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[–]gibertot 79 points80 points81 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Rule of thumb for me is if im attracted to her and we match shes a scam
[–]Seles23 15 points16 points17 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
EXACTLY LOL
[–]dailymanup 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
tru but horrifying
[–]BonelessSkinless 37 points38 points39 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Accurate
[–]smorgasmic 97 points98 points99 points 7 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
lol
[–][deleted] 7 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
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[–]Polaritical 14 points15 points16 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dude, if you're gonna have a blog, you should learn basic grammar and punctuation, cause the run on sentences, and random comma splices were, brutal
[–]jdcodring 20 points21 points22 points 7 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
That guy is an asshole.
[–]SexyMcBeast 5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh my God I know, every other sentence felt like "How could I top my previous douchey comment?"
[–]mystikcal1 -4 points-3 points-2 points 7 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
How so?
[–]jdcodring 8 points9 points10 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
The way he talks about those people and his callousness. He reeks of toxicity.
[–]Polaritical 8 points9 points10 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Seriously. As if he didnt find enough opportunities to bash on fat people, he decides to speculate on someone he merely suspects could possibly get fat in the future.
Dude has taken negging so seriously its the only framework he has for viewing women anymore.
[–]goodhabitsaccount 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You can really tell he hates people
[–]accountno543210 8 points9 points10 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You can really tell he hates peoplehimself.
(FTFY)
[–]goodhabitsaccount 5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Tru
[–]LionVenom10 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
“That’s Guys.”
Only a traditional old cunt would say that.
[–]jdcodring -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nope. Young 19 year old with a lot better luck than that salty a hole on tinder.
[–]Barabbas- 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This comment feels like a feeble attempt at plugging your red-piller blog...
...And that post reads like it was written by a House Cat with a superiority complex; looking down on it's human masters, smugly content in it's own ignorance.
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[–]MDmanson-11 points 7 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
I don't know dude. I just started using online dating 3 months ago and I've fucked the 5 girls I got to date. I don't even have game nor I'm very attractive physically. I'm genuinely surprised by this. 100% success rate. However I'm still not able to cold approach, but something is something.
[–]Skywest96 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
r/ThatHappened
[–]MDmanson 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I wonder why the downvotes? I was being honest. Anyways...
[–]borko781 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Can you elaborate more on how you managed this ? Plz
[–]ajswdf 38 points39 points40 points 7 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
Pof is the worst when it comes to bots. If I log in after midnight I'll get 3-4 bot messages.
[–]Synth_Lord 18 points19 points20 points 7 years ago* (7 children) | Copy Link
I stopped using pof/tinder because of the crazy amount of bots. Hinge is definitely the best app out there. I get a date about once a week/two weeks, and if I'm lucky twice a week. I'm a picky person as well. Idk what it is about Hinge, but compared to cmb, bumble, tinder, etc it's the best by far.
Edit: I've yet to encounter a bot, and I've been using it for a few months already.
[–]VicksNyQuil 7 points8 points9 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Is there a good amount of young people on there would you say? I'm talking college aged
[–]Synth_Lord 3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm from So Cal so there's a lot of people down here, but absolutely. Who know's how this app is in smaller cities.
[–]kurdishboy47 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I miss so cal
[–]dylanbob5 6 points7 points8 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Tinder and bumble are my go-to apps and I think they've gotten WAY better about keeping bots out of the system. If they could get rid of Instagram thots looking to bait followers it'd be even better. POF is a shit show filled with bots. No way I'll go back to it. I like Hinge too and use it pretty regularly.
[–]WolfofLawlStreet 5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bumble is garbage imo
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
POF is terrible for the bots and in general
[–]opi1930ddo 8 points9 points10 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
What's pof
[–]needtobeproductive 9 points10 points11 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Plenty of fish
[–]victory_fap 7 points8 points9 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Piece of Fuck
[–]ChemicallyCastrated 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And sociopaths
[–]ninja_possum 36 points37 points38 points 7 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I think online dating in app form is dying off. I’ve been hearing that using the net to find activity/meet up groups is on the rise though
[–]thetahill43 points 7 years ago [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link
I think actually meeting women in person in a variety of ways is going to be the new trend (including simply socially engaging those around you whenever appropriate). Online dating is just too broken and I think guys in particular are finally waking up: https://medium.com/@dbennett_46189/why-talking-to-random-women-is-a-guys-only-real-option-in-2019-f710b0e51c10?fbclid=IwAR1A1s3yBAc-HyCL_4Eseb5IxgBrqZX56PK-Awcr99Pgm2RRHKohGCysHmA
[–]Convictional 14 points15 points16 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think this is very true. No matter how far we stray from reality, human connections and the need for physical interactions are built into our DNA. Humans are social creatures.
Also meetup groups remove the mindset of being on a date with a stranger. At the end of the day, the only failure in this case is if you didn't enjoy the experience. If you meet someone, you win, if you make friends, you win, if you have fun, you win.
[–]newbphil 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Damn thanks for the article link, had some really interesting stuff. Was that posted here already? If not you should
[–]thetahill1 point 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
You're welcome! I posted it a few weeks back if I recall. It got some discussion and kind of disappeared among some other stuff. I really do think if more guys reflected on how online dating is NOT working for them, and the literally thousands of women around them on a weekly basis they could engage, many guys would get off dating apps. Most guys just create limitations in their mind like "I can't talk to her because she's working" or "talking to strangers is creepy" and end up going back to online dating.
[–]XDarkstarX1138 8 points9 points10 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It's a shame that it seems there are hundreds of these women and not many others that are genuine and interested in something long term or serious. The plague of online dating and social media.
[–]OmniscientOCE 9 points10 points11 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
tryna make a buck I guess. so many girls selling nudes and vids and stuff on Reddit lol. If it works then I guess I can't blame em
[–]Cash_Crescendo 12 points13 points14 points 7 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Bumble is currently safe.
[–]CanadianStatement[S] 11 points12 points13 points 7 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
I get NOTHING on Bumble, but 20 matches on Tinder. I don't understand.
[–]accountno543210 3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Aghem...Rule 1...
[–]CanadianStatement[S] 8 points9 points10 points 7 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Personal attack/shitposting?
[–]imageall 12 points13 points14 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
No, rule 1 of seduction: be attractive
Rule 2: don't be unattractive
[–]CanadianStatement[S] 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Now i'm on board. I think Bumble just isn't used as much in my city. Plus, its a bit different than Tinder, logistically.
[–]turimbar1 3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Be Attractive.
That's Rule 1.
Rule 2: Don't be unattractive
[–]ImJustSo 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
No silly, be attractive.
[–]CanadianStatement[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Gotcha.
[–]Jaja_Aureolin 5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Disgusting.
[–]mookyvon 44 points45 points46 points 7 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
Same as in real life. Never trust a girl who approaches you first
[–]CanadianStatement[S] 41 points42 points43 points 7 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Not necessarily true.
[–]Amphimphron15 points 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Username checks out.
[–]exophrine 3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Can confirm...been messaged first a few times, was targeted.....for love. ;)
[+]accountno543210 -11 points-10 points-9 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You equate "approach" with getting a fucking message? I'm sorry, but that is sad.
[–]exophrine 3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I see that context has escaped you, as the topic of this whole discussion is online ....dating.
I'm sorry, but I think you went off half-cocked this time. Feel free to try again...or double down, I won't mind lol
[–]accountno543210 -5 points-4 points-3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh okay. I will LET you pass. LET.
[–]GKaplan0 14 points15 points16 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Nah not always true. Be weary though if your a 7 or less and a 10 comes up to you and is dtf.
[–]imageall 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That shit costs money
[–]curiousbird12 16 points17 points18 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Well no one approaches me first so...
[–]WhatsGoingggOn 11 points12 points13 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Good, won’t even get tempted
[–]D4rkr4in 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I ask them to send the virus link IRL
[–]Airporthoboxd 19 points20 points21 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Trying to get a girl these days is like trying to catch a safari pokemon. If you throw bait(go indirect/play it safe)they stick around but its harder to close the deal(ultimately have sex)but if you throw a rock(be direct with your intentions)she most likely is gonna get startled and run away but if she stays its almost a guaranteed you’ll catch(have sex).
[–]Boomslangalang 19 points20 points21 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Stop using Pokémon analogies and you will probably meet more interesting people.
[–]accountno543210 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Those girls can be so damaged tho because that is how they EXPECT to be approached (rock method) because that is the only way they know how to measure men. Sometimes the cleanest, wettest partner is one who plays it safe, but still likes to have fun and escalate.
[–]PunjabiTobaTekSingh 3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
lmfao, just send it already goddamnnniiitttt
[–]mattster180 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'd click just for gay JAcK
[–]HipGuide 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
POF, 2019 tbf
[–]CanadianStatement[S] 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
To be fair.
[–]RandoM_ChancE 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Tooooo be faaiiir!
[–]AriesLiver 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The link contains "gay"...
[–]Idabfordayz 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Story of my life.
[–]TiedHands 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Every time I log onto POF, I instantly get a string of messages from Alison98204, then Bailey10492, then Alysha96302, then Lindsay09283, then....
All with the headline "COME MEET ME". I kind of want to see the kind of people that actually take the bait.
[–]SuperPoop 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don’t forget the algorithms man. I used to get matched to 20 girls a week on tinder. Now it’s maybe 1. They want you to pay.
[–]secretsaucee 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He sounds like he’s been thru that a couple times
[–]esly4ever 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Absolute gold.
[–]MarcamGorfain 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
FACT
[–]olpdragon 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Has anyone been able to seduce a bot enough to get to the next step?
[–]darksidessj25 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
This is POF and Tinder. The only way to meet someone is in real life.
[–]CanadianStatement[S] 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Technically speaking, you're right. You only physically meet people, in real life. Many times though, PoF/Tinder have personally been the catalyst for meeting someone and hooking up.
[–]darksidessj25 8 points9 points10 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I get stunners in real life but on online, fakes, flakes, and fatties.
[–]CanadianStatement[S] 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I can attest to the latter, and the former. They frequently attempt to hit above their weight, pardon the pun. A lot of 40+, also (i'm 33).
[–]darksidessj25 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I discovered that the more grounded you are on the inside, the more of a feminine woman you'll attract. It's all about being in the present while showing intent. Think of it like a gas pedal when talking to a girl. Step on the gas and don't break. If you have breaks then you aren't grounded and in control of yourself. It takes some time to practice. I've notice a lot of people having social anxiety and I had the worse. You're thoughts, words, and actions have got to align.
I think that the messages from people you don't consider attractive are inevitable, in an online environment. True for real life interactions also, I suppose. We all have our own methods for maintaining happiness, in the world of dating.
I prefer to be alone during the week and have interactions with women on the weekends. I have a good job and my own place, and very confident. The rest writes itself.
[–]SirAdonisJ 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yup this happened to me like twice on Tinder and Instagram and all of my friends
[–]astronomnomnomy 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“.ga/y”
[–]Everyoneisacoward 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol. Exactly
[–]steveblahhh 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's POF, 2019.
almost as if they allow spam bots so their premium membership looks more appealing...
[–]Hedonisticbiped 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I still get slightly excited.
[–]na_na_batman_ -2 points-1 points0 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
This is older than your mum boi
I literally just screenshotted this, this morning. You are mistaken.
[–]na_na_batman_ -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Maybe but I saw exactly this years ago
[–]CanadianStatement[S] -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It couldn't have been exactly. Similar, very possible.
[–]justintheunsunggod 11 points12 points13 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Except it doesn't take long to figure out when you're getting messages from fake accounts. Most have a very easy to spot naming format or other similar giveaways. It's why I seriously doubt that PoF or Tinder give much of a shit about stopping them.
[–]CanadianStatement[S] 6 points7 points8 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This.
They're super easy to spot, and I always know when somebody is actually trying to start a conversation. This particular bot was in another dating location, which is usually the first sign.
Her headline was "I LOVE MEET ME (A Plenty of Fish feature), and her profile description said the same.
[–]dunedain441 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"just sent send you the virus link"
Op wasn't threatening anyone just saying go ahead and send it as he knew it was bs.
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