Gf “catching up” with old ldr that ghosted her

bsutansalt · 2019-05-24T03:51:48+00:00

This is classic alpha widow behavior.
You are witnessing branch swinging in action.
The secrecy of her deleting the text thread says it all. If this were just her chatting with an old friend/orbiter who's coming to town and you were all going to catch up, then there'd be no need to hide it from you.
The secrecy is multifaceted. Notice she never mentioned YOU to him? If a woman doesn't want to fuck a guy she'll tell him she has a boyfriend even if she doesn't. If a woman does want to fuck a guy, she'll take steps to make sure he never finds out about her bf/husband. You just found yourself in the latter example.

Hot_Pink_Knob · 2019-05-23T23:55:45+00:00

Bruh break up with her right now. She has no desire to fuck you anymore. Seriously just block her and disappear.

SalporinRP · 2019-05-24T00:34:36+00:00

Yeah bro this is a breakup easily. If she hasn't fucked him already she's probably planning to. And even if she isn't no gf of mine is gonna disrespect me by talking to her ex like that fuck that.

I've been there before dude it sucks but just rip the band-aid off and dump her ass.

Timely4ct · 2019-05-23T23:53:18+00:00

Is that her sending pics? To another guy? Man you deserve better than this. Tell her you want to end things and move on. Don’t tell her you checked her phone.

PaddyI3187 · 2019-05-24T02:38:38+00:00

I am deeply sorry that this is happening to you. You’ve called her your “GF” so I assume you’re pretty invested in her, so this has got to hurt.

I know you’ve read red pill stuff and are already familiar with its philosophies... but this is your actual red pill moment right now. This is where you see the depravity that women - even ones you’re close to - are capable of. Welcome to the brotherhood.

Respect yourself enough to get out. I know want to convince yourself that this is no big deal, or that you can fix this. You can’t. She has no legitimate reason to send pics of herself to a past lover. She has no legitimate reason to hide her relationship with you from a past lover. And she has no legitimate reason to accept heart emojis and flattery from a past lover without correcting him. You know what this is.

Get out. I’d like to say you’ll be happier for it, but I can’t promise you that. One thing I can promise you, though, is this - if you stay, this will get worse and worse. She’ll be more and more brazen, and you’ll be more and more humiliated until it erodes your self-respect and puts you in a horribly unhealthy place.

One more thing. A lot of folks are saying you shouldn’t tell her you read her messages. Tell her whatever you damn well please. It doesn’t matter at this point.

Respect yourself. Do not tolerate this behavior.

RedSkeller · 2019-05-23T23:48:47+00:00

Dump her ass, don't take her on vacation, never speak to her again.

asorals · 2019-05-23T23:58:04+00:00

I'd be dumping the fuck out of her with no explanation.

Drazicc85 · 2019-05-23T23:46:53+00:00

Monkey branch - next it

izaacibanez97 · 2019-05-24T00:55:14+00:00

Buddy, drop her ass with no explanation. Don’t tell her you read her messages, and don’t tell her the reason. Keep it simple and say it’s not working out. This woman is absolutely looking to cheat and your self worth should demand more from a partner than just accepting that. Cut your losses and you’ll be fine.

sircomeseyesd · 2019-05-24T00:33:25+00:00

Yikes

cloudwarmer · 2019-05-24T01:01:27+00:00

Ghost her like he did

She's not in your frame.

find some plates, start spinning

misls · 2019-05-24T00:13:39+00:00

I’d really appreciate any advice on how to handle this situation.

If you really need advice on this, no one can help you.

BiscottiGeneral · 2019-05-24T06:57:47+00:00

Bro she’s already emotionally cheating on you with a guy who uses the shy monkey emoji. This is as low as it gets.

Irtotallynotrobot · 2019-05-24T00:40:09+00:00

Yeah. You know the answer.

KoolAidMan7980 · 2019-05-24T02:09:00+00:00

The minute you checked her phone you knew your relationship had a problem. Now youre on here looking for someone to validate you that “its not that bad” or shes “just seeking validation”. You are a fucking pussy. Period. End of discussion. You wanna play red pill man on Reddit but dont want to make the uncomfortable and hard decisions that come with being a man. Does your situation suck. Yep. But thats life, pussy.

This isnt a my girl likes to eat out and I like to stay home and eat, are we compatible question. Youre girl is talking to other men and then deceiving you by purposely deleting text conversations. That means she is taking active steps to betray you. So keep following here, pussy. That means she isnt able to be loyal to you...which should be the baseline standard a person should have in a relationship.

Its decisions like this that reveal the type of man you are. Do you like to read red pill but are scared to take action because there could be some uncomfortable consequences or are you a man of action who decides his own fate and wont be dragged down by a low value woman?

BigDickEnergy123 · 2019-05-24T02:41:44+00:00

You're a fucking idiot if you continue a relationship with her after seeing this.

That's all I have to say.

tb151 · 2019-05-24T01:12:03+00:00

You missed a golden opportunity to take a pic of your junk and text it right then and there. Sorry bro, but these guys are right.

Tachankers · 2019-05-24T00:59:03+00:00

next bro, don’t hurt yourself

uptimex · 2019-05-24T05:37:44+00:00

I know you don't want to dump her as now you don't have another plate to spin (not a branch to swing). But you really need to understand that even if you fix this, it'll repeat soon. So here is the list what you can do to make easier your breakup, but do it immediately after you ghosted her:

Register on Tinder or/and othet dating platforms and start swiping.
Remember all the girls you dated or you were going to date and see if you can call someone out.
Go to some trip (not disneyland). Some hiking with a group of people.
Go to shooting range, it will boost your confidence. Shooting always does.
Find a good place to go out in the evenings. And start going there every night. Some place with music and girls. If you are a calm, introverted person, some Jazz club can work.
You can continue this list. If you know what to do after, it will be easier to do what is neccessary.

bsutansalt · 2019-05-24T03:47:05+00:00

Time to PITA and dump her cold. She's already setting up the branch swing now that he's back in her field of view. Alpha Widows, not even once!

Jabbermouth · 2019-05-24T01:26:33+00:00

Dump her with zero explanation. No closure for her. Just block and disappear. Cancel the trip to Disney and don’t go. If you have any respect for yourself you’ll take the advice that’s been given to you.

IV-IVm-I · 2019-05-24T00:47:56+00:00

bye bye

BiscottiGeneral · 2019-05-24T06:52:03+00:00

She said she’s going to “Disney” with her nieces and her family. So you let her do exactly that. If you even consider going to Disneyland, you’ve cucked yourself.

Morpheus_TNTB · 2019-05-24T00:55:36+00:00

Can you forward her #? She sounds really nice!

comu_nacho · 2019-05-24T01:19:25+00:00

I'd also text the guy saying that you got a nasty STD from her and you're both on treatment, so she gets double ghosted. And actually get tested, 'cause you just may. This is the conversation you found, how could you be sure he's the first ex she contacts?

certplom · 2019-05-24T06:23:19+00:00

Hey man,

I'm sorry this is happening to you. Unfortunately (or rather fortunately) I know exactly what you feel right now. You might feel confused, you might feel angry and at the same time trying to convince yourself that this isn't that much of a deal or that you can even look past this.

I am saying this because I was in the same exact situation about 2 years ago (pre-red pill) and I did not act on it. What have I learned from that? This shit will continue and it will get only worse from here. I didn't have the balls back then to leave and it caused a lot of damage to my self-esteem and what not.

Please, do yourself a favour and leave. How you handle it is completely up to (in regards if you know about those texts or not). Again, if you don't leave it will not end well for you. Its been 2 years and sometimes I still get pissed about it. Don't be me.

Edit: typo

thesquarerootof1 · 2019-05-24T01:38:34+00:00

You're an idiot. Break up with her you beta male. Your dumbass lets women walk all over you.

sircomeseyesd · 2019-05-24T00:49:51+00:00

How often do you guys check phones?

Jsieijejeieokkd · 2019-05-24T01:41:06+00:00

She doesn’t respect you!

mrmaldoror · 2019-05-24T02:59:34+00:00

She doesn't value your time and commitment, act accordingly.

kingbigbucket · 2019-05-24T04:59:59+00:00

Sooo... what were those pictures and the video of??? Regardless, HARD next.

cuztrp · 2019-05-24T10:47:17+00:00

Alright listen up and listen up good.

I think there's a consensus that your relationship is going downhill and here is how to come out victorious. The other guys here summarized it pretty well she's in the process of branch swining and you're feeling the cuckolding feeling and it really sucks big time.

But here is how to regenerate faster after breakup: you should be in control.

Up until this point, she's so in control. She's moving her pieces on the chess board and she's executing a well-thought plan and all's well. She's still setting the scene for that big bloody checkmate at the end. What you should do is simply flip the chess board over her face; thus you gain control over where this is going.

Trust me on this, studies have shown that those who are in control of the breakup feel much better and more satisfied after they break up with their partner. If she breaks up with you, it's not gonna feel good and it'll take months to recover. But if YOU fuck up her plans and break up with her instead, she will get fucked up and she won't know what to and what used to be soon-to-be a better option is now not worth it.

Here's what you should do. Go see her. Fuck her brains out as roughly as you can. Show her your true prowess, and record everything in audio. Especially her vocal consent that she wanted to fuck. Then remove yourself from the environment and text her this, "This relationship is over. Never call or text me again". And block her thot ass off social media and all means of communication. No explanation whatsoever. Then lie back and watch her getting all fucked up as to why you did it.

From this point, she'll desperately try to reach out for you asking for a closure, but you'll never give it to her because you don't need it. If she manages to trap you somewhere in real life, simply say that the relationship is over and that's it.

You'll see how you'll feel. The clearance of mind you'll get and the peacefulness that you're not with someone who's not appreciating your worth will make you feel very satisfied.

If you contrinue to stay with "reaping the benefits", growing distant by the time and getting yourself detached, you'll achieve totally the opposite. Don't do this. It's not gonna work. The effects of breaking up with you will be so tremendous you won't be able to handle it. This is why you should do fuck her one last time good and then let her go.

Good luck in there my friend. Sincerely wish you all the best.

Yummmi · 2019-05-24T02:50:21+00:00

Unless you get the balls to next her you’re going to go through hell for the next little while until she ends up cheating on you. Don’t hurt yourself man. Just break up with her, No explanation. Ghost her and move on. This is pure disrespect to you. There are tons of other girls out there with better looks and personality that will actually respect you.

Rkingpin · 2019-05-24T00:54:45+00:00

Ghost

NaughtybutNice17 · 2019-05-24T01:33:07+00:00

Damm I’m sorry man

Jsieijejeieokkd · 2019-05-24T01:40:53+00:00

Agree dump, ghost, no contact. Now!

GirTheRobot · 2019-05-24T01:29:00+00:00

This guy giving her validation and shit. She's gonna get real bored with him real fucking quick.

watchguy45 · 2019-05-24T01:51:41+00:00

You have only 1 option.

You will sit her down. Tell her you don’t think you guys are compatible and that you want to break it off. Block and never speak to her again.

I’m sorry and it sucks, but be grateful you’re learning this lesson now.

You will respect yourself tenfold if you take this plan of action.

You could say oh no biggie and stay and fuck but you will lose respect for yourself.

Good luck.

Soon_As_I_Nut · 2019-05-24T01:57:01+00:00

You know the right answer to this. You do not need us to tell you to break up with this girl.

Nergaal · 2019-05-24T03:52:43+00:00

I think most people here were at some point where you are now. And most wish now they had the courage to move on asap. The whole convo is only missing a dick pick to be on \r\cuck

BIGBIRD_eblazio · 2019-05-24T04:56:18+00:00

Ditch her at LAX, head downtown, and never look back. She has to know that there are consequences for every action.

RivenHalf · 2019-05-24T05:05:53+00:00

This is obviously lol you know the answer man. Come on now. And they were literally trading pictures afterwards AND she didn't mention. Man don't ever in your life need to ask about some shit like this again. She should have been nexted before the phone even left your hand. Bitches get cut for a quarter of this bro, where are you balls at!?!?! Damn....just....yeah damn. My condolences

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Cametotherightplace · 2019-05-24T05:12:56+00:00

You're getting the correct advice. Ghost.

throwawayycheyeah · 2019-05-24T07:05:10+00:00

She dont deserve didney worl

TopOccasion29 · 2019-05-24T08:58:39+00:00

You can do this 2 ways with your dignity and self-respect intact.

You can break up with her now, don't tell her the reason and just tell her "it's over" or "it's not working" then delete her from your life, block and delete her number, social media etc. Remember DO NOT TELL HER YOU SAW THE TEXTS, she'll accuse you of invading her privacy and being insecure, controlling etc. If you want to inform her parents of her actions, it's your choice. It's good you have proof if she claims she never did it.
Emotionally detach from her, she's just a fuck buddy from now on. Fuck her hard and rough but don't let your emotions get the best of you. Don't fall for her again. Don't go beta at all. Just go with the flow as her as your fuck buddy. Don't give her time, money or commitment. Don't invest any thing other than your dick in her 3 holes for your pleasure.

Good luck OP.

bestsparkyalive · 2019-05-24T01:49:39+00:00

I think you should probably try and just marry her so you basically guarantee her lifelong commitment to you. You’ve made it clear she’s a catch. A unicorn among AWALTs perhaps....

DadOnDabs · 2019-05-24T02:42:48+00:00

Automatic break up for that.

alleyteris · 2019-05-24T05:50:20+00:00

Think about it:

1)she is in contact with an ex

2) they are flirting

3) she sends him pics and video

4) she deletes the messenges

5) she doesnt mention she has a BF

The choice here is yours:

A) you stay with her knowing that someday she will eventually cheat and you will break up

B) break up now, spare you the pain of waiting for her to cheat + you get to keep the canceled trips money

CaptainKidd96 · 2019-05-24T06:18:40+00:00

OP you're a simp. You are very well aware of the fact that she's gonna fuck him behind your back and that you should ghost her, yet you've only replied to one comment in which another idiot said that she's only seeking attetion.

Go ahead, don't break up with her. Continue being a simp and rationalise away her bad behaviour. Hell, maybe even consider marrying her because "she ignores tf out of other guys except this one". At least you know she will only be sucking off one guy behind your back.

civilizedfrog · 2019-05-24T07:07:58+00:00

I predict you getting cucked if you don't dump and ghost her ass now. There is no saving this relationship. She is making moves to branch swing to her ex.

Whatdoin27 · 2019-05-24T08:41:30+00:00

So, who's down to bet she cheats? She's about to "magically" fall on another dudes yogurt squirter bro.

CharlesChadworth · 2019-05-24T10:28:12+00:00

If you don't break up with her asap, get 'cuck' tattooed across your chest. This way it will remind you everytime you wake up and walk to the mirror.

Sake99 · 2019-05-24T10:32:47+00:00

ghost! ghost! ghost!....

Do it quick.

drsherbert · 2019-05-24T11:47:29+00:00

Start scouting for new chicks ASAP

claykiller2010 · 2019-05-24T11:48:19+00:00

(She doesn’t know I saw the messages).

She probably thinks you did if she deleted it right after you saw it, like what are the chances of that?

Listen to the others on here, ghost her bro.

jeff_vii · 2019-05-24T11:56:00+00:00

Props to you OP for having the balls to post this, it's not easy. You knew what to do before posting this though. You've done the hard bit now, follow through and dump that trash

madara_on_reddit · 2019-05-24T13:26:25+00:00

I'll just add to what everyone is saying, dump her and don't tell her why. This way she thinks there is something wrkng with her and maybe her looks and value are deteriorating. Even better tell her that you dont find her attractive or you found someone new.

Elvis_Death · 2019-05-24T02:42:02+00:00

If she mentions you he will stop talking to her.

Her deleting the conversation means you checked her phone again? That's a lot of work you are doing.

She showed him a pic and he showed her a pic right? Nothing too bad about that but it sounds like she misses that guy.

Doesn't sound terrible at the moment but she's not GF material, you've arrived at the point when she's just a friend with benefits.

I wouldn't be mad, I'd just quietly downgrade her and start doing more things on your own and meeting new people. She's probably an ok chick but when she asks you about it, you can just say you need more time to yourself and things as bf gf aren't really working out. Tell her you aren't ready for a relationship like that but you can still be friends.

Have something better to do and soon.

Andorli · 2019-05-24T05:10:56+00:00

Jesus Christ, the cringe I experienced reading those semi-awkward semi-flirty (if you could em that) messages.

Just dump her and move on with your life bruh.

idontevenlift37 · 2019-05-24T05:14:27+00:00

I’ve been in this exact situation. Doesn’t matter how good things are going right now, she will find a reason to break up with you, or just make one up if it isn’t there. Your best option is to either break up with her first or at the very least mentally prepare yourself for it to happen.

Antonella00 · 2019-05-24T05:25:10+00:00

Not into you

SLICKlikeBUTTA · 2019-05-24T06:24:31+00:00

FUCK DAT SHIT.

Totsean · 2019-05-24T06:35:19+00:00

Walk away, she ain't worth it.

tefllifestyle · 2019-05-24T10:17:30+00:00

Damn man how they write, sending pics, thats game over for you

Bedtimeshine · 2019-05-24T12:12:26+00:00

It’s time to pull back and treat this as casual. I wouldn’t even go on the trip...

catriel25 · 2019-05-24T12:53:55+00:00

As someone in a LTR right now, THANK YOU.

I think we all need this kind of stories from time to time to remember how reallity actually works.

As everybody told you here fuck her brains out and dump her.

JyoungPNG · 2019-05-24T14:29:45+00:00

Are you a high value man? If so, you don’t let this happen. Ghost ASAP or downgrade her. Don’t get walked over, you have value my guy. Focus on your purpose and don’t get distracted by the pathetic actions of women.

BurntYams · 2019-05-24T14:40:14+00:00

Everyone’s giving you advice to save the relationship,

”Dread game and game other women to display you have options to make her hesitant to actually go through with fucking this guy.”

wtf? there’s nothing left to do here op, there’s nothing to save, the relationship, whether you want to admit it or not, is GONE. Move on. Break up. There’s no saving this. Ending it now and NEVER looking back or speaking to her ever again is the only right answer. It’ll hurt less. Trust me. (from personal experience)

the13thmonk · 2019-05-24T17:39:20+00:00

Yuck.

1) she didn't mention you
2) she's flirting with this dude

3) she deleted convo

peace tf out

El_Serpiente_Roja · 2019-05-24T19:04:15+00:00

Holy fuck guys

TheJerkAtTanagra · 2019-05-24T19:20:02+00:00

She didn't mention you because (to her) you aren't worth mentioning.

She's covering her tracks.

Gawernator · 2019-05-24T21:20:43+00:00

Ghost her, block her on everything and disappear.

cursedflame · 2019-05-24T21:47:23+00:00

so there are 240+ comments of redpill brethrens trying to help you, i see alot of good advice and things you should follow upon on. Right now since there are so many comments on your post so i'm not quite sure if you ever read this. but i'll try to pain a picture for you how it's like being the guy who she is texting with.

My own personal story is exactly like this except, i'm the guy who already met up with this girl who is into a 4 year old relationship and we had sex for 2 hours and everything in between.

The only thing different is that i knew she had a boyfriend but i wanted to try it eitherway since i used to date her when i was a blue pilled teen and since my transformation i was able to pull it off quite easy.

She will meet up with the lad, She will give him the chance to have sex with her, if he plays his cards right (although he seems like a beta a bit) he will get the cuchi. She will have an amazing time. and the next morning she will have regret. guilt towards you her current boyfriend, and obviously the maybe perhaps branch swing option her ex lover.

Whatever happens, in for example my scenario, she already told me her bf has been to sweet and to boring for quite some years and she loves him on a friendly way. If you are somewhat like that perhaps go try to become the best version of you by training yourself mentally and physically. Eitherway this relationship is over, She will try to swing, if she misses she will go back to you and she never tell you what she did. or she tells you, and if you are a man and you love and respect yourself you get the hell outta there. if you are a mangina who doesn't have any respect towards hisself you stay and try to "fix"it . But if it comes at the stage that you have to fix it its alrdy broken beyond repair.

forreal, i hope you won't do anything stupid. because we all have been there and love and pussy steadily on a weekly basis makes you loose sight of reality. we have been there we all have. I just hope you decide to split your logical thinking from the emotions you are feeling and cut her out of your life and start working on number uno and thats you.

I hope you find yourself again, go get big and become a man and go follow your dreams and goals, We don't know howlong our brotherhood will stand with al these rules and hate regards toxic masculinity. but for aslong we can we will aid eachother with the struggles of today's society.

stay strong. you got this!

vullnet123 · 2019-05-24T22:37:13+00:00

Op I can send you texts my ex was getting from her orbiter and my biggest mistake was not dumping her right then and there. Please do yourself a favor, and respect yourself and dump her.

AuthorWriterWhatever · 2019-05-24T01:34:22+00:00

Text to Photo shit sketchy as fuck, get up and leave you’ll thank yourself later

divine_pizza · 2019-05-24T14:18:51+00:00

Ghost. Don't even mention that you discovered this.

surreptitioussoidog · 2019-05-24T09:23:26+00:00

She's playin you. Play back. Repurpose her into a plate, then break it, hard!

HurricaneHugues · 2019-05-24T11:24:49+00:00

Break up with her and don't offer any explanation

Platos_slow_brother · 2019-05-24T12:42:39+00:00

She is not your GF, she is simply the gal you are having sex with until you get a replacement. Don't bother confronting. Don't bother explaining. You know all you need to know, and you have your plan: find another partner for regular sex. Dump this one whenever you want. Don't complain, don't explain.

Sendmeloveletters · 2019-05-24T14:58:48+00:00

Time to ghost a bitch

FatmanO · 2019-05-24T15:11:55+00:00

Cut all contact, you deserve better.

asktrp4433 · 2019-05-24T15:35:09+00:00

damn i thought i had it bad. ghost her ass.

GreenWallsAndAFan · 2019-05-24T16:33:04+00:00

Leave now. There’s no hope. She’ll be on his dick the week after you break up. Ghost is fine.

SniXSniPe · 2019-05-24T17:05:53+00:00

Brah, you need to drop her. Not telling you to act vindictive or anything, but just end it.

Stupyyy · 2019-05-24T19:13:54+00:00

It's over.

rockyp32 · 2019-05-24T19:59:55+00:00

I know it sucks man but end it

Distractingyou · 2019-05-25T05:45:01+00:00

Use your neocortex and not your infralimbic system you know what to do fuck her and then break with her

wheresMYsteakAt · 2019-05-25T10:39:53+00:00

wheresMYsteakAt · 2019-05-25T11:13:25+00:00

Kinda mad mongeeese wasn't a friend of yours I could mess with.

Cryptoguru777 · 2019-06-13T06:24:53+00:00

I'd throw the bitch out the second the came out the shower.

Carleather · 2019-05-24T00:37:12+00:00

You better call her the fuck out, man.

spider_1337 · 2019-05-24T00:30:07+00:00

It kinda sounds like she was just seeking validation from him because she thought that he unfollowed her. He gives her instant validation with compliments which means she probably wouldn't meet up since she had her fix. The fact that your ltr seeks validation from other men and hides things from you to me is grounds for a demotion but its ultimately up to you to decide what to do.

skywalkerlou · 2019-05-24T06:45:49+00:00

I really appreciate all of your comments and advice. I decided not the say anything to her, and still go to the trip (her parents invited me so I’m not paying for much). I’ll fuck her the last few times and dump her after we’re back from Cali.

Her mom knows everything (she really respects me and I know I can trust her.) She knows she’s doing wrong and she is by my side, I’ll try to make it as bad for her as I can. Her whole family is gonna know the reason why I left and I can have can have the peace of mind that I left and didn’t do wrong.

I’ll keep you guys updated.

Thank you.

Wreckn · 2019-05-24T00:59:22+00:00

She's seeking emotional validation from a LDR. I wouldn't break up with a chick over this, there's no physical contact. It's another thing if she's meeting with him or planning to.
If you think your unicorn isn't flirting with other people, you're kidding yourself. Women love to flirt and get validation from other men. It's part of life.

If this was your wife on the other hand, that's a different story.

campa56la · 2019-05-24T06:58:41+00:00

Listen, these hardcore rp nerds are overanalyzing what was said and what wasn’t said. Are you fucking her? Take it out on her that way. Don’t be a bitch like these guys because your girl flirted with an ex on the phone. She deleted it cause she checked herself. Fuck her good and let it go.

27billion · 2019-05-24T14:56:41+00:00

Why are all these latest red pill posts about gf problems— a relationship is one of the most blue pilled things a man can do; purple pilled at best. Also they all reek of oneitis and a scarcity mindset.

Thunderfin · 2019-05-24T08:54:30+00:00

So I saw this messages on my gfs phone last night

Why are you reading her messages? That's creepy, lacking morals and shows you have no trust in your supposed ltr. You also done fucked up if guys with that shitty ass text / emoji game are piquing interest from your girl. Reread sidebar and improve yourself in a few month monk mode period.

edit: why am I getting downvoted? Is reading other person's private messages deemed okay by everyone here? It's OP's fault it got to this point so he should go on monk mode, so his future relationships don't derail like this.

Title	Gf “catching up” with old ldr that ghosted her
Author	skywalkerlou
Upvotes	234
Comments	257
Date	May 23, 2019 11:42 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/bs9y24/gf_catching_up_with_old_ldr_that_ghosted_her/
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