Friendly reminder to women: porn exists

sernamedeleted · 2021-10-04T16:39:28+00:00

Porn is one of the thing that got all your mind into the mess it's in.

Unrealistic expectations of size, performance, frequency, response, human beauty, positioning, etc created by the porn industry is one of the things that has confused a generation of men so badly that they can't develop healthy relationships.

Having a decent photo or video that does it for you to relieve stress and achieve PNC is fine

CatchPhraze · 2021-10-04T18:02:25+00:00

Girl you ain't hot enough to be anyone's dream or anything either. I mean neither am I, but you're projecting onto us again

catsinbananahats · 2021-10-04T13:40:55+00:00

If a guy can't tell the difference between porn and real life, I won't marry him.

Spacct · 2021-10-04T13:50:23+00:00

"I think movies are real life, and think everyone else thinks it too"

I watch porn, but it's never kept me from having sex with any real life woman, nor have I been disappointed by any of them.

NarniaFox · 2021-10-04T13:47:31+00:00

Not all men are porn addicts.

Mrs_Drgree · 2021-10-04T13:45:09+00:00

Yo, if it's getting to the wedding night and you still don't know your sexually incompatible, I doubt a limp is your biggest issue.

Substantial_Wasabi · 2021-10-04T14:02:48+00:00

Im hotter than those most of those girls so idc. Plus my pussys not on the internet for all to see so i get points for that too.

2021-10-04T14:20:37+00:00

Yet another reason to never marry lol

Seriously though, that doesn't matter for women who take care of ourselves physically and are sexually adventurous with our partners. I watch porn for my own pleasure and for new ideas 💡

januaryphilosopher · 2021-10-04T17:14:55+00:00

There is something I can do about it: not date men who watch porn. It's worked for me so far!

Express-Parsnip5090 · 2021-10-04T13:50:03+00:00

You thought you ate that 😂

rosesonthefloor · 2021-10-04T13:50:25+00:00

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LillianF320 · 2021-10-04T13:46:49+00:00

Sounds like those men have problems with porn then lol. Not surprised this is your take. I guess I hope your never in that situation but if you believe all men do it, you already are lol

Throwaway18077 · 2021-10-05T02:12:27+00:00

OP is a woman that posts pictures of her own vagina and she is angry that other women do not have to do so yet still get a lot of attention and likely significantly more than her

I have never sent as much as a nude yet I can assure you that no man has ever been disappointed when he’s seen my body. I dated a man who was a self proclaimed recovered porn addict and he told me every day that my body was the greatest he’s ever seen, I could not keep him off of me.

Not surprised by this post at all, OP is some sort of mentally ill confused angry person claimed to be married to a man she claims to have lost her virginity to and boasts about how she’s a great mother yet if you check her profile she’s loaded it up with videos of her own vagina, face in the videos and all.

Mark_Freed · 2021-10-04T14:12:28+00:00

We haven't reached that level yet, I know how great porn can get. But sex is qualitatively different from masturbation

DreamsOfWishes · 2021-10-05T09:49:38+00:00

Yeah, I know, why do you think I'm not dating?

ThisTimeForRealYo · 2021-10-04T14:14:22+00:00

This post was written by a man who’s content in life and feels no spite for the other gender, because they didn’t give him attention.

Stay mad and stay coping

Murphysmongoose · 2021-10-04T14:16:53+00:00

Hey, there's guys out there that will remind them what it feels like to be titillated. It's a doggy dogg world out there... Tit for tat. Probably literally a pun in most cases.

remcell45 · 2021-10-05T02:20:36+00:00

Friendly reminder to you: Women also watch porn.

And that your husbands prefers porn is a problem for you, my wife looks amazing even with her rolls because she is still mine.

PeskyHijinks · 2021-10-04T13:50:39+00:00

Seriously, what the hell is up with women's intense hatred of porn, even ethically sourced porn. And it seems to be growing. Women are so insecure they not only need to police all of men's sexuality through shaming tactics, they also need to ensure those men who can't get sex dont even watch it. And women who would not allow the watching of porn inside of a relationship, that shows such a weak sense of self esteem and major control that it's a huge red flag. I can only understand it in the case of addiction. But that doesn't seem to be the real issue, which seems to be insecurities.

Painfulmenstruation · 2021-10-04T23:11:23+00:00

This is literally the only time I will ever agree with one of your comments, GimpGirl.

Twenty or so years of unfettered access to porn has proven the majority of men prefer masturbating to pornstars over engaging in sexual activity with their wives and girlfriends.

Their preference for porn is so profound that I don’t think women should even bother having relationships anymore.

What’s the point of a relationship if you aren’t getting all his sexual attention and he’ll never be happy with your body? Even if he starts out happy with your body, looks can fade and/or he’ll get bored.

I have no illusions about being able to compete with porn. Even when I was fit and hot with big tits and game to try almost anything my boyfriend chose porn over me 90% of the time.

It scarred me emotionally for life and turned me off the idea of sex and relationships with men.

I mean, what’s the point? What I want and need from a relationship is respect, affection, good sex, kindness, protection, loyalty, and companionship and porn-watching men just can’t, don’t and won’t provide that. The best you can hope for with a man is that he’s a master at hiding his porn use and who is a good actor who will feign finding you as attractive as he does pornstars.

I’m never going to put myself in a position where a man can hurt me like that again so I avoid them and I’ve turned down every man who has approached me for the past eight years.

I often wonder why men approach me at all or even flirt with me or even try to make eye contact with me when they can access the women they really want on their phones 24/7.

I just don’t understand why any modern man would want to be in a relationship anymore when he has porn and as far as women’s mental health goes, it’s better to be single than to be rejected in favour of porn. Today that is a certainty whether you find out about it or not, and it is extremely emotionally painful to experience when you do find out about it.

Sex toys are a much better investment. Guaranteed pleasure without depression, resentment, anger and questioning your self-worth. Plus, a much lower risk of sexual assault.

Literally, the only reason to actually have intercourse with a man these days is to get free sperm when you want kids, instead of using a sperm donor.

Find a hot, successful, intelligent, non-crazy man without STDs, set up a FWB relationship, let him fuck you raw until you become pregnant.

Then ghost him and have the baby on your own, don’t put his name on the birth certificate, then pop back into his life when the child is 10 to introduce them to Daddy and then take him to court for child support if you want.

Of course, I wouldn’t recommend doing this unless you are capable of supporting the baby on your own. The whole point of getting pregnant this way is to access quality sperm you can’t get via catalogue, avoid a fertility clinic and to avoid being rejected for porn/other women later on, and having to manage a man-child in a relationship, it’s not to trap a rich man and fleece him. However, the child will want to know their dad and half-siblings and 10 is a good age to make the introductions.

The bonus is you get to raise the child and instill your values into them without a man’s interference. They take your surname and become YOUR legacy, not the legacy of a porn-watcher.

Cuntwaffe3 · 2021-10-04T19:12:55+00:00

Peak Daddy issues

Meninist_h · 2021-10-06T05:55:22+00:00

That's kinda sad dude, I mean atleast for a few years of relationship have a nice body men n women, it's amazing, for guys, a woman in shape and a nice figure is an instant turn on and we get aroused by that and so do Men who are fit and amazing.

Trust me, it's very hard for Men to get hard seeing a fat woman, but would get instantly hard if she's maintaining her body and figure.

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upalse · 2021-10-04T13:39:19+00:00

Gimp, would you timestamp plox? Some of us still have doubts this is for real.

LaPrimaVera · 2021-10-04T14:03:27+00:00

Im pretty so 💁‍♀️

2021-10-04T14:36:33+00:00

And?

CFinCanada · 2021-10-04T15:12:06+00:00

Uh, yes?

My boyfriend and I occasionally watch it together while we go down on each other.

Well, try to. Hard to watch with your mouth full and head pointed down and all that. Logistical issues.

NotinRedpillBubble · 2021-10-10T10:16:57+00:00

You are aware that 35% of porn consumers are female? Quick reminder: women fantasies about much hotter men as well and that is OK.

Men watch porn, they will never get these women tho

NotinRedpillBubble · 2021-10-10T10:17:59+00:00

Actually men report having better sex with the woman they care for. Watching porn is fun for BOTH genders but having sex with a HOT woman that cares for you is more exciting, honey.

Diamond-Breath · 2021-11-25T20:24:13+00:00

Guys stop, I truly think OP has mental issues. It's no use arguing with her, she needs compassion not judgement calls.

michael1962-01 · 2021-10-04T16:02:49+00:00

Sorry. No.

I can't get it up for a flabby or chubby so i do not see them at all as fu$$able.

So i have highest standards.

And i enforce them.

My young perfect 10 ltr and me we watch porn together and lough about the scenes and bodies.

But we are genetically favoured.

Big-Calligrapher686 · 2021-10-05T17:12:23+00:00

This porn debate is interesting, I watch Hentai tho, sooo XD🤪

Title	Friendly reminder to women: porn exists
Author	gimpgirl555
Upvotes	29
Comments	148
Date	October 4, 2021 1:38 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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