Going on a date with a woman more than twice my age. I think she’s beautiful and I’m very excited!

vroomvroomski · 2022-07-20T18:23:49+00:00

Zach Wilson burner account

focus_flow69 · 2022-07-20T19:03:44+00:00

Be fun, have fun.

Joke around, tease, flirt, banter.

Ask lots of questions. Ask daring questions. Be curious.

Be polite and a gentleman. Be respectful but also don't be afraid to be bold.

Eye fuck the shit out of her. Stare at her body if she's dressed up and if she catches you just have a shit eating grin and don't acknowledge it. If she calls you out, just say my apologies, im easily distracted 😏.

Older women want to feel desired, so do things that will make her feel that way.

Segundaleydenewtonnn · 2022-07-20T19:21:28+00:00

Just have fun. No games or psychological tricks. Older women have no time for bullshit. Go for what you want with confidence

grindforthegold · 2022-07-20T18:14:53+00:00

is it your boys mom?

ikeepon · 2022-07-20T18:33:04+00:00

She’s probably DTF as long as you don’t f*ck it up.

Peacebone000 · 2022-07-20T18:13:29+00:00

What happened the last time?

Usual_Assistance8667 · 2022-07-20T19:12:17+00:00

Where did you meet her?

Lateresita · 2022-07-20T18:35:24+00:00

Have fun- age difference can be exciting. A learning experience for both. Older woman are wiser and like clarity. Clear is kind always. Be yourself. Let us know how it went!

immn00b · 2022-07-20T18:29:53+00:00

What are you? 15?

Kindly-Article7336 · 2022-07-20T19:52:36+00:00

This is the deal. I am an older woman and I like younger men. This is what I don’t like: Trying to come off as someone you are not. Saying things that a 20 year old girls might find cool. Like what’s up. It sounds stupid to us. Ask her lots of questions about herself. Be a gentleman. Come on too strong at the beginning she may not like it. Bring her flowers. Doesn’t have to be expensive. It’s the thought that counts. Keeping it casual means being yourself. Good luck with your date.

Fluffy_Risk9955 · 2022-07-20T20:39:00+00:00

If the woman is much older she will play you like a violin and you won’t even notice it. This is not a psychologically healthy environment for you as a man. If you do it (yes it’s still loads of fun, trust me) time frame to max 3 to 6 months before ending it, because it’s playing with fire you don’t see the consequences for yet.

boxmail2800 · 2022-07-20T18:34:08+00:00

Ok… so what happened last time?

BlacBlood · 2022-07-20T18:45:35+00:00

Don’t speak too much. If you’re like 18 and she’s 40, don’t speak that much and just keep asking her mature realistic questions. Make her the center of attention. Rub her back and shit if you guys are in private while you ask her about her life and previous relationships lmao. If she’s more open minded and shit be playful and show her the youthful energy.

c2kink · 2022-07-20T20:07:56+00:00

“Don’t talk” if really the advice… do talk, be yourself, ask questions and share. Nothing sexy about a man that doesn’t engage with me mentally.

SupremeBBC · 2022-07-20T20:39:49+00:00

Just remember that she's just another woman and you'll be ok

2022-07-20T17:44:43+00:00

Just be yourself & be cool .. if she’s attracted to you and interested then you won’t have to do or say much because she’ll take the lead in the situation ..

Distinct_Face_5796 · 2022-07-20T21:28:42+00:00

Why? I am 39 and I would much have a hot 21 year old. Lol. They are hard to pull though, unless I am outside of the US.

funkduder · 2022-07-20T18:44:53+00:00

Be straight forward and earnest. If they're over 30 they've played the game and know what they want

hookedonfonicsmunky · 2022-07-20T19:28:50+00:00

i actually think this requires less skill than someone younger, older women flirt the fuck right out of me and leave me baffled

bradinthecreek · 2022-07-20T18:41:33+00:00

Don’t talk. At all. Everything you say is going to sound dumb and immature to her. Be direct. Ask her if she’d like to come back to your place to watch a movie or something within the first 30 minutes

SuggarTitsJones · 2022-07-20T23:03:19+00:00

Older chicks are awesome for a bunch of reasons

07paradigm · 2022-07-20T19:36:52+00:00

Older women love BDE

shusain2991 · 2022-07-20T18:17:41+00:00

Ask for sex

RSNK10 · 2022-07-20T19:17:36+00:00

Enjoy the mentorship

ftdrain · 2022-07-20T18:24:53+00:00

In my experience older ladies are desperate AF and have low standards

earthwarrior · 2022-07-20T18:45:46+00:00

This is so weird. Is she rich at least?

cronasminate · 2022-07-20T19:07:29+00:00

I honestly keep trying to hit up some milfs with some nice apartments so I can just visit different states and chill while being spoiled but I just keep getting young broke (but really hot) college girls who want to fuck in a car or by some river bank.

Lotus_82 · 2022-07-20T20:37:22+00:00

She’s over 36, right?

CaptnGoose · 2022-07-20T21:06:00+00:00

Don't check his profile

anicknameyo · 2022-07-20T21:06:39+00:00

Be polite, respectful, communicative. When in doubt, just ask and don't assume things.

Pedadinga · 2022-07-20T21:44:18+00:00

Be upfront about wanting casual. If she’s more than twice your age, I can’t imagine she wants anything more than “casual” with you.

inline6throwaway · 2022-07-20T21:50:09+00:00

Older women dating younger men, that's a bit of an easier dating dynamic for the guy. Someone mentioned elsewhere that she's probably dtf. I would not disagree with that. It should be pretty easy going out with her and stuff. So something fun, have some drinks, make out, touch her as long as she's OK with it. Good luck! If you think she's beautiful, of she turns you on, let her know. Not just through words.

Artist1948 · 2022-07-20T22:03:57+00:00

I recall being seduced by an older woman some years ago. She was a good lover. Good luck my friend.

Comfortable-Unit-897 · 2022-07-20T22:23:38+00:00

Get ready for one hell of a ride! Best six months of my life, and I learned a lot.

flowr12 · 2022-07-20T22:51:30+00:00

I am turning 25 next month, my boyfriend is 39. I never liked him because of his age. I liked him for who he is, his age was just a characteristic of the person I really liked. So be yourself and don’t focus on the gap.

KyleGuap · 2022-07-20T22:53:58+00:00

GalaxyBrainU · 2022-07-20T23:19:40+00:00

Very important question that hasn't been asked/answered yet: how old are each of you??

Cantsleepperson · 2022-07-20T23:22:02+00:00

That sounds so hot. Congratz!

OutsideFew2192 · 2022-07-20T23:59:42+00:00

My girlfriend is currently 42 and im only 24 and its the best relationship ive been in but at the same time the worst because when we have arguments it gets heated but we also work thru all of our shit. The only thing i can say as advice is stand your ground when she is argueing even if she is wrong she is right dont try to explain yourself because itll just look like your trying to have an excuse. Make her feel wanted but dont blow up her phone 24/7 trying to show you are super interested. Older women have lives aside from you so you have to show you have a life away fron her also. If you hit it off then it will flow naturally. All good things dont come easy and the moment she is sick of arguing if it gets to that really means she no longer cares. If this ends up being a thing shes not going to want to have to tell you what you need to do to please her. If money is a reason then it won't work although it does take money to maintain her your not obligated off the rip for any of her financial responsibilitys. All in all have fun take note of what she likes treat her with respect dint talk about your ex but if she does dont get jealous shes with you and your lucky to have this opportunity because man a lot of younger girls got life twisted so really treat her like a diamond but dont let her be the only thing in your life you care about. State your worth you have about yourself if she ever makes you feel worthless because obviously your not if she is interested in you come on my man you obviously do or did something to spark her interest and as long as it wasnt fake then be yourself and the rest will follow. If not at least you got the opportunity to be different from everyone else i believe with the right mindset and maturity that a situation like this is age is only a number can apply but don't bring up how much older she is and dont ever be ungrateful for her time spent with you

Elbynerual · 2022-07-21T00:09:45+00:00

Happy for you buddy but this post is breaking rule #1, sorry

Title	Going on a date with a woman more than twice my age. I think she’s beautiful and I’m very excited!
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Upvotes	186
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Date	July 20, 2022 5:09 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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