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I wonder if I click on your user name I would see you suffering from the same issues? No?
/r/seduction08/02/21 11:24 AM
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some bich...why?
/r/seduction08/02/21 11:16 AM
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Ask them...
/r/seduction08/02/21 10:17 AM
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What if she keeps withholding sex for 2nd and 3rd date. How would you know "when"? She may keep doing this for long time. It is also an indication she isn't very attracted to you sexually, or she has a libido issue. Men usually want sex more frequently than women, so if you stumble upon a woman with a libidio issue (which is common according to scientific stats), then it is a big problem.
/r/seduction08/02/21 10:17 AM
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Visualize yourself going to the beach and fucking a star fish.
/r/seduction08/02/21 07:41 AM
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It looks like you have zero sense of sarcasm.
/r/seduction08/02/21 07:38 AM
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Relationships start after sex not before it. Girls who withhold sex have self esteem issues, they fear guys will dump them after sex. Whilst attractive girls know that guys will chase them before or after sex, and they are just being themselves with no hidden agendas. And what if a girl withhold sex for 2 dates, 3 dates? How would a guy know when she is ready? He just gets rejection after rejection and eventually loses interest. Not to mention that there is a possibility that this girl is a virg…
/r/seduction08/02/21 07:37 AM
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Wow...
/r/seduction08/02/21 07:32 AM
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I think you got things mixed up. Was it a problem that you opened up too much? Or was it that you became needy, clingy and emotionally attached to her so fast? And hence her comment "Let's slow down"? There is nothing wrong in opening up, being yourself, talk about whatever the fuck you want and not give a single damn about people's judgment. But there is everything wrong when you become needy and emotional sucker...
/r/seduction08/02/21 07:00 AM
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1 - Take hours to reply to his text, or even days. 2 - Cancel dates and flake, you will look more cool and busy. 3 - Withhold sex as much as you can, it will make him miss you more. 4 - Go to his apartment and then deny sex at last minute, this will give him blue balls and makes him want you more. 5- When you finally have sex with him, put your hands on the pillow, that will make him feel disconnected and disgusted, then blame him for having an erectile dysfunction. It will give you more power. …
/r/seduction08/02/21 06:40 AM
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I will be honest with you, but even when you date the perfect girl, you will always feel there is someone else better. You may always feel incomplete and doubt your choice. But at the same time, have a standard, don't fool yourself into a relationship with a girl you know you deserve better. So it is kinda complicated. My standard is, that girl will make me think less of other's and help me focus on more important things in my life other than chasing women. She doesn't have to be 9/10.
/r/seduction05/02/21 09:04 AM
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Because they have low standards. Or they haven't tried other's...etc, I have friends too who are working shitty jobs, having poor health..etc, So it is self esteem and setting a standard to yourself issue. What are the stats of failed marriages again? I mean, what if you meet a beautiful girl, and you have great intellectual connection, but she is terrible in bed, or even has low libido or doesn't even like sex with you..etc, ? What if everything is great but she cheated on you or became distant…
/r/seduction05/02/21 05:47 AM
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You don't have to dance if you don't feel to. You can start by approaching her, giving her a hi 5 or fist pump, then talk loudly to her. Things like "You have cool dance moves", "I like your dress"...etc, Going to dance when you don't want to, to please or follow her lead is a very bad frame to start with. You are supposed to be alpha mofo who doesn't give a fukk about things you don't like..
/r/seduction04/02/21 05:05 PM
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To find a good long term relationship, you will have to date and sleep with lots of girls. And this will require talking to tons, either with cold approach or dating apps. It is not like one day you will magically meet "The one", without 100s of failures.
/r/seduction04/02/21 04:48 PM
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Maybe you suck at chess or she is not into guys who start with 1.E4. She is more in 1.D4 guys...
/r/seduction03/02/21 06:13 PM
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You have to carefully calibrate though, if the girl is investing and interested, but you act "cool" and disinterested, she will lose interest and thinks you are not taking her seriously. So act accordingly...
/r/seduction03/02/21 06:09 PM
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Ouch, true brother.
/r/seduction31/01/21 08:11 AM
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The video is deleted actually. The video was about Tyler stealing girls from Julien and Julien was doing the same. And yes both did it while she was already horny... I remember Owen putting his arms around the girl and turning her against Julien but she still pushed her body towards him, without Julien saying a word, just by looking at her eyes...
/r/seduction31/01/21 07:23 AM
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It wasn't a video where he said he made them wet with eye contact. It was actually a video when Tyler was talking with a girl, and Julian went to stare at her so she ignored Owen and kept talking to Julian.
/r/seduction29/01/21 08:26 PM
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Julian is a beast PUA. Some of his old videos he made girls wet by just using his eye contact without talking. I know RSD haters would say it's fake, but it wasn't. And I don't believe they make money anymore, Tyler looks like he is on the verge of bankruptcy, but he is a strong dude and he will push through it.
/r/seduction29/01/21 09:47 AM
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But what about women who dress in tight clothes, put on makeup, and scan the gym for males like a dance floor? There are plenty of these... And if you make one place "bad for pickup", then this mindset spreads like cancer to all places, even a bar... Would you fuckin mind if a hot girl approaches you during your miserable workout?? She wouldn't mind either if done right...
/r/seduction29/01/21 09:36 AM
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Listen my brother, even if a chick spreads her legs to you and took off her panties, you still won't be able to do it. It is almost impossible. But there is one solution to that. It is not to man up or grow a pair. Like the bros tell you here. They don't even do what they say. You have to cultivate a social momentum. You keep approaching strangers for 1-2 months straight. So when a girl checks you out...she is just one of these girls you approach regularly. Don't blame yourself at these situatio…
/r/seduction29/01/21 09:33 AM
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He made a thread to talk to fish...
/r/seduction29/01/21 09:28 AM
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Cafe is a high social pressure area. If you are socially anxious why don't you start by asking about time and directions first? Maybe later compliment girls and leave? See, a girl will never give such advice, they have no clue. They get their idea of male approach from Ryan Gosling movies, so good luck with that ...
/r/seduction29/01/21 09:27 AM
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Day 17: I am still doing one compliment a day. It gave me the habit of going out and doing something. I am in no rush and I will stretch myself slowly. I have a goal of getting a beautiful girlfriend, at least and 8 or 9. I know it is really really hard. But I am not complaining or hating the journey. I love the challenge and there is no doubt that one day I will do it.
/r/seduction29/01/21 08:31 AM
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Day 16: I am still consistent with my plan, complimenting 1 girl a day. Today I said I will do two compliments. The first one looked back at her phone as if I don't exist. All I told her was "nice dress" and she looked like she got offended or something. Happens all the time, cool. The second one I told her "nice hat', she stopped me before leaving and complimented me back. We kept chatting for 20 minutes (HOW RANDOM!). And it looked like she is up for an insta date, she didn't want to leave. Bu…
/r/seduction28/01/21 10:51 AM
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Day 15: I have changed my timing of going out to be at night time. But I am not visiting bars or clubs, but approaching girls in the streets. Girls are well dressed, in a social mood, they are expecting guys, they are sexy, single, not rushing after trams or work..etc, So basically you get more bang for your buck. I went with my friend at night for street game and we had better interactions. But I have been going with a wing for a long time, and I got too comfortable not to do solo game. Which i…
/r/seduction26/01/21 07:52 AM
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You can start by holding hands or sitting besides her on a bar couch and things escalate naturally. I didn't advice to creep them with uncalibrated/unnatural advances.
/r/seduction24/01/21 06:44 AM
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I am still approaching yes, but stopped updating this thread. Will update soon. Message me to add you to our whatsapp group
/r/seduction24/01/21 06:40 AM
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Lol bro, you try to fuck them on first date. Some of them get disappointed if you don't. And other's think if there is no sex first date then the connection is not strong enough. Forget this flowers and walking to the car shit you see in movies. This ain't hollywood son.
/r/seduction22/01/21 09:32 AM
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Are you serious? Valuable watches don't have to be bulky and flashy. Casio is disgusting though. You can buy one as a gift for your 12 yo son though, and I'd still feel sorry for him...
/r/seduction11/01/21 01:10 AM
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A good watch is an attractive accessory. Think of it as male jewellery. It is actually a faster way to know time than phone, so can be a little useful. I wouldn't wear anything below $500 though.
/r/seduction10/01/21 06:18 PM
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Attractive girls are less arrogant than average or above average girls. Because they don't need to be arrogant. They know they are the shit, they don't need to exhibit an inflated ego, because they don't even have one. Come on brother, have you dated lots of 10s to make this generalization? I never dated a 10, but if I approach them, they are the nicest. Attractive people in general are more successful and smarter too, according to science.
/r/seduction09/01/21 12:50 PM
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Day 14 : Same day lay! I went out with my friends, opened like 8 girls, mostly hot because solo daygame gave me confidence and strength to approach hotter girls. Got a solid contact, and she is texting me with enthusiasm and lots of texts, so I have a chance to meet her again. Then I met another friend couple of hours later, I wasn't in the mood to approach, but he pushed me to approach one very attractive girl. It happened that this girl was super horny, so anything I said worked. We walked tog…
/r/seduction09/01/21 12:19 PM
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I have clinical eye contact issue, could be Asperger's or OCD.And it is crippling me. But I am the kind of man that nothing stops me. Cut both of my arms and leave me walking and I would still do it until death...
/r/seduction09/01/21 06:03 AM
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I didn't say approaching women is awkward and creepy. I said this how it feels when you first start. It is just your current state of mind after long day of logical tasks. You omitted the word "feels". So you have to gradually socialize to loosen up. And btw, when you go out to do your daily routine, you approach hot girls in the supermarket? Hot girls in the gym, hot girls in your building? The hot barista serving you coffee. A random group of 3 hot girls eating in a restaurant? Hot girls in yo…
/r/seduction08/01/21 09:14 PM
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I am actually good looking guyhttps://i.imgur.com/iMiOdqq.jpg And with all honesty girls stare when I walk. And I have my own business. I have no major self esteem issues. I approached many attractive girls today, but at the beginning of the day, I am mentally and physically frozen. I can't even talk to a fat chick. Or any girl wayyyyy below my league. I have to do lots of mini approaches or ask for directions..etc before approaching a hot chick. Brother, it is not only fear of rejection or havi…
/r/seduction08/01/21 10:18 AM
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Yes you can start by imaginary exposure, or with pictures, or with videos, or with audio tapes....etc Depends on the severity of your anxiety. And you can also start by asking about time or directions, or approaching fat girls...etc, Depends on where you are in terms of your anxiety. But it is all part of graded exposure program, better to be systematic and written. After visulization or whatever you have to take bigger steps. OP disregarded all that, and said if you feel entitled to 10's, you c…
/r/seduction08/01/21 07:20 AM
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Casio is a solid watch?? So what is a shit watch then??
/r/seduction08/01/21 07:11 AM
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Troll post, nice try though, taking all this time to fabricate a long ass story.
/r/seduction08/01/21 06:53 AM
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That's why it is better to exchange instagram. It is more casual and you can comment on her story later on and strike a conversation, and build rapport over time. Phone message will be a little awkward in this situation, but not impossible...
/r/seduction08/01/21 06:50 AM
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Funny enough, the website you linked, call it "Social phobia" and recommend graded exposure as primary treatment. https://anxieties.com/142/sap-seven
/r/seduction08/01/21 06:30 AM
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Yeah, but what does science say about the efficacy of visualization to treat anxieties though? Tons of papers? Compared to in vivo exposure treatment? Would we believe one book or 100's of controlled scientific experiments ?
/r/seduction08/01/21 06:28 AM
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That's a great part of it. But 95% of men have insecurities and some sort of low self esteem. And even if you are truly content with who you are, approach anxiety is social anxiety, it is actually a phobia. And you can't treat phobias with "self talk", or feeling fullfilled. You can't tell someone with snakes phobia or fear of heights to have inner confidence. You treat phobias by graded and consistent exposure. Any man, a winner or loser, can start by simple approaches and build his way up. And…
/r/seduction08/01/21 05:44 AM
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Day 13: Started with the usual, warming up, asking about directions and asking girls general questions. Then I did real 3 approaches. None of them went well. But I feel good controlling my own life and liberating from Tinder Bullshit. I prioritized my day's schedule now to start with game. Then work and gym...etc, Because when I start with work or gym I am drained and my willpower to approach is really weak.
/r/seduction08/01/21 05:37 AM
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Tie it to another activity, I do it when I go to gym. it is also something you HAVE to do, not necessarily fun. I have my own business and I hate doing some stuff, but I have to, can't wait for motivation or I can't pay my bills. Also you have to have a written plan, if you just wing it, you will do what you are comfortable with, which is probably nothing...
/r/seduction04/01/21 06:26 PM
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If you have problems drinking, don't go to bars. Or take $10 with you and leave CC at home...
/r/seduction04/01/21 06:49 AM
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100%
/r/seduction02/01/21 09:37 AM
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You have no hope in life, son. Let alone a girl 6000 kms away....
/r/seduction02/01/21 08:48 AM
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Lol , it reminds me of the threads where the guy asks "This girl has been giving me mixed signals for the last 6 months". While at the same period she fucked 34 different guys....
/r/seduction02/01/21 08:47 AM
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Day 12: My plan was to make lots of approaches. But it was raining and girls traffic was really low. I started by doing warmups, I got bored from them, so I told myself I will do one real approach and call it a day. And there was her..... a super hot girl. The girl of my dreams. I was all warmed up, so I didn't hesitate long and approached her, told her you look "so cool". She was soooo happy and interested, unbelievable that this girl was into me. We had a little chat and I closed her instagram…
/r/seduction02/01/21 06:53 AM
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If she doesn't kiss second date, dumb her. If she is meeting only to "talk", then go talk to your friend... Why meet if there is no man/woman intimacy? Just text her then no need to meet.
/r/seduction31/12/20 09:38 PM
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This guy has a solid channel, don't judge by one video....
/r/seduction25/12/20 12:36 PM
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As with any type of opener...
/r/seduction25/12/20 06:03 AM
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Bro, a compliment is just an friendly opener. Why are you complicating it?
/r/seduction24/12/20 10:25 PM
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Day 11: Plan went great. Started by asking for directions, then asking girls a random question, then complimenting few girls, the doing 5 actual approaches ! I am really proud of myself for doing 5 real approaches. I am testing a new system which needs some refinments. I suck at it now, but I can see it has potential. Basically I am asking for girls numbers straight away, some were shocked by my request or confused so I will make few tweaks. But I am really happy that I can gain confidence and s…
/r/seduction24/12/20 09:09 AM
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Good photos + photoshop
/r/seduction19/12/20 12:36 PM
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do both cold approach and online until you find your dream girl. The thing with cold approach, is one day you will approach the right girl at the right time, and for a strange reason she will like you. Keep doing it until this happens
/r/seduction19/12/20 11:59 AM
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So what's your problem?
/r/seduction19/12/20 11:49 AM
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The hardest part is actually doing it...
/r/seduction19/12/20 11:26 AM
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It works but it is really hard. You have to have thick skin and endure lots of rejection. The more you improve your life and looks, the more success you have as well.
/r/seduction19/12/20 11:08 AM
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If a girl tells you "don't kill me" , tell her "Everyone wants to go to heaven but no one wants to die"
/r/seduction19/12/20 02:42 AM
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Here is my new plan to slowly progress during my session 1 - ask 5-10 girls about directions 2 - ask 5-10 girls a basic question like "Do you study at X university" or "Are you here for X event?" 3 - compliment 5-10 girls 4 - Approach 5 average girls 5 - Start approaching attractive girls 10 minutes max between each approach (timer running) Will report how it goes.
/r/seduction18/12/20 05:16 PM
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Nice brother
/r/seduction17/12/20 04:09 PM
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Day 10: Managed to do only 1 approach, and she was average. I think I am stuck in a plateau and need to shake things up. Will try to formulate better plan. Which includes gradual exposure at the session itself. So I start by asking for directions, then some statements or compliments..etc, Up to approaching an attractive girl. Because so far I am not progressing. But I am not new in this and I never give up. I know for sure that I will make it, and I will get the girl of my dreams out of this shi…
/r/seduction17/12/20 06:03 AM
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No! First message counts. Try "Hi what's up" on Tinder. May work if you are Brad Pitt.
/r/seduction16/12/20 05:53 PM
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Day 9: I did one approach only, and it was fast, just 5 minutes after descending from tram. But couldn't do another one because I was going to gym and haven't trained in long time. I think I need to dedicate a day to do mass approaches to get through AA. But until this day comes I will stick to 1-2 approaches per day
/r/seduction16/12/20 04:54 AM
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That's what happens when she is your only option and you don't contact other girls.
/r/seduction15/12/20 10:02 PM
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I used to enjoy clubs approaches, but daygame or street game solo is not enjoyable at all. Maybe if I am with my buddies, but I chose to proceed solo on my own terms now.
/r/seduction15/12/20 09:05 PM
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search for her on google images
/r/seduction15/12/20 06:54 PM
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Can't you think of any more boring first message?
/r/seduction15/12/20 06:29 PM
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You have two solutions to this. You either exchange a high value instagram, where girls actually chase you. Or if you exchange phone #, first message should be funny/intriguing. "Hey Sarah, it was nice to meet you", is garbage and you can't blame them for not responding to it, it is similar to "Hey" on Tinder, because you are not the only one who took their numbers.
/r/seduction15/12/20 06:28 PM
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Yeah I can approach 20 girls in one area, then if I change venue my AA starts at it's peak again...
/r/seduction15/12/20 08:25 AM
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I live in Melbourne so the city center is very busy all day. Night time is the best time though, cause girls have nothing to do, not in a rush, and if they are not with a male then they are usually single. Try to focus your approaches at only 1 place at first because if you spread locations you will overwhelm yourself.
/r/seduction14/12/20 10:11 PM
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Day 8: Walked around couldn't do shit for 30-40 minutes. But didn't give up, I know I will eventually pull an approach. And I did. For my first approach I changed the word "pretty" to "cool", she took it well and looked like she wanted to stay, but she wasn't my type and I felt awkward, so I ejected. After 1 minute I did the second approach, she took it well too, but refused to stop. All I can say that I am at least 1% better than Yesterday, I can see some progress.
/r/seduction14/12/20 07:41 AM
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Approach them in the supermarket.
/r/seduction13/12/20 10:19 PM
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What do you mean "nothing happens". You are the man, lead the situation.
/r/seduction13/12/20 09:41 PM
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Cuddling then kissing...duh?
/r/seduction13/12/20 12:20 PM
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A walk by Southbank, a chance to watch beautiful scenes and hold her hands. btw we have a whatsapp PUA group in Melbourne, text me to add you
/r/seduction13/12/20 12:19 PM
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I am not toxic, maybe you stop denying and learn from a mistake and become a better person. Do you want to be better or just want people to blame her so you feel good about yourself? Think about it, would she deny sex with Brad Pitt and stop texting him?
/r/seduction13/12/20 12:16 PM
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What do you mean by everything happened except sex? If you made out with her then you didn't manage to seduce her enough and she got disappointed. She did no mistake by not wanting to see you again cause you did something wrong or weren't good in bed..
/r/seduction13/12/20 11:43 AM
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Day 7 The real approaches: So I got bored from complimenting chicks, and I went out to do 1 real approach. I walked for 30 minutes not able to do any, even the easiest ones. But I have experience, I know if I keep on walking and not judging myself, I will be able to do one eventually. I know most men give up and walk back home (solo dg). So I saw a cute girl, told her "hey you look pretty", she got shy and left. I tried to stop her again but to no avail. Second approach took sometime too, but no…
/r/seduction13/12/20 02:38 AM
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I don't think I took courses on text game, but I make living by marketing and writing, so maybe this helps? I know the core principles, don't chase, don't be needy, use humor, don't type wall of texts..etc, And of course lots of Tinder texting fails improved my text game. I am the kind of man who analyses and improves, not doing the same mistakes over and over.
/r/seduction13/12/20 02:31 AM
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I had many lays from Tinder, but of course from average or at best above average girls. But I am sick from some girls have an attitude they don't deserve. And I started to believe meeting my dream girl is almost impossible there. Yes I know I will get rejected at cold approach, but at least it is something under my control, something I choose to do, not something that happens to me. My core of text game is humor. I invent my own openers that lead to fun conversation.
/r/seduction12/12/20 06:17 PM
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Day 6: Also complimented 3 girls, but I lost my motivation to only compliment and leave , so I will start doing real approaches soon! Good news to my fans haha
/r/seduction12/12/20 05:37 AM
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Take her instagram as a friend, u don't have to ask her out in person. Especially in these situations...
/r/seduction11/12/20 11:24 PM
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No, not true. It can be done in a good way and it can be done horribly wrong. I have seen both with my friends. For example you can stop a girl and keep interviewing her with boring questions, you can try to put a false mask on your real personality, you can have a terrible body language, eye contact, voice tone..etc, The list of things to do wrong is big...
/r/seduction11/12/20 08:31 PM
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Day 5: Complimented 3 girls, it is getting easier, so I will stick to this couple of days then stretch further
/r/seduction10/12/20 10:33 AM
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Day 4: I was planning to compliment 10 girls, but felt huge resistance to go out, so changed plan to compliment 3 girls only. All were below average to be honest. But I found it getting easier to approach this day. Hopefully tomorrow I can do 5.
/r/seduction09/12/20 07:50 AM
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You have to analyse what you are doing wrong and fix it, you can't do the exact same shit over and over...
/r/seduction09/12/20 05:37 AM
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Cold approach too...
/r/seduction09/12/20 05:26 AM
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Day 3: My goal was to compliment 5 girls. Ran the timer for 10 minutes each. First one was so hard that it took me 9 minutes. Then finished the other 4 and got coffee to reward myself. Tomorrow I will compliment 10 girls !
/r/seduction07/12/20 06:00 AM
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Not necessarily the "Best" way. Online dating is good too if you work hard on setting a killer profile. But still you must learn the social skills necessary to talk to strangers, can be a grEAT hobby and you can date beautiful women. IMO there is no "best" because luck and taking action in general play a key role.
/r/seduction06/12/20 11:42 PM
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For years you haven't fucked her (but she had been fucking other dudes). There no mixed signals it is obvious. In general, if in doubt, then you already know.
/r/seduction06/12/20 02:45 PM
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She is your only option. Nothing going around for you, she did no mistake by dumping you...
/r/seduction06/12/20 08:37 AM
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Life ain't easy bro. Stop whinging and fight back like a man...
/r/seduction06/12/20 05:42 AM
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With this attitude you will stay lonely forever ....
/r/seduction06/12/20 04:26 AM
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The only one who can approach from back is Batman
/r/seduction05/12/20 08:25 AM
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Day 2: My goal was to compliment 3 girls. I ran the timer, should do 1 every 10 minutes max. So first one went terrible haha, she hated me. 2nd girl was average, 3rd was above average and she took it very well. Felt great and very liberated. Tomorrow I compliment 5 girls! Everyday I stretch myself further. Kinda like a gym routine.
/r/seduction05/12/20 07:56 AM
1

All you say is right. Except that I will do it one time only, not a habit... Imagine the amount of willpower and strength required to do it. Then 5 a day becomes cake...
/r/seduction04/12/20 12:23 PM
1

I don't like Instagram either, but you gotta do what you gotta do brother. Success requires sucking up what you hate doing...
/r/seduction04/12/20 07:30 AM
1

I pulled girls from daygame before straight to home. But the amount of pain you have to go through, time wasted..etc, I don't think it is the most efficient way. It is doable but you have to be really good and you will also miss a lot of chances with beautiful girls that are not available for insta dates. Not to mention time wasters that will go for an insta date that leads to nothing. Another thing, having this goal on mind when approaching a girl, is overwhelming and possibly not fun.
/r/seduction04/12/20 06:06 AM
1

Do you appear like a creep on your insta? Like 99% of men? You can appear like a man of value and she actually chases you...
/r/seduction04/12/20 06:01 AM
3

Day 1: I went out and ran the timer with a goal to make 1 approach in 10 minutes. The timer acts as your wing as it forces you to make an approach. So in 6 minutes after hesitation and missed oppurtunities, I made my first approach. And she was a pretty girl. Told her "Hey I like your hair, you are pretty" She took it very positively and thanked me. But I had to eject cause I am so rusty and awkward. I know I have to do multiple approaches to warm up and get in the "zone". So tomorrow I only com…
/r/seduction04/12/20 02:20 AM
1

True. I perform very good for less than a minute, but then it becomes awkward and kill it. Guess short and sweet suits my style.
/r/seduction04/12/20 02:16 AM
5

Not to mention that you stay in contact with them forever. Maybe you can comment on their story and meet them a year later! But with the phone #, if she doesn't reply back, it is over!
/r/seduction03/12/20 08:50 PM
2

I agree that Insta date is the best option. But why do you think phone number is better? It is just a vague number...
/r/seduction03/12/20 08:45 PM
2

There is one called "cold approach"
/r/seduction02/12/20 01:25 PM
-3

You can't have a long term relationship without experiencing with multiple girls first. How do you know you will connect sexually, emotionally and intellectually with the first girl you meet?
/r/seduction13/11/20 09:56 PM
1

No
/r/seduction13/11/20 09:55 PM
2

Online dating is a gold mine for women, maybe try better pics, hire a female photographer that specializes in online dating..etc, Yes it is great to socialize in bars and clubs, but since this is not available online dating will be better than cold approach in malls.
/r/seduction13/11/20 09:42 AM
5

Rsd Tyler had videos where he made out with girls without talking to them.
/r/seduction12/11/20 06:49 PM
1

Or even visit a GP and tell him you have chronic ED, don't tell him this story.
/r/seduction12/11/20 12:29 PM
1

Where do you live? It is sold on local online steroids stores, sold legally by online prescription, and even in sex shops it is sold under the disguise of herbal supplement.
/r/seduction12/11/20 12:27 PM
3

Viagra or Cialis
/r/seduction12/11/20 11:33 AM
28

Not all people are the same, caffeine can give some people anxiety and paralyze them at socializing. But if it works for you that's good.
/r/seduction12/11/20 04:59 AM
1

Yes, don't go for direct openers. Just approach her, are you using this machine? Maybe talk about the machine, her workout routine, gym memberships, PT sessions..etc, Just friendly talk then ask for instagram. No need to sexualize anything...
/r/seduction12/11/20 12:55 AM
2

So you made a general theory based on one incident? It is not always that girls will like you or not immediately, some are on the fence and observing what you are made of.. If you are a boring mofo, then no thx bye.
/r/seduction12/11/20 12:44 AM
1

I don't think there is something as "Naturally Funny". Look at stand up comedians, do you think they improvise on stage? They write jokes, memorize it, how to execute them, and change bad jokes. If they improvise on stage people will boo at them. So yes, you can memorize few lines here and there and *bang*, you are funny. If you improvise you will keep asking her where she is from and what she does like a boring idiot.
/r/seduction12/11/20 12:41 AM
10

There is a better way to get a a kiss, close your eyes and make a duck face and move your face slowly towards hers.
/r/seduction11/11/20 01:20 PM
25

Without approaching, like with telepathy?
/r/seduction11/11/20 01:08 AM
16

That's why girls avoid eye contact with ugly guys haha...
/r/seduction11/11/20 01:07 AM
12

Watch Batman movies, go behind the girl in a shop and tell her "I WOULDN'T CHOOSE THAT DRESS"
/r/seduction10/11/20 03:55 PM
1

I don't think people here understood your question. Girls are emotional and they exhibit pure hate for men who pass on them, and you can never fix it. That's their nature.
/r/seduction10/11/20 05:57 AM
1

Do you get the same reactions at night? At day time girls are usually rushing to do something so lots of them will tell you thx gtg. Girls in night time usually up for a chat even with losers
/r/seduction10/11/20 04:53 AM
1

Which time of the day do you game?
/r/seduction10/11/20 12:53 AM
2

If you give up on this, you will give up on any goal you want later on, once you encounter any difficulty. And it is not a way to live. You are obviously doing something wrong and you need to analyse and change. Maybe invest in a course or mentor or keep on self educating.
/r/seduction09/11/20 10:39 PM
1

If you are a good earner, do sports and have a good life, you can demonstrate that on your instagram, and you won't be in disadvantage anymore. Or you can whinge that you don't like social media, it is up to you.
/r/seduction09/11/20 09:03 PM
2

Are you a beginner? Even advanced guys have their first approach like shit, doesn't have to get the number. Write down a plan or a process, you can't go outside your home then number close the first hot chicks you see.
/r/seduction09/11/20 03:13 AM
3

Have options, date more guys instead of chasing one. Messaging him more and persisting will never work, it is over.
/r/seduction09/11/20 02:54 AM
3

That axes cold approach completely. What you mean is you cannot approach women during day time walking, shopping, drinking, the cute barista, shopping in super market..etc, They must be doing something. They are not standing still waiting for you to approach. Hell, even in a bar she is busy drinking and chatting with her friends, how rude you are to interrupt them?
/r/seduction09/11/20 12:07 AM
1

Bro...
/r/seduction08/11/20 05:40 PM
1

You will have to wait for her to reply. Don't double text. If you really have to double text, wait at least a week or two.
/r/seduction08/11/20 04:35 PM
9

Bro he is fucking Justin Timberlake, it is much easier for him even without Napster.
/r/seduction08/11/20 04:32 PM
2

She may get upset, yes. It is not your business actually to correct her form.
/r/seduction08/11/20 04:26 PM
10

What if Brad Pitt in his prime approached her? Would she tell him "sorry Brad I am busy but thanks?". That's the one thing that you don't take logical answer from women. She can't predict her emotions if approached by the right guy.
/r/seduction08/11/20 04:24 PM
6

No no, don't give advice. It may also be against gym policy. You can ask her if she uses the machine, how many sets, maybe what's your routine..etc, You don't have to use direct openers...
/r/seduction08/11/20 09:35 AM
-1

There are many interviews on youtube with women and cold approach in gym and mostly, if not all appreciate it. Don't judge by the fat feminists that lurk this forum for god knows why...
/r/seduction08/11/20 09:21 AM
19

They like to be approached in gym as long you don't stare 1 hour beforehand. And just be polite and friendly. Why would they hate it?
/r/seduction08/11/20 04:04 AM
27

You will never have your life "set together". There will always be something missing or you will feel insecure about something, forever. So stop the excuses and start now, worst case scenario you will learn social skills, until you manage to "Set your life together"
/r/seduction07/11/20 10:39 AM
1

You either take action and lead the situation immediately,like a fukin man with a dick, or it will be a matter of time when she realizes you are a pussy and loses interest...
/r/seduction06/11/20 09:15 AM
1

Shouldn't you aim for sex at first dates? Well, masturbating will not help your performance...
/r/seduction06/11/20 01:26 AM
2

Depends on which country in Asia and her English level. If she doesn't speak English she will not be very responsive and may even not understand you. Girls from Japan and Korea are very polite and nice even if they don't like you, they even find it difficult to reject you because they are raised to be nice to strangers. Girls from China can be cold and rude unless they have lived long time in US and speak good English. Your color plays an important role too, if you got what I mean.
/r/seduction06/11/20 01:24 AM
2

Sasha got laid like crazy because of his humour. Just look at how comfortable and happy the girls were, during their interactions with him and you will know how much successful he was.
/r/seduction05/11/20 10:12 PM
3

From my experience, memorizing funny openers and funny lines during my approaches improves the results 10x, especially when the girl laughs...
/r/seduction05/11/20 10:10 PM
1

Lol, have you read my first reply? read it again carefully...
/r/seduction05/11/20 10:43 AM
1

I have an answer for you.. He is a weird mofo. And you are weird too for following both of their activities. I'd actually say he is less weird than you since you stalked both of their profiles.
/r/seduction05/11/20 10:41 AM
1

haha. msg me on Instagram if you wanna go out. I have been in your position before,first 6 months of cold approach to get my first date with average chick. Just keep pushing bro, you will eventually make it if you don't give up...
/r/seduction05/11/20 10:37 AM
4

Bro start with small steps, you don't have to do a full approach at the beginning of your session. Just approach a girl and tell her "Nice Jacket", just like what your wing had done today and then it became easier for him. :DDDD
/r/seduction05/11/20 10:16 AM
10

Or even move to Egypt or Lebanon, you can do cold approach there. Tinder is popular there too...
/r/seduction05/11/20 08:03 AM
2

26 is so young, I am 38 and still do cold approach and still learning. At 26 work on your career, business, physique, fashion..etc, And improve your social skills. The reward is in the journey. If you approach lots of women, even if you suck, you can get lucky here and there, stats will always be in your favor...
/r/seduction05/11/20 08:02 AM
12

Then your problem is living in (removed by OP request). The only way to meet women is through arranged marriages and family connections. No cold approach or Online dating there, even if you do cold approach you can't sleep with them. No wonder you are depressed, Try to migrate to a western country...
/r/seduction05/11/20 07:57 AM
2

Which country if you don't mind?
/r/seduction05/11/20 07:40 AM
3

What is your experience with online dating?
/r/seduction05/11/20 07:31 AM
6

Just don't pretend to be someone you are not, don't put a mask on (pun intended)
/r/seduction05/11/20 01:44 AM
2

Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result. You will have to know why you are not having results and improve.
/r/seduction04/11/20 05:58 PM
1

Think deeper, why do you need to impress her? She will pick up the sub-communications more than the superficial story of Jackie..
/r/seduction04/11/20 05:57 PM
40

You can be in battle field in Iraq and Afghanistan but still afraid to approach women. If you want mental strength in pickup, you approach women, not run 5K.
/r/seduction02/11/20 07:09 PM
2

There is a big difference between making pickup 100% of your day, and putting 100% effort into pickup. Same as you put 100% in the gym, it doesn't have to be all day, just the 1 hour you workout in... You can but big effort into pickup 1-2 hours a day...
/r/seduction02/11/20 01:54 AM
2

And how long does it take to become athlete or entrepreneur? Years.. What would you do in the mean time? Watch porn until you become the next Christiano Ronaldo? Btw I have a mascular 6 pack abs body, I have a medium size company with 6 employees and I never get anything unless I take action. Whether it is cold approach or online. What you are saying is if you want to be wealthy ,sit on the couch and read all day and money will come. No, money will come if you work hard... You want high quality …
/r/seduction02/11/20 01:51 AM
0

How? Will they approach you in the mall?
/r/seduction01/11/20 03:48 AM
16

If I am good in school and sports, how do gorls "come automatically" ? Will they fall from the sky on your dick while you are reading Kindle on your couch? It is contradictory that you say put 100% in everything you do, but you ask us not to put 100% in pickup efforts....
/r/seduction01/11/20 03:46 AM
1

Not worthless as a human being, worthless as a date, she did the same to him by dumbing him. So all fair...
/r/seduction28/10/20 03:07 AM
1

Then she realized from your behaviour that you are in it to fuck only. No matter how you pretend otherwise, they will know eventually...
/r/seduction27/10/20 10:35 PM
3

Ignore her and let her know she is worthless. That's the best punishment, believe me she will get furious when she sees no reaction from you...
/r/seduction27/10/20 10:28 PM
3

She will bring them up to show you how "desired" she is...
/r/seduction26/10/20 11:17 PM
3

Girls do that all the time, can be a good sign of attraction, not necessarily shit test...
/r/seduction26/10/20 06:45 PM
2

Hair makes a big difference. Also, get lean as humanly possible, it really gives your face great definition
/r/seduction20/10/20 10:43 AM
1

The Power of Now Eckhart Tolle talks a lot about this issue..
/r/seduction20/10/20 10:23 AM
38

He must do lots of meditation...
/r/seduction20/10/20 10:21 AM
0

It is ideal if she fucks first date. Otherwise she is not crazy about you or she will be able to play games later on, since she can withhold sex. Most successful relationships starts with sex first date, but yes there are exceptions. The author talks about meditating after each date which tells there is something wrong.
/r/seduction19/10/20 07:37 AM
20

If meditation is effective before the date, then you'd be busy fucking after the date, not meditating again 😅
/r/seduction17/10/20 11:31 PM
51

Actually this lifestyle can get depressing, if you just fuck the girls and don't see them again, or have no emotional connection with them. You will start to crave connection and companionship. Been there...
/r/seduction14/10/20 07:44 AM
0

You can have a good Tinder profile and girls will message you first. Don't expect them to approach you in the mall, you are not Brad Pitt.
/r/seduction14/10/20 07:39 AM
2

Yeah man, if a guy that looks like Brad Pitt approached them, they will get upset! Working out is a serious business.
/r/seduction09/10/20 01:38 AM
2

So would you get upset if Brad Pitt in his prime approached you?
/r/seduction09/10/20 01:36 AM
2

Girls love to be approached in the gym, don't believe what society says. Just do it...
/r/seduction08/10/20 12:19 AM
2

If you are an attractive guy then Online is not working well with you because you don't invest in quality pics. One single good pic can cost money, resources, photoshop, fashion..etc, But it is an investment that lasts for years. And bonus point is you can use these pics on Instagram and exchange it with girls you meet in the mall.
/r/seduction04/10/20 07:52 AM
0

Yes competition online is tougher. Win the competition then. DOMINATE...
/r/seduction04/10/20 03:57 AM
2

Social media allows you to demonstrate you value and your life. You don't have to be an influencer with makeup and photoshop. Even the simple hobby you post about is good enough value.
/r/seduction03/10/20 08:06 PM
2

You just have a high expectation. Approach a hot chick and take her number. As a beginner start low, maybe say hi or ask about directions, then build your way up.
/r/seduction03/10/20 06:49 PM
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That's if they are single. In night clubs the chance of the girl being single is much higher.
/r/seduction20/09/20 05:55 AM
2

The thing with clubs is that most girls are out there to meet someone. They won't be shocked when you tell them "Hi" like in the bookstore. You will have to visit many bookstores to find someone available and likes you at the same time. It is also rare to take her from the bookstore to your home, unlike night clubs which is the norm. Not to mention that there is less chance for a social girl in the club with her friends to be psycho, than the bookstore loner who might have lots of issues. I am t…
/r/seduction20/09/20 05:52 AM
1

Seriously speaking, this may work if there is some kind of rapport between you and her. But at the beginning of the date, when you barely know each others, you talk about kissing?? What if she is not that interested or still on the fence? Kissing game will be creepy or awkward at best. So it depends on the situation...
/r/seduction27/08/20 06:44 PM
2

Sounds good when she is 14.
/r/seduction27/08/20 05:40 PM
1

It is not a fasle opinion. There are lots of scientific studies that show that women are more likely to be attracted attractive men. DUHHH? I tell you what buddy, go put your pics on Tinder, then make another account with a male model pictures and report the results here. You are above average at least, right?
/r/seduction26/08/20 06:49 PM
1

Yeah some women may prefer the fat guy in the pic, about 1% of them.
/r/seduction26/08/20 06:24 PM
1

Of course, a big portion.
/r/seduction26/08/20 05:59 PM
1

Why do you care? She has slept with multiple guys in these 2 months and hasn't slept with you, so she is not interested, sorry.
/r/seduction26/08/20 09:01 AM
1

So how many girls will have "deep" attraction for the guy on the right? https://i0.wp.com/killyourinnerloser.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/12/m.jpg?w=900&ssl=1 Stay delusional
/r/seduction26/08/20 07:57 AM
1

Yup I was just checking you are full of shit
/r/seduction23/08/20 07:33 PM
1

You didn't answer the question. Do you know how to approach 3 girls walking or not?
/r/seduction22/08/20 09:39 PM
1

What if Brad Pitt in his prime approaches you in the gym? You will tell him to go away, right?
/r/seduction19/08/20 05:54 PM
3

Would you be annoyed if a hot chick approached you during your workout? So if you do it right, they won't be "annoyed" either. On the contrary, most may feel flattered by your approach. These dudes who tell you "Don't bother them", will tell you the same thing about a girl shopping, a girl in the tram, a girl walking, a girl in the restaurant..etc, You will always be bothering them somehow according to their logic.
/r/seduction19/08/20 04:24 PM
12

If you are fucking a girl, and you would never date her long term or marry her. You only want to fuck her. Would she be able to do anything to change your mind and make you marry her? or you would rather kill yourself? Think about it...
/r/seduction19/08/20 10:26 AM
1

Talk about yourself and your achievements without bragging. And then at end write screening info about which girls do you want. Maybe add some humor. But stay away from the one cheeky liners like "Do you like bad boyz coz I am bad at everything" cause 99% of men do that.
/r/seduction19/08/20 10:23 AM
4

You don't need magical texts when you have a good profile.
/r/seduction19/08/20 07:34 AM
3

Looks like she is your only option, so nothing you can do will work. The solution is to seek other girls and let her do the chasing..
/r/seduction18/08/20 02:08 PM
0

But will she wet her pants with the man who knows what he is doing, or the guy that seeks permission first? Think about it...
/r/seduction18/08/20 04:29 AM
1

"You have a nice lips, can I taste them?"
/r/seduction18/08/20 04:28 AM
1

You are the dumb kid who sees him making out with chicks in infield footage and says they are hired actresses. Not different than the retards who think Bill Gates puts chips in the vaccines.
/r/seduction17/08/20 08:19 PM
1

Because thousands of people, his friends and bootcamp students saw him in person doing his magic. Check this: Once he finished his speech/lecture, he finally started opening. This is what really blew me away. This is when I realized he truly was one of the greatest PUAs of our time. He approached almost every girl that walked by, some even came up to him. One of the craziest ones he did is going up to a Spanish couple who looked quite closed off, started speaking to them in fluent Spanish, and e…
/r/seduction17/08/20 08:07 PM
2

Buy his program RSD Hotseat at home or Blueprint decoded. Both have PDF files of all his articles.
/r/seduction17/08/20 08:03 PM
1

Owen Cook's is the world's best PUA and best teacher. He changed the lives of millions whether you like or not.
/r/seduction17/08/20 08:02 PM
2

Do you "ask" them to make out? That's disgusting to be honest.
/r/seduction17/08/20 09:26 AM
1

What do you mean by "You are the first she hooked up with", was she a virgin? And by hookup you mean sex?
/r/seduction17/08/20 07:24 AM
1

I am telling you that fear from women is irrational, but just because you know it is irrational doesn't mean this fear will go away. You are a bad ass, you go out of the house and speak to the first hot chick you see, every time and every day, majority of men are different than that. They simply can't. Doesn't mean they are "pussies". You can't talk your brain out of approach anxiety. Most men need a form of graded exposure to tackle this fear.
/r/seduction17/08/20 07:02 AM
1

of course brother, you treat phobia and fear with graded exposure. Starting small and building up. And that's the best way according to scientific research, your method of "Just do it" or "She is just a girl bro" is just garbage with no evidence that it works for the majority. Btw, you are not the first one here that came with this garbage idea "Just do it bro". you are not brilliant as you think.
/r/seduction17/08/20 06:06 AM
1

No, I take calculated and strategic approaches to any goals I want in life. That's why I have my own company and live with the girl of my dreams. You continue screaming like an idiot and approach fat chicks.
/r/seduction17/08/20 03:15 AM
1

I use this jealousy to turn it to something positive, as an inspiration to work harder on myself.
/r/seduction15/08/20 09:18 PM
1

RSD Hotseat at home by Owen Cook
/r/seduction15/08/20 06:43 PM
8

Yes you can do everything right in the date but she doesn't connect with you and lose interest. Half of the girls you date will like you and the other half will hate you. So keep meeting girls until you find one. If she wants to meet you she will find time. And always try to sleep with the girl first date. Some of them will actually lose interest for the lack of your dick.
/r/seduction15/08/20 06:53 AM
1

So tons of girls you dated never teased you about something in your appearance? Something you wear? Made fun of bad jokes you said or your accent or whatever? Never challenged your political views? Never told you "We are not having sex tonight"..etc? You never approached a girl in a club that was acting bitchy at first to test you? But it can't be your anecdote against mine, it is not an intelligent way of discussion. Shit tests have been documented by lots of men for decades and there are tons …
/r/seduction15/08/20 06:48 AM
3

It is true that lots of guys attribute disinterest to being "shit test". But that doesn't mean that shit tests don't exist. It is true that a girl that got attracted to you will subconsciously say something harsh to test you.
/r/seduction15/08/20 06:23 AM
3

This makes sense if it will be over in couple of months or even a year. But you never know when it will end, may take 2 years. So would you stay 2 years without sex? Or even more!
/r/seduction15/08/20 06:17 AM
1

Depends in where you live. In some countries bars and clubs are history.
/r/seduction15/08/20 06:13 AM
3

Online dating
/r/seduction15/08/20 02:20 AM
1

Take a look at Instagram of male models that you know they get laid. And try to build a similar one. You know the ones where girls type OMG plz fuck me in comments?
/r/seduction14/08/20 03:03 PM
1

Bro, you know what I am talking about. If she is a hot girl, you will forgive her if she has a broken English, if she says dumb jokes, if she ask too many questions,if she replies "too fast"..etc, And that's because you are attracted to her, and you would not give the slightest fuck about her text game. Now if girls are not forgiving with you, if they unmatch you because a wrong text, if they flake on dates..etc, then they are simply not attracted enough. I am trying to help you direct your ener…
/r/seduction14/08/20 10:49 AM
1

There is a social experiment, where a fake male model texted girls on Tinder obnoxious and racists texts. He insulted some of them, and yet they kept begging him to meet. And what about you? You would turn down a hot chick cause she is boring over text? So I wish you good luck with your texting game.
/r/seduction14/08/20 09:33 AM
1

It is not only about the face. Maybe your body type, your hair, your clothes, your body language, your voice tone, your confidence,your social status..etc, Being "attractive" is different than good looking. There are transgender men that are "good looking".
/r/seduction14/08/20 08:58 AM
9

If you are attractive and high value man, girls will chase you with texts and ask you out. If they don't do that, then your problem is not "tight text game". It is a problem that you are not attractive.
/r/seduction14/08/20 07:16 AM
3

It is like saying to someone with acrophobia "Don't worry man, you will not fall!". Fear is irrational and people in fear know that it is irrational. You can't talk their brain out of it. Your argument is very stupid and superficial. We know that girls will not physically harm us, thanks for the info.
/r/seduction13/08/20 09:47 PM
52

You are pathetic. I saw my friends approach the girlfriends of cool guys and these guys just stood there and watched my friends in amusement without giving a single fuck. Because they are secure, in control of the relationship and can get any other girl if they want.
/r/seduction13/08/20 08:37 PM
3

Chat with her on social media first.
/r/seduction13/08/20 08:11 PM
2

Yeah, why would you panic though? If you are talking with your Uber driver then there is a moment of silence would you panic or give a fuck. What about an ugly girl?
/r/seduction13/08/20 03:45 PM
7

You panic from silence because you are trying to please her and care too much. Be a man of high value and silence won't be a problem.
/r/seduction13/08/20 03:31 PM
2

what about raping her in your ford?
/r/seduction12/08/20 07:59 PM
2

People feel comfort and trust towards others who talk to. The more she talks and open up to you, the more comfort she feels towards you. So yes let her talk and talk deep. Bonus if you relate to her. Ask deep questions, ask how she feels towards this and that.
/r/seduction12/08/20 07:58 PM
3

By being a high value male that girls want to be commited to you.
/r/seduction12/08/20 12:15 PM
3

Do you think the solution was to message her the first minute you followed her? You had zero chance from start to finish. How would I know you have zero chance? Because you are sitting home all day stalking one girl. Have zero other options. So the timing of the message wouldn't have changed anything. What you need to do is to actively meet and date 100s of girls. Not stalk 1 girl for months.
/r/seduction12/08/20 06:40 AM
2

White women are the most forgiving in racial preferences. They date Indians, Blacks, Middle Easterns..etc,
/r/seduction12/08/20 06:31 AM
4

wow your mom is cool AF
/r/seduction12/08/20 12:35 AM
4

So how many of these coaches you assisted have approach anxiety and don't actually approach, but instead they sell coaching programs and use the money for photographers and Tinder boosts?
/r/seduction11/08/20 11:31 AM
3

For me the idea of casual sex is that the girl is not high quality enough to make her a girlfriend or be exclusive to her. So the question is: are you afraid to lose a consistent pussy, or is she the girl of your dreams? And if she is the girl of your dreams, why didn't you want to date her exclusively earlier?
/r/seduction11/08/20 09:28 AM
4

During these 10 months, she may have slept with 5 dudes (or more). So why is she sleeping with them and not you? Why isn't she playing mind games with them and easily spread her legs to them? Simply she is not interested. She is playing mind games with you to enjoy your attention and free entertainment.
/r/seduction11/08/20 07:42 AM
3

Girls rejecting you because you are "too good looking" is a delusion. Anyways, confidence is not only about looks, work hard in other areas of your life as well.
/r/seduction11/08/20 05:04 AM
1

The question was why you are obsessed with one girl as if there is no other options in your life. It wasn't a geography question.
/r/seduction11/08/20 05:00 AM
1

How do you approach 3 girls walking in the street? How do you approach a girl running?
/r/seduction10/08/20 10:36 AM
1

Be hot
/r/seduction09/08/20 11:47 PM
1

mmmm... by telling him this is a date and to fuck off before you break his jaw?
/r/seduction09/08/20 11:37 PM
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When you creep 100s of girls you will become desensitised to this type of fear. And actually become less creepy. If you keep avoiding approaching you will stay creepy forever.
/r/seduction09/08/20 10:50 AM
6

So if you are not good looking and your life sucks, what do you have to offer for an attractive girl to choose you over 1000 attractive and successful guys?
/r/seduction09/08/20 07:27 AM
5

Yes maybe you are not good enough. Truth is hard to swallow. Improve yourself better than fooling yourself with "Inner game".
/r/seduction09/08/20 05:59 AM
1

Make a Tinder account, and your SMV is inversely proportional with the weight of your matches. So if SMV goes up, weight in KGs goes down. And vice versa.
/r/seduction09/08/20 05:54 AM
3

You don't have girls in your own country?
/r/seduction08/08/20 11:27 PM
5

Theoretically speaking every girl may have STD. You don't go with your "intuition" because it can be wrong! Heck, even she may have no clue she is infected. If you want to have oral sex, buy "dental dam". And what's your point anyways? You take a girl home from a club, then interview her first? Then you get a feeling she has STD and kick her out? Has this ever happened once in history?? Tell us your stories of kicking girls out after interviewing them. We need to hear your stories of how many ho…
/r/seduction07/08/20 07:46 PM
3

I'll go for girls of my type until I find one of them who is into me.
/r/seduction07/08/20 07:40 PM
6

Attractive girls have tons of sex. You wear a condom no matter what, you are not a psychic or FBI interrogator.
/r/seduction07/08/20 07:37 PM
4

Now I know why Bruce Willis and Jude Law never get laid. Thanks op.
/r/seduction07/08/20 07:32 PM
7

So when you chat with a girl couple of times you will figure out she has STD or not? BTW wearing more than one condom increases the risk of getting raptured due to friction.
/r/seduction07/08/20 07:29 PM
1

Flatten your tire and wait for her. Then wave for her to help. Stalking 101
/r/seduction07/08/20 01:57 PM
6

Start now, and worst case scenario you get rid of approach anxiety when you get rejected a lot.
/r/seduction07/08/20 08:32 AM
1

Take her on a night of wine and Kendals
/r/seduction07/08/20 04:17 AM
1

Or just send a dick pic.
/r/seduction06/08/20 11:06 PM
1

Be the man that she will chase and beg for a date with...
/r/seduction06/08/20 11:06 PM
1

Fair enough. I think these guys who say that need to go out and hit more trollies.
/r/seduction06/08/20 01:10 PM
1

How can I make the sarcasm more obvious?
/r/seduction06/08/20 01:07 PM
1

Maybe because she saw you stalking her for minutes before the approach.
/r/seduction06/08/20 12:57 PM
2

Focus on your hobbies and career and girls will magically come. Maybe you will hit her trolley in the super market like the movies. Maybe you will be sitting on your couch and she magically appears to suck your dick. You never know, just follow the advice and be patient.
/r/seduction06/08/20 12:51 PM
3

Wait as much as she waits. If she responds quickly you respond quickly, and vice versa.
/r/seduction06/08/20 12:48 PM
3

Go out and find out yourself what works for you. Because what works for others may not work with your personality and life style.
/r/seduction05/08/20 08:10 PM
2

RSD_Tyler starts with three-way makeout. Where the 3 of you kiss. And then escalate.
/r/seduction05/08/20 05:27 PM
1

You keep asking the same question over and over https://www.reddit.com/user/ProudMalamuteowner/ Your problem is not that you are Indian, your problem is that you act like a bitch. Man the fuck up son and go approach more and improve yourself instead of crying on the internet.
/r/seduction05/08/20 04:55 PM
0

You will have to fuck her very soon or else she will realise you don't have a dick and go search for it somewhere else.
/r/seduction05/08/20 06:28 AM
10

When you go to a club, girls can't see your money or car or your law degree. The moment you open your mouth they see everything they need to see, and in few seconds they know what kind of a man are you. So these stuff are good for you and for your self esteem. But you need to learn how to socialise and talk to women. Apparently that's the missing piece of the puzzle.
/r/seduction04/08/20 02:46 PM
1

Even if she is your girlfriend, you still can't afford to be needy and "too available". She will see you nice on the surface, but sub-consciously she loses attraction. I am not telling you to be an asshole, just check up once on her and that's it.
/r/seduction04/08/20 02:39 PM
3

Keep her minimally engaged. Like one fun message or small screening question per day or every other day. Because too much texting after date set is a mistake, and ghosting her completely is also a mistake because she will lose all emotions she has for you. Keep it to the minimum just to stay on top of her head.
/r/seduction04/08/20 02:15 PM
1

She wouldn't do the same for you. Not to mention that there is a huge chance she is just flaking on you. So don't make a fool of yourself. Just tell her if you need any help text me and leave it at that. Don't check up on her everyday, she will get disgusted even more.
/r/seduction04/08/20 02:09 PM
1

How would you help her? Are you a doctor? Drop it bro, you are not her boyfriend.
/r/seduction04/08/20 02:05 PM
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You don't take them home via "conversation". You have to start by making out with them first. duh!
/r/seduction04/08/20 08:59 AM
3

Half of the book he talks about his relationship with his abusive dad. Waste of time and you gain nothing from it.
/r/seduction04/08/20 08:49 AM
3

Not in South Africa
/r/seduction03/08/20 04:06 PM
1

Owen has started to sound bitter in his latest videos. I think he has got hit hard by the corona economy. And I think he has started to realise that his fortune is in the PUA niche, not self help. No one gives a fuck about self help, we want to get pussy. All his followers are following PUA Tyler, not self help guru Tyler. But this guy is insanely strong and I believe he will never shutdown or give up. Watch him surviving anything thrown at him.
/r/seduction03/08/20 04:03 PM
1

It is not a scam. Look at the admiration from thousands of followers and how Tyler is a role model to all aspiring PUA's. Owen is the best of all times and he knows what he is talking about. And he certainly changed the lives of thousands...
/r/seduction03/08/20 03:58 PM
7

Check my user name
/r/seduction03/08/20 03:53 PM
5

Don't do my mistake
/r/seduction03/08/20 03:31 PM
2

mmm... Mark Manson advise to not split the bills on dates and you should pay for the drinks/food as long as it is not expensive.
/r/seduction03/08/20 04:06 AM
8

Start small. Asking for directions, time, quick compliments..etc, And then build your way up over the course of MONTHS. Better to formulate a written plan.
/r/seduction01/08/20 09:47 PM
2

So you sing with linkin park?
/r/seduction01/08/20 09:43 PM
1

I don't want to disappoint you, but it is unrecoverable now. You may try next time, "Hey there, I am your neighbour and It would be rude not to introduce myself"
/r/seduction01/08/20 09:39 PM
1

Yes you can approach girls on the phone. If you have a strong presence she will put it down. And let me repeat, if you keep checking a girl out for days without talking to her, it becomes creepy and disgusting. Like you have no dick. And this problem can be solved by lots of cold approaching, or not checking her out in the first place.
/r/seduction01/08/20 05:58 PM
1

She figured out you are a pussy that doesn't have the balls to talk to her, so she felt disgusted and lost interest. If you are not planning to approach a girl right away DON'T exchange eye contact.
/r/seduction01/08/20 03:49 PM
2

She can smell that you are not dating other girls from a mile away. The solution is to always pursue other girls and you will become a more attractive male in general.
/r/seduction01/08/20 01:51 PM
2

The first sentence when you read "I have a situation with ONE GIRL", it is already fucked up. The title is self explanatory.
/r/seduction01/08/20 01:41 PM
2

These guys who she fucked, are not obsessed about her. They see other girls and don't make it a big deal. Unlike you, who have been obsessed about her for 1 year. That's what they do better than you, they have options.
/r/seduction01/08/20 01:40 PM
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You have to use active hand gestures while talking. People who use hand gestures are perceived as more warm and friendly.
/r/seduction01/08/20 09:20 AM
3

I have similar story to you. What happens is that you talk and game poorly girls that you are intimidated by or over valuing them. If you are craving asian women so much (yellow fever), you will do worse with them. So it is all in your head.
/r/seduction01/08/20 08:28 AM
1

Pictures without looking at the camera can perform better. So I wouldn't look at the camera ALL pics like a psycho.
/r/seduction01/08/20 05:49 AM
1

It is not that simple because there are thousands of attractive guys. You still have to choose the right pics, connect Instagram and have a high value bio. It is highly competitive and you need to optimize everything.
/r/seduction01/08/20 05:47 AM
2

It won't change jaw structure but it will grow the masseter muscles.
/r/seduction01/08/20 12:57 AM
3

So you are implying that face muscles don't grow if you pu tload on them? Like they are different type of fibres ?
/r/seduction01/08/20 12:56 AM
1

It works, but it is far from efficient. You have to approach A LOT
/r/seduction31/07/20 05:44 PM
1

Yeah there is a good way to deal with large dudes who do MMA and fight in bars, move to other girls and leave them alone. I mean is she REALLY worth it?
/r/seduction31/07/20 05:05 PM
3

She needs to know if you are worth her time more than the other 1000 matches she has. It is super competitive and one pic won't cut it. Even if you look like Brad Pitt, girls will be wary if you really look like this and will need more proof. Maybe it is the lighting or the angle or even photoshop...
/r/seduction31/07/20 02:00 PM
1

What location are you talking about, to interpret girls signals?
/r/seduction31/07/20 01:02 PM
4

That's not what research shows. Results are better with multiple pics...
/r/seduction31/07/20 12:56 PM
1

You are swiping right on the top 3% guys of Tinder. They simply meet you + tons of other women. You either lower your standard and do more screening, or go to events of men with similar interests as yours.
/r/seduction31/07/20 09:24 AM
2

It is not about the movie. If approaching a girl feels like dragging your feet to death, then you are doing it wrong. Night game should be fun, having this "do or die" mentality will give off bad vibes to girls. If you can't approach a hot chick, then don't drag your feet, simply start by talking to average chicks until you feel loose.
/r/seduction31/07/20 09:21 AM
1

What about having fun quotes in your head instead of war quotes? Wtf is that bro, relax....
/r/seduction31/07/20 07:24 AM
1

Qualifying a woman has been talked about since the beginning of PUA. You didn't bring a new idea or a breakthrough. RSD calls it "Buyers mentality" But to screen and qualify a woman, you have to have a real value as a man, better value than her. Faking it or pulling mind tricks will not work...
/r/seduction30/07/20 10:16 PM
1

He deserves better...
/r/seduction30/07/20 02:25 PM
1

This post makes me really angry on so many levels.
/r/seduction30/07/20 05:44 AM
1

Open a word file and improve every line and reply in your conversations. Some people may disagree with this approach, but think about it, stand up comedians don't improvise. Ted talks are not improvised.
/r/seduction30/07/20 05:41 AM
1

You have some chance if you talk to her in person. The moment you DM her, chance drops to 0%. If you are really into her, forget the DM and talk to her in real life. Think about it, if she is attractive, your DM will land in the sea of losers dms she receives on a daily basis. So she will perceive you as another one of these losers.
/r/seduction30/07/20 05:38 AM
3

Possibly? There was a survey of what women want to hear in bed and a % of respondents mentioned "tight pussy" thing. So I tell all girls that however their pussy feels. Maybe he did some homework on Google too....
/r/seduction30/07/20 05:32 AM
8

It is a numbers game. But if your stats suck, you have to change and improve, not keep doing the same shit forever. Aim for 3-5 dates per 100 approaches. And I am talking about attractive girls, not average girls you feel comfortable approaching.
/r/seduction30/07/20 05:26 AM
10

There is a possibility he is lying to you, because women like to hear "your pussy is tight".
/r/seduction30/07/20 04:26 AM
3

There is science behind cologne smells. So just because you are not crazy about it, doesn't mean women will react the same. Similarly if you like flowers or fruits smell,doesn't mean they will make great cologne...
/r/seduction29/07/20 10:10 PM
3

Take the chill pill
/r/seduction29/07/20 06:30 PM
1

Search for a friend who girls started to suck his dick since he was 14, he won't have mental traumas with women like us. Confidence is what made him "natural". Otherwise "talent" is a myth. There is nothing as talented chess player or soccer player, all train and learn skills since very young age. And that was explained in the book "Bring up genius" by Laszlo Polgar, father of 3 of the most famous female chess grandmasters...
/r/seduction29/07/20 06:20 PM
37

Dior Sauvage Creed Aventus The later is the most expensive
/r/seduction29/07/20 05:22 PM
2

It is not texting problem. If you are attractive enough they will make it easy and fast to meet you.
/r/seduction29/07/20 10:37 AM
1

If you are meeting them through Tinder, then they got busy with another guy. Solution is to improve your profile as much as you can so they take you seriously..
/r/seduction29/07/20 10:36 AM
5

If she says "Talk to you later" , then wait. If she doesn't talk later then she can go fuck herself. If she says something like "Good night gtg", then you may text her "Text me when you wake up" to throw the ball in her court and avoid confusion. If the girl is interested enough, then you may not even need the "text me later" thing.
/r/seduction29/07/20 10:29 AM
4

You either check PUA online communities in this city. Or just go talk to the miserable guy holding his beer and watching girls dancing. He is waiting for a guy like you to save him from his misery.
/r/seduction29/07/20 10:22 AM
1

Make friends with a dude that is also picking up chicks like you. There are plenty. Then wing together. I do this in clubs all the time...
/r/seduction29/07/20 10:09 AM
1

Be confident and just approach still holds true, but for some people they have to approach "more" than those who have it easy...
/r/seduction29/07/20 09:13 AM
1

Of course it matters. Racial preference is something proven by science. There are those girls who are into your race and those who aren't. https://www.gsb.stanford.edu/faculty-research/working-papers/racial-preferences-mate-selection-evidence-speed-dating-experiment https://www.jstor.org/stable/4626190?seq=1
/r/seduction29/07/20 08:07 AM
3

It will signal to her that you are a needy and thirsty mofo....
/r/seduction29/07/20 04:34 AM
1

Girls flock from Tinder to Bumble because it is more relationship-centric. So if you keep telling chicks on Bumble you only meet for sex, you will meet zero of them. Just meet her, fuck her, and see how it goes...There is no contract the obliges you to be her boyfriend
/r/seduction28/07/20 10:26 PM
2

Don't believe people who will tell you that you don't need programs/education/mentorship... Just getting a head start of them...
/r/seduction28/07/20 10:47 AM
2

Imagine if you have a girlfriend, and a guy kept insisting on seeing her, despite she rejecting his offers. How would you feel? She is just one girl, go approach another 100....
/r/seduction28/07/20 08:39 AM
0

Yes it is cruel, low value girls do it all the time.
/r/seduction28/07/20 04:15 AM
1

She wants your attention and to keep entertaining her like a clown.
/r/seduction28/07/20 03:19 AM
3

If your instagram sucks, forget it.
/r/seduction27/07/20 02:30 PM
0

Ask her out every 3 days until she calls your mom....
/r/seduction27/07/20 02:29 PM
1

Spell the milk on your shirt while delivering it. Then she will be oh poor thing, come inside to clean up...and you know....
/r/seduction27/07/20 09:39 AM
1

The guys that check you out but never approach must be from this forum...
/r/seduction27/07/20 09:36 AM
2

Yes they will magically come without approaching them. You can do the same with money too, focus on reading and learning, sit on the couch all day, and money will come.
/r/seduction27/07/20 03:06 AM
1

People are against social media because they are lazy to build a good Instagram or there is nothing going on for them. Do you think a guy like this is not getting laid?
/r/seduction27/07/20 02:56 AM
0

It is my dream to go to Korea and talk to chicks, they are so beautiful mang...
/r/seduction26/07/20 02:15 PM
1

If you don't have a lot going for you, and you don't have a high sex market value, then would it be possible to date really attractive girls? Do you think you deserve it more than the other competitors ? Think about it. Well, the good news is that you can turn your life around and improve yourself...then demonstrate that on Instagram....
/r/seduction26/07/20 09:47 AM
34

Have you tried dating apps in Asian countries?
/r/seduction26/07/20 09:45 AM
1

If she is interested in you she will engage with whatever you text. If she doesn't like you, nothing you say will work. That's why I use Instagram to text girls, where I demonstrate good life and qualities...
/r/seduction26/07/20 09:33 AM
-4

Looks like you are new to this...
/r/seduction26/07/20 08:42 AM
1

Buy her and her friends drinks...
/r/seduction26/07/20 08:41 AM
1

You said you know her?
/r/seduction26/07/20 08:40 AM
3

The best way is "Hi, how are you doing?"
/r/seduction26/07/20 06:50 AM
4

If you keep doing cold approach consistently in a small town, you will get known no doubt.
/r/seduction26/07/20 03:39 AM
2

Yeah when you have Spanish or French accent you will be fine...
/r/seduction26/07/20 03:34 AM
1

On the phone, it may be a problem. If you have Indian or Middle Eastern accent.... On a real date, It may not be a problem...
/r/seduction25/07/20 10:37 PM
0

I had girls hung up the phone on me because of my accent. So tell them you think that phone calls don't gauge compatibility and kills a plan of a future date. Either they take it or they can go fuck themselves.... Meeting them is fine because your confidence, body language and conversational skills can mask the accent.
/r/seduction25/07/20 10:18 PM
1

Well, he didn't pump into her trolly in the supermarket like the movies. There is some sort of chasing to get to know her...
/r/seduction25/07/20 10:05 PM
1

How would you learn without getting rejected? Do you expect as a beginner to approach few women and marry one of them? lol no..... While some people tell you not to take rejection personally, but this is not entirely correct, you have to change how you look, how you carry yourself and improve your game. So rejection is personal to some extent...
/r/seduction25/07/20 08:08 AM
0

Why are you asking? What do you want out of this? If you want to date her then lead the situation and be proactive instead of being seduced like a bich....
/r/seduction25/07/20 07:06 AM
1

Another problem is that making money may take years and it is not guaranteed either. Usually the people who give up on dating because it is "difficult", will give up on their business too at the first failure or hardship, they don't have the mindset of keep pushing no matter what. The guy in the video is just a cry baby because women rejected him...
/r/seduction25/07/20 07:04 AM
2

Finally a "focus on your hobbies and career and girls will come" thread. The video is contradictory, on the one hand he says try your hardest and give your best to achieve the life you want, but on the other hand he advise not trying hard in your dating life! So how comes? The life I want for myself includes a beautiful woman, and anyone who says otherwise just has the belief that he can't do it.... From this belief and lack of confidence comes the "focus on your hobbies" thing...
/r/seduction25/07/20 05:59 AM
1

Who cares? There are 1000 excuses other than age, just start now, and the worst case scenario you will be a pickup god in your 20s
/r/seduction24/07/20 09:52 PM
1

Bro I have been doing this since 2006, if I am alone, and haven't warmed up, I simply can't. Almost impossible. I still have to do small approaches to loosen up first. Maybe if I am with a wing he will push me to do it. What to say? Simple, Hey I think you look cool/intersting and I wanted to say hi. Or I like your shoes/style/shirt..etc I don't compliment physical beauty, you make yourself start from inferior position...
/r/seduction24/07/20 09:36 PM
2

start small, asking about time and directions, then maybe quick questions and compliments, then build your way up and stretch yourself slowly. Takes months and years...
/r/seduction24/07/20 08:10 PM
2

If you stay home all day, you will think about nothing but him, you will go crazy! Try to go out as much as you can to meet people. Also take action to meet other men, maybe on Tinder or some shit....
/r/seduction24/07/20 08:08 PM
6

Let's start masculinity by approaching girls who check you out? Please ? (Manlier) than acting like Terminator but doing nothing...
/r/seduction24/07/20 08:04 PM
2

Maybe she Like(d) you before. But when she realized you were a pussy and don't have balls to go talk to her, she completely lost interest. Or even disgusted....
/r/seduction24/07/20 12:51 PM
-4

If you pay for sex, then you need women. What you are not interested in, is the pain of getting women. You are just fooling yourself and hiding in your comfort zone.
/r/seduction24/07/20 12:47 PM
5

Trust me on this mang, girls like to hook their friends with good guys. So if your instagram sucks and you look like a loser, she won't help. If you look like a cool and high value guy she will be more than glad to help you. It is not complicated, talk with her first in a friendly way and then tell her that you saw her friend in school or the gym or whatever (better not mention you saw her on instagram) and ask her to introduce you to her. Much more guaranteed than a cold DM that will land in sp…
/r/seduction24/07/20 11:47 AM
1

Don't you get horny and want to have sex? What do you do about it?
/r/seduction24/07/20 11:33 AM
5

Why don't you talk to your classmate to hook you up with her? Will be much easier....
/r/seduction24/07/20 11:28 AM
16

If you have 0 success then improve your life and your game, not change your language. Even if you get better results with another language, you still haven't fixed the real problem...
/r/seduction24/07/20 10:32 AM
1

You have the lack of pussy to call you...
/r/seduction24/07/20 10:28 AM
2

Are you the bitch who spams us on Tinder?
/r/seduction24/07/20 07:24 AM
1

What you wanted to do in 6 months, the big guy did in 2 days. That's why they call him the big guy. She is not into small guys....
/r/seduction24/07/20 05:11 AM
7

If you will only approach girls who give you signals, you will limit your choices to 1% of women... Approach all, have fun and learn...
/r/seduction24/07/20 04:45 AM
3

So the best game with a beautiful girl is to show her that you know she is beautiful? And that's not what 99% of men around her do?
/r/seduction23/07/20 08:55 PM
1

If it it is something you can't change, then does it matter ??
/r/seduction23/07/20 02:38 PM
0

If a Japanese girl gets angry at you like this, you must really suck or really rude. I have never had a bad reaction from a Japanese girl, they were taught to be very polite to strangers...
/r/seduction23/07/20 02:35 PM
1

lol no, if she is not stimulated she will turn his offer down. He should escalate naturally to a make out, and then take her home...
/r/seduction23/07/20 08:53 AM
2

Ask her on a date.
/r/seduction23/07/20 08:42 AM
1

Try to exchange eye contacts with him, men are not stupid and they notice a girl checking them out. And see if he is checking you out back. If he is ignoring you then your mission of giving him your number is almost impossible or he may just text you for the lolz...
/r/seduction23/07/20 08:40 AM
3

Fuck her husband too
/r/seduction23/07/20 05:51 AM
11

Depends on who you are dealing with. If you are dating a girl less attractive than you, and you play this hard to get I am too busy game, it will backfire. If she is more attractive than you, then yeah this may work...
/r/seduction23/07/20 05:47 AM
2

When you don't have sex as often as it should be, then you can't have an abundance mindset, it is something internal that can't be faked. It is an IDENTITY. At the same time, it is not crucial for success to start with "abundance mindset". You can crawl your way out of loneliness with below average girls, then average girls then above average..etc,
/r/seduction23/07/20 05:43 AM
1

Ewwww
/r/seduction23/07/20 05:38 AM
1

If you are ugly, then cold approach is your only hope. Cause at least you can make them laugh and show your personality.
/r/seduction23/07/20 01:51 AM
4

Looking at this match you should be glad they removed the other one...
/r/seduction23/07/20 01:49 AM
0

She will lose attraction for you if you cut your beard. On the surface she will be "awwww so nice of you babyyyyy" but subconsciously she will know she is dating a pussy. Today she ask you to cut your beard, later she asks you to shave your pubes and then it will winds up taking you to sephora to pickup a foundation powder for you....
/r/seduction23/07/20 01:42 AM
3

Cutting your beard is the beginning of the end... Better to take the risk and hold your ground. The only way to have a solid relationship is to be willing to walk away. Would a girl tell Tom Hardy or Conor Mcgregor to cut his beard because she doesn't "dig it"? Man the fuck up.
/r/seduction23/07/20 01:35 AM
1

Used to feel bad at the beginning of my online dating journey when this happened, but then I learned that it is a continuous pattern and that I shouldn't take it personally.
/r/seduction22/07/20 09:02 PM
2

Make friends with her first, take it slowly...
/r/seduction22/07/20 08:51 PM
2

Go on 100 Tinder/Bumble dates, half of them will love you, and the other half will hate the shit out of you, and they decide this the first minute, nothing can change it. That's the explanation, you did nothing wrong, just personal preference. If you think that the 100 girls will all love you , you are so mistaken...
/r/seduction22/07/20 08:43 PM
2

Best places are malls, they are walking slowly, shopping. Not running atfer work or public transport
/r/seduction22/07/20 08:12 PM
1

Why not? If he breaks up that means he will start learning talking to women from scratch, and then take months or even years to learn. So why not start now and save time?
/r/seduction22/07/20 12:29 PM
1

Work on both brother. Yourself and your social skills. They are not mutually exclusive. Improve everything that can be improved...
/r/seduction22/07/20 11:10 AM
1

I am an RSD fan. I do it for fun while I am with my friends, and all of my friends do this shit on a daily basis. But if I am doing it solo, I make plans and systems...
/r/seduction22/07/20 10:27 AM
1

You don't. Just fuck her and don't make her your GF.
/r/seduction22/07/20 08:07 AM
1

Start with baby steps like asking for directions and compliments..
/r/seduction22/07/20 07:42 AM
3

Do you have any other options? Would you stop getting laid past a certain age, or you will want to get laid forever? Age is a similar excuse to height, hair, face, race, disability...etc, So even if you are 25 you will find other excuses with this mentality.
/r/seduction22/07/20 06:05 AM
3

Cold approach is a very difficult and complex skill that needs education AND practice to master. I watched many attractive and confident guys that got approached by girls and fucked it up because they don't have adequate social skills.
/r/seduction22/07/20 05:53 AM
0

I live with a girl, but I am still doing daygame. I get girl's contact info and never message them. Never cheated on her. Funny enough, some of them initiate messages with me. It is crucial to keep your skills sharp and to have a control over the relationship if she is attractive. So it doesn't hurt anyone to talk to girls while in a relationship. She has male friends too, right?
/r/seduction22/07/20 05:50 AM
1

Are you approachings 8s and 9s? Or are you approaching average girls because that's what is comfortable for you? Maybe work on your approach anxiety and approach better looking girls...
/r/seduction22/07/20 05:29 AM
1

It is not news, 75% of Tinder users are males.
/r/seduction22/07/20 05:22 AM
1

Start by holding her hands. If she squeezes it, you can fuck her in 1 hour.
/r/seduction22/07/20 05:21 AM
2

Yes, I got this Idea from Tyler too. Check this: " He then talked about how Instagram has been a game changer for him. Instead of having to keep track of various women texting him and trying to remember all their names and faces, he simply uses his Instagram to get a constant funnel of women investing and chasing in him with very little effort on his part. He says that his IG is mostly women and he gets them interested by inviting them to party at his Hollywood Hills villa (which was pretty dope…
/r/seduction22/07/20 05:17 AM
2

Lol are you me? I browse male fashion photos too, then pickup similar items on farfetch.com to create similar look. I also have a folder on my laptop of pictures I want to recreate. Did you get the "funnel" idea from Endless options course?
/r/seduction22/07/20 05:11 AM
2

She had to get to know me first and make sure I am a normal nice guy that won't cook her friends brain...I think.
/r/seduction20/07/20 09:08 PM
2

That's exactly what I do, follow male models to get ideas of good pics. These guys get laid like crazy, so if you reach 10% of their level, you will be fine. You don't have to be insta influencer. Learn also to take 20-30 pics and choose the best one of them to publish. In Instagram less is more, you don't need shit tons of pics, 6-10 are more than enough and they can last you years... Your Insta bio matters too, write a high value bio that may include your job or sports or travelling..etc, Stay…
/r/seduction20/07/20 09:06 PM
1

this is definitely not a troll post.
/r/seduction20/07/20 08:00 PM
1

You are fucking 18, you have 70 years of hope. Educate yourself and take consistent action until you make it. Don't just sit home and cry...
/r/seduction20/07/20 07:58 PM
6

Your problem shouldn't be that you can't hold eye contact. Your problem is that you can't approach her when she checks you out. And this can be solved by lots of cold approaching and killing your approach anxiety gradually over the course of months. And to answer your original question,the inability to hold eye contact with a girl is self esteem issue and lack of confidence, so change yourself and your life to be a better and more confident man.
/r/seduction20/07/20 07:54 PM
1

Why help her cheat? Go find another woman and stop obsessing over her, there are plenty!
/r/seduction20/07/20 07:51 PM
1

I am aware of your feminist views so that's why I used "Happy hunting" as sarcasm. You honestly need to relax online a little bit. You really sound provoked for no reason...
/r/seduction20/07/20 07:48 PM
1

That's another story from the OP. They are not willing to exchange anything because they are not attracted enough. Change yourself, your life and your game. It takes time to succeed, so keep at it...
/r/seduction20/07/20 07:45 PM
5

2 days ago I met a girl off Tinder. In the date she told me that she is actually married and she met me to hook me up with her friend! I thought she was lying or testing me, until she showed me her wedding photos on her phone. So she showed me her friends Instagram, who is a Korean model! Much better looking than her. We messaged each others and I am meeting her on Friday! Crazy world, a girl that meets a stranger to help her friend!
/r/seduction20/07/20 07:43 PM
1

What harassment are you talking about? Saying Hi to one woman or 1000 women is not harassment. If they don't like me I leave, and I always keep polite even if they are rude. And yes, it is a numbers game. Doing 10-20 approaches per day is better than 3 approaches in so many levels. But yes, obviously you have a different method so lets agree to disagree, happy hunting :D
/r/seduction20/07/20 07:38 PM
1

Yes that's what I am talking about. Approach girls and exchange Instagrams instead of phone numbers.. Converts better for me...
/r/seduction20/07/20 07:34 PM
1

Short approaches like that work for me because I have a good Instagram, so it takes off the heavy lifting of demonstrating my value without talking. Sometimes they initiate the DMs too after just 1 minute approach. If you are closing phone #s you have to have longer interactions...
/r/seduction20/07/20 07:31 PM
1

Yes my chances may be better if I keep buying coffee from her for 1 month and she recognises me. But this slow strategy can be good if she is the last woman on earth. With thousands of women on Tinder and on the streets, no girl is worth all this planning and time. I just go tell her "hi" in the moment, if she likes me everything will work, if she doesn't like me, no amount of coffee or muffins I buy will work. That's how cold approach work.
/r/seduction20/07/20 07:27 PM
1

Possibly, I got it much cheaper than $400...It is sold around here..
/r/seduction20/07/20 11:43 AM
0

So if I see a girl I like in a cafe, I keep buying coffee and cookies for 1-2 weeks, then ask her out!? And you don't call this stalking and preying? Do you also guarantee she will work there forever? There is a possibility that you will never see her again
/r/seduction20/07/20 11:41 AM
1

You got all you need, moving to a big city. When you arrive keep on taking consistent action to meet people.
/r/seduction20/07/20 11:34 AM
1

All I can say that his "Building good Instagram" module, is life changing. Because I use it for cold approach and social circle too. You can't find any free info on building good Instagram on the internet. He also has really good tips for male photography.
/r/seduction20/07/20 11:32 AM
1

The bad reviews are about Jessie claims or his marketing methods or his mony back guarantee scheme. The course content are good and I don't see it being mentioned in that review.
/r/seduction20/07/20 11:30 AM
1

I also believe there is a famous dating coach on a wheelchair , don't remember his name though. You might follow him since you are in the same boat...
/r/seduction20/07/20 09:34 AM
1

I highly recommend "Endless options" course. If you are not willing to pay $$ then youtube has many good videos...
/r/seduction20/07/20 09:30 AM
2

Improve your life, your pics, your profile, and girls will chase you. No magic tricks will suddenly make them reply to you. You already know what it has to be done...
/r/seduction20/07/20 09:07 AM
0

You are very young, plenty of time to work on your looks. Like loosing weight, weight lifting, makeup..etc, It is not a matter that you are not "Interesting" or "desperate"...
/r/seduction20/07/20 07:17 AM
1

You had yogurt on your beard
/r/seduction20/07/20 02:22 AM
10

She wasn't aroused enough when you have started to take off her pants. Next time spend more time foreplaying , stimulating her nipples..etc, Until she turns crazy and she will take off her pants herself and literally jumps on you...
/r/seduction20/07/20 02:09 AM
5

Lol I saw these youtube ads too. I went to tell girls "Hi, I'm Scott" and it worked! Even when my name is not Scott, but I was inspired...
/r/seduction19/07/20 11:22 PM
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You are talking about voice tone, confidence, leaving space between the girl, interview questions, escalation!...etc, Which makes me think that you have experience in cold approach some how. Your account is new so I can't believe you are a girl...
/r/seduction19/07/20 10:28 PM
2

Sex, and making your woman orgasm multiple times in a session requires education + practice, it can never happen naturally. Ignore the advice of not learning...
/r/seduction19/07/20 03:48 PM
2

How do you naturally know where is the G-spot or how to stimulate it? How do you naturally know the anatomy of the clit and how to give her clitorial orgasm. Statistics say only 25% of women achieve orgasm in sex. So apparently the cave man method you do is not working... Source: https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/all-about-sex/200903/the-most-important-sexual-statistic
/r/seduction19/07/20 03:47 PM
6

Watch tons of sex educational videos on youtube (not pornhub). You can read books too. If you educate yourself you will be ahead of many men who have had lots of sex and still have no clue on how to please women (or themselves)... Don't go solely on trial and error in this area..
/r/seduction19/07/20 11:27 AM
1

If you don't get results from approaching hundreds of women, then the problem is not that you approach hundreds. The problem is that you keep doing the same thing over and over without changing your method. That's your answer, analyse what's going wrong and change it, not approach LESS!
/r/seduction19/07/20 10:59 AM
1

Failing to plan is planning to fail. Even if you have some sort of "style", it should be planned or written. And this is in all areas of life, you shouldn't "wing" anything.
/r/seduction19/07/20 10:55 AM
2

I got this too, "Don't spam girls bro". "Focus on quality not quantity", "Too much approaches will make you a robot"...etc, According to their logic, 3 approaches a day is better than 10 a day! Like you learn faster with 3 rather than 10! I'd go as far and say 50 approaches a day is better than 10 too. These guys who speak this shit are usually keyboard warriors...
/r/seduction19/07/20 10:46 AM
3

I didn't understand you? If you know the answer why ask? I don't care what's on their heads, I approach girls talking on phones or even eating, I don't care. If they like you they would respond to you, if they don't, they will reject you no matter what they are doing...
/r/seduction19/07/20 08:03 AM
1

Well, I respect your honesty then...
/r/seduction19/07/20 07:21 AM
2

Makes your dating life much easier, in terms of cold approach or online dating.
/r/seduction19/07/20 07:19 AM
2

Yes it is easy to tell....
/r/seduction19/07/20 07:16 AM
1

Who else you don't talk to? The list can grow like cancer....You have to approach all.
/r/seduction19/07/20 07:14 AM
7

It took me 6 months of consistent approaching to get a single date! 100 approaches at the beginning is nothing. You are a beginner which means you are nervous,awkward or creepy. So give it time, stay consistent and you will improve. And even when you are intermediate, sleeping with 1 girl out of 100 (daygame) approaches is the norm. It is also easier to get Instagram and convert Insta DMs to dates, than phone #.
/r/seduction19/07/20 07:08 AM
0

These guys also give the advice of "Focus on your hobbies and career and women will come" :D
/r/seduction19/07/20 07:05 AM
0

Talk to other girls by cold approach and Tinder while in relationship with her. You don't have to meet them or cheat on her, just to keep your options open and have a control over the relationship.
/r/seduction19/07/20 02:00 AM
3

I always start with simple and short approaches , quick questions and compliments..etc Then I gradually start to do real approaches.
/r/seduction19/07/20 01:50 AM
1

You can still do cold approach at 50. Online works great too
/r/seduction19/07/20 01:49 AM
2

Check her asshole for infections to make sure she is high quality.
/r/seduction18/07/20 09:14 PM
0

The best thing about a female wing is that she would suck your dick after all girls reject you. A male wing can do that too, but it is a little nicer from a female wing...
/r/seduction18/07/20 08:15 PM
2

Even if I approach Saudi girls here in Australia, they are super cold and rude when I just say "Hi". Some girls from other gulf countries are nice though, but Saudi girls are strictly raised to never to talk to men. What is your goal anyways? Are you Saudi? Because if you are after casual sex and you got caught, they will stone you to death or lash the hell out of you at best. Her family may kill you too...
/r/seduction18/07/20 08:09 PM
1

Befriend her and take it very slowly, don't go direct.
/r/seduction18/07/20 06:45 PM
1

Approach indirectly. Don't pull the "I think you are cute" line, won't go well.
/r/seduction18/07/20 12:47 AM
5

If you are not planning to approach, don't exchange eye contacts. Now she knows you like her but you are a pussy. The more time you exchange eye contacts and not approach, the more creepy and awkward it will be when you finally do it. So....never exchange eye contacts with a girl you won't approach right away...
/r/seduction18/07/20 12:04 AM
1

I mean that pickup artists recommend not to be indirect and hide your intentions with women. That you should be direct and sexual straight away. And this is not a good idea with a co-worker. Start by befriending her first...
/r/seduction17/07/20 11:46 PM
1

When you take her temperature tell her "Omg you are hot!". Seriously, in these situations I will befriend her first, and later exchange social media. Forget all about PUA direct stuff (don't hide your dick, don't be indirect..etc.). There are times, when it is better to hide you dick at first. She is not a stranger in the street. I don't recommend asking her out straight away and make her uncomfortable every time she sees you for the next months.
/r/seduction17/07/20 11:40 PM
1

Last year I had 5 virgins on my bed. Took the virginity of two of them. The other 3 refused to take off their pants/skirts and gave me major blue balls. From my experience, it is not a big deal if the girl likes you. She wants to have fun too and not necessarily wants to wait for "the one" forever. As long as they consent just do it. You are over thinking.
/r/seduction17/07/20 11:32 PM
1

If you lower your standards because it is "hard", then you will do the same in all areas of your life. To me it is some kind of "giving up". So yes it will hurt. But it depends though, if you are after casual sex, of course it doesn't have to be with only 8's and 9's. But if you are looking for a girl to date long term, I will never lower my standard and give her a valuable time of my life.
/r/seduction17/07/20 05:40 PM
2

As a beginner Youtube videos are enough. (Or Approach anxiety training course) When you go out, and approach a lot, then invest in a course. Because you will have no idea what the course is talking about without having some sort of experience.
/r/seduction17/07/20 10:39 AM
2

Add her on Instagram and start slowly, build your way up...
/r/seduction17/07/20 10:36 AM
1

Ok fair enough, but how would you tell?
/r/seduction17/07/20 09:54 AM
1

Ready for what exactly?
/r/seduction17/07/20 08:10 AM
1

Saying ALL 18 yo girls are shallow is over generalisation. I met very smart and intellectual young girls before. Very few but they definitely exist. Again, go for any woman you want even if she is 90, but don't go for them because you are lowering your standards or thinking that these women are what you deserve. Very bad mindset to live by.
/r/seduction17/07/20 07:30 AM
1

No I don't do cold approach in parks now. I meant I ask girls out to the park through Tinder.
/r/seduction17/07/20 04:51 AM
1

Meet any woman you want even if she is 90, as long as you are not lowering your standards or thinking you deserve less...
/r/seduction17/07/20 04:31 AM
5

So since dating younger girls is harder and requires hard work, you will take a shortcut and lower your standard? Sounds like a terrible idea. If you keep fucking grannies soon you will get depressed and crave young women again...
/r/seduction17/07/20 03:00 AM
3

Attraction is about being not doing. "Owen Cook"
/r/seduction16/07/20 10:21 PM
2

If you are in doubt..he isn't.
/r/seduction16/07/20 10:05 PM
2

Heck there are tons of PUA channels of men who don't approach. Examples of books I read are "Mode one" Alan Roger Currie , Models by Mark Manson (He said he stopped approaching) and of course books written by women. I am not saying these books don't teach or help, but what if you want to learn how to approach a girl walking? Two girls walking? A girl on the phone?..etc, What I am saying is that you should read books + study infield videos. The other guy says books alone are enough, which they ar…
/r/seduction16/07/20 09:10 PM
0

It is not false idea that you can have girls above your league if you work hard enough. Not just study material and sit at home.
/r/seduction16/07/20 02:40 PM
1

You have no idea what's going on behind closed doors, maybe she is a good companion to him and she is ok that he fucks other women too. I mean he is fucking Will Smith, so women threw themselves on him every minute..
/r/seduction16/07/20 01:30 PM
9

PUA is not popular , it is like 0.1% of guys do it and the 99.9% do online dating, social circle, arranged marriage or whatever.
/r/seduction16/07/20 01:28 PM
2

OP thinks you can talk yourself out of approach anxiety, such an inexperienced naive.
/r/seduction16/07/20 11:21 AM
3

Another "She is just a girl, it is all in your head" post again, brilliant. Go do similar ones to people with snake phobias too. Talk them out of it...
/r/seduction16/07/20 11:20 AM
1

You have been talking to one girl and chasing her for 6 months. How many girlfriends have you had or girls you fucked in between? How do you guys get this patience, jesus!
/r/seduction16/07/20 09:41 AM
0

Give her 50 bucks and she will do it...
/r/seduction16/07/20 09:33 AM
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It is harder to get them out, reason is they look like shit when beauty salons are closed. But I can still meet few of them in a park walk (exercise ;). Just keep on improving your profile, they won't reject going out with Brad Pitt, would they? They are horny and still want to get laid too...
/r/seduction16/07/20 09:30 AM
7

Music and candles, buy a bluetooth speaker (I have Bose), and play her music...
/r/seduction16/07/20 09:18 AM
2

If the girl is on your bed and doesn't want to fuck, kick her out. And if you want to follow the nicer version, stop making out or seducing her then turn cold until she leaves herself or straighten the fuck up and take off her pants...
/r/seduction16/07/20 08:29 AM
1

Lol, you are the one who started with making generalised assumptions about RSD program. I have been reading PUA material and books since 2006, and I am telling you, it is a whole different information between those who actually approach and those who don't. And my assumptions that no woman teaches you how to deal with approach anxiety correctly are correct, there is no woman that wrote about gradual exposure. You keep talking about RSD are business oriented.. these authors write for mainstream t…
/r/seduction16/07/20 08:24 AM
1

How would a woman teach you to cure approach anxiety? She tells you "It is all in your head, she is just a girl"? In the hot seat at home there is a video about approach anxiety that teaches you start low, lower your standard about the girls you approach, don't even try at your first approach, build momentum..etc, These seduction books have good theories and may actually help, but they don't serve lots of practical tips. The won't tell you go out 4 days a week and stay consistent..etc,
/r/seduction16/07/20 07:14 AM
1

Why read seduction books from guys who never approach, when you can learn from someone who has done it and mastered it for 20 years? The only seduction books from people who actually approach are "The game" and "Mystery Method", do you know someone else?
/r/seduction16/07/20 07:02 AM
-1

Buy concerete dumbbells or resistance bands
/r/seduction16/07/20 06:44 AM
1

It was a pure sales video..
/r/seduction16/07/20 06:15 AM
1

He was promoting for his Hot seat at home course,for $297. I totally recommend, I bought it a year ago for $600
/r/seduction16/07/20 06:02 AM
1

Why do you think that a woman who wants sex is a "wrong idea' or something bad? You didn't need to apologize, you have a fucking dick. Next time fuck her like a real man and stop being a bitch...
/r/seduction15/07/20 08:51 PM
1

Keep on improving yourself so you don't get replaced...
/r/seduction15/07/20 07:20 PM
3

2 girls one dog and a pizza place
/r/seduction15/07/20 07:06 PM
3

Not if you have a chloroform tissue in your hand...
/r/seduction15/07/20 07:03 PM
5

Take off your pants and put your hands behind your back
/r/seduction15/07/20 07:02 PM
4

Well...I tried not to be rude..but here you said it...
/r/seduction15/07/20 06:56 PM
1

Daygame is huge for personal development and learning social skills. Tinder and daygame don't have to be mutually exclusive though, I do them both.
/r/seduction15/07/20 06:52 PM
1

True that girls will give you their IG even after 30 seconds interaction, which is a good thing! You can keep gaming her later on DMs. If the phone # converts more than IG for you, then your profile isn't good enough...
/r/seduction15/07/20 06:50 PM
1

Girls in your country must be lurking somewhere online then to get laid...Go fish there...
/r/seduction15/07/20 12:35 PM
17

The normal for a new relationship is to fuck the girl 3 times a day , everyday for at least a month. What 3 weeks are you talking about brother? Girls are horny as much as you are.. If my girlfriend wants to wait 2 weeks between sex I will go find a real woman...
/r/seduction15/07/20 12:34 PM
3

Some girls don't feel comfortable with physical compliments. Maybe compliment her style or tell her she looks cool or interesting..etc, Works better for me than you are pretty or cute.
/r/seduction15/07/20 12:21 PM
1

Yup that's what I tell them when they ask what I am doing. I tell them I am picking up chicks, that's how I do it. Why would you lie to a girl to earn her validation? Own what you are doing and fuck her opinion about you...
/r/seduction15/07/20 12:18 PM
6

So how do you systemically make female friends? Do you approach them in day time and tell them let's be friends? Or maybe approach them in bar and make friends with them, but at the end of the night they go bang a real man?
/r/seduction15/07/20 12:16 PM
1

I told you a helpful tip to have an education mindset when you deal with texting. To be good with anything you have to read and watch, not rely on trial and error...
/r/seduction15/07/20 10:47 AM
1

What the heck is "I like your face?" . This line is used in prank youtube videos (seriously). Start by educating yourself either with youtube videos or paid Tinder courses...
/r/seduction15/07/20 09:52 AM
0

No it is different because women make you wait when you are last to message. But I don't do the same when they are last to message...
/r/seduction15/07/20 07:34 AM
2

dick pics brother
/r/seduction15/07/20 07:00 AM
0

I always played these waiting games before, they always fail cause women know how to wait. They are very very stubborn so don't challenge them with these games. What I learned to do is to plan for the next date while she is at my home. Not over text. Cause she may play disgusting games like replying after hours or tell you "I will check my schedule"..etc,
/r/seduction15/07/20 06:50 AM
3

These posts are rampant on this forum, guys over 25 yo who meet women for 5 dates and sometimes months without fucking them. Then they wonder why they get ghosted!? The poor woman wanted the dick so she went shopping somewhere else, it is no mystery.
/r/seduction15/07/20 06:47 AM
8

Why didn't you fuck her when she came two times at your house?
/r/seduction15/07/20 05:55 AM
1

He is asking you out for a drink, how much obvious does it need to be :D? He didn't ask you directly, but kept it up to you to text him, to maintain a professional patient/doctor relationship...
/r/seduction15/07/20 05:41 AM
1

They have an app for that, it is called Tinder.
/r/seduction15/07/20 04:44 AM
1

Only one way to find out...
/r/seduction15/07/20 04:43 AM
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Well, they ARE shit. And also a girl you approach that is rude to you for no reason is shit too. So you gotta do what you gotta do brother..
/r/seduction14/07/20 11:55 PM
4

You gotta start somewhere. You can't start with 1000 followers. Start investing now... I have 136 followers (mostly girls I insta closed through daygame). And others are real friends.
/r/seduction14/07/20 11:17 PM
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It is a great way to keep in touch, if you cold approach a girl or even move her from Tinder to insta, she stays with you forever and you may go out with her after a year! Maybe she comments on an interesting story you post, or vice versa. You can build "real" rapport with her over long time. But if you take a girl's phone number, and she doesn't reply, it is over. No chance with her forever. Hard work gone to waste...
/r/seduction14/07/20 11:12 PM
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I took many girls from the street to my apartment in few hours. But there is a catch to this route. Is that there is a big possibility that a girl would go with you on Insta-date to pass time or cause you are a fun dude..etc, But she has no interest in fucking you. And since this happened to me frequently, I preferred shorter approaches and let my Instagram do the heavy lifting of me to demonstrate value. Not to mention that not all women are available for insta dates. We are talking about day t…
/r/seduction14/07/20 10:58 PM
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Of course getting rejected a lot has to be out me! I didn't say it is all about women. I suffered from social anxiety and some sort of social impairment that hindered me a lot. But I pushed through it and will keep pushing...
/r/seduction14/07/20 10:42 PM
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cool
/r/seduction14/07/20 10:38 PM
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Who cares about being a seduction artist? You should care more about getting laid with quality women. And you still meet them on dates and have to learn to seduce them too! they won't jump from tinder on your dick without seduction...
/r/seduction14/07/20 10:32 PM
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Building a good Instagram requires having a good body, hair, skin, social life, hobbies, clothes..etc. so it is not a wasted time.
/r/seduction14/07/20 10:30 PM
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Oh apparently you are the guy who thinks low number of approaches is better than high number of approaches, I should have remembered a genius like you.
/r/seduction14/07/20 10:28 PM
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I don't know who the fuck you are, but apparently you keep bitching about women not replying to your whatsapp messages. So keep at it, why the fuck should I care? I have my opinion and I will keep saying it anywhere...
/r/seduction14/07/20 10:27 PM
1

Yeah man, don't spam girls.. cause approaching 3 girls a day is better than approaching 20. You learn faster and have more chances , right? Don't spam girls bro... I will decrease my number of approaches cause I was doing "too many" which is a bad thing, thanks for the life tip.
/r/seduction14/07/20 10:21 PM
1

Your argument makes sense if you know how many girls I approached. Maybe I approached 10000 girls, so how can you judge?
/r/seduction14/07/20 10:01 PM
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Yeah, that's another point. Men who do cold approach invest lots of time or money on educating themselves on cold approach, be it forums or youtube or courses. But how much time are they investing in Tinder education? Zero... You can't succeed at anything without proper education...
/r/seduction14/07/20 09:56 PM
3

I have only 5 photos of me on Instagram https://i.imgur.com/QopzBJ6.jpg Listen brother, No one hates Instagram like me. It is fucking stupid and not good for mental health. But you gotta do what you gotta do brother. The main reason I started to build my Instagram is for cold approach actually. Closing chicks Instagram is easier and converts more to dates than phone #.
/r/seduction14/07/20 09:52 PM
1

The post is self explanatory. You are stalking her, you care a lot about her because she is your only option. You have no other options, or else you wouldn't give a fuck. Someone that is heart broken from one date, means he is not getting enough dates. She picked that up in the date and she lost interest from your sub-communications. If you have tons of options she will pick this up too, and be interested in you. Women are amazing readers. So to fix your problem, ask yourself the deeper question…
/r/seduction14/07/20 09:46 PM
3

I got rejected 1000 times, because I approached a lot in the last 2 years. But I don't just keep doing what I am doing. I analyse what's going on, and make changes. You can get rejected 10 times in a row if you take a layoff from game, or possibly your hair looks like shit, or you have toxic energy that day, it still happens even if you are intermediate.
/r/seduction14/07/20 09:16 PM
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I agree that Owen is not connecting a lot with beginners that can't even say hi to women. And they can benefit more from a program with canned lines and techniques to get them started. But when you start to evolve you will need to learn Owen's principles of congruence, free association, momentum, energy,non reactivity..etc, That's what will take you from beginner to intermediate, or more.
/r/seduction14/07/20 08:53 PM
1

It requires Skills and knowledge to know how to take pictures. Even the best photographer, if he is not specialised in dating pictures, he will suck. It takes hard work to build a good Tinder+ Instagram profile. And apparently you didn't invest enough. And in a small town, cold approach is even more difficult. I live in Melbourne Au, I have been approaching for 2 years, and all girls of the 5 million city know me. Lots in not a good way. I even ran into same girls 2-3 times. If you keep approach…
/r/seduction14/07/20 08:48 PM
2

What makes Natural better than HS@H in your opinion, since you watched both?
/r/seduction14/07/20 07:14 PM
2

I only tried Hot seat at home and I cannot imagine anything that can be better. Because HS@H teaches you principles that are crucial, not techniques. Just watching owen game in these video is mind blowing. Never tried Julians programs but he is a good teacher and his game is also sick.
/r/seduction14/07/20 07:13 PM
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Who stands in the street 20 minutes for a talk? You either take her on Insta date, which can be a waste of time,or do 10-20 short interactions a day. Standing with each girl you approach 20 minutes is a huge risk to your time. Not to mention that most girls in day time are out to do something,so you will miss out on many girls if you take their # after short time.
/r/seduction14/07/20 07:06 PM
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This garbage is said by lazy idiots with no work ethics,that hate both themselves and women. "Focus on your hobbies and career and women will magically come". It is like saying read books,sit on the couch and money will come! No, money will come when you take action,risk and fail 100 times and staying resilient no matter how many times you fail. Same thing with women, you have to take MASSIVE action, get rejected 1000 times, and you will get one eventually. What kind of a man waits for women to …
/r/seduction14/07/20 06:58 PM
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Why buy a program from a student when you can buy his master's program? Julian and Tyler have much better game, experience and even better teachers than Max..
/r/seduction14/07/20 06:48 PM
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For a start, any girl you close stays in contact with you forever. You may go out with her next week or next year. Not to mention that she will feel safer with a real human that has life and friends, not a mysterious phone # that can actually be a serial killer. Even Owen Cook said that and he closes chicks on Instagram...
/r/seduction14/07/20 06:45 PM
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lol, you can do everything right in the approach, and she actually likes you but still won't reply or go out with you! That's the dark side of the game and all men experience that. Instagram gives you a better chance, still not a magic bullet though..
/r/seduction14/07/20 06:43 PM
1

Follow the protocol, ask for her facebook and initiate the stalking procedures...
/r/seduction14/07/20 11:54 AM
1

You should have told her "No, let's go on a DATE together" , to cut this bullshit and know what she is all about. But after you agreed to her plans you will sound like a bitch when you bitch about it. So you either go and enjoy your time or try with her later without a butthurt message.
/r/seduction14/07/20 11:51 AM
1

Build a good Instagram instead of taking their numbers, and you won't have this problem. Phone numbers convert much less than a good Instagram. If you are lazy to build one then it is your problem, not theirs...
/r/seduction14/07/20 11:48 AM
1

And about the high libido thing, I have been living with a girl for 2 months now. The first month we used to have sex 3 times a day, then next month it was once a day, which is not bad at all. But now I am feeling it is going to be once every other day. There is no way you will have sex with her 3 times a day forever. So a good relationship is not about how much sex you have, it is about mental connection. Because this high sex drive never lasts even with the hottest girl on earth.
/r/seduction14/07/20 11:43 AM
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Yes
/r/seduction14/07/20 11:33 AM
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That's the problem with approaching men. At least women will only hurt your ego
/r/seduction14/07/20 11:17 AM
1

It is 50 to 1 in California
/r/seduction14/07/20 11:13 AM
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The quality of women YOU get , or Tinder shows YOU, is low. If you have a good profile you won't suffer from a problem of low quality. Same hot girls you see in the streets or bars are on Tinder. Same people who bitch about cold approach doesn't bring results are the people who bitch about online dating. I do them both, and you should work hard at them both, not just put shit selfies and bio then cry about quality.
/r/seduction14/07/20 11:11 AM
2

Gay men respond well to negs, tell him "Do you even lift,bro?"
/r/seduction14/07/20 11:07 AM
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I don't think you love her, you are just afraid of being lonely after you leave her. She is your comfort zone. Take the risk...
/r/seduction14/07/20 09:32 AM
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You fucked it up because you didn't sleep with her once in 6 dates. Only 13 yo kids or Koreans do that....
/r/seduction14/07/20 05:51 AM
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Bro, sex has nothing to do with that rejection. If the girl is into you and you told her straight away "let's go fuck" , she will not get upset. She may reject the offer (or not) but would still meet you again and fuck next date. Apparently from your story you were a try hard, overly qualifying yourself, getting lead by her and swallowing her bullshit and being apologetic. That's why she dumbed you. Even if you do everything right and being attractive too, girls will still reject you on dates,ar…
/r/seduction14/07/20 05:43 AM
1

Japanese girls are just nice to strangers and they seem to be interested in anything like babies. Doesn't mean they want to date him...
/r/seduction14/07/20 03:08 AM
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It never works like that. You have to be systematic and consistent. This "talk to the cute girl while you are shopping in the supermarket" is B.S. Because it means low number of approaches and not enough to learn... Not to mention, that if you are not consistent, your approach anxiety will be super high and you will never have the guts to approach "in the moment"...
/r/seduction14/07/20 03:03 AM
1

WHy do you talk about their jobs, lawyer, salon..etc? You bore the shit out of them. Tell stories man. Memorize fun stories to tell....
/r/seduction14/07/20 02:59 AM
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The PUA community will never die. Men approaching women is a human nature and it will remain whatever how many dating apps are on the market...
/r/seduction14/07/20 02:09 AM
1

What route exatcly? Viagra can treat performance anxiety long term...
/r/seduction13/07/20 11:02 PM
1

Viagra my brother. It is not rocket science...
/r/seduction13/07/20 04:23 PM
1

Great advice, maybe I will start video calling ugly and average girls on Tinder to practice my game, but then never meet them. I mean we know life is never fair hehe
/r/seduction13/07/20 12:10 PM
1

Never answer, leave the number to her imagination and she may think of 100's...
/r/seduction13/07/20 12:04 PM
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Too broad, will get deleted...
/r/seduction13/07/20 12:03 PM
1

Has Anyone Really Been Far Even as Decided to Use Even Go Want to do Look More Like?
/r/seduction13/07/20 12:03 PM
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If the date after a couple of days, keep her lightly engaged so she doesn't forget or lose feelings for you. Minimal texting like every 2 days to stay on top of her head. I made that mistake when I set a date after a week, then I text her shortly before the date, and then she is like "who the fukk are you" ? Feels weird to ask her out cause you are strangers again. Even you, may lose interest in her that way...
/r/seduction13/07/20 08:14 AM
1

Since you will not cold approach random dudes every day like we do, focus on making friends and building social circles, and you will have many encounters with different men..
/r/seduction13/07/20 02:37 AM
1

ok, my bad.
/r/seduction13/07/20 02:34 AM
1

Man, ask her about her shoes, jewellery,tattoo or some shit when she comes and serve you. Pretend you are buying some girl a gift,then few exchanges of words and smoothly ask for any social contact, better not to be her phone #. She is not stupid and she will know what you are doing but she will appreciate your skills of bullshitting.... Also, start building an instagram account because it is rare that a girl rejects following me, except when she doesn't have one...
/r/seduction13/07/20 12:52 AM
1

Long time girlfriend that you never kissed or slept with? Are you guys 13?
/r/seduction13/07/20 12:45 AM
1

If you have been exchanging eye contact with her for a long time and then ask her out, you will creep the shit out of her. That's why if you are not willing to approach a girl right away, avoid eye contact! She will know you like her but too pussy to approach and lose interest. To control damage now, try to figure out a common topic between you and her, then ask for her instagram in a friendly way. Don't mention asking her out, you can do this on instagram later after few exchanges. You don't ha…
/r/seduction13/07/20 12:10 AM
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No it is different. You don't ask lots of questions in texting or even talk a lot. You also can't free flow and talk about your dog or something crazy that happened in work..etc.You have to be concise and lead the conversation towards a date ASAP.
/r/seduction13/07/20 12:03 AM
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There are two directions for the conversation to build comfort/rapport: YOU: Talk about things that you like, that make you comfortable and happy. If you feel happy and relaxed, she will contract these feelings too. If you feel self conscious about what you say, you will be nervous and make her uncomfortable. Don't think too much, just vent (but no negative shit). HER: Make her talk a lot about herself and reveal what she holds down inside, go deep. We feel connected to people we talk to , not t…
/r/seduction12/07/20 12:56 PM
1

I didn't say women wear revealing clothes to hunt for mates or to get fucked in the park. I said they are "approachable", maybe makeup make them feel good,maybe confident,maybe social, or to even get attention..whatever. The thread you are commenting on is about women acceptance to a park approach, which clearly you disagree with, and it doesn't matter to anyone else but you.
/r/seduction12/07/20 10:34 AM
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Yeah, next time when I see a girl I like in the park I will let her go and pray to god I find her on Tinder to swipe right. Thanks for the advice, I was wrong about not taking advice from women in pickup. You changed my life.
/r/seduction12/07/20 10:22 AM
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I live in a free country where I am allowed to talk to anyone I want.No one cares about your opinion on who to talk or not talk to, you don't set the rules...Now go back to Tinder with your shitty bio....
/r/seduction12/07/20 10:10 AM
1

haha, anyone who sees this knows you have never done it in your life. So don't talk about what you have no idea about, kind sir.
/r/seduction12/07/20 06:56 AM
1

Then work on your profile and Instagram until you become the 10%. It is not hard to fuck an average girl out of Tinder. With hard work and not lazy ass pics and bio you can hook up with attractive girls too..
/r/seduction12/07/20 02:50 AM
1

You don't know shit. You are the kind of guy who has 1000 excuses not to approach women. And definitely never stopped a running girl in your entire life.
/r/seduction12/07/20 02:46 AM
2

If you approach a lot, that will always happen. Do nothing, tell her nice to meet you and wish him a good day... I mean, so fkin what? Would you get angry if a dude approached your gf?
/r/seduction11/07/20 09:58 PM
1

Bro I noticed in all your posts you refer to women as "bitches"..............upvoted.
/r/seduction11/07/20 09:57 PM
7

Then she is not interested brother...
/r/seduction11/07/20 09:54 PM
10

Why not being more subtle and ask her to watch a movie with you or check your porn collection on your laptop or some shit?
/r/seduction11/07/20 09:00 PM
1

The only option left now is pornhub..
/r/seduction11/07/20 08:58 PM
8

That's her story when he caught her...
/r/seduction11/07/20 01:50 PM
5

So what man? This may motivate you to work harder and improve yourself. Why do you think 99% of men go to gym and left heavy ass weights? For their health ? lol . There is nothing wrong in bettering your life to get laid...
/r/seduction11/07/20 10:27 AM
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There are 1000's of girls on Tinder to increase their Instagram following. It's no mystery.
/r/seduction11/07/20 07:30 AM
1

So how do you stop a running girl? Teach us.
/r/seduction11/07/20 07:18 AM
1

What about the 100's of girls that reject you in cold approach? Does this decrease your confidence too? At least on Tinder they reject your bad pics, they don't even know your personality, so it is not personal. But in cold approach they reject the real you. I don't know if you tried cold approach or not, but you will brutally get rejected left and right.
/r/seduction11/07/20 07:00 AM
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If there is a lockdown and you can't do cold approach, then you will have to use dating apps. They are only "B.S" if you have a bad profile. Maybe spend a month on building good pics and bio first. Worst case scenario you improve your text game and learn how to take average girls home on first date. There is nothing to lose.
/r/seduction11/07/20 03:17 AM
1

There is nothing wrong in spamming women. Women usually don't exchange eye contacts and "checkout guys" as much as men do...
/r/seduction10/07/20 10:50 PM
0

Bro, no one will report you for saying hi to a girl. Report what exactly? Opening your mouth infront of her? My problem with isolated approaches is that she is an easy target and she will not appreciate the approach as much as approaching her in a high social pressure situation (like walking in a crowd). It is basically a pussy approach and I prefer to avoid it because I don't feel good in my own skin. It can still work though if you are super friendly and approached her from relatively bigger d…
/r/seduction10/07/20 10:48 PM
0

The times that are not socially acceptable for you to approach are basically ALL THE TIME. I bit when you go out you are like "She is on the phone, she is walking fast,she is eating, she is talking to someone,she is in the queue...etc" and you never do anything. You probably seek girls isolated in parks like a real creep.
/r/seduction10/07/20 09:20 PM
1

Exactly, and you don't even know your rating until you submit it to the website..
/r/seduction10/07/20 02:42 PM
3

So when smart girls feel horny, they go to the libray and check out guys? Seriously, you believe that's their only method of dating guys? You are so delusional or naive. Tinder is full of female nurses, doctors,lawyers and even published PHD researchers.. Even Sia the aussie singer which is a genius uses online dating...
/r/seduction10/07/20 02:40 PM
1

So you don't know who's Tyler?
/r/seduction10/07/20 02:34 PM
1

Yes , they go to libraries, but how do they have sex with men?
/r/seduction10/07/20 12:44 PM
6

So how do smart girls get laid? Go the library and pray to god for a man to approach them?
/r/seduction10/07/20 12:24 PM
1

So how do you stop running girls, oh right, you don't. Bit you don't stop girls on phone either, or girls walking fast, or girls in a group..etc, How many excuses do you have besides "She is running?"
/r/seduction10/07/20 08:52 AM
19

You kissed her twice in 4 months! Are you guys 14?
/r/seduction10/07/20 06:01 AM
6

So if you approach the shallow Tinder girl in a bar, you will find her more "deep" ?
/r/seduction10/07/20 05:58 AM
6

No it is not. They date and fuck men from it. No one will take advantage of you if you have a good profile.
/r/seduction10/07/20 05:57 AM
10

Lol, no. It is not either be your girlfriend or get rejected. There are 100 other scenarios in between that. To get a girlfriend from cold approach you will have to approach hundreds. Not few minutes or even a whole day of approaching...
/r/seduction10/07/20 05:56 AM
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Cold approaching will give you a girlfriend in few minutes? Why , are you Justin Beiber?
/r/seduction10/07/20 05:22 AM
7

Don't listen to them, during the lockdown here in Australia girls were going out to run wearing tight/revealing clothes and putting on full makeup. Full makeup on a run tells you something...
/r/seduction10/07/20 05:19 AM
7

So if Brad Pitt in his prime approached a running girl, it will be the worst thing she has experienced? Don't take pickup advice from women..
/r/seduction10/07/20 04:53 AM
1

Tell us the better method, other than what you do (don't do shit).
/r/seduction10/07/20 04:47 AM
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Run at her speed, gentle tap on the elbow. "Hey sorry to interrupt your run!" , she will tell you "No , it is ok" , then deliver your shit...
/r/seduction10/07/20 02:18 AM
4

Watch comedy movies, stand up comedy, comedy sitcoms..etc Do what amuses you in your interactions, not what amuses them...
/r/seduction10/07/20 01:58 AM
2

Yeah I think you can learn from a white Italian how to be successful with Indian women 😏. Must have been hard for him that he needed to write 1200 pages about it 😏
/r/seduction09/07/20 11:11 PM
3

People are more compassionate towards other's these days. It is like we are all in a fight against an invisible enemy together, so no place for rudeness...
/r/seduction09/07/20 11:05 PM
0

Women are still horny and want to have sex mang. They wouldn't mind a man approaching them because they are already banging another dudes from Tinder,same thing.
/r/seduction09/07/20 11:04 PM
7

Start really low, asking for directions, saying hi and leave. Even better with average girls. Then build your way up over the course of months! You can't just start your journey with approaching attractive girls right away! It doesn't work like that, for most people.
/r/seduction09/07/20 05:58 AM
8

From what I noticed Indian women are the least with "White fever". They are not like eastern asian women. I have Indian wings who do game with me and they don't have huge problems either.
/r/seduction09/07/20 03:05 AM
0

The body builds tolerance to alcohol, so no, it is not a different issue. Soon one drink won't do anything...
/r/seduction09/07/20 12:24 AM
0

Then when one drink doesn't cut it anymore, Should he pump it to 2 drinks , then 3 ..etc? Sounds like a terrible strategy long term...
/r/seduction09/07/20 12:16 AM
1

Start with asking for directions, then maybe ask them for best restaurant around..etc Look into good looking loser social anxiety program
/r/seduction09/07/20 12:14 AM
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Women are women man. Seduction books shouldn't teach you to be sexual and touch the girls straight away. Any woman will respond positively to a confident and fun approach. If you are doing cold approach in India I'd advice you to start super friendly because of the sexual harassment problem there.. But other than that, what works on American women will work on Indian women. I have approached a lot of them here in Australia (Indian girls that have just came from India, not born here), and they ar…
/r/seduction08/07/20 11:18 PM
1

Go interrupt them and ask your friend "Hey James, have your STD testing results came in? Your dick looked sore man"
/r/seduction08/07/20 09:59 PM
1

I didn't mention anywhere to lie about where you live. I told you make a plan to change the situation or learn to live with it. Now if you want to write on your Tinder bio that you live with your parents, or approach girls in the street and tell them that before taking their numbers, it is up to you...
/r/seduction08/07/20 03:38 PM
1

I read half of it, what does that have to do with my answer? Obviously you are defensive against opinions that say living with your parents hurts your chances, so if you already know the answer and defending it, why the fk did you ask? Attractive women have thousands of choices, and they will choose the guy who lives on his own, rather than the guy who lives in a shared room or with his parents. You either change it or deal with it.
/r/seduction08/07/20 01:13 PM
0

You can fuck attractive women while living with your parents. But for them to date you long term, it is a much different story. Once they know your poor or mediocre lifestyle they will dump you, because they simply have tons of other options (think of 1000 tinder matches).
/r/seduction08/07/20 11:01 AM
1

She is controlling the relationship because she knows that she is your only option. Go approach and date another women to detach yourself from her. I can imagine you keep bitching and whining on the chat...
/r/seduction08/07/20 10:59 AM
3

It is a better to be a real prize, than to "visualise" yourself as a prize. This kind of internal confidence can't be faked...
/r/seduction08/07/20 10:43 AM
1

I have autistic friends who do daygame. They have a chance if they are good looking enough.
/r/seduction08/07/20 10:40 AM
1

Do meditation so you reflect out positive energy
/r/seduction08/07/20 01:16 AM
1

And what if I am a successful lawyer and not a club promoter ? How would they magically come, explain? Like we hit our trolleys in the supermarket like the movies? Or wait for them to approach me?
/r/seduction07/07/20 08:38 PM
1

Flirting with her 2 years? Do you know how many guys had she fucked in these two years while you are "taking it slow"? If these guys who fucked her read your post they'd be laughing their asses off in bed with her...
/r/seduction07/07/20 08:32 PM
1

It is the best feeling in the world if she is the girl of your dreams that you later fall in love with. Totally worth every rejection and humiliation you got in your journey to her...
/r/seduction07/07/20 08:23 PM
2

You wasted your time with sleeping with a beautiful girl? What are the better things to do with your time? You shouldn't be chasing women? You should work on your career and hobbies and they will magically come without any chasing, right?
/r/seduction07/07/20 08:21 PM
1

I am not telling him to pickup women by asking for directions. I am talking about "graded exposure" or building a "fear ladder' so he doesn't overwhelm himself by approaching attractive girls straight away, then give up because how hard it is. But starting with easy missions that give him confidence and momentum. Graded exposure works in field, their are many fear ladder programs to follow, and they work. Not to mention that they are scientifically proven in research, so your opinion means exact…
/r/seduction07/07/20 08:05 PM
2

No, it is not ok for me to stay alone. I have a high standard to myself and I won't give up and lower it , and then lie to myself with this B.S. I FIGHT for what I deserve, and I don't settle for less, period.
/r/seduction07/07/20 01:48 PM
8

"Good morning Tiger ;)"
/r/seduction07/07/20 11:30 AM
0

Then get a lasik surgery and stop wearing your dads pants..
/r/seduction07/07/20 11:28 AM
3

One person can change a bulb, but if he is a Bieber fan then he is a little retarded and need a team of another 4 Bieber fans to help him. So the answer is 5.
/r/seduction07/07/20 11:26 AM
4

Formulate a plan, start small, like asking for directions, or saying hi and leave. Then build your way up to a real approach. This plan may take months, but every step of it changes you in a way that no amount of money you make can do...
/r/seduction07/07/20 11:24 AM
1

It is much easier if you find another girl. If there is no one else and you stay home doing nothing but thinking about her, it will be really really hard. Let her go and find another girl. If she likes you , she will message you again..
/r/seduction07/07/20 06:36 AM
1

Do you live in Australia bro? Got that from the "Umbrella"...
/r/seduction06/07/20 06:11 PM
1

Do not think about dating until i learn to love myself No, just no. Go approach girls, get destroyed and humilated better 100 times than doing nothing. The worst case scenario you will learn how to move your legs and open your mouth to talk to girls. Getting rejected 1000 times will treat your shyness and approach anxiety. If rejection makes you feel bad, just tell yourself it is ok because I am still working on myself...
/r/seduction06/07/20 02:06 AM
1

Then why intimidate and overwhelm yourself? Go out to have fun, talk to easy people then when you start to feel good escalate. No need to feel like dragging your legs to death out of your home...
/r/seduction06/07/20 12:06 AM
1

I'd say I can definitely sleep with 1 girl out of 100 I approach. I live with a girl now so I am not doing it as often, but still doing it...
/r/seduction06/07/20 12:04 AM
1

Try telling them you are half Spanish and they will drop their panties instantly...yes lie, they can't tell.
/r/seduction06/07/20 12:02 AM
1

Looks like you are doing everything except actually approaching girls...I don't hear you complaining of doing 1000 approaches and not getting results...
/r/seduction05/07/20 08:47 PM
2

Bro, for most of men entering the bar and talking to a GROUP of chicks is almost impossible. Most people need to build up momentum up start low. Having such a goal on mind when you enter a bar is very inhibiting.
/r/seduction05/07/20 08:44 PM
1

Talk Use your hands, don't place them on the pillow like a star fish (ewwww) Keep touching him everywhere until you hit a sweet spot
/r/seduction05/07/20 08:42 PM
4

What's your race mang? You look like arab...I am arab too. Some crazy girls like arabs, don't know why, but some do haha..
/r/seduction05/07/20 08:34 PM
1

My brother, I am talking about "High value" Instagram. Which doesn't need you to dance or make a clown of yourself or post mirror selfies. All you need are 5-6 pictures that demonstrate you are a cool normal person, not a serial killer. You don't have to be an insta "influencer" And that's why girls would rather meet a guy from Tinder than a mysterious phone number with no info behind it. Trust me I tried phone # close for years and they convert much less than Instagram... Another bonus is that …
/r/seduction05/07/20 01:13 PM
2

Build a cool and high value instagram. Girls will know who you are and they will be the one who chase you over text...
/r/seduction05/07/20 11:08 AM
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In general no, it is somewhat feminine or childish. You can use them if you text some bold or strong statement that needs an emoji to "soften" it up so it doesn't look cold or rude. Never text a joke followed by :D . Looks so stupid, like you are laughing at your own joke.
/r/seduction05/07/20 11:06 AM
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As your first date focus on these things: Enjoying the surroundings Enjoying the conversation Enjoy talking about whatever the fuck you want to talk about it. Enjoy your drink/food Forget seduction, escalation,game..etc, Or you will fuck it really really bad. Have zero outcome on mind. If she sees you are a cool normal dude that just enjoys his time and not playing creepy games she may like you and then she escalates herself... When you get experience with multiple dates and scenarios you will f…
/r/seduction04/07/20 01:52 PM
2

There is only one solution; Own your fucking nervousness, embrace it, love it and don't try to hide it. If she likes you she will not give a fuck about your nervousness.while you can be chill and do everything right with another girl but still hates you. Imagine you have autism or some sort of social impairment and rock it with confidence and self love. Imagine that this is the way you talk ALL the time. The problem is not that you are nervous, it is the mindset of feeling inferior, trying to se…
/r/seduction03/07/20 01:32 AM
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So how does whiteknighting help you in your dating life?
/r/seduction03/07/20 01:23 AM
1

A good game is about being fun,self amused,care free, confident, entitled and outcome independent. Aka RSD. What you are talking about is shit game with strategies and lines like London daygame model..etc
/r/seduction03/07/20 01:12 AM
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RSD crew checking in
/r/seduction01/07/20 11:11 AM
1

Prepare for more! Keep pushing brosef
/r/seduction01/07/20 06:51 AM
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Do you say that during an abrupt cold approach bro? Like you stop a girl in the street, that doesn't know you and ask about her family, then philosophical questions like "What are you passionate about?" Do you think these questions are appropriate in a super market or even a bar? Don't ask questions man, that's what noobs do. They stop the girl and interview her. Then she starts to feel uncomfortable and you wonder why she wouldn't reply to your whatsapp message later on. Keep telling stories an…
/r/seduction01/07/20 06:24 AM
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Upvoted for using the word "bitches". Can't be more accurate...
/r/seduction30/06/20 10:53 AM
5

Bro, you sit with her on the couch and talk first with drinks, then escalate naturally. It is not a brothel that you take her straight to bed, wtf lol?
/r/seduction30/06/20 10:52 AM
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Bro, I didn't say attractive guys have the same chances of ugly guys, I am not stupid. I told you that attractive guys may creep women too in reply to your over generalised comment. Not to mention that attractive guys go after girls their league or above, so they still need some form of game. An attractive guy is sick of sleeping with average girls...
/r/seduction29/06/20 08:49 PM
1

Approach girls in the streets infront of clubs then! That's what I and my buddies do. It is a hybrid between daygame and night game
/r/seduction29/06/20 03:31 PM
1

I saw many attractive guys with approach anxiety and hard time to talk to girls. They succeed on Tinder due to their looks but infront of my eyes girls approach them and they fuck it up...
/r/seduction29/06/20 03:30 PM
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Pickup should be fun so you don't feel pressured then creep the ladies. Choose a venue you enjoy so you feel relaxed and happy and then they feel that too when they meet you... Another tip, make the club night an outing to "socialize",so talk to everyone, make friends and have no outcome on mind. If you are the sniper pickup guy who only approaches attractive girls you will be a creep and you will hate the process and get poor results.
/r/seduction29/06/20 12:21 PM
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She is not interested man, can it be more obvious? Ignore her, at least when you see her again she will remember you as a man with self respect. Not remember you as a needy loser... Also, girls come and go, you have to have a value of not chasing girls this way and to believe that no girl is that special. Or else you will keep repeating the same thing with every girl you meet, thinnking she is "the one".
/r/seduction29/06/20 11:59 AM
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So tell me, is she the last girl on the planet? Do you think if you meet another attractive girl you will never forget her for the next 50 years?
/r/seduction29/06/20 11:24 AM
2

Build a good Instagram and exchange that. problem solved...
/r/seduction29/06/20 10:48 AM
1

How does coffee help you be social? Caffeine increases anxiety so it makes you the opposite of social.
/r/seduction29/06/20 07:29 AM
1

No I was just Kidding. I think when he said "It is" he meant that it was a fun night. No man will ever be rude with a girl he has just slept with..
/r/seduction29/06/20 05:58 AM
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I thought he meant the sex was terrible and he was glad to get the fuck out 😭
/r/seduction29/06/20 02:27 AM
4

Greet your friends like Japaense girls greet each others "heeyyyyyyy and wave both of your hands, maybe tap your feets too"
/r/seduction29/06/20 02:24 AM
1

If you get 2 dates for every 1000 approaches, something have to change. You can't keep doing what you are doing forever and get a different result. I know personally ugly guys that are doing better than "few dates" from 1000 approaches...
/r/seduction29/06/20 02:19 AM
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If there is high energy in first few texts, ask ASAP. No need for phone # either, just set the date on Tinder and better to be after 2-3 days MAX. If you keep on chatting she will go bang another dude and ghosts you (she has 1000 matches)..
/r/seduction28/06/20 08:14 PM
1

Ask China
/r/seduction28/06/20 08:03 PM
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WHy didn't you sleep with her when she was in your place? It is not complicated, if she is not replying, then it is over. Don't keep texting and digging a deeper hole...
/r/seduction28/06/20 12:06 PM
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I am curious, you said you are hot. So I bet it happens everyday day that a man exchanges eye contact with you but then you notice he is afraid to approach you. You don't lose attraction for him? Because I do this a lot too and I notice these girls get disgusted, especially in a club. So I learned to avoid eye contact with a girl unless I am fully committed to approach her, or I am in a social mode to approach people.
/r/seduction28/06/20 11:33 AM
1

Positive thinking is bullshit if your life sucks. Change your life, be a better person and positive thinking will follow naturally...
/r/seduction28/06/20 07:43 AM
1

I thought all Koreans are attractive haha. Man you have no option but to try! Would you give up already at fucking age of 18! Approach 100 white girls and at least one of them will like you. I go to Asian events in Australia and I noticed many white women with yellow fever... If you live in Melbourne DM me, we have an active whatsapp pickup group..
/r/seduction28/06/20 07:40 AM
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Meetup app is not a dating app. It is an app to join events like Language exchange or meditation group or sports events...etc, It is not swipe right and left app. Why I think that you approaching a guy in a mall, puts the relationship on a wrong foundation? Because it is the role of the man to take that risk and makes himself vulnerable. What if you exchanged an eye contact with that man in the mall but he is too pussy to approach you? Is it a good foundation that you are more courageous and ris…
/r/seduction28/06/20 07:30 AM
3

If you sleep with lots of average girls you will lose interest in this life style and be forced to approach hot girls only. If you have just started, dating average girls would be fine for now... If you are talking about warming up and getting into social mode, yeah talk to everyone...
/r/seduction28/06/20 06:42 AM
1

Do you disagree with science? Because research shows that good looking men are more likely to get promotion (and lots of another examples). Are David Beckham soccer skills worth his pay?
/r/seduction28/06/20 06:40 AM
1

Download meetup app and go to events to meet men of similar interests. That will be prefect for females, except that there are no events now, maybe? I don't agree that you should do "Mall game" . If you approach a guy at a mall the relationship would be on a wrong foundation...
/r/seduction28/06/20 06:37 AM
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Being good looking makes your whole life easier, including dating...
/r/seduction28/06/20 05:38 AM
1

It is not that complicated with women, lose weight, hit the gym, be beautiful. As in the "field of dreams" movie ; if you build it, they will come.
/r/seduction28/06/20 02:43 AM
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Have a walking date, don't date in a cafe or a bar. When you walk beside her she may start to brush her body against you. That's when you tell her "Give me your hand", and then hold her hands. Even if she doesn't brush her body against you, it is very easy tell her interest from her eye contact. Anyways if she holds your hand and squeezes it, then you can fuck her tonight...
/r/seduction27/06/20 11:33 AM
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Start by changing your life to the better...
/r/seduction27/06/20 11:22 AM
2

You can't fake confidence, attractive girls will see through your B.S. like X-rays..
/r/seduction27/06/20 04:19 AM
1

He should switch to soy milk, Almond milk is his problem.
/r/seduction27/06/20 04:16 AM
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The problem is that you kept texting too much without asking her out. She is on Tinder to meet guys not to have chat buddies. While you were playing with her one truth and a lie another guy asked her out and banged her (she has 1000 matches). Next time ask the girl out after few texts, don't chat forever because it may mean you are not sure of yourself..
/r/seduction27/06/20 04:12 AM
2

The clitoris is a strong attraction switch, try to click on it...
/r/seduction26/06/20 11:42 PM
2

Yeah man, this girl who said don't approach me and say I am pretty cause it makes me uncomfortable. Would she say the same thing when Brad Pitt approaches her, even if she is in a rush or even inside a female bathroom? Totally agree with OP
/r/seduction26/06/20 02:48 PM
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Sex maybe not be a biological necessity, but it is a necessity not to give up on something you want because you find it "hard" or for fear of rejection. How would you live with yourself when you surrender? You just set a shitty standrad to yourself and abide by it. That's the true definition of rotting in life...
/r/seduction26/06/20 02:40 PM
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I have no idea how you knew I have no game? Actually being congruent to whatever you feel,loving yourself the way you are and not fretting about charisma is the ultimate form of game. When you keep focusing so much on your voice, body language, force an eye contact and trying to have the prefect conversation you will come off like a creep. These things come naturally when you approach a lot, being care free and self amuse yourself. No need to think much about it...
/r/seduction26/06/20 02:35 PM
2

We have an active whatsapp group for pickup in melbourne, daygame and night game. We actually go out 4-5 guys every single day. DM me to add you to the group...
/r/seduction26/06/20 02:27 PM
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Bro it is not a "hobby", having sex is something that must be done or you will rot in life. Also rejection is not only in pickup, you will get rejected in your work, business, friends, family...etc. It is something you can't hide forever from..
/r/seduction26/06/20 01:01 PM
1

You contradict yourself. First you say : Say hi, introduce yourself then just talk to her like she is a normal person. Then you say : " The most important part of charisma is tonality. Don't speak in a monotone voice, have some charisma and energy into your voice as well as your body language " If she is a normal person like a Barista, cashier, family member or your friend, you won't focus on body language, tonality , eye contact..etc etc etc. You will just TALK So is she a normal person that we…
/r/seduction26/06/20 12:54 PM
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What if Brad Pitt in approached you and told you "Hey you are pretty?" , would you feel "attacked by the compliment" ?
/r/seduction26/06/20 11:36 AM
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Don't you reject women too? Don't you swipe left on women? It is the same bro, they are not attracted to you, it is not rocket science. And have you ever given a feedback to a girl you rejected "Sorry you are just fat" ?
/r/seduction25/06/20 03:35 PM
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If you are approaching only girls that are giving you IOIs , then you are missing out the 99% of girls who don't. WHo knows maybe when you approach a girl and you start talking she starts to like something about you...
/r/seduction25/06/20 03:30 PM
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I was once in an Indian party in Australia, I was the only non Indian guy in the club. It was 100 Indian dudes and 5 girls. So I wanted to warmup, so I went to a group of 3 Indian guys and I tried to talk to them, but they won't listen to me, wtf? So I left them. I went to another group of 3 Indian guys, they won't talk to me either! So I stayed there! If you mofos won't talk to me then you will listen :D . I am your friend now, whether you like it or not haha. And I kept talking against their w…
/r/seduction25/06/20 12:13 PM
3

Let us know how it went, good luck with her or other women to come...
/r/seduction25/06/20 08:52 AM
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She is just answering so she doesn't lose the attention and entertainment you are providing. Ask her out and you will know what you already know. Then delete the chat thread to keep her out of your mind...
/r/seduction25/06/20 08:49 AM
1

If you change nothing, nothing will change. You have to work on yourself, have better body, better haircut, dress better, make more money, make friends, have better Instagram,learn languages or self defence..etc. And the more you the change, the more confidence you acquire. It is hard to develop fake confidence when you look like shit inside a club full of tall attractive white men apparently better than you...
/r/seduction25/06/20 08:45 AM
1

After BBC documentary about UK pickup artists, Youtube started to shutdown these channels...
/r/seduction25/06/20 05:39 AM
1

Don't count on it. Street attraction, Tom Torrero , Daygame.com, SquattinCasanova...and more got shutdown. That's why RSD removed all infield videos. What you are going to do will not last long term. One day you will wake up on a disaster...
/r/seduction24/06/20 11:07 AM
1

Out of curiosity, where are you planning to upload this? Cause Youtube is shutting down these videos...
/r/seduction23/06/20 10:10 AM
3

Did she offer you free massage?
/r/seduction23/06/20 10:08 AM
0

You can sleep with attractive girls once. But they will not date long term someone with subpar lifestyle. Simply because they have 1000 other options. You can keep trying to have a long term relationship with an attractive girl until you find one that's ok with living with parents. Or you can change your lifestyle to make it easier for you to date high quality girls, not fatties...
/r/seduction20/06/20 09:00 AM
1

If you keep telling yourself the famous excuse "She looks too young" , you will find 100 other excuses not to approach. Next girl will be too busy , on the phone , walking fast, looks angry, looks virgin..etc One excuse will spread like cancer, so you have to approach all. I approach all girls with "no fucks given" attitude. 95% of girls you approach will never fuck you..young or old
/r/seduction19/06/20 02:32 PM
1

Cold approach , is hugely numbers games. But there are tons of things to improve the stats and numbers. And yes, at age 47 there will still be girls in their twenties that are into you. You will just have to keep approaching and trying without giving up...
/r/seduction19/06/20 06:16 AM
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Brad Pitt was 37 in fight club movie. But even if I am 47 and I look old, who cares? They would reject you anyways even if you are 27. The girls that are into you would be into you no matter what. If they are not into you they will find any reason to justify their lack of attraction. You can be attractive by your voice, eye contact, personality, confidence, fashion, fitness level...etc, The list goes on..
/r/seduction19/06/20 04:56 AM
1

I am 37 and still doing daygame and dating girls below 20 sometimes. There are 100 things to be insecure about, age is just one of them...
/r/seduction19/06/20 01:28 AM
3

In before the idiotic replies " Bro you are 19, focus on your hobbies and studies and girls will magically come"
/r/seduction19/06/20 01:27 AM
2

Bro, you can't pretend you are a pickup artist for 15 years without getting caught. People in Tyler's bootcamp see the amazing shit he does. There are many reports on reddit from his bootcamp and his skills...
/r/seduction19/06/20 01:23 AM
1

I believe Ashwagandha takes weeks to be effective, no?
/r/seduction18/06/20 09:44 PM
2

Owen Cook
/r/seduction18/06/20 09:39 PM
2

Tyler and Julian RSD. Simply because they have been going out consistently for 15 years. I'd say Julien gets laid more because in addition to his skills , he is tall and attractive.
/r/seduction18/06/20 09:38 PM
2

Thumbs up for quoting Tyler 1000/10...who has the balls to do that ?
/r/seduction17/06/20 06:48 AM
3

Hot babe
/r/seduction17/06/20 05:57 AM
2

I am just asking you, not judging you. Yes I read that you have some form of autism? I winged with couple of autistic guys who have hard time communicating with people. But many of them succeeded because they are good looking. I don't want to sound harsh, but nothing will happen if you stay home and feel sorry for yourself. You gotta fight brother. You gotta fight for the last drop of blood and sweat you. Even if you fail, the fight itself is glorious. Work on your appearance and your lifestyle …
/r/seduction16/06/20 08:57 AM
2

Sounds like Sweden, where you exchange Instagrams in clubs + covid19
/r/seduction14/06/20 07:38 PM
2

ummmm...because Instagram is better than a phone number?? With instagram she can read your bio, and see that you have cool life and you are not a serial killer. But for a phone number they are just empty digits and she barely remembers your face... Not to mention that Instagram offers endless opportunities to connect with her (stories , new pics..etc)
/r/seduction14/06/20 07:35 PM
1

Yup, delete chat threads that died so you don't keep digging a deeper hole...
/r/seduction14/06/20 10:20 AM
1

Bro, women are not that complicated. If she likes you she would usually kiss first date. Maybe fuck first or second date max. Why do you talk about wanting sex from her as a bad thing or shameful thing? I ask girls to come to my apartment with no shame or guilt, they like sex as much as you do , if not more.
/r/seduction14/06/20 10:11 AM
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I live with a Korean girl and she is like an angel, she doesn't even poop, she sweats food like perfume...
/r/seduction13/06/20 09:53 AM
1

That's the definition of "giving up".
/r/seduction13/06/20 08:41 AM
1

My brother, I didn't mention money or status now. Are you taking any form of action to meet girls, or are you waiting for something to magically happen like the movies?
/r/seduction13/06/20 08:40 AM
1

I said "It helps a lot", not critical. You don't have to "maintain" an Instagram, just 3-4 pics of you and a high value bio can last you years without maintenance or update. So basically 1 month of work can save years of pain..VERY HIGH ROI
/r/seduction10/06/20 12:25 PM
1

Illenium and Gryffin
/r/seduction10/06/20 12:56 AM
6

So what was the watch you recommended. I know I will get laid like hell if I own a Rolex...
/r/seduction10/06/20 12:54 AM
0

Doing just fine = dating average chicks. Fine is not good. If you want to date anything above 8+ , Instagram helps A LOT. Be it in cold approach or online dating
/r/seduction10/06/20 12:36 AM
1

100% agree. When you close a girl from cold approach or whatever , there is 10x chance to meet her when you have a cool instagram vs. a vague phone number. And this has been said by people with phenomenal game like RSD Tyler.
/r/seduction10/06/20 12:35 AM
1

It is "multi-factorial" , which means many factors contribute to female attraction. Mystery has said it before as "multiple switches' , not just one "status"...
/r/seduction09/06/20 03:14 PM
1

WHat actions are you taking to find a girl? What are the efforts you put in ?
/r/seduction09/06/20 02:19 PM
1

And now I look cool
/r/seduction09/06/20 09:00 AM
2

I used to watch porn a lot until I've started to get laid regularly, probably watch porn now once every 2-3 months.
/r/seduction09/06/20 08:34 AM
2

Yup, it is hard to find Asian girl with the typical big tits/ass kind of body, they have to exercise hard or do surgery. Not to mention that they aren't very proficient in bed like white women for some reasons. But I just find their faces and demeanour so beautiful. it is something that can't be explained.
/r/seduction09/06/20 05:54 AM
3

Go Asian not Caucasian.
/r/seduction09/06/20 05:50 AM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7N-pQh8krs0
/r/seduction09/06/20 05:42 AM
3

OWN IT. If you feel peaceful with it, they wouldn't mind or even notice. If you feel self conscious about it and that there is something wrong with you, they will feel the same. let me repeat ...OWN IT.
/r/seduction08/06/20 12:54 PM
1

Watch youtube until you find a mentor you resonate with, and invest in his course. No need to re-invent the wheel. It is a skill that must be learned and practised.
/r/seduction08/06/20 11:55 AM
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True man, even attractive guys may not be satisfied with the quality of girls they date and want more! It is a damn problem for most of us haha
/r/seduction08/06/20 11:53 AM
1

It is just a job bro. Get into new hobbies, maybe Muay Thai or sea diving or air diving. Travel , read interesting books, go to events , parties concerts , make friends..etc, You will have plenty to talk about. A job doesn't define you...
/r/seduction08/06/20 05:08 AM
3

I am learning Chinese, if you get what I mean <3
/r/seduction08/06/20 02:55 AM
2

Money can make you more attractive and sexy. Haircut, clothes, cologne, watches, skin care, personal trainers, gym,supplements..etc,
/r/seduction07/06/20 08:50 PM
3

Everything will get back to normal brother, here in Australia we resumed daygame again and nothing changed, we even shake hands..
/r/seduction07/06/20 08:48 PM
6

To be honest since you have been exchanging eye contacts with hers for a while she will be creeped the fuck out if you say anything other than "I need a bag". Lesson learned is to approach immediately and not wait 3 months staring at her like a creep. In the future if you are not planning to approach on the spot then avoid eye contact.
/r/seduction07/06/20 08:40 PM
3

Looks like you are not getting rejected enough. Time for cold approach son to get the taste of 100's of rejections per month...
/r/seduction07/06/20 10:38 AM
1

I forgot expensive watch, can you tell me an authentic Rolex won't get you laid? Even if she doesn't see it, do you know how you would feel rocking it bro?
/r/seduction07/06/20 10:23 AM
9

His palms are sweaty, knees weak, arms are heavy There's vomit on his sweater already, mom's spaghetti He's nervous, but on the surface he looks calm and ready He opens his mouth, but the words won't come out He's chokin', how, everybody's jokin' now The clocks run out, times up, over, blaow!
/r/seduction07/06/20 10:20 AM
1

Is smiling back what you are missing? Would you wait for her to approach you after smiling back? What you are fucking up is that you don't approach her, not not smiling back..
/r/seduction07/06/20 08:21 AM
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That's how money can get you laid more: 1- Good clothes 2-Good perfume, good male grooming products, better skin care..etc 3 - She will see you live in your own place and not in a shared room, so more chance for a long term relationship than fucking you and dumping you.. 4 - Good car 5 - Professional photographers for instagram/dating apps 6- More money can buy you more freedom to socialize 7 - More money can make you more confident (in most cases) 8 - More money can make you happier (in most ca…
/r/seduction07/06/20 08:16 AM
0

Building a good instagram requires hard work and planning. Don't get lazy in this area...
/r/seduction07/06/20 05:39 AM
4

It may take you months to get a date, don't get discouraged. Also a good instagram may get you dates instantly, phone numbers convert much less..
/r/seduction07/06/20 05:29 AM
0

I didn't read it, but it deserves thumbs up
/r/seduction07/06/20 01:34 AM
1

Why does everyone who make "Exposing RSD" videos says he worked with them somehow? No you didn't, we never saw you before. And judging by your video quality, you can't even be a camera man. Tyler videos and advice helped millions, his teachings work, and if he wasn't the best PUA of all times, he wouldn't get this attention and hate videos.
/r/seduction06/06/20 03:07 PM
2

If the convo is stalling, I don't think asking her questions is what will re-ignite the fire. Maybe tell a story or make assumptions about her, don't leech value and energy off her by asking her questions. She will be "WTF" and leave...
/r/seduction06/06/20 01:27 PM
3

It is an issue than runs deeper. You feel inadequate, you feel you need things to say to keep her hooked, you are stuck in your head and she makes you nervous..etc, Change your life and your beliefs, be confident and you will find that you can get away with anything you say, even boring questions like (What do you do). Girls will be attracted to how you feel about yourself, not that the string of perfect questions you memorise.
/r/seduction06/06/20 01:10 PM
1

Make them chase you, never get rejected again.
/r/seduction06/06/20 12:20 PM
3

Delete the chat thread to keep her off your mind, talk to other girls, rinse and repeat.
/r/seduction06/06/20 11:35 AM
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First question, when a girl rejects you initially, try one more time, don't give up easily and keep it fun (not needy or desperate). Some will be impressed by your non reactivity and confidence and may get attracted to you.More common in night game, rare in daygame, but can happen. Didn't understand second question Third question : He we chases two rabbits catches neither, focus on one girl.
/r/seduction06/06/20 11:33 AM
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Yeah bro, I am interested in the story of getting a relationship with a girl out of your league. Where did you approach her? Did you get her # ? Did she reply that easily then went to a date? Where did you sleep with her, I mean if you live in a room, wouldn't it be harder to get a real relationship? I am asking genuine questions because I am stuck with girls below my league, not questioning your story at all...
/r/seduction06/06/20 11:23 AM
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I think the downvotes are because you didn't get the "joke"
/r/seduction06/06/20 01:45 AM
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When you get rejected by ALL attractive girls, and see who you slept with the last 6 months, you will realise something needs to change. That's the point of learning game, to sleep with attractive girls and not settling with the averages.
/r/seduction05/06/20 10:46 PM
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Who needs 2000 G.B of pickup material. Just learn from one school/mentor and go out.
/r/seduction05/06/20 03:25 AM
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You can approach girls in a rush but don't stop them, walk beside them. She wouldn't mind Brad Pitt approaching her in a rush, right?
/r/seduction05/06/20 03:15 AM
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Kinda agree and disagree. Cause you will have days you look like shit. Days you have a bad hair. Days when girls never check you out. Days when you get rejected like a dirty dog. So you have to work on core confidence without crutches too... More here: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ikfde/what_i_learned_from_blueprint_decoded_519/
/r/seduction05/06/20 02:33 AM
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What if "yourself" is a weak beta male? Do you want to settle with average girls, or you want to improve yourself to attract high quality girls? Some men have no standards and can settle with any type of tits on bed....
/r/seduction04/06/20 10:15 PM
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Is that fun to you? Do you enjoy doing that while having conversations with girls? Or is it something you must do to compensate for the lack of attraction?
/r/seduction04/06/20 08:16 AM
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You have a "pretty solid game" and know how to build attraction, but you are still attached to a girl you invited to dinner in 2018? A man with a solid game would not even remember who he fucked last year, let alone who he had dinner with. Get real bro and get over her, and ask yourself why you can't get a girl better than her.
/r/seduction04/06/20 08:13 AM
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The title can answer itself. If you are that attached to her and want her that bad it means you have no other options and you are a loser. And girls don't want to deal with losers. The only people who post these types of questions are males in scarcity of women...
/r/seduction04/06/20 07:27 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5lr312o1qvY
/r/seduction04/06/20 02:59 AM
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If you are tricking them it is basically shit game. Being the best version of yourself, being fun ,care free, leading the interaction..etc is not trickery. If you are lying to them then you are masking inner garbage that should be fixed.
/r/seduction04/06/20 02:57 AM
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They moved into self help because Youtube threatened to take their channel down . They still talk about pickup sometimes, but call women "people".
/r/seduction04/06/20 02:53 AM
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Or just post the damn thing and get free followers for social proof
/r/seduction04/06/20 02:43 AM
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Yeah open her at the red light and prepare to keep talking while walking beside her when it turns green. Don't try to stop her when it turns green cause it is awkward and she may not be willing for this investment..
/r/seduction04/06/20 12:17 AM
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How long have you been approaching? It took me 6 months of cold approaching to get a date and I am good looking. So if you have been getting rejected for a week or month, it is nothing...
/r/seduction04/06/20 12:14 AM
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You don't ask women if they want sex. What kind of question is that? You just escalate naturally and they will be ready... And you already fucked it up by double, triple and quadruple texting..ewwww
/r/seduction04/06/20 12:10 AM
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Having a high value Instagram and pics is definitely a guaranteed way to get laid, well done. Can you DM me yours to follow you? Cause I am working on mine as well...
/r/seduction03/06/20 11:37 PM
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You see her everyday in work but you haven't slept with her? Move on man, you need another girl to get her out of your head...
/r/seduction03/06/20 11:28 PM
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Have you ever met her? Have you slept with her? It just means she is not into you. If she likes you it wouldn't matter if she is leaving the country tomorrow or next 2 months. In these 2 months she will bang other dudes, she won't stay sexless, right? Just move on...
/r/seduction03/06/20 10:42 PM
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If you know what you are talking about you would have said how it is done. But you know nothing and just trolling. That's how people who are seeing your replies know it too , that you have no value to add...
/r/seduction03/06/20 10:25 PM
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A robust scientific experiment with volunteers is not called a "theory". It was a theory or a hypothesis before running the experiment. But yeah, arguing with someone who doesn't believe in science and probably believes in conspiracy theories is very degrading, so yeah end of story, good luck...
/r/seduction03/06/20 04:10 PM
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And you say AA is not a phobia ? Are you sure or you pulled this information from your behind ? Science defines AA as a phobia https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/advances-in-psychiatric-treatment/article/treatment-of-social-phobia/C14381FCAF92BA6E5BD08A820AB33484 I can bit you are the kind of guys who dismisses scientific research and argue with your,your buddies and your uncle experiences
/r/seduction03/06/20 03:52 PM
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It is not "my info", there are tons of scientific papers on treating social anxiety with graded exposure. And yes, it starts with easy drills similar to this program. All you have is your anecdotal evidence and pushing what worked for you as a fact for ALL PEOPLE. You are pushing what worked for you as "best and fastest" way. Which is not supported by science. Lol at "I did this so I know you are wrong" ..great argument brother.. I mean "WOW"
/r/seduction03/06/20 03:48 PM
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What you call "crap" , is graded exposure therapy and it is supported by tons of scientific research. You can't treat someone with snakes phobia by putting a live snake around his neck. You can't treat someone with fear of dogs by locking him in a room with a Rottweiler. You can't treat someone with fear of heights by taking him to the edge of Empire state building...you get the idea. These people will collapse and make their condition even worse. That's not the way to treat phobias, ever... So …
/r/seduction03/06/20 03:37 PM
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You just disapproved my method with no alternative provided. Teach us master , do you stare in her eyes and lean forward to kiss her like the movies? In the fuckin cafe or bar? If I don't know what I am talking about then tell us how to kiss a girl without any prior physicality .... How to kiss a girl without even touching her once you master RSD Tyler...
/r/seduction03/06/20 02:49 PM
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You have no idea what you are talking about, so STFU. Let me explain in details you fkin noob. That's what I have been doing for the past 2 years with huge success: When I go out in a date with a girl, I choose walking date, not sitting infront of her in a cafe like a noob like you, because you can't get physical with her if you are sitting accross each others. When you walk with her, you can notice her admiration in her eyes, they will light up when she talks to you. And while walking she will …
/r/seduction03/06/20 02:27 PM
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Yeah I noticed your blog, that's how I knew you live in Melbourne. We have an active Whatsapp group for Pickup community in Melbourne if you wanna join DM me.
/r/seduction03/06/20 02:41 AM
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Bro, do it in steps. Don't lean your head forward trying to kiss her like comedy movies and creep her out. First hold her hand, see if she is comfortable? Is she squeezing your hands? Then later arms around shoulders, then kiss on cheeks, then small kiss on lips, then full kiss.
/r/seduction02/06/20 11:52 PM
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It is not an excuse bro, they are meeting another dudes, improve your profile.
/r/seduction02/06/20 11:50 PM
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Never got rejected in real life? Why, have you done 5 approaches your entire life?
/r/seduction02/06/20 11:30 PM
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Break the social norms in your city, don't be a sheep.
/r/seduction02/06/20 11:29 PM
2

Are you doing daygame in Au Andy? I live in Mlb too...
/r/seduction02/06/20 11:02 PM
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While you are self isolating, girls are banging guys from Tinder while you are self improving with pornhub...
/r/seduction02/06/20 05:12 PM
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Yeah I noticed the message, but I don't know what cake day is, but it is my pleasure to meet you...
/r/seduction02/06/20 05:11 PM
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Who are you?
/r/seduction02/06/20 05:09 PM
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I don't give a fuck about easy gatherings. I want to face my fears dead on, have no limits and approach any girl I want anytime. Good luck with your easy gatherings aka Sausage fests and try to out game the 10 guys talking to the same girl...
/r/seduction02/06/20 05:08 PM
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You have no idea what you are talking about or what fear ladders or graded exposure are. You are a keyboard warrior that has done 3 approaches in his entire life and you creeped the shit out of them.
/r/seduction02/06/20 05:03 PM
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Many countries eased restrictions and allow gatherings up to 10 people.
/r/seduction02/06/20 12:52 PM
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Hello guys. I have been doing daygame since 2006 but have been consistent last two years (after divorce). I have started 2 years ago similar graded exposure program to beat approach anxiety, where you start with easy drills like asking about time and directions up towards appraoching attractive girls over the course of weeks. Or maybe telling them stupid shit to embarrass yourself. I had really grade success beating AA and used to do 20+ approaches alone or 50+ with a wing per day. I haven't don…
/r/seduction02/06/20 11:26 AM
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I have started today, same shit nothing changed. Just don't shake hands and that's it. Girls are still horny and they are still banging dudes from Tinder...
/r/seduction02/06/20 06:13 AM
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Disagree, if you lack self confidence and have low self esteem, she will see it and feel it... But I agree with you that you should approach regardless you are nervous or not, just own what you feel...Which requires confidence :)
/r/seduction02/06/20 06:12 AM
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No, it is only you...
/r/seduction02/06/20 06:10 AM
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So do you think posture correcting suspenders like these can get me laid easier? Serious question...
/r/seduction02/06/20 06:08 AM
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Don't play hard to get when you are not hard to get, you will look stupid. And attractive girls will scan through your bullshit like laser...
/r/seduction02/06/20 06:04 AM
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You have low confidence and bad inner game, no technique on earth will help you. Look as much as good as you possibly can, dress better , get a great haircut, make money , make friends, improve your life. And then you can fix this issue. You can never mask low self esteem with techniques, it will brust out on her face eventually...
/r/seduction02/06/20 06:02 AM
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My favourite wings...
/r/seduction02/06/20 12:45 AM
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And to answer your question , the easiest way to open a man is to spot the shy guy holding beer and miserably watching girls dancing. There are tons of them in the club and they crave any human interaction to save their face...
/r/seduction02/06/20 12:15 AM
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Indians are the easiest to talk to and most friendly, yes. Maybe something with my vibe, but that's the point of warming up , you loosen up with time and become more fun and care free..
/r/seduction02/06/20 12:13 AM
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Yeah man, there were times I was dating 3-4 girls at the same time, fucking them in rotation but still feel miserable I can't date the girl of my dreams. After 2 years of approaching I am still searching for her..
/r/seduction02/06/20 12:06 AM
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Read the book "She comes first" . I make all my sex partners orgasm multiple times...
/r/seduction02/06/20 12:02 AM
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Gays clubs are dead, use online dating apps...
/r/seduction02/06/20 12:01 AM
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I was once in an Indian party in Australia, I was the only non Indian guy in the club. It was 100 Indian dudes and 5 girls. So I wanted to warmup, so I went to a group of 3 Indian guys and I tried to talk to them, but they won't give me attention, wtf? So I left them. I went to another group of 3 Indian guys, they won't talk with me either! So I stayed there! If you mofos won't talk to me then you will listen :D . I am your friend now, whether you like it or not haha. And I kept talking against …
/r/seduction01/06/20 11:55 PM
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Bro we need stories with real chicks :D
/r/seduction01/06/20 02:29 PM
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Be fun and care free man. Don't pretend to be cold or a dickhead, that doesn't work and attractive girls will read all your BS...
/r/seduction01/06/20 05:20 AM
1

I have Tyler old videos on my PC. Very life changing and he is definitely the best of all time. And no one is even close to his knowledge and skills.
/r/seduction01/06/20 05:02 AM
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Inner game matters A LOT. If you are confident you have less approach anxiety, you are not nervous while talking to girls, you feel you are the price (not fake feelings), you talk to them like a boss, and they feel that 100%. And yes a strong inner game and confidence can start by looking good and dressing good. You can't keep talking to yourself positively and suddenly walk in the street like Justin Beiber.
/r/seduction01/06/20 05:00 AM
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Why do you have long conversations? While you are playing with her one truth and a lie another guy asked her out and banged her...
/r/seduction01/06/20 04:58 AM
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It is a good way to sleep with girls below your level consistently. Keeps your dick wet while talking to real girls in real life...
/r/seduction01/06/20 02:02 AM
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Do you like to masturbate to them or actually date them long term? Ewwww
/r/seduction31/05/20 08:14 PM
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If I like a girl I like her to be clingy! If she plays games or hard to get it is a display of insecurity and I lose interest in her, cause sometimes I think she doesn't like me as much as I like her. Stop spreading this info to women to be cold and hard to get and take hours to reply to texts because it is just stupid and never works. THAT'S what push men away...
/r/seduction31/05/20 12:25 PM
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Chat relationships just dies eventually, even if he was interested initially. Maybe try to ask him for zoom date and see if you vibe together?
/r/seduction31/05/20 12:21 PM
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Search for Tyler RSD deleted videos
/r/seduction31/05/20 12:17 PM
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You may find a girl with great personality but bad in bed, or have an amazing sex with a girl but no mental conenction at all then relationship dies. It will take a lot of dates and sex to find "the one"...
/r/seduction31/05/20 12:08 PM
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Bro forget about flirting, escalating and all these stuff. Start with learning how to say hi to a girl without shitting your pants then having longer boring convos...etc and build gradually....
/r/seduction31/05/20 12:04 PM
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She may possibly want a relationship but playing a silly game and wants to look cool and hard to get. Don't follow her lead or fall into her frame. Take lead of this relationship or she will lose respect to you. Another possibility is she is dumping you...
/r/seduction31/05/20 11:51 AM
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I am interested in an accountability partner for daygame approaches, how many approaches would we do per day?
/r/seduction31/05/20 11:47 AM
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Take action, don't sit home and bitch about it. No , it is not self love, gtfo of the house...
/r/seduction31/05/20 11:45 AM
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First tip is to find an open club..are they in the UK? But seriously speaking, always frequent the same club, you will find men and women who frequent this club as well, make friends with them and you will always have friends when you hit that club. Maybe make friends with people who work there too...
/r/seduction31/05/20 10:13 AM
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I have never heard Tyler advise to look homeless. He always encourages hitting the gym, lose weight and dress nicely, he is not stupid. And even if he said that he is right , he is god, you don't question god's teachings, you just follow them with blind faith. (check my username)
/r/seduction31/05/20 10:10 AM
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Just make few canned assumptions, make her laugh with canned jokes and close the deal. No time for chit chat on the street. And please don't talk about Corona virus...
/r/seduction31/05/20 09:10 AM
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Never knew Einstein worked with RSD
/r/seduction31/05/20 09:06 AM
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You won't crave fat women or date them seriously...so do they. You can love yourself as much as you want but don't be hypocrite and wonder why they don't love you as much.
/r/seduction31/05/20 09:06 AM
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Yes it is a numbers game, but improving your looks, presence, social skills will improve the statistics. You can't look like shit and be boring mofo and then approach 1000 girls to find a girl that's into that garbage...
/r/seduction30/05/20 10:39 PM
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They take commenting on certain clothing items very positively. As long as it stands out. If she is wearing plain stuff just tell her "You look cool"..
/r/seduction30/05/20 10:23 PM
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You are not approaching attractive girls on the street because you are scared shitless or you don't know what to do. You want to to tap that ass and you know that,don't lie to yourself with the common interests garbage...
/r/seduction30/05/20 10:14 PM
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You will wait 2 years then. Live with it. Women are still going out and banging men from Tinder dates..
/r/seduction30/05/20 09:23 PM
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Don't message her again, if there is 1% chance that you will see her, it will happen if you don't double text...
/r/seduction30/05/20 01:47 PM
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Improving his social skills infront of a mirror?
/r/seduction30/05/20 01:30 PM
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like you would come across like creep encroaching into peoples alone time. So what do you do when you see the girl of your dream in the street? What if she checks you out? Do you pray to god at night to find her on Tinder? Do you really think that talking to her is more creepy than NOT talking to her?
/r/seduction30/05/20 01:29 PM
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If you are anything below 9, you will match online with average to above average girls. Maybe you are ok to "settle" with that. Another thing is that relationships that come off cold approach are much more robust than Tinder fragile relationships. Girls are also more appreciative to cold approach than swiping right to their pictures. You have the frame of Batman jumping into her life with confidence, filtering yourself off losers who chase her on social media. But I agree with you that it is muc…
/r/seduction30/05/20 01:25 PM
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I feel sorry for the other roommate. He must never get laid..
/r/seduction30/05/20 04:54 AM
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My criticism is that you customise an opener for every situation. Such a hassle and also crippling. And you also come out as trying to be "clever" or try hard. Keep it simple bro, "Hey I like your style". "Hey you look cool" "Hey nice dress" ...that's it. Don't compliment their physical beauty either...
/r/seduction30/05/20 02:24 AM
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Awesome brother. Your journey is similar to mine, took me 6 months of approaches to get a date. But after 2 years of this shit I started to get laid like crazy! Good luck...
/r/seduction30/05/20 02:20 AM
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If she likes you, you would know. If you are questioning it, you already know the answer...
/r/seduction30/05/20 02:10 AM
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You want opportunities you go to bars and malls and talk to women, not a chess club.
/r/seduction29/05/20 09:15 PM
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Bro, ignore people who tell you work on yourself and your hobbies and girls will magically come suck your dick. They never do! You have to pursue them and put 100% effort to even get a date with an average girl. The only girl that will magically come is a fat girl in the chess club and even she will reject you because you have no experience in dealing with women. You will never pump into her cart in the supermarket, it happens only in movies. These idiots have no idea what it takes to date an at…
/r/seduction29/05/20 09:13 PM
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Be congruent with whatever feelings you have. Don't try to change your "energy" or "vibe" for someone. Accept yourself as you are, they are not better than you to try to change for them, fuck them.
/r/seduction28/05/20 11:59 PM
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Every time you start your session you will feel anxiety, but it doesn't have to linger to the end of the day as you say! Start small and it will fade with time. Problem is that men go out, have a huge goal in head "Take phone number of a hot chick" and this really cripples them. But if you start gradually,like asking for directions or having small talks with average girls, you can overcome anxiety gradually and not have to drag your bare feet through glass to open an attractive girl as you sugge…
/r/seduction28/05/20 11:57 PM
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The only videos that teach proper pickup were Tyler RSD deleted videos. Search for them they are hosted on MEGA.nz
/r/seduction28/05/20 11:09 PM
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Yeah I know what you mean, keep searching you will stumble upon an intersting girl that has something going on in her life other than makeup and Korean food stories on Instagram...
/r/seduction28/05/20 10:02 PM
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Do you have better things to do with your time than talking to girls?
/r/seduction28/05/20 12:09 PM
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Learning solo daygame is a must, because when you are alone and see a girl you like, maybe in a cafe, you can't wait for your wing. You have to step in. 99% of the attractive girls you see in your life are when you are alone. That being said, solo daygame is much harder for me. But is still doable. For people who can't do it alone, start gradually by having small talks then build up over the course of weeks and months.
/r/seduction27/05/20 10:55 PM
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5 dates to fuck!? Are you guys Koreans?
/r/seduction27/05/20 10:51 PM
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The benefit is that she can suck your D when all women reject you to ease your pain. A wingman can do that too though...
/r/seduction25/04/20 01:22 PM
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Scientifically speaking, In vivo exposure is more powerful than visualisation ,which is effective but inferior.
/r/seduction25/04/20 01:15 PM
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Do you have a solid Instagram, or is has couple of trees, dogs and you with your buddies smoking weed? So it depends....
/r/seduction21/04/20 11:05 AM
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So if Leonardo Di Caprio messages a girl, she will think he is a creep? If you have a solid instagram you can text the fuk you want. Actually many celebrities date models through instagram DMs, Cristiano Ronaldo for example.
/r/seduction21/04/20 11:04 AM
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Who cares ? His game was average at best...
/r/seduction25/03/20 10:31 AM
0

They do this shit all the time. Eye fuck the shyt out of you, then pretend yhey don't know you when you approach...
/r/seduction14/03/20 10:34 AM
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If I know that I can't approach the girl (on the bus or wherever) , I don't repeat eye contacts with her. Because she will know that I am interested but don't have the balls to approach. So it is better that she thinks I am not interested rather than looking like a pussy. Maybe I meet her again by coincidence ! But I empathize with you, that you can't approach in middle of bus. Next time don't have prolonged eye contacts with girls you can't approach right away...
/r/seduction14/03/20 10:32 AM
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Just approach the one you like and ignore the rest. Don’t be a juggler trying to approach the whole group
/r/seduction14/03/20 02:17 AM
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99% of my wings when I see them approach, they approach from the side, looking shaky and apologetic. I am the only one that is very confrontational among my peers..
/r/seduction14/03/20 01:12 AM
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It is just a mental gauge, I have never actually tried it...yet
/r/seduction13/03/20 07:45 AM
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I actually gauge the girls attractiveness by how much I am not disgusted if she shits on me
/r/seduction13/03/20 06:21 AM
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I'd say there is a bigger chance that money comes up to you, more than an attractive girl suddenly shows up in your bed... I am talking seriously...
/r/seduction04/03/20 12:48 PM
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If you have $10M in your bank account, you'd still go to a bar and be intimidated like a chicken to talk to anyone. Money won't make any difference.
/r/seduction04/03/20 12:47 PM
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Ignore his advice. Quality girls need hard work to be earned.
/r/seduction29/02/20 12:42 PM
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Are you serious ? So why not sit on the couch and let money come to you as well ? Because we all know good things come without work ....
/r/seduction29/02/20 12:41 PM
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ng this page for awhile and y’all have encouraged me to talk to women in person. I’m on dating apps also. And I did get rejected when I approached someone to Man these numbers are brutal, for an intermediate you can get a date or 2 from 20 approaches.
/r/seduction29/02/20 12:07 PM
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You said that we should be "Interesting". Do you think stand up comedians improvise? Or memorise a script? Yes, improvisation is lazy and bad, you should memorise certain structures, jokes, replies..etc, Improvising is not optimal... Let me give you an example: You see a girl in a bar or whatever , her friends are taking photos of her. Option 1: I think you are cute and i am here to meet you , hi! Option 2 : Are you a celebrity ? Cause people are taking photos of you (playfully)... Which opener …
/r/seduction29/02/20 10:46 AM
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The solution to your life problems is that you need to socialize with men and women. Make many male friends and try to date as much women as you can, then you won't make a big deal of an interaction with a girl. Just to be honest with you...
/r/seduction29/02/20 06:46 AM
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Good job man, I guarantee you will get 1 date from 30 approaches a month..
/r/seduction28/02/20 10:20 PM
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Bro you gotta have a conversation first before asking her out. And stop parroting the same opener in ALL situations...
/r/seduction28/02/20 12:11 AM
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This is a good post, but I want to add that if you have a cool and solid instagram you have more chances to set a date with her. She can't remember how you look like with a phone number. If you have a lousy instagram then yes, go for #
/r/seduction26/02/20 11:33 AM
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Bro, phone numbers are so 2006 . Pimp up your instagram , cool pictures , and insta close them instead of #s. That's how I am getting laid from this shit...
/r/seduction25/02/20 05:45 AM
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Did the employee disappear like an angel after you took her number ?
/r/seduction25/02/20 05:41 AM
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So you learn the skill of approaching, by positive thinking and meditation!? You didn't even mention doing approaches...
/r/seduction17/02/20 05:22 AM
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That's exactly what I have been looking for. Someone to tell me that my fears are irrational. Thanks a lot OP, you saved my dating life. Now all I do is to tell myself :"oh she is just a girl, don't be silly". I want you to do same post for people with phobias. Go tell them "It is just a snake" , "Don't worry you will not fall"..etc, I guess they will get cured from their fears when you explain to them that these fears are irrational. 10/10 thread, will fap again...
/r/seduction14/02/20 03:32 AM
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Send the damn message
/r/seduction10/02/20 01:43 PM
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OP got laid yesterday night
/r/seduction10/02/20 01:29 PM
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It can buy an image consultant though...
/r/seduction02/02/20 12:35 AM
4

Bro , you will have to spend weeks or even months going out and do half approaches , ask for directions , saying hi and run , compliment and run...etc. It took me 6 months of training to be able to do full approaches consistently... Formulate a plan , google "fear ladder".. And after 2 years of cold approaching consistently , I still can't do a real approach at the beginning of the session, I still have to warmup by doing half approaches....
/r/seduction01/02/20 10:58 PM
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Don't dance with her if you are not already dancing. Walk up to her, stand still , and start talking with very loud voice and strong eye contact..
/r/seduction31/01/20 09:55 PM
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If it is loud, then learn to shout wihout looking like you shout. WHich means have a very loud voice while looking like you talk normally..
/r/seduction31/01/20 01:28 PM
2

Bro, angled approach is fucking gay. You be confrontational as much as you can ..eye to eye , nose to nose , shoulder to shoulder. Be a dominant man... That's what girls respond to. They will step on your head like a cockroach if you do the angled shit....
/r/seduction31/01/20 01:11 PM
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who seemed to be checking me out, and they turned out to not be interested, so I wouldn't rely on approach invitations too much... Haha, happened to me millions of times. A girl checks me out, I approach her then she rejects me...
/r/seduction31/01/20 01:10 PM
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Of course it is hard and the success rate is very low at the beginning. But when you keep taking action and learn from the feedback, modify and improve, then you will get more success. But if you approach only girls that give you ioi's then you are really limiting yourself. The fact that you cold approach a girl that doesn't know you is an attractive male trait if done right...
/r/seduction31/01/20 01:06 PM
4

Just wondering how much a TNL bootcamp is... $10K
/r/seduction31/01/20 03:37 AM
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Start with a brothel , then work on your game and looks .
/r/seduction30/01/20 11:47 PM
2

There is nothing emasculating in social anxiety. Go tell someone with a phobia to "man up" , you will sound like an ignorant tool...
/r/seduction30/01/20 11:45 PM
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Something like that, start with asking about directions, then another questions, then approach average girls for short period , then longer approaches , then more attractive girls...etc, Because there is nothing emasculating in social anxiety.
/r/seduction30/01/20 11:44 PM
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It works for a while. But long term you will stay in the same pain forever...
/r/seduction30/01/20 08:42 PM
1

Exactly , gradual exposure is the only thing that works with treating fears. Google "Fear ladder"
/r/seduction30/01/20 08:42 PM
3

"Manning up" would start with formulating a plan and sticking to it. Build a fear ladder in terms of doing easy things first then harder things later . Yeah you can drag your legs for a couple of days and approach attractive girls right away , but this is not sustainable long term and your will prefer hiding at home sooner or later...
/r/seduction30/01/20 03:42 PM
2

Looks matter , but they are not limiting. Any man can get the girl he wants if he works hard at it and never gives up . Nothing is impossible whether you like this or not...
/r/seduction30/01/20 03:19 PM
1

Bro , ask her to take a walk or to bounce to another bar first before suggesting home. Build more comfort and compliance first...
/r/seduction30/01/20 02:41 PM
7

excuses .
/r/seduction30/01/20 02:39 PM
3

Hey , have we met in X bar/club before ? Short and sweet...
/r/seduction30/01/20 02:36 PM
1

If you don't want to dance , then don't dance. Go talk to the girl you like while you are stand still. Dancing like a monkey to please her and match her mood is a form of selling yourself to her. Be very loud , rough , strong eye contact ...
/r/seduction30/01/20 02:34 PM
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You can't talk your brain out of social anxiety. it is like saying to a person with a phobia , don't worry it is just a snake , or don't worry you will not fall from this height. Grow up man. If you want to "talk to her" , then start with easier steps and build your way up. This "just do it" , "She is just a girl"..etc, never works.. Hate me as you want, but "Just do it" and "Man the fuck up son" never works...
/r/seduction30/01/20 02:30 PM
1

Farfetch has $35K Nike shoes bro..
/r/seduction30/01/20 04:23 AM
1

Why not work on both ? But I'd say game trumps looks. You can be attractive then creep her out and make her feel like shit...
/r/seduction29/01/20 09:41 PM
1

end department store’s Men’s department and look for a woman in her 40’s or 50’s working there about becoming your “Personal Shoppe I always pickup chicks in gym attire bro, because it is my habit to do daygame after gym. But I know that the quality of chicks can improve when I improve what I wear. Just because it worked, doesn't mean it is the best. Luck plays huge factor too , he talked to the right chick at the right time..
/r/seduction29/01/20 09:39 PM
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funny
/r/seduction29/01/20 11:53 AM
1

I will tell you the full truth. You have to be very comfortable creeping up women and making them uncomfortable. Because that's what will usually happen from a beginner to an intermediate. I am not saying go be rude to women. But any beginner says only "hi" to a woman will creep the shit out of her because of the toxic energy he radiates,whatever fake smile you put on your face, and you have to be ok with that until you become better. Be selfish ...
/r/seduction29/01/20 11:28 AM
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Happens all the time , they do nothing , they just take her and leave..
/r/seduction29/01/20 11:06 AM
1

You're clearly retarded. I never said don't approach women That's exactly what you said. Work on yourself and you will find the woman of your dream because of God's master plan. "FATE" . God has written in your book a wife for you bro , no need to worry or approach women since god is there to throw a woman on your dick without an effort. Btw this quote is from Imam Al Shafi , not Umar you illiterate lazy idiot
/r/seduction29/01/20 10:57 AM
2

Any anxiety improves with consistent exposure..
/r/seduction29/01/20 06:07 AM
2

It is nearly impossible to talk to the first attractive girl you see at the beginning of the day. Start with average girls and short approaches then your brain will be unlocked...
/r/seduction29/01/20 04:55 AM
1

If the girl is insecure and she feels you are way above her level or you are being indifferent, she will move on. Especially girls that are seeking long term relationships. If she is less attractive tune it down and show your interest towards her. But with hot girls, you have to stand out from the cockroaches that are chasing her 24/7...
/r/seduction29/01/20 04:19 AM
1

Agreed, very hard but DOABLE.
/r/seduction29/01/20 04:16 AM
2

urself to the bone in maintaining it? You make no mention of any pay-off especially when you make sex sound like a chore. What's more fun than a hot girl chasing you and begging you to come have sex with you ?? Eating a girl's pussy and making her cum (THEN FUCKING HER) is not a "Chore"... Giving a hot girl disappointing sexual experience is the opposite of fun
/r/seduction29/01/20 04:15 AM
2

Achieving anything meaningful (keeping a hot girl with you) requires hard work. Anything good in life comes by hard work, not by fun. You can't build a business by having fun, or succeed in your studying by having fun. Just because foreplaying 5 minutes and fucking her is fun for you, doesn't mean she will come to you again...It is not fun for her. Also dating needy and losers is not fun for her either...
/r/seduction28/01/20 10:41 PM
1

Like which company ?
/r/seduction28/01/20 10:32 PM
1

Women in general respond to common things. Most of my tips are supported by scientific research. You are also a woman , good luck making guys wait 1 day between texts ....
/r/seduction28/01/20 07:59 PM
1

If you approach a lot and nothing happens, then don't only work on your game. Work on your appearance too, dress better fashionable clothes, get a better haircut, wear cologne, lose weight, build muscles..etc, Because attractive guys don't need to approach a shit ton to get a GF... And don't quit like a bitch..
/r/seduction28/01/20 10:52 AM
1

Not a good advice. MOst men do the mistake of "accomplishing goals first" and waste their life not building their social skills. Start approaching tomorrow and you will find a girl that likes you the way you are... And if you don't find her, at least you learn how to approach and relate with girls..
/r/seduction28/01/20 10:44 AM
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ght is only possible if you aren't spending enough time with the women to make a real connection, IMO. (Then again, you are "STD Tyler", haha..) It is easy to approach 10 girls in 1 hour during a daygame session. Because you will get rejected a lot...
/r/seduction28/01/20 10:42 AM
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3-4 girls a night is when you have no AA ? Son, when I have no AA I approach 50 girls a day/night... What made you not approach girl #5 ??
/r/seduction28/01/20 12:03 AM
2

You get this feeling after two things accomplished: 1- You approach consistently over a long period of time 2 - You approach multiple girls in one session until you loosen up Then you feel you are the man, you are walking on water, you talk to any girl you want. It requires a lot of investment and hard work. Very very few people get to this level...
/r/seduction28/01/20 12:02 AM
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I wouldn't jump into questioning and interrogating a stranger right away. Questions like "where are you going" , "what are you doing now?" or even "What's your name?". At the first minute or two talk and make statements, maybe comment on her style, her accent,the way she walks, assume her profession..etc, Asking too many questions at the beginning is what noobs do, she will answer out of courtesy, but she is still uncomfortable..
/r/seduction27/01/20 11:50 PM
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Practice with fat chicks from Tinder
/r/seduction27/01/20 11:47 PM
1

Time will heal this brother. It is a bitch on the first few days, and you will feel that you will never forget her, and that there are no other girls. But that's just a delusion. I have been through this a couple of times and I am sure 100% time will heal it. Don't chase her and spam her with messages like a dog, don't dig a deeper hole. Moving on is a must, she will be disgusted if you keep on trying..
/r/seduction27/01/20 12:02 AM
1

Get a good hair cut, overhaul your fashion..
/r/seduction26/01/20 10:17 PM
12

So the haircut that changed your life is 1 on the sides and 2 on top ?
/r/seduction25/01/20 08:50 AM
2

That's how I ask for insta dates when I approach girls. I tell her "Let's have coffee" . Girls respond to commands not giving choices. That's how they operate ..
/r/seduction24/01/20 10:48 PM
1

I have already wrote "Woman you are newly dating"
/r/seduction24/01/20 10:41 PM
10

I'd have to disagree. I dated women and I "let myself loose" , and I got dumped. You can't tell a woman you newly date how much you like/love her You can't tell her how many girls you banged/bang You can't tell her you love picking up women You can't tell her you have a mental disease So yeah, filters have their uses. Control yourself , be mysterious and don't be an open book...
/r/seduction24/01/20 02:59 PM
5

Owen Cook is my god. I owe him my life...(notice my username haha)
/r/seduction17/01/20 10:07 PM
5

Be cool bro, you don't need something from her. She doesn't have to smell any neediness or an agenda. If she is into it you will know without keep touching her like a sexual offender.. And how should you play this? Have fun, make her feel comfortable,and good things will follow...
/r/seduction17/01/20 09:39 PM
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I will be honest with you . You can't talk yourself out of any state of mind you have. Take strategic action , a couple of approaches, then this way of thinking becomes natural at the moment. But this self talk "She is just a girl" , "be cool" , "everything is gonna be ok"..etc, never works. Not being negative, but realistic..
/r/seduction16/01/20 07:33 AM
3

Trint Alexander Arnold is a good wingman in Liverpool
/r/seduction15/01/20 08:20 AM
1

he's depressed and losing someone close to him could exacerbate his condition, and 2) he's staying with the girl even though he lost sexual interest, making him one of the better dudes. A lot of guys find a new gf's after they lose sexual interest You never know if he is fantasising having sex with other girls or not, which is possible 99%. And she may go date another guy too while staying with her BF. There is nothing wrong in having multiple partners , why do you want her to waste precious day…
/r/seduction15/01/20 07:37 AM
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You sound like a needy mofo , she is your only option , and she knows that. And that's a turn off. Go out talk to 1000's of girls , date multiple girls and suddenly these bipolar bitches will start to chase you. It is your fault for not taking action, not hers...
/r/seduction15/01/20 07:31 AM
1

Beaurriful
/r/seduction15/01/20 01:53 AM
1

Love yourself how you are, find a girl that loves non smiley guys,don't try to change yourself to please girls. If they are creeped out or don't like you for not smiling, then fuck them, next!
/r/seduction14/01/20 11:38 PM
1

You have no idea what you are talking about. "They are just women bro, be cool". We all know that, thanks. But your brain is blocking you and you can't talk yourself out of approach anxiety. You have to take gradual exposure, not self talk...
/r/seduction14/01/20 11:20 PM
2

That sounds that you are a bitch that gave up...
/r/seduction14/01/20 11:10 PM
1

Formulate a plan. Don't do this randomly, won't work.
/r/seduction14/01/20 11:05 PM
1

Hard to tell the reason, they just don't like you, which is ok in online dating. Maybe you are needy, trying to have an outcome with them, and they sense your neediness. Maybe you are trying to sell and qualify yourself? Go out, have fun, be outcome independent and screen/qualify the girl. Has the buyer mentality, you are screening if she is a good fit gor you , not the other way around. Girls sense these sub communications...
/r/seduction14/01/20 10:58 PM
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Once it is gone, it is gone. Find a new boyfriend...
/r/seduction14/01/20 10:48 PM
1

ther replying to girls that are at the mid to bottom of my options. I assume that girls do the same, except their options are 10x larger than mine. The worse thing you can do is send needy, follow up texts when she doesn't respond. She might be on the fence about you, exp What an evil school..
/r/seduction03/01/20 09:41 AM
1

Never stop gaming brother . If I only date her and have sex with her , she will control the relationship. If I approach and date other girls , I will be more cool and attractive... My goal is to date 3 girls. Real girls not Tinder wombats
/r/seduction31/12/19 09:27 PM
0

Get professional pics
/r/seduction31/12/19 09:25 PM
1

lol
/r/seduction31/12/19 09:24 PM
2

It rarely gets you girls above your physical appearance level. So I don't know your criteria of success ? Is it getting girls a little below your level considered success ? I like to aim high , really high...
/r/seduction31/12/19 04:29 PM
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lol , 1 cold approach success ? I had to make 30-40 approaches before getting this date. But since you don't do it , you are not familiar with numbers...
/r/seduction31/12/19 04:26 PM
-1

Keep swiping brother ..that's not weird ...
/r/seduction31/12/19 04:25 PM
-1

I never said I slept with hot women on Tinder , I said some of them were attractive. Most aren't...
/r/seduction31/12/19 04:23 PM
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Just don't be a needy mofo. Be hot and cold , don't be all over her ALL the time. Disappear sometimes. Go out with your friends and have a social life. Date other girls and she will smell your non-neediness a mile away...
/r/seduction30/12/19 01:30 PM
1

Open a word file and write canned jokes for different situations . Do you think stand up comedians improvise ??
/r/seduction30/12/19 01:20 PM
1

Yeah I am trying to prove a point .. If I tell you to go makeout with any number of girls you want in the street , you will definitely do more than 10 or 20 ! Because it is enjoyable... Why don't you approach 50 girls !? You have more chances at getting laid , and most importantly , you learn A LOT ! But yet you do 5-10 max . Which is amazing number btw... I have a community of pickup friends who despise daygame too and can't approach without wings . So no , it is not that it doesn't cross peopl…
/r/seduction30/05/19 04:55 AM
1

for example, it never crosses their mind that you can actually do tha How many girls do you talk to daily ?
/r/seduction29/05/19 12:52 AM
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Because that's the norm bro ? How many people you know like to go talk to girls on the streets , similar of liking video games ? ​ Why don't you tell us how many girls do you talk to daily if it is enjoyable ? 10 girls minimum ? But you may enjoy it too much so you talk to 50 girls daily ?
/r/seduction28/05/19 10:08 AM
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Ok , it is not evil
/r/seduction28/05/19 07:47 AM
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