Where to find a milf?

shidurbaba · 2021-09-09T20:46:48+00:00

Join yoga classes in your area which ever one you can afford. Mornings you will find all the divorcees and married women; evening you will find the younger women. Pick your poison 😉

Zemez_ · 2021-09-09T21:01:31+00:00

The girls your age have mothers 🤷🏻‍♂️

L4V1 · 2021-09-09T23:32:57+00:00

There’s all these websites that apparently have older women that usually want you within 5 miles. Have you tried looking at those?

Thehuss23 · 2021-09-09T17:35:08+00:00

Join a dance class. Plenty women and no guys

masmiester · 2021-09-09T17:48:15+00:00

Go to bars/clubs that have an older crowd....easiest location to meet them... Alternatively ( or also) there are some niche OLD sites for this...

TimeToFuckPigeons · 2021-09-09T17:47:28+00:00

any single women over 40 at a bar will fuck you if you have even the slightest bit of game

j2bbt238 · 2021-09-09T17:35:18+00:00

friends parents house

Revolutionary_Ad1846 · 2021-09-09T19:34:59+00:00

Yoga, parks,

Makaveli_10 · 2021-09-09T20:00:22+00:00

I recommend trader Joe's. So many gorgeous Milfs.

TheMaslankaDude · 2021-09-09T23:55:06+00:00

Gonna add onto this convo by saying I love older women! There tends to be a lot less drama when dating one - as they're so much more direct and really don't have the time for all the B.S.

My advice like others have mentioned is going to a bar that is known to have an older crowd, ask around if you don't know any... if you don't know who to ask, start befriending local bartenders and ask them.

Another thing that is very much so worth mentioning is being cautious about what the both of y'all want from the "relationship." Falling in love on accident with a woman twice your age can be a really hard thing to deal with if you aren't ready for that life style.

Like, when you're a young man - you might want to settle down and have kids when love or lust enters your psyche. That just simply isn't an option after a stage in a womans life. Things and feelings can get complicated really fucking quick.. speaking from experience on that part.

KingoftheNorth412 · 2021-09-09T18:00:48+00:00

Facebook dating

No-Historian-6391 · 2021-09-09T18:13:16+00:00

Any bar. (live music seems to help). Be direct and it will happen. There is no wasted time , they are predators.

rpchristian · 2021-09-09T19:08:32+00:00

Bar and restaurant places at happy hour is a cheat code for Milf's meeting other Milfs after work.

Eat at the bar if you can to prolong your stay and exposure, and it helps mitigate drinking.

Thursdays are the new Friday...and of course Fridays are prime time but you will have more competition too.

Works well for married ones too even when they are with hubby.

Only date the married ones with his permission...but its more common than you think. 😉

Troll-or-D · 2021-09-09T17:44:21+00:00

Go upstairs last time I checked there was one.

casadechay · 2021-09-09T19:11:36+00:00

Flirt with women at a bookstore or similar place

dutchmastiffbeacon · 2021-09-09T22:04:44+00:00

high end hotel bars

Kiingog · 2021-09-09T23:38:21+00:00

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AdhesivenessRecent89 · 2021-09-09T23:08:16+00:00

Older women love happy hours, usually in groups w co workers. They also have “girls night” typically on Fridays. Places that serve nice wines. Approach them in groups so they feel safe and shows you’re mature and not intimidated. No pick up lines. Just comment “rough week a work ladies”

learnie · 2021-09-10T03:11:46+00:00

As far as i know, you don't find milf, they find you 😂

franniedelrey · 2021-09-10T04:43:14+00:00

Pornhub has ads that allow you to connect with one in your area. It’s legit.

CrunchyRAMENCQ10 · 2021-09-10T01:57:05+00:00

I'm a MILF and just turned 40. I am staggered by the amount of young men who are DTF even though I'm fat too. Seriously, I just use Tinder. I am there for sex only. I hint to that on my profile. I chat a little bit with a guy and if he seems ok I will just come right out and ask when we can fuck. It's really simple. Don't over think it.

AmmoTuff182 · 2021-09-10T01:43:08+00:00

The grocery store. I work in one and they’re everywhere.

jessowski · 2021-09-09T21:23:59+00:00

Bingo hall

The_Captain_2232 · 2021-09-10T02:24:50+00:00

Adult Ed classes. I was in my 20s and decided to learn French - met a lovely MILF and we had a delightful affair. Good times.

TheRealAlkemyst · 2021-09-09T21:50:52+00:00

Dating sites under Separated. I went back to dating while I was Separated in my 40s-50 and I discovered it's the code word for MILFs looking for fun outside their marriage. Most were in marriages where their husbands had mistresses or were at least cheating on them.

Also clubs on ladies nights/happy hours will bring the MILFs out.

That said you have to know what you are doing and a lot of 24 yo dudes just don't. You can't talk to a MILF like she is a 21 yo about Bieber and Fortnite, your bros, etc. You can't be looking to tie her down and she very may well be fucking other dudes. I always loved the women in the 35-45 range since I was a teenager. I was bigger and more mature looking so I got into clubs young. I had a fully restored 1966 Mustang GT so that worked back in the late 80's early 90's when I was on the prowl. Literally a few times downtown by the beach, an older chick would just hop inside when I was stopped and ask be to take her for a ride. My go to depending on the vibe I got would be to say "Will you take me for a ride after?"

sh1ftyswar · 2021-09-09T22:01:52+00:00

Dive bars, plus there usually DTF

If she smokes she pokes

MarrMarr02 · 2021-09-09T21:19:45+00:00

It depends on where you live and how often you approach. They don't walk around with a sign that says "I'm a MILF" so don't expect it to be easy. But you can find them just about everywhere. Just approach any older woman you find attractive. I've had a lot of luck at WHole Foods/Trader Joe's/ Dept. stores at the mall/ Hiking groups and yoga classes (Though I haven't tried those yet)

mookie1955 · 2021-09-09T21:20:00+00:00

Fonzi told Richie the best place was the supermarket

Lunabell1187 · 2021-09-10T04:29:21+00:00

My brother used to vacation by cougars and Cubs themed cruises when he was your age. Sounded wild. My brother was wild back then.

sloppysmellypoo · 2021-09-10T06:14:29+00:00

Target. Lots of milfys

BerghainInMyVeins · 2021-09-10T01:23:04+00:00

Wherever Duke Silver is performing

NotHere2Insult · 2021-09-10T00:21:39+00:00

My grandma is single

iluvreddit · 2021-09-10T02:37:23+00:00

Fancy hotel bars, nice wine bars, etc

l34df4rm3r · 2021-09-10T07:07:18+00:00

Develop a better connection with your parents. Then get to know their friends.

sophist16 · 2021-09-10T16:57:27+00:00

You’re only 24….every woman will be an older woman to you. Lol

Seriously though, I say this a thousand times, stop focusing on women. You’re actively seeking out an older woman, but understand that older women aren’t seeking out you. Older women are seeking out guys that are into themselves…meaning, running around chasing women will only get you so far. You’ll have the pick of the litter when you are selfish and do things that you’re into. Once you focus on YOU the women, whether older, younger etc will come flocking.

All summed up, if you want to find (insert your preference here) woman…than forget about women and focus on yourself.

eyebellel · 2021-09-09T23:16:49+00:00

If you’re going for an older woman, you better know what you’re doing in bed. Looks can only take you so far, baby.

merchant_of_mirrors · 2021-09-10T05:13:02+00:00

they're everywhere bro. Hit up a wine bar and just be social. alot of what it takes to pull a baddie is random chance, MILFS included. The one i pulled works at a pharmacy store. I just chatted her up a few times and now she swallows my loads lmao. Be direct and be masculine, you'll get what you want

Minusmor · 2021-09-09T22:08:19+00:00

Yoga

2021-09-10T02:13:04+00:00

Fetlife

nalinpuri · 2021-09-10T03:40:38+00:00

In your nearby grocery market

joker7346 · 2021-09-10T04:04:38+00:00

You could wait outside the hospital for a fresh one

Keanuisawesome69 · 2021-09-10T05:13:30+00:00

Whole foods market

damnation333 · 2021-09-10T06:54:57+00:00

Jazz/Blues gigs attracts a slightly older clientele. (I'm a singer and plenty of them there)

Ashamed-Height1106 · 2021-09-10T11:02:46+00:00

Take the time and training to Become a yoga instructor. Milfs at your beck and call.

Spetsnaz1776 · 2021-09-09T20:50:08+00:00

the gym

Lost-for-life · 2021-09-10T01:05:50+00:00

Find a country bar near you if you can. You'll find girls of all ages that are interested in extra curricular activities

Narcan9 · 2021-09-09T22:09:32+00:00

Hang out at the elementary school and hit on the moms as they pick up their kid from kindergarten.

curvedbymykind · 2021-09-09T22:20:43+00:00

Brothel

Unnecessary-Space814 · 2021-09-10T04:16:52+00:00

You might just want to say you’re interested in older women, rather than milfs. Because I get classified as a milf and I’m 20 😂

My suggestion would be dating apps because I think it doesn’t occur to a lot of older women that a guy in their early 20s is genuinely interested in them. Then again it depends on what you classify as older. Are you thinking like fairly close to your age as in 30s or were you thinking 40s/50s age range? All come with perks and drawbacks.

ApatheticHeretic_101 · 2021-09-09T22:03:07+00:00

"I’m fairly decent with women and getting my foot in the door just don’t know how to approach the situation."

Then why you asking for advice? You got no game for real women. Life isn't a porn episode with a cheat code...

LOL

Narcan9 · 2021-09-09T22:09:23+00:00

Hang out at the elementary school and hit on the moms as they pick up their kid from kindergarten.

searinox2012 · 2021-09-10T00:57:24+00:00

Visit your friends houses or families.

TheRealWorldNigeria · 2021-09-09T23:16:33+00:00

Downtown

lady_ven0m · 2021-09-10T00:54:17+00:00

Try Hinge. I met a younger guy on there.

make_me_a_good_girl · 2021-09-10T04:12:29+00:00

/r/cougarsAndCubs is a decent place to start if you're looking on Reddit.

Keanuisawesome69 · 2021-09-10T05:12:32+00:00

Grocery store

Charlem912 · 2021-09-10T05:57:34+00:00

go to an indoor playground

Neither_Respect3714 · 2021-09-10T07:25:50+00:00

After Work events/dinner in business areas. Look in Meetup or similar local groups

RedEyeBlackEye1 · 2021-09-10T15:33:58+00:00

GROCERY STORES, DEPT STORES, AND ANY OUTDOOR EVENT.

They LOVE TO SHOP AND LOVE TO EAT good axx food.

MO_drps_knwldg · 2021-09-11T02:38:47+00:00

Yoga, dance class, online dating, Whole Foods, gym in general, wine bars

Title	Where to find a milf?
Author	Kiingog
Upvotes	278
Comments	159
Date	September 9, 2021 5:34 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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