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bridgetthebanker · 2021-11-17T16:01:09+00:00

Are you ever going to meet them? Don’t make a choice until you’ve hung out in person.

spacecommanderfap · 2021-11-17T17:58:11+00:00

Two 20+ year old virgins sending nudes, somebody here is lying.

ixamxtomorrow · 2021-11-17T16:08:45+00:00

Bang Em both and who ever is more into you with less red flags… that’s the winner

BatmanBeatzSuperman · 2021-11-17T16:00:33+00:00

how old are you and how old are they. depending on how far along you are in life id have a different answer for each

ksmith11011 · 2021-11-17T18:48:11+00:00

Trust me, don’t “pick one” until you get to the attachment stage and you’re seeing each other every day. You’re forgetting that these girls are attracted to the energy you put off, that energy will change as soon as you make a decision and give up your backup option.

Geekedphilosophy · 2021-11-17T17:41:24+00:00

Are you trolling or are you really just that naive? There is zero chance that two woman in there 20's are for one both virgins and secondly offering their "virginity" to a man they have never actually met. The fact that OP states BOTH women messaged him first and BOTH offered up unsolicited nudes and BOTH happen to "virgins" and BOTH want him to be their first is far too "pornhub" fantasy to be taken seriously. Either OP is trolling now or he is being scammed in some way or at least catfished.

pokemonpokemonmario · 2021-11-17T16:01:27+00:00

Rotate them.

magnateur · 2021-11-17T19:03:38+00:00

Go on dates with both, but if sex ever comes up and you have sex with them both make sure to inform them about them not being the only one you are seeing so they can make an informed decision if thats something they are comfortable with or not. Its good practice for not being a complete asshat and common sense considering sexual health and STD-prevention.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2021-11-17T19:09:11+00:00

Honesty, trust and respect. Be honest with them that you are not interested in being a boyfriend or a hubby, be trustworthy and true to your word, and give them the respect and attention they deserve.

JobRevolutionary946 · 2021-11-17T22:07:59+00:00

Ok m8. I am going to be honest with you here I by chance stumbled on 1 of your earlier posts. And checked out some of your other posts. Which was quite interesting tbh.

Now I am not currently in the dating game myself due too different factors.

One being at my Age it would be pointless (45m). However saying that my last relationship was with my EX Wife which i actually meet on a dating App lol. That was a mistake. Now I've not had sex in over 13 years. And yes i do think about sex like all other blokes out there.

All my life I've been shitted on by women (cheated on,spat at for no reason. Even beat up,humiliated in public for no reason whatsoever) . I'm not ugly but not good looking either, average like yourself which you mentioned in another post you did.

I started reading some of your other posts. And i've got to be truthful here. I was envious and annoyed with you at first. BUT then i sat back in my chair at my PC here for a few moments.

And thought to myself why i am so annoyed and envious with YOU. It's not because of you but because of the lifetime of me being shitted on by women.

Then my opinion of you changed dramatically. Matter of fact i would say keep doing what your doing because In the end women are also doing it, sometimes even worse.Some women are just as bad or even worse for sleeping around.

As for them two younger women you have a decision to make. Are you into looking for relationship or just hookup for sex. Going by your past track record LOL. I would say your not the settling down type atm tbh.And just want sex and a good time like some blokes.

However going by your post. These two young women want a relationship and not a casual hookup and might be virgins as well.

ARE YOU THE TYPE OF GUY WHICH WILL NOT TAKE ADVANCE OF THESE TWO LOVESTRUCK WOMEN OR ARE YOU THE TYPE OF GUY WHICH WILL HOOKUP WITH THEM, HAVE SEX MAYBE AND THEM DUMP THEM AND LEAVE THEM IN A EMOTIONAL STATE.

YOUR CHOICE. AND GOOD LUCK

willgo-waggins · 2021-11-17T19:28:24+00:00

I may not be popular with this.

You need to make a choice and be a good human here.

If both these girls are that into you that they want you to be their first, this is not an appropriate time to notch your bedpost. Save that for the ones who are already broken in and playing wild and free.

You need to make a fair and good choice and understand that it is 98% likelihood that she will see you as either “the one” or at least “the one right now”. So you also need to be prepared for a commitment.

That’s all I’m going to say. You will get a lot of macho bullshit and bad advice here. I’m telling you that if you want to really be a guy that women come to and want to be with, be a good person first and think of it as if your sister were telling you about being one of these girls and how she felt about this.

Narcan9 · 2021-11-17T17:17:39+00:00

Chances are 1 or both will turn out to not be legit. Have you even met either of them yet? Proceed with both.

SpecialistDesk9297 · 2021-11-17T18:11:12+00:00

You need to let them know that you’re not looking for anything serious.

2021-11-17T19:07:54+00:00

Whichever one is the better person and the more loyal for a LTR

strugglingstudent00 · 2021-11-17T19:12:42+00:00

meet in person if you havent already. I have met up with girls from dating apps before who look nothing like their profile picture or they have a terrible personality and all attraction died within moments.

EbonyProgrammer · 2021-11-17T21:30:03+00:00

Lmao dude don't jump to conclusions before you learn to walk to them, meet them in person, see what the vibe is, some people look good in photos and bad in person, some people look good in person and bad in photos, also there's nothing wrong with juggling them both as long as you are safe and you have not promised exclusivity to either of them yet.

For all you know they could be juggling you with other guys.

All things equal tho I would go with the older one, a 20 year old usually is gonna be at a different life stage and is usually going to be less independent than a 24 year old for obvious reasons.

2021-11-17T22:44:51+00:00

Women talk to multiple dudes and pick their favorites all the time. Enjoy this opportunity bro

spacenuts09 · 2021-11-17T19:38:43+00:00

Dude you re not a piece of shit lol. You have no idea the kinda options women have these days. Just take your time without any guilt feeling. God I wish I had these options when I was 27 lol

ksm6149 · 2021-11-17T19:24:07+00:00

This is just personal preference but since you're asking, do you really want to choose the girl who won't get let into bars because of her age? Obviously that's only temporary until she turns 21, but at the same time she may end up feeling that age difference a bit sooner than you do.

CheekyBurgerr · 2021-11-17T19:46:43+00:00

Keep both, help yourself learn to multitask and work under pressure. Learn to serve to masters at once and you'll conquer your world.

rkaniminew · 2021-11-17T20:43:05+00:00

Go out with each twice, then inform the other before you get serious (a third date) you're currently seeing a girl in a none series way. See how she reacts. Let her know if it becomes serious you'll stop seeing the other girl.
Find out a lot doing this. Everything from irrational jealousy, to surprising acceptance.
Once you do that, make a decision and stick to it. Be honest, and don't play games with them.

wondorous · 2021-11-17T20:44:15+00:00

Hey, I was literally in this situation up until last week. I wasn’t trying to be malicious but two girls I met on the apps just happened to progress very similarly at the same time and I felt kinda bad talking to both but everyone gave me the advice of getting to know both of them, but be honest. And while I didn’t lie, I didn’t provide many details.

I found that it would have been nice to let one down and focus on the other and have less stress, but I really felt like I couldn’t decide.

So what ended up happening for me is that I spent the weekend w one girl and she ended up ending our “thing” on Sunday night. So there was my answer - but now how I wanted it.

What id say to you is ask yourself what you want. Short term/long term, what kind of activities do they enjoy, any sense of who’s more compatible? You could either just choose one, or you could try to spend a little more time with each of them. Also keep in mind that there’s no guarantee that either of them will work. I think I was feeling like “well if I have 2 options, one will work”. While my situation isn’t completely over, I’m more accepting of the fact that neither may work and that’s ok.

Anyway, hope you find this helpful. I know how difficult of a situation this is. Feel free to reach out if you wanna talk it through

BlueSkiesnPrettyEyes · 2021-11-17T21:15:08+00:00

you brother, have finally done it. what is the secret to this superpower you hold, might I ask?

rickmackdaddy · 2021-11-17T21:47:02+00:00

Send me the nudes and I’ll help you decide.

Amkg2020 · 2021-11-17T22:00:22+00:00

Yeah tbh don't tell them and do whatever I mean if you haven't even met it shouldn't be too serious but also if you bang one I don't know if you should puck and stick or do both they thing is if your not playing you're being played ,

mostafa1022 · 2021-11-17T22:07:01+00:00

Just fuck with both for now at least

thecultmachine · 2021-11-17T23:22:30+00:00

I think you should be the one actually giving advice, not asking for it. LoL.

thedukejck · 2021-11-17T16:46:10+00:00

Both

JobRevolutionary946 · 2021-11-17T18:33:18+00:00

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Secret_Twitch · 2021-11-17T16:40:43+00:00

Unfair to them? Do you honestly believe that these girls aren't texting and talking with other dudes? THEY ARE. They are sending the same nudes to you and probably 5 other guys. This is the Female Dating Strategy. The abundance mentality. There is nothing wrong or unfair or unethical about dating both women separately. You are not in a relationship with either of them and they have no right to be upset or feel any certain way that you are talking to other women. You don't have to lie to them, you just don't have any obligation to tell them EVERYTHING. You are a man with options and there is no reason to have to choose between either of them.

BKF89 · 2021-11-17T22:45:05+00:00

if they dont know each other, work on both of them starting with the one you like more

if they know each other, choose the one you like and rock her socks off

Canadian-Seductioner · 2021-11-17T16:46:39+00:00

Sleep with both of them and see which one is still into you after a few dates. Until you have a discussion about commitment with either of them, you're not obligated in any way to only pick one of them and it would be dumb to drop one now before you give yourself a chance with both of them since you don't know if one of them will lose interest down the line anyway.

If both of them are still into you after you've been seeing them both for a little while and you only want to keep one, then pick the one you like least and tell her that you're not looking for anything serious with her. If she's still interested in being with you after that, then you'll either need to say the same thing to the other girl, or just tell the first girl that you started seeing someone else and you want to be exclusive with them so you can't see her anymore.

TheRealAlkemyst · 2021-11-17T18:13:19+00:00

I somehow doubt a 24F virgin today. Anyway have you considered inviting them both over? Could be a win-win.

nillateral · 2021-11-17T18:26:39+00:00

Give them both the d. Monopoly is wrang muthafuker!

/$

susumaya · 2021-11-17T17:21:51+00:00

How’d you manage this? Are you super good looking? Also what race are you and the girls?

Berlinboy015 · 2021-11-17T17:59:15+00:00

Anal threesome bro

One-Hedgehog4722 · 2021-11-17T18:57:45+00:00

If you’re not looking for a relationship, then why not pursue both? Its typical for women to have multiple guys their talking to and easy for those who get approached a lot, some tend to have the mindset it’s ok for them but not for us. I’m reminded of when I was seeing a girl, then she wanted an open relationship which I didn’t want but was like ok fine, because I still want to see her. Later on, we’ll now she’s jealous I’m seeing other women

vinod91619 · 2021-11-17T17:13:15+00:00

Bro if u don't mind please u go with the 24F & give me 20F's IG id to me please if u are willing to give dm me please

Nightowloldschool · 2021-11-17T17:13:45+00:00

Nice bang them the next day each

CenaSmackDown · 2021-11-17T18:50:56+00:00

No, you screw both of them or put your testicles and manhood in storage

JobRevolutionary946 · 2021-11-17T16:08:14+00:00

Ia it just for sex fun ?

wouldeye · 2021-11-17T17:10:02+00:00

Find a guy friend who’s never been laid and send whichever girl is nicer to him.

stollarbela · 2021-11-17T17:19:15+00:00

Do they know each other?

Are you hanging out with both of them?

Have you met them?

MasterPsaysUgh · 2021-11-17T19:05:10+00:00

Sounds like your getting Catfished

Pbear4Lyfe · 2021-11-17T20:10:40+00:00

No f****** go for him both bro just be honest with them that you're not trying to be held down but you're definitely down to f***

Return_Flimsy · 2021-11-17T20:32:41+00:00

Threesome awaits

fungodpl · 2021-11-17T20:48:03+00:00

Try to fuck both untill one mentions a relationship. You're not gonna marry them

johnnysilentleo · 2021-11-17T20:57:45+00:00

Pick both!!!!!

kittybrehbreh · 2021-11-17T21:01:36+00:00

Why not just deal with both of them until they prove they can be committed to and then make your decision? Pick your partner from abundance if you’re a relationship kind of dude.

150420throwaway · 2021-11-17T21:06:14+00:00

Not advice but I’m looking for some - how did you get to this point? Did you just use some dating app and hit it off?

PushOrganic · 2021-11-17T21:30:52+00:00

Here’s what you do:

Invite both of them to your apartment.

Invite the first girl over at 8pm and tell her to leave around 10pm because “you gota be up early tomorrow” then invite the second girl over right after that around 10pm.

Or you can just invite them both over at the same time. Girls are flakey so you want to have contingencies in place. If both come over at the same time, just tell both “hey my friend wants to come over too” and then you’ll have both at the same time. You’ll be in a great position and will just have to escalate at this point

martyr1337 · 2021-11-17T21:55:54+00:00

THREESOME!!!

Chrisanova_NY · 2021-11-17T22:16:27+00:00

Tell each about the other, and then you can rest easy.

Best case scenario: they don't mind sharing.

(Oh, and neither could be a virgin. Women say it a lot. Oopsie)

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