girl i’m talking to sent nudes too fast and i don’t know what to think

wanderingnewbiehere · 2022-06-16T09:21:23+00:00

It's clear that she wants to fuck.

bandsupjay · 2022-06-16T08:51:56+00:00

“Sends nudes. Im scared shes a hoe, i dont wanna get PLAYED”. Boy. How do u come into the dating scene thinking like this

bettercallsaul3 · 2022-06-16T06:54:25+00:00

If you don't like her moving fast move on the the next one

BobbyJohnson31 · 2022-06-16T07:02:30+00:00

3 weeks ? That’s a long time bro lmao

blakecleary2000 · 2022-06-16T12:33:18+00:00

“Hey you should send nudes” Sends nudes** “Eww you really did that”

KingWolf7070 · 2022-06-16T07:51:35+00:00

First of all, 3 weeks can be a lot of time for some people. Probably a lot of people even, it's just how things are trending. Like, if you know you like each other why waste time playing games. It's not wrong, but also you're not wrong for wanting to take things slower. It's just a difference in dating styles.

The real problem here is how you're judging another person for dating in a way that is different from what you personally think it should be. Again, you're not wrong, she's not wrong, you just do things differently. On a different time table.

Instead of leaving relationships at the first sign of any small issue, difficulty, disagreement, etc. you could try communicating. Use your words. Talk about it. If you're driving somewhere and you encounter a speed bump do you turn around and go home? No, that's silly. You address the obstacle and try to get over it. Now if you encounter a major problem like a bridge on fire, then it makes sense to give up, not worth the trouble and risk. Receiving nudes 3 weeks into talking to someone is usually a speed bump level problem that can be talked through.

ozzzy83 · 2022-06-16T09:51:52+00:00

Well, it doesn't have to necessarily mean that she is a hoe, maybe just that she likes you too much, and doesn't want to pretend, but is naughty and likes sex.

It happened actually recently to me. I started chatting with a girl on a dating app, and started with normal questions, she was then immediately like, better to talk about my butt, don't you think, and ofc, I thought, Woah, what a hoe, who knows with who she is like that.

So ok, I just followed what she wanted, cybersex, cause she was horny, and then she started sending me nudes, and ofc, I was like, ok, def. a hoe, will just mess with her. But I got a phone number, ofc, believing that she is some dumb hoe.

But I was wrong, even tho she had some strange fantasies, I moved our conversation to something usual, and then I found out about her other side. Just a normal girl, likes to joke, talk about many usual things, and we were texting for months, usually, girls get bored if you don't see each other soon in person, but Nah, this one was invested.

So she started developing feelings for me, want to cook for me, even offered to send me money without knowing me in person, when I was out of some job, I was like, Woah, this girl even wants to help, so I started looking at her like a human being.

bigbenny1979 · 2022-06-16T12:47:42+00:00

Jesus, you are giant tool.

samozleg · 2022-06-16T12:58:00+00:00

Send her my way

MrBlack__ · 2022-06-16T07:37:00+00:00

News flash, she likes you. Doesn’t mean she’s a hoe… secretly she’s probably less of a hoe because hoes know NOT to send nudes…

What you need to do is bang her then tell her not to send nudes to people because not everyone is a trust worthy guy like yourself… but you can only say this AFTER sex as she might friend zone you or take it as a rejection, if you haven’t slept with her

spicy_simba · 2022-06-16T08:25:49+00:00

Dont worry, dont think much, If this is bothering you, bring it up to her,

you should be able to bring up the topic or any topic that makes you feel uncomfortable with your dating,

time will tell you who this person is,

You do not have to make your mind now in this moment, keep observing and getting to know who this person is

rohankent · 2022-06-16T08:21:04+00:00

3 weeks and you thinks she’s a hoe? Seriously?

Also, rethink you use of the word hoe.

Captain-Stubing · 2022-06-16T12:26:34+00:00

You're moving too slow. It took her sending nudes and you still haven't figured that out yet. She's going to drop you before you get the chance I'm afraid.

thomasvector · 2022-06-16T13:44:23+00:00

That's not being a hoe. She's into you. I've had women exchange nudes with me on like the first day we started talking. That's just part of dating. Three weeks is a long time to not have exchanged nudes.

edit: also, I think about 95% of any woman I've talked to has sent me nudes. If you think the girl you're talking to is a hoe, then you're basically saying almost every woman is a hoe lol.

AstralValProjection · 2022-06-16T06:55:44+00:00

Tell her to slow down

luhvxr · 2022-06-16T08:09:27+00:00

not loving the terminology i’m seeing in this post nor the slut-shaming of women

Imperator_Pyra · 2022-06-16T10:26:00+00:00

I'm sorry, but my first thought was "three weeks?! they were talking for three weeks, already had one date, she sends him nudes and he thinks this is too fast?! I've had a girl send me nudes BEFORE the first date and she was not a 'hoe'. what kind of nun is this guy, like WHAT, this is stupid".

And while I still think that, it occurred to me that there's a more serious issue here, namely: you might be suffering from the Madonna-Whore complex, where you think that "any woman who fails to live up to the Madonna standard is a disgusting and contemptible Whore" - or, in other words, if she doesn't fit your fantasy of purity, then she must be a 'hoe'. This is perhaps a result of social conditioning, but you need to heal from this, or you will have difficulty having sexual relations. Purity is just a fantasy.

Real-Edge-9288 · 2022-06-16T09:23:40+00:00

think simple... she wants you to give her attention and potentially she wants to fuck at one point. don't invest to much into her emotionally

Aggressive_Soil_5134 · 2022-06-16T08:06:27+00:00

3 weeks? Bro people getting nudes after a few messages

2022-06-16T10:16:04+00:00

After one date and 3 weeks chatting she’s probably wondering “why won’t this wuss fuck me?” That’s why she sent you photos. Stop being a pussy

SmartFinger_ · 2022-06-16T06:38:15+00:00

Keep her as a hoe....try not to catch feelings

Kindrik76 · 2022-06-16T07:46:09+00:00

3 weeks? I'm dissapointed if I can't get it out of them in 3 hours.

No-Historian-6391 · 2022-06-16T11:11:05+00:00

3 weeks is a while. Sleep with her. Wear a condom. No one says you can’t bang “a hoe” you don’t have to trust her

cablesplicer57 · 2022-06-16T11:26:28+00:00

Are you gay? Beat it up and move on.

great_account · 2022-06-16T12:57:09+00:00

You're being dumb. Relax. You like nudes? Say so. You don't like nudes? Say so. Jesus Christ this isn't complicated.

premedchunsa · 2022-06-16T14:40:29+00:00

bros. This guy just wants a girl that’s not easy. Let him be.

PuffPuffPass_20 · 2022-06-16T15:12:49+00:00

Dude just fuck her and move on to the next one. They’re all hoes btw

not_shajal · 2022-06-16T13:34:23+00:00

You were smooth, and your game was on point. It doesn't mean she's a hoe. You swept her off her feet and now you're saying you don't want to get played?

Shouldn't be looking for a partner when you're full of doubts.

ScreamQueen1988 · 2022-06-16T13:42:15+00:00

OMG... if you don't want her sending you pics tell her. Or shut up and masturbate to them and thank her for making you cum.

ToastPeanutCap · 2022-06-16T12:55:16+00:00

Just imagine her doing the same to other guys and you’ll move on

basedpopufo69 · 2022-06-16T14:23:33+00:00

She's either looking to fuck, which is good, or an attention whore. Try to smash, you don't need to make her your serious gf.

Kennymacdougall · 2022-06-16T08:46:28+00:00

Brother, they are all hoes anyway. So what's the problem really? Any man would want to receive nudes.

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-06-16T10:58:21+00:00

3 weeks is fast?

IllBluebird6904 · 2022-06-16T09:31:53+00:00

She’s either looking for attention/validation or she made a bad judgement call.

Aside-Embarrassed · 2022-06-16T10:24:33+00:00

Slut

Aside-Embarrassed · 2022-06-16T10:24:54+00:00

Stinky stingy pussy

Fapandwarmshowers · 2022-06-16T10:54:39+00:00

did you smash

swardhan · 2022-06-16T12:35:20+00:00

Fear is the mind killer. If she's a hoe so be it. You want to keep her or not is upto you. "I don't wanna get played". Well someone said life is a game so be fine with it.

And if she is sending nudes then congrats you have successfully Seduced someone, which is the purpose of this subreddit ain't it?

blockfuture · 2022-06-16T13:51:02+00:00

😅

Warm_Imagination5960 · 2022-06-16T13:52:36+00:00

I know the feeling, the mystery is gone. I much prefer undressing her in real life and seeing her naked for the first time like that.

wearetunis · 2022-06-16T13:59:04+00:00

Could’ve been giving her backshots but instead choose to ask the internet .. smh

FlavoredButtHair · 2022-06-16T14:04:10+00:00

3 weeks is a long time. Send some pics back. I'd be wanting to video chat if I were you.

Dramatic-Ad7687 · 2022-06-16T14:17:26+00:00

My man you know that meme where the guy riding the bike puts a stick in the spokes? That sounds like you right now. You’ve been doing well so she sent you nudes, don’t take it as a bad sign take it as a good one and go use what god gave you on her.

redditor4206903 · 2022-06-16T14:19:18+00:00

Bro, you are a fvcking unit. Hahahaha

kdog350 · 2022-06-16T14:22:25+00:00

3 weeks and only one date? What's going on there?! She's probably just a bit horned up.

distawest · 2022-06-16T14:28:51+00:00

Maybe she needs money

AXLE_BLACKWELL · 2022-06-16T14:37:53+00:00

WTF are you talking about, bro? Sounds like you strut gold!

More-Impact3644 · 2022-06-16T14:42:29+00:00

Three weeks is plenty of time.

bigm5995 · 2022-06-16T14:52:18+00:00

man she want to fuck you man and that's great news for you. and if she a hoe so man let her be your hoe. y'all just went on one date. how you gonna get played from some pussy pics?

MO_drps_knwldg · 2022-06-16T15:11:39+00:00

You should have seen her naked in person by date 2 or 3 already

mentosMommy · 2022-06-16T15:29:40+00:00

As a women on dating apps who sends nudes (not to everyone obliviously) I more or less just want to bang. If you’ve been talking to her for 3 weeks she probably likes you and wants to take that next intimate step. Personally if I’m talking to someone for more than 2 weeks I won’t entertain other suitors, but that’s just me lol but also if she is a hoe why are you judging her when y’all aren’t even officially together? (Genuine curiosity btw)

KreamPi69 · 2022-06-16T15:38:50+00:00

Incel

hobomojo · 2022-06-16T15:41:42+00:00

Have y’all only been talking, or have you gone on any dates yet with her? If so, how many? 3 weeks can be a very short time or a long time depending on how frequently y’all are actually meeting in person.

MrSlippery92 · 2022-06-16T15:48:52+00:00

This sub has gone to shit

Zoomers actually think “3 weeks & 1 date is moving fast” 😂

alent3976 · 2022-06-16T15:49:10+00:00

bro is suffering from success

Aldamis · 2022-06-16T15:50:47+00:00

Three weeks? She's probably patiently waiting on you dude lol. Most people age 20+ have sex within the first two or three at the latest.

rwalsh138 · 2022-06-16T15:58:43+00:00

So you want the nudes, but only on your terms? Why would you judge a female for showing interest in you, and being vulnerable with you? I don't understand.

likelyilllike · 2022-06-16T16:00:12+00:00

Send us to verify are those actually nudes...

JohnnyLazer17 · 2022-06-16T16:02:10+00:00

Dude it’s been 3 weeks. Shes probably starting to think you might be gay.

Title	girl i’m talking to sent nudes too fast and i don’t know what to think
Author	precizs
Upvotes	61
Comments	100
Date	June 16, 2022 6:24 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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