out jackets to the women, act like proper people and be respectable and polite, with women, even the ones we dont know.
Despite everything, we are lucky to have a beautiful woman saying yes to meet us, spend a night with us or more. Show her you appreciate it. Show the world, that you are a REAL man. Set an example with your integrity and attitude. Fucking grow up already.
It's about not withering.
I am absolutely speechless, and I had to share this with you guys. After swallowing the redpill, and seeing its positive effects in my life, i am totally baffeled how some people live and ACTUALLY think like this. Talk about pedastalizing!
Sorry for long post. I hope you read it, because for me it was a real eye-opener to how many people actually are this brainwashed to believe in all this. The post is even liked by over 3000+ people and shared over 6000+ times. The comment section consists of hundreds of hundreds of women going "Amen!!", "Couldnt agree more!!", "If we only had real men in this society!", "Read this to my husband so he knows he's not alone!"
Tell me what you think.
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