Any else been "zeroed out"?

hedged6161 · 2020-09-29T21:18:59+00:00

This alone is a reason to not get married.

Musicgoon · 2020-09-29T21:15:43+00:00

I have. In my early 30's I was married to a BPD woman. She cheated on me, hit me and murdered my dogs. She dangles my daughter like a carrot. I fucking hate her. But onto the story. I wrote it out so let me see if I can copy it.....

Ah, here is what I posted a few weeks ago:

In my mid 20's I was somewhat decent at game. good enough to get 2 or 3 girls a year. To an inexperienced guy, this was good. You get your one girl, your job is done. You ride it out until she decides its not working, you get dumped. you cry like a bitch for a week or two then you go looking again...

I moved to a new city with a girl I was seeing. and everything changed. She baby trapped me, abused me emotionally then physically, ruined my credit, isolated me from all my friends and family, and murdered my dogs. She was a true predator. I was stupid enough to listen to everyone say ,"Do the right thing and marry her for your kid MG". I was a fool. A fool with severe PTSD.

I cannot stress how awful this was. Like being in jail or hell. She got really fat during that time and cheated on me non-stop. I didn't care because I hated her. So, porn and I became great friends.

Years later, she drained our bank account to fly to korea to fuck some guy. I sold EVERYTHING I ever loved and owned to leave her. I was homeless and couch surfed. Then lived in a old crusty RV for a while. It was better than being with her.

When you crawl out of the pits of hell, all you have is freedom. Nothing is sweeter. I wanted to live. Being with her honestly made me want to die. I'm just being real here.

I started living for myself. I went to every single concert I could go to, and wanted to fuck lots of women and feel alive. I studied game and looked at examples of all the successful guys that I knew. I stumbled upon the red pill. I relentlessly went after women. It didn't matter if I got shot down, I would go after any girl that I found attractive. A no didn't hurt at all after the damage of the last relationship.

I did Keto for my health, and then started lifting because I wanted to be proud and have control of something. Family court fucks you over. That's depressing so be prepared for unfair and ugly shit. Document everything.

At the end of the day, I had control over my, body, my frame, my guitar playing and game. Repetition of relentless pickup got me really good at game. It became an addiction. I would challenge myself: "Can insult my way into a date and sex? Can I game 2 girls at once? How many different girls can I bang in one day before my cock can't handle it?"... I seriously didn't give a fuck and just wanted to celebrate my freedom. Not much has changed, I just have a bit more dominance and a lot more muscle.

My daughter has been a fight with her mom. when she stirs up drama, I go silent. I don't engage or DEER. I don't get as much time as i like with my daughter, but I get to show her contrast. A stable living environment and good conflict resolution. I'm playing the long game. She will eventually grow to despise her mom and she loves me.

I'm currently in a big townhome with my OLTR. I use the time away from my kid to better myself. My girl and I game and bed women together.

Enjoy your freedom bro, this wave of bullshit will pass. If you need more help, feel free to DM me.

iny_m · 2020-09-29T21:01:16+00:00

jesus that scares the shit out of me and i’m mid twenties..

if this happened a decade ago, imagine the women now a days. cock carouseling chads and always thinking they deserve better at a touch of a phone screen they can find a chad.

sometimes I think these women need to be accountable for their actions by some system that hasnt been built yet. Like some type of digital scan code on them that allows to know their past and how many men they fucked. without any lies or bullshit.

failingtheturingtest · 2020-09-30T00:21:21+00:00

I'm going to focus on the one part of your post I can address.

So yeah, it's hard to see having a very fulfilled life being alone, single, and fucking plates the rest of my life.

How long have you spent being fit, healthy, active, single and fucking plates?

I have very fulfilling relationships with women and friends. 'plates" to me aren't just sheilas to fuck. Some I get to spend some genuinely fun and memorable times with. Most are fleeting, a few months at best. Some leave and get a boyfriend, come back later. In the meantime, I continue growing, have great relationships with friends, and meet new and interesting people.

I still have a desire to meet someone I'll choose to stay with and have children with. I've thought I'd met that person a few times and later realised I was wrong.

My mood is much more affected by my successes and failures at work, and how well I've been crushing my gym/sleep/diet routine.

By not pinning all my hopes and happiness on women or a women, I get to enjoy my time with them much more. When one starts feeling like she wants something else, she walks away. And I get to remember the fun we had and wish her well. She will often reach out later, either because she didn't get what she wanted, or just in a friendly way.

I'm more fulfilled with my own company, my own successes, and my friendships than I ever was in a committed relationship.

Eat, sleep, lift and work like your life depends on it. Because it does.

jjj2576 · 2020-09-29T21:01:58+00:00

Eh— kinda?

My ex wife gave me a black eye. Told the cops I beat the shit out of her. Had to go to anger management and some alcohol classes to get the domestic violence knocked down to a misdemeanor.

It was pretty awful. I was pretty awful. I only discovered RP a bit over a year ago, and I tricked myself into thinking I was growing. I held onto this ideal of marriage, even though everyone around me knew things were done. She cheated on me multiple times. Hit me multiple times, and I was the one arrested. I was the one labeled as abusive.

Aaaaaaaand it was my own fucking fault for not realizing how many better women were out there.

Your growth is your growth. If a lass enriches your life, kick it with her. If she sucks, then get a blowjob and move on. Maybe promote her to an LTR. I’m in an LTR again, but it’s different this time— if any of the things that happened before happened again, I’d be out like a fat kid playing dodgeball.

I still have a lot of growth to do. Need to cut calories and cut back on drinking. At the end of the day, my growth is my growth. Only a bitch hinders his own growth.

johnnywins1121 · 2020-09-29T21:15:26+00:00

I had a relationship ending pretty spectacularly and was really physically and mentally depleted for two years. Then recovered. Sports and good nutrition helped. Try to get off alcohol gradually, I realize it might be an appealing crutch but it’s poison for your hormones and wellbeing.

RedEyeBlackEye1 · 2020-09-30T00:02:35+00:00

They shame,blame,gaslight, manipulate,and Dodge accountability.

It's just what they do. We have to try to take the good with the bad, I guess.

Good luck,stay safe

BlondeHornyElf · 2020-09-30T03:07:47+00:00

I was zeroed out at around 30 years old by my 25 year old LTR girlfriend of 5 years.

Similar story as you only I'm younger and no kids... honest hard-working guy, fell in love with a girl, but showed some beta-tendencies over the years and put a lot of trust into her, she cheated on me with a co-worker of mine in my graduate studies department and this created total chaos in my life.

When i called them out on it, she decided to tell everyone, including my co-workers, my boss, and our mutual friends, that I was "abusive" and "narcissistic". What totally shocked me was that even though she was the one who cheated, everyone believed and sided with her. I remember people telling me "wow you fucked up" while I was legit having panic attacks in private because of how betrayed I felt. What was even crazier was that this "friend" of mine, who fucked her, was married at the time and his wife was not happy about this at all. I threatened to **** him for cucking me and he and his wife promptly left town and he quit the program.

So after my ex-gf's lover left with his wife, she tried to sink her teeth back into me. I immediately went into damage-control mode and started lifting, bought new clothes, re-created myself, and started dating new girls. At this time my ex was frantically chasing me and trying to find space in my life, but only when she knew I had other girls in my life, and this only made me resent her even more kuz I knew she was only treating me well due to hypergamy and not because I was a good man.

But there was a big problem here... as much as I was forcing myself to move on, she was also working in the same building at the time. Ever so gradually she started to date new people and throw it in my face. At this point I became a non-person to her and she treated me like an enemy. I went from being the guy she loved more than anyone to a complete nobody, and she managed to keep most of my friends who I had introduced her to. It was incredibly difficult to have to see this girl around in my life at work and have to avoid her during social functions. Her games wore me down after a while.

So in terms of getting "zeroed out"... she basically destroyed the social circles I had built through my teens and 20s because nobody wants to be associated with an "abuser". And she made my work life hell for years. Now I'm unemployed due to COVID and starting over again.

My biggest anxiety is rebuilding so much of my social life from scratch in my 30s. I can really sympathize with older guys who get zeroed out and have absolutely nobody that cares for them, because you invested so much into a few selected relationships that turned out to be meaningless. If people have to choose between the bubbly blonde-haired hottie or their childhood friend, I'm sorry to say but a lot of people will go for the popular girl and sell their friend out.

It's been a while since all this happened but it had a lasting damaging effect on my life. I wasn't perfect in that relationship but I never even considered to lie to her or cheat on her. I think girls feel that cheating is basically on the same level as having an argument with them, or calling her out for lying or stuff like that. They don't realize that cheating on someone who loves and trusts them can cause lasting trauma. They don't experience cheating in the same way but for a man that is the ultimate insult and cannot be forgiven. I let her know during our relationship that that is the line in the sand for me - that cheating is the one thing I will never forgive. Well she crossed it and other than losing me there were no consequences for her actions. Now even my closest male buddies from my teen years hang out at her boyfriend's house and they are surprised that I don't reach out to them very often anymore.

I try to be an honest and "honorable" guy but life experience is making me wonder if I'm just fooling myself with that shit. She wasn't some dirtbag or anything so I'm really not sure how to vet or trust women now.

DDD50_ · 2020-09-30T00:27:49+00:00

Zeroed out doesn't necessarily have to come from a woman.

Sometimes your whole life is just deadwood. Instead of piling on more and more into what doesn't work, it's better to burn it all away and start from scratch.

A man always has to be ready to start over from nothing, to have the confidence that he can build the life he wants from zero. That's frame.

SpringsSoonerArrow · 2020-09-30T02:13:22+00:00

Oh hell yeah. First wife. In the military. After seven years, she flakes and wants a divorce. Was working up to three jobs to support our kids and her champagne lifestyle on our beer budget. Wasn't a complete fucking surprise but what happened next was. First I found out from her best friend, who was married and trying to get me to ball her, that one of my two best friends had been banging her for years while I was deployed. Great! Then the wife tells me the real reason for the divorce is that she's in love.With my other best friend. WTF! A week later she calls me at work and demands I deposit the CS money in his bank account. They had left the state, got married and my kids and her moved 400 miles away to where he was posted at.

Overnight (about 10 days actually but it felt like overnight), no wife, no kids, no best friends and I've got to pay the rancid little chucklefuck for this?

Time, patience, banging anything and everything, a little alcohol, continually switching employers for bigger bucks and figuring out just WTF happened to me? Too much work, too trusting of both friends and not enough attention paid to the scheming, whoring wife.

Was able to forgive myself and then everybody else within two years. (You have to forgive them, that shit will eat you up if you don't). Three years after that my daughter hates them and moves back home with me at age twelve. My step-son gets partially brainwashed by them but he's not upset with me, he just couldn't have a normal home life if he showed me any attention at all. They'd punish him like they tried with my daughter.

Came out just fine.

Edit: No internet back then so no RP for me at that point.

WinterAmphibian2 · 2020-09-30T01:50:07+00:00

Fuck, I am living this nightmare right now. I guess now I have a name for it. The exact same thing happened to me, Exactly. I'm 3 years out from catching her in the act fucking her co-worker (used a private investigator). After I lost my house that I put so much sweat into, and battling in court just to lose 90k of my retirement and money I didn't really have, I'm finally starting to feel like I can be a functional part of society, but I'm with you, there were many times I just wanted to drive my car right off a bridge. My ex is an alcoholic narcissist, but the courts don't fucking care. She could have walked into court with a needle in her arm, and they'd still give her what ever she wanted. She has been remarried for a year and a half now (her higschool boy friend that I always knew was trying to get her back) as a has another kid with him. I have nothing and have spent the last 2 years barely getting by. I actually have a date this weekend but I've gotta say, nothing takes your confidence like what I've just detailed above. I follow this page, and am starting to implement the tools, but still feel like I'm stuck in quick sand. I'm with you, I will never fall for that trick again. It's just not worth it. Fucking Zereoed out....

EverythingToGold · 2020-09-30T02:27:59+00:00

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sportsdude523 · 2020-09-29T21:41:23+00:00

kindaish. not to your extent. bless you and keep strong. you're great.

when i was growing up i had wished iwas the most popular guy so i could get the girls. etc. you know the drill.

but i'm actually GLAD now that I was not the most popular guy. being the most popuar severely reduces the likelihood that your woman will decide to expose the crazy AWALT side of behavior in hserlf that TRP explains.

if you go through life up until your 30's and 40's and then see the crazy side while you're married, i can't imagine how difficult that would be.

i feel fortunate i experienced it in my 20's. and then i found paul elam on youtube. and then i found TRP. and it simply astounded me how similar so many men's experiences were to mine with women. and that it wasn't an individual case with me and a girl. it was AWALT.

and with understanding AWALT, then i began to understand the frameworks of how to deal with women and not let it get to me and understand that it's part of life having to manage this behavior.

AltruisticBeautiful7 · 2020-09-29T23:55:19+00:00

Dude i didnt but if i were i would think like that: You fullfilled your biological duty (reproduce), which means your genes r going forward.

Your children are being taken care by your money. They may end up being morons by the mother creation but maybe not, but at least you know they arent going to the street. If thats the role the black widow want for you, fuck it.

U know what that mean? From now on just enjoy life. U did your part. Crush wherever u want to crush. Let the bitch talk. Move to fucking Thailand if u want.

And stop the booze cause u'll only crush yourself.

Big_Red_suppository · 2020-09-30T01:40:54+00:00

You're barely improving if you're drinking every day and yeah, drinking everyday is a pretty valid reason to drop you.

The problem with alcoholics who keep drinking everyday is the same as big fat fucks acting like they arent miserable. Because its all they know. Its 'normal' to them. A great day for people who are always miserable is hell for a normal person, but you don't know it.

used2befast · 2020-09-30T13:43:25+00:00

I just got "zeroed out". And I got fucking shafted.

I made the mistake of marrying a well educated, successful narcissist. She's an attorney and politician.

Throughout our 13 year marriage she gave estate planning advice to both my parents as well as business advice to my father.

To my surprise in my recent divorce, she was going after EVERYTHING. The estate of my mom who's body was barely at room temperature. My fathers real estate holdings. All my companies.

I have 2 beautiful kids whom I love dearly that I've lost. My wife knew the system and the players and used it to her advantage. I got the EOW screw job along with her relocating 5.5 hours away.

I'm doing ok given. Bad days when I cry at the thought of not seeing my little kids. Other days I'm occupied with my business and keep a clear positive mind. I have a nice gf that helps keep my mind away from the train wreck of my past. Try to keep busy and focus on making yourself happy and loving yourself.

I've posted it before but I'll restate for any young lads considering marriage. Here's what it cost me:

-12 years of a dead bedroom.

-$460,000 to ex wife

-$90,000 current legal bills to date for me.

-Lost my kids.

i-am-the-prize · 2020-09-30T14:54:00+00:00

not what you're asking for, but this is why it happened, for the other readers:

" After years and years of building your life around this woman and sacrificing for her and putting her first in everything [I did]..."

^^ this is why its your fault. you believed this was the right thing to do. and it's not. Not for you. nor for her, nor your family.

And you may be angry that she didn't tell you - but she likley did, via an increase in her shittesting, and increase in her cuntiness, and an increase in her lack of putting YOU first, in her withdrawal and lack of affection. many guys see these signs and think: "man, what did I do to piss her off, i better try harder..." When that's actually how they are telling you they are checking out.

So for the other readers: Dont' live like that. Work on yourself. Put yourself first. Work less hours so that you have a work/life balance (and "life" = "personal life", not just more honey-do lists, ie: your fitness, your hobbies, your passions).

Now, OP, the reason you're angry is 2 fold:

you regret how things turned out, and the real impacts it had on family and finance
you still long for the (disney) fantasy

The fact that you're drinking so much means that you haven't put yourself first, yet. YOU are your own longest LTR. Question: If the love of your life was drinking too much, daily, and hurting herself would you do everything in your manly power to help her stop and be a better person? Then fucking do it for yourself, man.

319Skew · 2020-09-30T02:41:31+00:00

Aside for the cheating bit that's pretty much my story. The details are fucked up but basically friends and family helped me from ending it. Afterwards went on a self discovery journey that I'm still on. I'll post more details if anyone is interested.

throwawaypain345 · 2020-09-30T04:13:18+00:00

Me. I am living through it. Divorced 2 months ago, and honestly not over it yet. Going through hell. I think of killing myself daily, and my drive to better myself completely disappeared...

RevolutionaryPea7 · 2020-09-30T09:03:56+00:00

Thanks so much for sharing this. It's so important for men to be regularly reminded about the truth, otherwise they will regress into a blue pill state. It's our natural inclination to treat women as innocent and trust them. We must fight these instincts if we are to remain in control of our lives.

My own story happened a lot more quickly and I wasn't zeroed out as I was never married, thankfully. I've never wanted marriage simply because I hate ceremonies like that and I see no logical reason to subject myself to it (or spend my money on it).

My ex would go on trips away and disappear out of contact for days at a time. The possibility of funny business didn't even cross my blue pill mind because women aren't capable of treachery. She was fucking someone else, though. The lies came crumbling down one Christmas and my world view was shattered. It certainly felt like I'd lost everything. I was ashamed to admit that we were over because she cheated. Some of my old blue pill friends are still friends with her and think I broke her heart. Unbelievable. But as a man you are always assumed guilty.

CuntMonteCristo · 2020-09-30T09:08:45+00:00

Females will treat you like a king as long as they need you. Maybe moving to a third world country where females need men can do wonders for a relationship. But always keep her needing you. Never let a situation be created where she doesn't need you, like bringing her to your first world country (if you are in one) and never introduce her to your male friends of higher status. The shittier the country the better it is and obviously check the family and marriage laws, but generally speaking, third world countries do not favor women. As long as she is considerably better with you than without you, you are good. Sad but true... On another note, there is plenty to do and help out in this world that can give you meaning. I'm a big fan of helping orphanages, since I identify with them due to us both having been betrayed and abandoned by those who should have loved and being loyal to us...So maybe help them out, they surely will appreciate it more than our ex-bitches :-) and that is a good start...Wish you the best my brother, things can change for the better!

Blackhawk2479 · 2020-09-30T11:34:15+00:00

Something like 65% of second marriages end in divorce.

That's not a whole lot worse than the 45% of first marriages that end in divorce. Conclusion: don't get married.

it's hard to see having a very fulfilled life being alone, single, and fucking plates the rest of my life.

It can be exceptionally fulfilling and there are many states between fucking plates and marriage that you can occupy.

I'm 41 next month, never been married, no kids, but am director of my own company, make great money, own a house by myself, have quality friends and family and an LTR of approaching four years who has her own place and appreciates her own space as much as I do.

I think the best advice I could give you is live in the now and don't worry too much about the future. This was brought home to me recently by the news that a childhood friend had died of a heart attack aged 40, a few years after his mother died, his daughter died and his wife left him.

His dad lost his wife, child and a grandchild in a relatively short space of time. Nobody knows what lies ahead.

Herdsengineers · 2020-09-30T17:12:50+00:00

Been there, done that. Still not totally recovered from it financially. Likely never will be, but I'm well on my way. To this day, my ex-wife won't admit that her cheating is what ended our marriage. Instead it was that I couldn't get over it.

What kept me going - I have a son, have to be there for him. Also, bad finances or not, I've figured out how to have a good life while finances suck. Then, I eventually worked my out of the financial hole and am actually in a pretty good spot. It could have been fucking amazing, but for now it's just good.

Last thing - I do have a bit of vengeful spirit. My life today is 1000 times better than it ever was married to my ex-wife. And despite the setbacks, and despite her court granted pussy pass (that ends in a little less than 2 years now), I'm so much better off of than her. The best revenge has been living well. People seeing it play out figure out the reality of it all. Takes time, but especially when my son hits 18 and child support ends, she's fucked unless she makes some kind of drastic change in her life (LOL! won't happen). And I'm looking forward to watching the fall when it happens, seeing her have to finally lay down in the bed soaked in dog shit that she has made for herself.

When you can strut in, and know that you did it all right, worked your way through hard times, built up to better times - that's self respect right there. Nobody can take it away from you, and once it sinks in, the depression and what not just melts away. Other hard things and setbacks happen, but they don't bug you anymore because you've learned how to maintain a good life no matter the circumstances and you know you'll get past whatever happened and be okay.

SteveSan82 · 2020-09-30T04:42:57+00:00

I take it you read The Rational Male? Time to drop the booze.

rocketboy44 · 2020-09-30T05:17:01+00:00

something similar happened to my uncle as well. very amazing man who was doing very well for someone who grew up in a low income community and family. sadly he took his own life I think he was in his late twenties to early 30s. (i’m not sure i was young) wife revealed that his second child (5-6 months old at the time) wasn’t his so basically he had been taking care of someone’s kid the whole time.

i am very happy that you didn’t take your life and you managed to overcome it. but stuff like this happens and it’s scary.

thesoloronin · 2020-09-30T07:41:58+00:00

I kinda got zeroed out. I said “kinda” because I went through pretty much the part where my ex spouted unfounded accusations on me and everyone didn’t just questioned why she had her outburst, but even my closest family asked ME FIRST, WTF did I do to her to cause her to behave like that.

Only reason I’m still alive is cause we weren’t married and there’s no bun in the oven. I can’t imagine myself actually being zeroed out for real.

I might not make it fellas. I just might not.

itsmekabir_123 · 2020-09-30T09:20:45+00:00

I have been zeroed out but not to that extent as mentioned in ur Post. I'm 17 and I loved my ex gf more than anything. I was basically a beta bitch and did everything for her.

Jeez I even went to her house and proposed her to marry me when we reach the appropriate age,her mom took it as a joke lmao but I didn't. But soon I realized she was sleeping around with her ex who used to come once in a while and bang her (he was staying at a hostel),she even flirted with each nd every guy and gave blowjobs to by best frnd 😅. But im happy bcoz due to that experience I started read bout red pill.

Sometimes we need to be zeroed before we become the men we are meant to be 💪

Max-hex · 2020-09-30T10:26:03+00:00

Kinda. Was in a LTR with a BPD woman for about 6 months. She ended up cheating on me with her ex. So i broke up with her. Took about a month of to myself then started pimping again. But reading some of the other stories here I feel super grateful i didn’t knock her up or let the relationship go on.

clickherebaby · 2020-09-30T13:04:33+00:00

If it's any consolation, id be dead if i were you. The fact that you recovered in 3 years is amazing

TheChadofChad · 2020-10-01T03:51:16+00:00

I can't imagine what you have been through, because I have never experienced it. It sounds dreadful honestly.

It also sounds like you've been given a unique opportunity. A true clean slate. There are just as many men who are getting it slowly and painfully. They married a tiger who slowly feasts on their flesh. She ate good bit of you, but there's more than you think left. You are still living and capable of making a new life.

You will never have any the necessary drive when you anywhere close to her. Pick up, leave, new city, new everything, new life. Anyone who actually cares about you, will reach out and you will see them again.

Personally, Id lock down in the cheapest living conditions possible. Sell Everything. Work like a dog for 6 months, while agreesively studying Mandarin or Filipino. Sell what's left. Move to Thailand or the Philippines.

KidBrody77 · 2020-10-01T19:56:25+00:00

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Jdamoftruth · 2020-09-30T01:38:07+00:00

Any else been "zeroed out"?

I personally haven't, but I heard a grown man crying almost uncontrollably whole he was getting divorced

In addition, you'll be required under penalty of going to prison to pay her roughly 40% of your income in alimony and child support for years and years into the future and there isn't a god damn thing you can do about it.

There is...I would just leave the country.

That's when I found the red pill and started the journey of finding my purpose.

This. I got hurt by a women early in HS and just decided to not be that committed to them ever again or put myself in the position to be that vulnerable

So yeah, it's hard to see having a very fulfilled life being alone, single, and fucking plates the rest of my life.

You don't have to be alone, you can elevate a plate to a LTR, do a poly relationship, or something....just not marriage.

EverythingToGold · 2020-09-30T02:45:26+00:00

OP mind sharing your experience of being zeroed out?

Joe_Doblow · 2020-09-30T09:27:55+00:00

*Something like 65% of second marriages end in divorce. I would be an idiot to chance being divorce raped a second time.*

unless she's richer than you

ZachMeadows · 2020-09-30T09:42:27+00:00

I've been zero'ed out at 31. Mainly because I moved to the city where my ex lived.

I've run away from my family in the past so I'm used to starting over. Granted it is emotionnaly harder when you are older, but it is practically easier since you should have money, a job, a place to live, etc... to get your life back on track.

Now I don't care if people come and go. I have a handful of friends I can count on anytime.

thecarryone · 2020-09-30T12:36:34+00:00

Scary as fuck, sorry that happen to you brother. Best of luck on your pathway.

TheBachelor536 · 2020-09-30T14:34:42+00:00

MGTOW is the only rational course of action. I was married once....briefly...no kids...to a cheater. I began divorce proceedings the day I found out.....no counseling...no reconciliation....just tossed her out. Life got better the day I was freed from the legal obligation and I would never consider being in any sort of relationship now.

AuberyBitoni · 2020-09-30T15:49:11+00:00

This post reminded me of my dad.

Indiana2LA · 2020-10-03T16:21:45+00:00

I had something like this happen to me at a company I used to work at. Dated a woman I worked with a few months. Dumb decisions on my part. I ended things because she was acting a bit crazy from time to time. In the following year she vandalized my car on several occasions, moved down the street from me, followed me around my neighborhood, etc. I went to management about her and they did nothing. HR Director even told me that "because she's a woman, she can do and say what she wants". She even admitted to management that she put stuff on my car and she didn't get fired.

I ended up getting canned because they didn't want a lawsuit. So I got another job. But the stalking continued. Not only that, but the company and people who worked there started to turn on me to. Tried to make it look like I was the one causing problems which is why I got let go.

That is until I filed for a restraining order and the court approved it. Not only she, but upper management had to come into court and explain what they had done. The feeling of catching these people and having them held accountable was glorious. Hearing isn't over yet, but the judge reissued her temporary restraining order at the end of the last hearing.

So, while it's not completely over yet, it's looking good. And let me tell you this: If she gets the full RO approved, that company (Very well known company that I can't name, but you would recognize the product immediately if I told you what it was) is going to be in very deep trouble and I'm potentially looking at a tasty settlement offer from them.

Long story short, any man who is red pill will most likely face this bullsh*t at some point or another. Especially if you're a high value man. I was a top salesman at this company and really had my sh*t together. People didn't like me because of it. So, if you do get zeroed out, my words of advice are NEVER GIVE UP IN RECLAIMING YOUR LIFE. A-lot of these feminists and man-ginas are cowards that will back off once you stand up for yourself and hit them in the face, figuratively speaking of course.

Noodlesoupe2 · 2020-09-30T02:20:49+00:00

You only get zeroed out if you’re stupid enough to fall for a BPD chick. If you vet well and are smart you won’t.

Title	Any else been "zeroed out"?
Author	KidBrody77
Upvotes	228
Comments	132
Date	September 29, 2020 8:37 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/j27nvv/any_else_been_zeroed_out/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/any-else-been-zeroed-out.275421 https://theredarchive.com/post/275421

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