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Masculinity is an act or performance. One who engages in the act are called masculine. So 'masculine' is a label to identify people who engage in the performance of masculinity. The problem with this is that the actions that need to be performed to be masculine are not decided by the individuals engaging in masculinity. It is decided by others. So it teaches men to seek external validation. As time period changes the set of actions that need to be done to be masculine also change. Masculinity also varies across cultures. Masculinity is not a biological imperative. It is socially constructed to manipulate men to do get things done by them.

People do not realise how much crimes some men committed due to feeling emasculated. I honestly have sympathy for such men because they did not choose to be born in such system. They did not ask for the brainwashing. So many domestic violence against women occurred against women due to men feeling emasculated. But I feel sympathy not only for those women but also for the men committing it. Now as a consequence all men are blamed for the crimes of few men. This masculinity is what forces men to be super strong otherwise they will be exploited and dominated by other men. The exploitative men who dominate other men also have the same history of the men they are dominating. We have created a cycle of domination which forces men to be exploitative and cruel. Time to break it. For the men themselves and the future generation of men.