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Hooked up with 30 different women since August 2020 got my 31st tonight! AMA

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July 22, 2022

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Title	Hooked up with 30 different women since August 2020 got my 31st tonight! AMA
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	123
Comments	94
Date	July 22, 2022 8:31 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/w55ber/hooked_up_with_30_different_women_since_august/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/hooked-up-with-30-different-women-since-august.1253859 https://theredarchive.com/post/1253859

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Also I wasn't always ugly I was pretty attractive when I was a kid, one day I was beaten up by the highschool bully, a handsome guy wich was mad he liked my gf and she didn't wanna be with him that bastard beat me with a pipe into a fucking coma, I woke up without an eye a brokern nose and serval scars on my face+ a lot of spine injuries that hurt till this day , this wouldn't have hurt as much if my gf was still with me but she got together with him during the year I was fighting for my life, so fucked up she ended 3 years of relationship cause I was "unavailabe" she said, whouldn't have been so hurtful of she chose anyone else she chose the man that almost killed me, so tell me why did the handsome guy who had every girl he wanted took what was mine and nearly killed me ? And all the handsome men I knew were the same fucking girls and stealing them from others, I I promise nothing changed with this society since then.

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Bloody hell - where to start!

I'd recommend getting your house in order first. It's boring, but personally I struggled with holding myself to an insanely and obsessively high standard back in the day, regarding personality, body, grooming. I thought that girls wanted/expected me to be perfect, which spoilers - they really don't! This used to ramp up my anxiety because I was constantly paranoid that I was being judged over one small slip up. You don't need to be perfect. It's simple. You can just be silly old you and people will like you for it. That's if you have a half decent and kind personality. Dress how you want to dress, embrace your silly childish side. Fuck going through the social rigmarole of getting dressed up, taking someone out to a posh restaurant! You literally don't need to do that. Life your hookup/sex life on your terms. The tiny minority of people that judge you for being your imperfect self aren't worth bothering about in the first place!

Learn that dating/hooking up is not a battle to be won, or a performance, you have the right to approach things in whichever way seems most authentic and suitable to your personal set of values. Out of all the sex I've had, 90% haven't been dates, more just meet ups at mine or theirs.

Most people are genuinely quite nice, I've always been a chatty person, but really struggled with anxiety in the beginning. But I reflected, hang on, I'm a really kind person, it's totally normal to be anxious, and with a lot of exposure it just became second nature after awhile. I reminded myself that girls are not some alien lifeforce that you have to try every trick in the book to have sex with, they're just normal people, with hopes, fears, insecurities, desires etc.

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