Intro

There are two parts to this post, one is called The Process, which explains what the process is, the other part is called The Fastest Way to Improve, which gives a basic outline to newbies.

One of the reasons why I believe in not caring about inner game is because your inner game will naturally handle itself through what I call The Process of taking action.

The Process

Naturally if you take action you will get results, take someone who hasn't read anything about seduction, tell him to do 100 approaches and he will get at least SOME kind of results. He then naturally learns from experience, and in his next 100 approaches he doubles his result.

How Outcome Independence is formed naturally through The Process

The biggest killer of attraction is neediness, and the opposite of neediness is outcome independence which comes from abundance, when you don't care if the girl leaves or stays, or if you get laid or not. While a lot of gurus and companies try to teach you how to be outcome independent, there is no better teacher than experience.

When I first started with pick up, I was a virgin who had a lot of fears with women. In my first four months I did over 1000 approaches and got a ton of results. I remember when I got my first number and I was super excited, but then she never answered, and I couldn't sleep that night because of all the pain. Shortly after I got hundreds of numbers, and they didn't mean anything to me anymore, but dates did! So I got my first scheduled date, but she flaked on me right before the date, and I was again in pain and couldn't sleep all night.

So then I got used to flakes, and they didn't phase me as much, when one day I got a date with a really hot girl, and I brought her back to my place. I was too scared to escalate, and she eventually had to go. After the date, I never saw her again, and I was in pain all night and couldn't sleep.

This process happened over and over with each level of results. My first number, my first date, my first kiss, my first hottie, my first lay, etc.. And it's still not over, last week I had sex with the hottest girl out of all girls I've had sex with, and the attachment and neediness came back, sure enough I went through the pain again. This is all part of the process.

How is the process broken down?

Action → Results → Pleasure → Attachment to results and pleasure and identification with outcome (Neediness) → Loss → Pain → Indifference → Outcome Independence → Abundance

Eventually you get so much of that result that you don't care about it anymore, this is called abundance. If I give you 10 cents, it's not really going to spike your emotions, if you lose that 10 cents, you're not really going to care. However, if you find out one day you won 10 million dollars, you will be ecstatic, then in the morning you found out it was a mistake, and you will become angry or depressed. Give a million dollars to a billionaire, and it won't affect him, because the billionaire lives in abundance.

The thing about women is, the less you are attached to them, the less needy you are, the more attracted they become to you. Naturally, the process, will make you more attractive to women.

So go out and take action and feel the pleasure and pain of pick up!

The Fastest Way to Improve

Now that you understand the process, and how experience and results affect your neediness and your inner game, I will give you a quick guide on how to improve fast based on the natural inner game approach.

First, because of the process, you want to develop sexual confidence as fast as possible, you want to get laid the easiest way possible for you. Once making out with girls is no longer a big deal, getting laid becomes easier, and once getting laid is no longer a big deal, girls become really attracted to you through your sub-communication of outcome independence.

Step 1 - Find the style that gets you laid

Whether it's social circle, online dating, day game, night game, sex parties, it doesn't matter. Your goal is to develop sexual confidence, so you must find the style that gets you results. If you don't know what your style is, do 100 approaches of each style and see what your ratio of results to approach is. The style that gives you the most results, focus on that one.

Step 2 - Focus on greens

A girl that is into you is a green, there is no game needed to lay her, you just have to not mess up, and move things forward logistically and escalate. Yellows are girls that require game to convert to green. Reds are girls that aren't into you no matter what you do.

Step 3 - Learn how to keep those girls

After you've gotten laid, you need to learn how to keep those girls around so that you get consistent sex. There are many relationship styles, which I will not get into but you can find all over the web.

Step 4 - Find better quality women in your style

Now you're living in abundance, you're getting consistent sex, you can change your game from quantity to quality, you need to fine tune your style and get better quality women. There's two ways to do this, one is increase your attractiveness, the other is learn better game to convert yellows to greens. Once you get a hottie, go back to Step 3 and learn how to keep hotties.

Step 5 - Learn other styles

You've developed sexual confidence, you've mastered your style, you're sleeping with new hotties consistently and you know how to keep them around. You're pretty much bored of "game" as you know it, time to explore other styles and repeat the process from Step 1 to Step 5.

I hope this guide helped you, all the best!

Cheers.

Qlue (aka hahaboohoo)