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Are you though? Because my gut feeling is you don’t really understand the concept of frame. What is your interpretation of frame?
/r/askMRP03/12/25 04:00 AM
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This is something you can build on.
/r/askMRP03/12/25 03:58 AM
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Haven’t been on AMRP for quite some time, and I see nothings changed. OPs have always been confused about what a shit test is, and whatever they can’t make sense of , they just call it a shit test. This is a perfect example of that. This is actually the opposite of a shit test, it’s a comfort test. And you failed badly. As soon as I read the title “did I play this right,” I knew the answer was no. Because if you have to ask, then you fucked it up. Matter of fact, if you have to ask, it means you…
/r/askMRP02/12/25 08:07 AM
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You asked if you should take her back, people said no… and I can guarantee you will stay with her based on your responses. So why even come on AMRP and ask if you are clearly going to do the opposite of the answer you were given? The truth is she is trickle-truthing now that she got caught. She doesn’t respect you enough to give you the full truth. I can guarantee she physically cheated - maybe or maybe not with the ones she texted, but guaranteed she cheated with ”someone.” Your thinking is cle…
/r/askMRP13/06/25 03:08 AM
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Posts on this sub always ask the wrong questions as evidenced by this post. How do you get better at STFU? Like anything else, you practice STFU. At first you’ll be bad at it and she will know you’re butthurt. The more you practice it, the more stoic you actually become because you learn to deal with your fag@oty feelings in that silence. Also, it’s worth h mentioning STFU doesn’t always mean going mute. Many times, it just means saying as little as possible. The most important part is you don’t…
/r/askMRP13/06/25 02:52 AM
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As others have said, a conversation will just make this worse. Consider pulling in a 2nd women, then you’ll both have a side piece.
/r/askMRP10/01/25 02:40 AM
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Yes, you’ve been betaized. Thats the whole point of this page. Now, get to work and undo it. Sidebar STFU Lift
/r/askMRP04/12/24 11:13 AM
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As soon as you argue with her, you’ve already lost. Always. Remember that. The other problem is you think this is a reaction based on a tiny thing. It’s not, it’s the culmination of you failing tests continuously. You are living in her frame. You need to learn how to give less fucks. Have you read “The subtle Art of Not Giving a fu*@?”
/r/askMRP02/12/24 10:34 PM
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You seem to be looking for an answer that tells you how to react to her based on her actions. You’re asking the wrong question. If she spirals when you A&A, that means your frame sucks and she doesn’t respect you. Now, let’s re-ask the question: what will you do next time to not fail the test? Hint: He practically gave you the answer.
/r/askMRP29/11/24 08:05 AM
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Oh I wish he just would have asked. He should probably go with the Volkswagen position for pegging.
/r/askMRP04/10/24 07:16 PM
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Good post. For me it took about 4 yrs to get my relationship back, but that’s probably because it started when my son was around 14. So that gave him 4 years to realize he wanted a relationship with me when he turned 18.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/24 07:35 AM
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That criteria you listed as why you should be alpha is incorrect. Matter of fact, some of the biggest betas I know make a lot of money. A lot of them put all their energy into business and don’t in their personal lives… and the things that help you make a lot of money aren’t always alpha traits. So, my question is which specific areas do you feel you are not alpha? Examples?
/r/askMRP04/10/24 07:30 AM
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How are you going to strengthen that area? Serious question…
/r/askMRP31/08/24 01:36 AM
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It’s worse because she’s telling you she’s done but she wants your support and put you in the back burner while she tries out another man. She might even ask your advice with guys. Don’t blow shit up, that’s a weak move. Instead, just file for divorce and try to get it done. I’m guessing she will be adamantly against the divorce because then she can’t have her cake and eat it too. Don’t fall for it. She’s already told you it is over.
/r/askMRP29/08/24 10:30 PM
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Don’t ever try to justify yourself to people like that. That’s exhibiting a severe lack of frame. Give way less fucks about what other people say. Reading: the Subtle Art of not giving a F*ck
/r/askMRP08/08/24 10:02 PM
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Never look at what women say. Look at what they do. What is she doing? She’s still working with him… hanging out with him after work, having him come as the “professional “ when there are plenty of other other options other than one she self proclaimed to be in love with (previously). In other words, she’s actively looking for more opportunities to spend time with him. She’s not respecting you or your boundaries. She obviously respects him if she has him come for that event. You need to pinch yo…
/r/askMRP28/07/24 07:53 AM
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Ok, consider this tough love. So, you “drew the line,” but then she crossed the line with no real consequences. Then, she figured she could cross more boundaries by inviting him to the work event when she knew she’d be pissed. Now you’re online asking internet strangers what to do after she keeps crossing boundaries.Tell us more about how you’re not a beta pussy. I’m not even going to begin touching the subject of whether or not she’s having sex with him, except to ask you one question — do you …
/r/askMRP27/07/24 11:19 PM
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George Castanza has it
/r/askMRP20/07/24 04:09 AM
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Your frame is weak - you care way too much about what others think.
/r/askMRP15/07/24 07:25 PM
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You never had RP if you couldn’t apply it in a relationship. Pump and dump doesn’t mean RP. RP is when you can apply it across the board, a bars, in relationships, at work… etc. And it’s not about sex. The sex is a side effect/benefit.
/r/askMRP13/07/24 06:59 PM
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I’m not convinced this is over. Did she say exactly why she wanted a divorce when she threatened it? What were her exact words?
/r/askMRP29/06/24 09:02 AM
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You never started, so there is no starting over
/r/askMRP18/06/24 03:51 AM
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You should know whether she’s DTF before you even get into the bedroom… Kino, sexual comments, etc. How she came in and said she loves you when you took care of the baby shows she views you like a brother or a son who took care of the baby for a while. You have a long way to go, don’t get ahead of yourself. You’re overthinking it. I also suspect you’re a fat fuck. Lift 5 days a week instead of every other day. Start with stfu, lifting, and sidebar.
/r/askMRP08/06/24 10:37 PM
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The truth is men are like children in some ways too… just different ways. It’s important to understand the inherent differences
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/24 07:09 PM
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4-6 months huh. Check back with us in 7 months and let us know how that’s going.
/r/askMRP30/05/24 06:42 AM
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The reason she isn’t jealous is because she DNGAF
/r/askMRP26/05/24 01:03 AM
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Why do you feel the need to defend yourself so much when you did nothing wrong?
/r/askMRP09/05/24 02:11 AM
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True, both men and women have things where most are all like that… it will help you to know what those behaviors are. Once you learn what they are and learn how to deal with it to your advantage, you begin to like the predictability… even find it humorous
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/24 02:03 AM
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It’s pretty simple. Start practicing not being in her frame. You won’t get it at first, but the more you practice, the better you get. Instead, you’ve chosen to just use your ocd as an excuse to not practice (not try).
/r/askMRP08/05/24 02:30 AM
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The only way to improve STFU is to literally do that at first, like almost mute. Then you get better over time and just keeping it brief, not deering and implementing some of the other tools you mentioned. Don’t try those much until you literally learn how to just STFU
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/24 07:01 PM
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There are 3 things you should commit to in the very beginning, otherwise you are wasting your time. It’s not that hard to work on all of them at the same time. STFU, lift, and sidebar
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/24 04:54 PM
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Your whole post is filled with covert contracts. Covert contracts = dancing monkey I bet this comment section didn’t go like you thought it would.
/r/askMRP24/04/24 04:57 AM
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Frame doesn’t “slip away” once you truly have it. There are momentary lapses but if you have it, it should come back very quickly. So, I conclude you never had it. You may have faked it for a while, but you were only kidding yourself. Based on her response to your sexual remark, your weak response, and her not following your lead on the humor, you have a lot of work to do. Start with STFU.
/r/askMRP20/04/24 10:06 PM
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This! OP clearly doesn’t get it.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/24 04:09 AM
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Why would he want to stay with a cheating whore?
/r/askMRP19/12/23 05:36 AM
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Means she’s cheating 100% of the time, so she needs to justify the cheating to herself and rewrite history of you. So, you go on the back burner, and if if she ends up staying with you, that just means it didn’t work out with the new man. So, the question is: do you want her back given this scenario?
/r/askMRP18/12/23 09:08 PM
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Never do things to try to get reactions out of her. That’s called being in her frame. Do things because you want to, or don’t want to. So, in answer to your question, get out of her frame and start doing what you want
/r/askMRP17/12/23 01:39 AM
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You can’t LARP your way into better frame and confidence. Do the suggested work and they will come. You have no idea what frame is until you actually have frame, and that’s the paradox. What is the work? Lift Sidebar STFU
/r/askMRP16/12/23 05:52 PM
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So you vetted terribly and she won’t even make any attempts to fix it? Normally, we advise against ultimatums, but this is an instance where an ultimatum would be appropriate that she get help
/r/askMRP13/12/23 12:10 AM
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Yeah nowhere on the sidebar does it say you need to be jacked. Just do the best with what you have, and as Cam pointed out, if you concentrate on good form you won’t get injured
/r/askMRP06/12/23 08:54 PM
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Just hit the gym regularly. I don’t know where you got this idea that you need to be jacked. Just exercise regularly. You don’t even have to lift that heavy. The idea is to not be fat or skinny-fat. Most of MRP is mental/emotional
/r/askMRP06/12/23 07:23 AM
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Sex is the easiest part. It means very little (as you’re finding out). It’s just a start. You’re probably looking at the retar# questions and assuming that’s MRP. It’s not. There are guys way way far advanced beyond the sex part on here
/r/askMRP02/12/23 06:19 PM
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You got some great insight responses on here, so I’m gonna be a bit more blunt. You need to take care of you because like you said she doesn’t give a fuck about your business or you based on her actions. The writing is on the wall. Start thinking about what life looks without her, and then start taking steps in that direction. In other words, the stay plan is the same as the go plan.
/r/askMRP02/12/23 06:14 PM
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Yeah there is such a thing as the hamster running away with the wheel. Needs to be watched and offset with comfort when necessary
/r/TheRedPill29/11/23 12:44 AM
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Dread game? Can you give examples? The best and most effective type of dread is passive dread where you just be awesome and it causes dread because she knows you can easily get laid anytime.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/23 11:51 PM
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She’s inning dread on you. Now as yourself why you’ve been at this for 2 years and you have zero dread working for you, and your dread is at 100/100
/r/askMRP11/10/23 04:02 AM
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You haven’t set a boundary if there is no consequence to her crossing it
/r/askMRP11/10/23 04:00 AM
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He’s trying to tell you to start building a life of your own and quit being so reactive of her. It’s over. You imply your have accepted that, but you clearly haven’t because you think she’s testing you. How is it testing you if she did it all about as discretely as possible given she’s living with you? You’re living in her frame. Move on like she’s gone (because mentally she is). You’re lucky she wants to wait until she gets income instead of filing and getting alimony (if that’s a thing in your…
/r/askMRP03/10/23 04:04 PM
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His point wasn’t that you needed space. His point was that you’re failing her shit tests. Even the example you give here is a total fail of her shit test. She was practically begging you to slam dunk that shit test. It could have been as easy as you saying, “yes you’re a naughty girl and need to be punished.” Instead you totally failed it by getting butthurt and telling her it was a shitty question. . How do you not see how badly you failed that test?
/r/askMRP19/08/23 03:51 AM
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Yes, you can’t change it on the societal level. But you can on a personal level. A lot of guys never move past the anger stage, which actually puts them in a worse place than where they started. But, if a man can swallow the pill and move past the anger stage, then he can actually begin to use all the bitter pill stuff to his advantage. That’s where it gets really good
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/23 05:38 AM
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Sounds like she was “really into” those 2 guys too
/r/askMRP13/08/23 05:11 AM
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Some good points. Got a little bit too idealistic in your last paragraph, but I liked some of the points
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/23 07:03 PM
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Lol weak response, copying word for word. Are you 5 yrs old?
/r/TheRedPill01/08/23 03:05 AM
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Tell me you don’t get laid without telling me lol
/r/TheRedPill31/07/23 09:38 PM
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You wouldn’t know sexual strategy if it came up and smacked you in the noggin, kid
/r/TheRedPill31/07/23 04:57 AM
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I like how you come on here asking questions, and then you DEER to every response you get. Sounds like you have it all figured out, so why you on here asking?
/r/askMRP29/07/23 10:19 PM
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I could have worded it better, but the 2nd comment is what I meant. Sometimes I forget that I’ve been practicing RP for 6 years and others need time to catch up
/r/TheRedPill29/07/23 09:43 PM
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It was advice. The advice was to work on yourself so when something like this happens, you won’t think twice about ghosting her. Remember, there are over 3 billion women in the world. Don’t waste your time on one like this
/r/TheRedPill29/07/23 06:42 AM
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The fact you wrote a whole long post on this instead of ghosting and blocking her suggests you have a lot of personal work to do
/r/TheRedPill29/07/23 05:29 AM
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You sure bro. You seemed to know an awful lot about it
/r/askMRP28/07/23 06:15 AM
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Wait, you actually set time aside, went to a theater and saw this movie?
/r/askMRP28/07/23 05:50 AM
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You’re completely missing the point of DEER. A quick explanation is not DEERing. You basically went full ret@rd in both those situations and created a problem where there didn’t have to be one. You say you started applying TP 5 years ago, but based on this post you have been half-assing it for 5 years. If you had been really doing the deal, there’s no way you would have such a poor understanding of DEERing at this point. DEERing is something you should understand and make decent progress on with…
/r/askMRP27/07/23 07:06 AM
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This is exactly the problem. OP is completely in her frame. Should have just laughed it off. Instead, it made him spiral, and he’s still spiraling days later.
/r/askMRP25/07/23 01:00 AM
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So she said you were a pussy, and now you want to double down on being a pussy by running out? Btw, it doesn’t matter who’s name the house is under. You are both residents in the house, so you can’t just decide to kick each other out.
/r/askMRP13/07/23 11:39 PM
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This post lack substance. It would be much better if you discussed what exactly helped you overcome the issue.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/23 08:52 PM
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These aren’t “shit tests.” This is her ending it.
/r/askMRP09/07/23 05:59 AM
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Ok that’s your issue. That’s what I thought. Stop talking about that. I’m not saying you should say you would. Sometimes, things are better left unsaid. If she ever brings it you never cheating, just say something along the lines of “there’s no need for me to cheat since we are having regular sex.” It’s a little manipulative, but that’s the only way to add some dread into the equation and without a little dead I can almost guarantee it will keep drying up. Actually, this is probably perfect timi…
/r/askMRP08/07/23 04:35 AM
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But I’m more looking for why she thinks you’d never entertain being with another woman? I really need that to advise any further
/r/askMRP08/07/23 03:51 AM
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Not necessarily. Why do you think it’s number 2 exactly?
/r/askMRP08/07/23 02:04 AM
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No I’m saying you should be using kino, subtle dirty comments… etc and watching how she reacts. So, you will know when she’s dtf. Then, you initiate when she’s dtf and hold off when she’s not. You should rarely get rejections doing this Which do you think it is? Do you think she doesn’t think you have the game to get laid if you wanted to (from another woman), or does she think you’d never entertain it? Guarantee it’s one of the 2. I’m guessing the former
/r/askMRP08/07/23 12:19 AM
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You should rarely get any rejections. Why? Because you should already know whether or not she’s dtf before you start initiating. Physical is not nearly as important as mental/frame attractiveness when you’re in an LTR. Her words are saying others are jealous she gets to have sex with you, but the declining sex says differently. Listen to actions, not words. I’m guessing she either thinks that you don’t have the game to pull it off if you wanted to or you simply would never entertain the idea. Bo…
/r/askMRP07/07/23 10:26 PM
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This. Frame and game tend to go hand in hand. If you have frame, game tends to come more naturally because frame is attractive. I don’t follow OP, but just based in this post I doubt he really knows what frame is even
/r/askMRP06/07/23 01:32 AM
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There is a difference between lack of attraction and shit tests. As a matter of fact, the intent in them are opposite. If she’s genuinely angry, that’s lack of attraction. The problem (as usual) is you lack frame. You are living in her frame and your self esteem relies on her approval. So, what you need to do is back off and focus on the basics — sidebar, lift, stfu. You are fat with those numbers. Once you start getting in shape, that combined with stfu can be very powerful because it conveys r…
/r/askMRP06/07/23 01:24 AM
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Self control isn’t an easy fix. Don’t expect to watch a video or read a book to fix it. Read the whole sidebar, lift, and stfu
/r/askMRP04/07/23 05:41 AM
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Book— the subtle Art of not giving a f@$k You can download it on Kindle or buy it online
/r/askMRP04/07/23 05:34 AM
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It’s a decent start, but I’m gonna be straight with you… this is early gain stuff. Entry level MRP activity. One of the first things to come back is the sex. Believe it or not, that’s actually the easy part. Finish the sidebar, lift, and continue to work on your frame. At some point she’s going to start testing you more, and she will get more crafty with her shit tests. She will start to wonder if your change is real. And as someone else pointed out, it’s possible this is at least partially due …
/r/askMRP04/07/23 05:31 AM
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The thing that determines whether a woman is a plate or a girlfriend is your actions/emotions/behaviors towards her. You are clearly acting like she’s your girlfriend. Read your post from an outside perspective, and you will see it if you’re being honest with yourself. She’s not a plate just because you say she is (even if you believe it to be true). So now that we established she is a girlfriend to you… I’ll also point out that her actions and attitudes towards you suggest you are just a plate …
/r/askMRP30/06/23 05:19 AM
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This ones gonna leave a mark
/r/askMRP30/06/23 05:08 AM
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I like how guys come on here and try to give a specific situation with almost zero background and then ask how to fix it Do you have a specific question here?
/r/askMRP25/06/23 08:58 PM
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Minimum
/r/askMRP25/06/23 07:06 PM
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You can’t shoot the hamster down because subduing it will only make it stronger when it does rear it’s head. You have to find a way to process it out and come to acceptance that you’re almost certainly never going to know one way or the other. Then, you have to choose to either give her the benefit of the doubt if you decide to stay with her or leave. Those are your only 2 healthy choices. It’s not going to be easy. Get a therapist if you need help processing it and accepting that you will never…
/r/askMRP21/06/23 09:58 PM
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You’re never going to know for sure. So, you have to decide to process it in a way you can move on or not. I suspect you are going to hamster tf out of it tho… the danger of that is accusations with no proof have a way of leaking out under stress and arguments.
/r/askMRP21/06/23 09:22 PM
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Quit using so much logic. It’s mean
/r/askMRP21/06/23 09:18 PM
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You bring up some good points, but your mate guarding behavior is unattractive. If she believes you’re a quality man, she will naturally change her behavior if she’s LTR material, but that’s doubtful. If you don’t like her behavior, there are better ways of conveying it that don’t include you whining like a bitch to her
/r/TheRedPill16/06/23 03:05 AM
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You said you were annoyed and frustrated. That sounds like the anger phase.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/23 03:51 AM
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Eventually, it’s best to move on from anger to acceptance. It’s a process and takes time. Some never make it out of that anger phase though. It’s a conscious effort.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/23 02:20 AM
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But today in 2023, I feel euphoric to this news. I feel like I’ve won. It feels like a story arch. Like everything I experienced, and everything you’ve all helped teach me finally makes sense without a doubt. Doesn’t sound like someone who moved on a long time ago Seriously man, I’m not trying to dog on you. Just calling it how I see it, and it jumps out like a sore thumb. All I’m saying, is there’s a lot more work to be done
/r/TheRedPill06/06/23 06:29 AM
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The fact that it took you finding an OF page of hers to start moving on, tells me you have a long way to go, and you’re likely to repeat ONEitis in the near future if you don’t fix it
/r/TheRedPill06/06/23 05:33 AM
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Throw away all the excuses she gave and continues to give. Here is the real reason: you are not attractive, both physically and mentally/emotionally (lack frame).
/r/askMRP02/06/23 05:28 AM
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I don’t understand your question
/r/askMRP15/05/23 03:16 AM
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You have to stay firm on the boundary you created together…. Unless someone’s life is in danger or something . But don’t say that last part to your wife
/r/askMRP15/05/23 02:06 AM
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Stay strong. I suspect your wife will ask again
/r/askMRP14/05/23 10:19 PM
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And then he will stay with her even though he claims he’s leaving
/r/askMRP07/05/23 08:17 PM
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Why do I have serious doubts that you will leave? I predict you torture yourself with it until your insecurity eventually kills the puppy
/r/askMRP07/05/23 08:16 PM
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He thought he found a snowflake
/r/askMRP07/05/23 08:13 PM
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You keep missing the point, so I’m going to be very blunt here. That’s your issue not hers. That’s the part you seem to be missing. If it was her issue you would have already been gone or you would have moved past it. You are too much of a pussy to do either. That’s why it’s your issue
/r/askMRP06/05/23 05:14 AM
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What’s your end game here? Continue going down this rabbit hole you are obviously stuck in and torture yourself to death and then it ends? You say curiously got the best of you. Quit with the bullshit. The truth is you went deep into the rabbit hole. You need to think about whether it’s salvageable at this point or not, and if not, end it. My gut feeling is you won’t be able to get past it. Grow some balls and just do what needs to be done.
/r/askMRP05/05/23 06:37 AM
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Congratulations, you have defined a blue pill married man effectively Now, get to work and move away from that weak mentality
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/23 05:49 PM
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Why the fuck would you want to have that conversation? I’m seriously curious. What you need to do is STFU, lift, and finish the sidebar. 1 month is Jack shit. Do those things I mentioned, and eventually you will develop frame if you keep practicing and learning. It takes time, usually a year or 2 or hard frustrating work. Trust me, I know you think you know what frame is, but you don’t. How can you know about something you don’t possess? That’s the irony of frame. The only way to know what it is…
/r/askMRP24/04/23 07:39 AM
5

It was a typo. He meant bench 135 and never did squat or dl
/r/askMRP13/04/23 03:47 AM
2

Crickets
/r/askMRP13/04/23 03:05 AM
4

No, figure out why she’s behaving that way. What’s your part… and yes post questions to ask MRP
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/23 01:41 AM
2

Nicely done
/r/askMRP11/03/23 08:03 PM
3

Alright, keep us posted
/r/askMRP07/03/23 07:16 PM
2

Are you ever going to answer the question? What is your plan over the coming weeks?
/r/askMRP07/03/23 05:35 AM
6

I meant your follow up beyond that. That means very little if you end up caving… matter of fact it’s counter productive. This is what people mean when they say if you put up a hard boundary, you need to be prepared to follow through all the way,… otherwise you’re better off not setting it. Where do things stand right now?
/r/askMRP06/03/23 06:14 PM
19

She made a public stand against you. That wasn’t an accident. She knew exactly what she was doing, and she was trying to make you look like that bad guy in front of all those people. After you started phasing out for the night, guaranteed she was dropping crumbs for all of them to see how bad you were - she was playing the victim. That’s pretty serious. So, what was she saying with this stand? Basically, she was saying “I don’t respect you, and I don’t need you. I can find a better replacement. …
/r/askMRP06/03/23 07:31 AM
2

I don’t remember saying that, but it’s true. But, first I had to quit the porn to perform the great sex
/r/askMRP05/03/23 03:56 AM
3

What do you want us to tell you other than quit watching porn if it is an issue for you. All this bullshit about “triggers” - Having “triggers” is just an excuse to do it when when your trigger happens. Since it’s an issue for you, the only solution is to not do it at all
/r/askMRP04/03/23 06:50 AM
2

Too late, guaranteed he blew it up into a big fight
/r/askMRP04/03/23 06:42 AM
24

Never read any sidebar or discuss with your wife. It’s about you, and you only.
/r/askMRP28/02/23 10:20 PM
7

Swallowing TRP is a process, not an event. Takes years. You didn’t swallow anything
/r/askMRP07/02/23 10:46 PM
9

So he tried it with you a few times, but he knows you don’t budge. Then, you budged buy telling him you’d give him 50k. Then he keeps trying. Sounds to me like he does think you will budge. But, let’s move past that and look to the answer on what to do even though I don’t believe you will follow it since your wife is trying to manipulate you into giving them money by saying she feels “terrible.” Whether you want to believe it or not she is manipulating you. The truth is you don’t have the balls …
/r/askMRP03/02/23 04:14 AM
1

I understand how that could cause drive issues, but there is no excuse to continue to live in a way that is so unsatisfying. Take your dad out of the equation now that you’re an adult. Find something that you are passionate about and then start a business with that thing. Something that can add value to the world. You don’t need the money, but money doesn’t have to be the driving force that makes you wildly successful eventually
/r/TheRedPill27/01/23 07:17 AM
20

That’s WAY too many words to ask how you can get your wife to help you clean. You made the simplest question so complicated. No wonder you have a hard time figuring it out. If you want it clean, do it. Ask yourself why she isn’t responding to your leadership or making a strong effort. Stop your hamster from running overtime
/r/askMRP22/01/23 03:09 AM
1

Winning
/r/askMRP13/01/23 08:25 PM
1

That’s not how dread works… at all
/r/askMRP13/01/23 08:24 PM
1

Look man, if you want to work this with your sponsor as a 4-9 and take a good look at your resentments, have at it, but it’s not that much like MRP. I think they would both benefit you. Here’s what you have to get out of your head…. This isn’t like working a step and then you’re good. It’s not a quick fix like that. So what if you’re in the angry phase or not. Nobody gives a shit and neither should you. What you need to do is simply focus on actions… actions of being a better man. Start with thi…
/r/askMRP13/01/23 05:36 AM
1

Like profiting from misogamy like what’s his face?
/r/askMRP09/01/23 09:28 PM
2

True. And if he initiates a 3 way every day and documents it on social media, he’ll probably have 2 wives by April and having nightly 3 ways. It’s all up from there
/r/askMRP08/01/23 02:44 AM
2

Your gaming isn’t working obviously. Why the fuck would you just keep doing something that isn’t working over and over. Obviously, she’s not attracted to you on a deeper level, most likely related to things like frame, DEERing… etc. And no way are you 16% BF at that height and weight and weak ass lifts. Quit lying to yourself
/r/askMRP05/01/23 10:29 PM
2

He’s not advanced enough for a spreadsheet yet. That’s some high level shit. Literally, takes years to get there
/r/askMRP05/01/23 10:25 PM
2

Yeah, like I said you are still missing it. MRP fixes the man, not the marriage. Do some research on boundaries. I’d have to write a small novel on boundaries to try to help you here.
/r/askMRP31/12/22 06:22 PM
1

She either gets on board with them or she doesn’t but the ship stays the course. What happens if she consistently doesn’t get on board? Then, what do you do?
/r/askMRP31/12/22 02:07 AM
1

No, you’re still missing the point. Re-read what r/hornsofapathy said about boundaries and then reply what that means to you in your own words.
/r/askMRP30/12/22 07:39 PM
1

Ok so you see where you messed up, now how can you fix it?
/r/askMRP27/12/22 12:05 AM
2

Good
/r/askMRP27/12/22 12:03 AM
9

Because it’s their natural evolutionary desire. Does the “why” really matter though. It just is that way.
/r/askMRP25/12/22 08:45 PM
3

Keep DEERing Bro Play stupid games, win stupid prizes
/r/askMRP24/12/22 04:20 AM
14

Long distance relationships are for guys with scarcity mentality. Period. Add to that it sounds like the reason you are thinking about breaking up is because you are scared she will cheat. Well, she will. There, now move on.
/r/askMRP23/12/22 06:27 AM
2

I almost guarantee you are DEERing, not going broken record . What is she doing exactly that you plan on telling her not to do?
/r/askMRP23/12/22 06:25 AM
1

You’re rationalizing/excusing her alcoholism. You said she has a history of alcohol problems. It’s progressive and getting worse. The tv noise is just the excuse she give you to drink in private. This is classic enabling.
/r/askMRP22/12/22 11:22 PM
3

Where do you suppose you failed that made her want to control the relationship?
/r/askMRP21/12/22 05:44 AM
15

First there were shit tests and comfort tests. Now, evidently there are Sam’s Club tests.
/r/askMRP21/12/22 01:24 AM
1

Take the lead if that’s what you want. If you don’t, let her. You could just say, “well, if that’s what you want, I won’t stop you,” and then STFU. She will probably try to get you to talk more after you say that. It’s important you STFU after saying that
/r/askMRP21/12/22 12:36 AM
1

You don’t state your position. If she wants out, let her go. Stating your position by saying it will be better this time is practically begging. It’s weak, and women don’t respect that kind of weakness. The only correct answer when a woman says she wants a divorce is “the door is right there.” The ironic thing is if you respond that way she probably won’t want a divorce. Ask me how I know.
/r/askMRP20/12/22 11:51 PM
9

Here’s where you went wrong, and it’s a common mistake: Yes maybe I really don't understand you, but that's how I felt. As soon as you added the “but that’s how I felt,” it became DEERing. I’m betting you did a lot of DEERing you thought was fogging. We see it all the time, guys thinking they are using tools, but really they’re just DEERing . This is precisely why stfu is one of the first things you should practice.
/r/askMRP20/12/22 11:37 PM
1

I’m curious… what make you think those are comfort tests and not shit tests. Honestly, it could be either. Need more details. Also, you didn’t go “broken record.” You DEERed
/r/askMRP20/12/22 02:25 AM
3

Yeah dude is coming in very late the game with 1 minute on the clock . He’s down 20-0 and he wants the miracle win. Please show him the cheat code already bro
/r/askMRP20/12/22 02:21 AM
1

What are you going on about? What is your point?
/r/askMRP17/12/22 11:41 PM
24

Choose a blue pill solution like marriage therapy, and you will get blue pill results. It’s that simple.
/r/askMRP14/12/22 07:44 PM
2

This. He’s got one that doesn’t respect his time but will fuck, so he continues it because scarcity mentality. Then, the other one is still trying to decide whether she wants to fuck him, and she’s leaning towards no. So, he really only has one option, we’ll call her his girlfriend who doesn’t respect him.
/r/askMRP14/12/22 07:29 PM
3

The “lol” is a surefire way to tell if someone is a faghot on here
/r/askMRP12/12/22 08:35 PM
1

You’re asking all the wrong questions. What “entitlement” did you let go to your head? Can’t wait to hear the answer to this….
/r/askMRP12/12/22 02:46 AM
14

Man am I glad I didn’t read OP’s post after seeing this comment
/r/askMRP11/12/22 01:05 AM
1

1) Why are you arguing with a woman? 2) You’re living in her frame
/r/askMRP10/12/22 06:35 PM
11

The problem is most never make it to that first step. They mumble AWALT under their breath , and then they have an instant excuse for all their shortcomings going forth… must be AWALT, damn women. And thus, the MGTOW movement was born.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/22 05:42 AM
6

Why is it that every approved MRP man I know kept working out hard during the pandemic, and you seem to think it’s a valid excuse for you to stop lifting?
/r/askMRP20/11/22 04:24 AM
6

All I have to read is the title to know you don’t understand frame. The fact that you think you set a frame in an LTR is inherently out of frame. You can only set frame in yourself.
/r/askMRP17/11/22 09:24 PM
6

The sex part is one of the first areas where newer guys are progress. That’s the easy part, the fixing you part is an ongoing process… years
/r/askMRP17/11/22 08:29 AM
4

She’d probably be happy he was gone tbh
/r/askMRP08/11/22 01:34 AM
14

Read the entire sidebar. We constantly see people rereading the same few books over and over. The sidebar works like a complete unit. When you are done reading the sidebar, start over. You should reread the entire sidebar 3 times before you start trying to dissect books. Read them slowly…. That’s my personal opinion based on what worked for me. It’s better to read a little slower than trying to rush through because you want to finish. That way, you probably won’t feel the need to dissect it. Pra…
/r/askMRP07/11/22 06:15 AM
7

So what exactly are you lying and cheating about if wife and gf are both down?
/r/askMRP05/11/22 03:30 AM
11

Your question is contradictory. You ask what item you can take for yourself, but you are really asking what you can do to save the relationship. Now, go back to the drawing board and think about what you can do for yourself. It’s pretty simple though: Lift Sidebar STFU
/r/askMRP04/11/22 04:37 AM
20

You’ve only been improving for 6 months. She either will or won’t catch up , and if she doesn’t, then you can make a decision.
/r/askMRP02/11/22 11:28 PM
6

We’ve never seen that cocktail before
/r/askMRP02/11/22 05:59 PM
2

You are in a good transition
/r/askMRP31/10/22 11:15 PM
11

It’s normal. My experience is the tests get tricky and unexpected because it’s natural for her to become more crafty as you get better at passing STs. Then, eventually if you keep growing, nothing catches you off guard. You pass them all pretty easily. You’re never gonna be 100%, but close. The key is to just put a pause in there so you aren’t reactive.
/r/askMRP31/10/22 12:49 AM
1

Unfortunately, dread has to include both those elements A) that you can easily if you wanted to B) that you…. Probably wouldn’t, but could Now, passive dread is the way to go. You have been doing things that should create passive dread. B (above) can also be achieved through passive dread and possible a slight change in verbiage. I’m not saying to go full retard and trying to drop hints that you could possibly cheat, but a slight change in verbiage can go a long way… and probably more STFU
/r/askMRP26/10/22 10:29 PM
6

She is not scared one bit that women want to fuck you. And B) She doesn’t think you could game and screw other women if you wanted to - Whether that’s because she thinks you don’t have the gaming ability and attractiveness is the first question. Just because you are meeting hundreds of people and having a decent social life doesn’t mean women want you So — either.. She doesn’t think women do want to screw you OR She doesn’t think you’d do it given the chance) So, question to you… why do you thin…
/r/askMRP26/10/22 09:55 AM
2

Here’s 3: Sidebar Lift STFU If you want the results, you gotta do the work. There are no shortcuts.
/r/askMRP24/10/22 12:46 AM
1

One of the first things RP guys should be doing is identifying covert contracts. The tools have to be seen in the context of them many times to understand when and how to apply them.
/r/askMRP23/10/22 10:29 PM
2

Keep leading until you feel comfortable with leading without the big payoff of her blushing and going wow you’re my hero. Seriously, how can you not see the massive covert contract here?
/r/askMRP23/10/22 05:29 PM
21

You think you are being clever with all those tools you use, but you are doing them to excess. So, when you engage so much, you are basically DEERing. At some point you have to shut it the fuck down. Where and how is up to you. Perhaps before, set her expectations. Many ways to do it. You don’t have to be cheerful all the time. People can see through that facade. Obviously it’s getting to you if you are doing a post on here. You don’t think she can’t see it?
/r/askMRP23/10/22 05:24 PM
4

A troll looking for an invitation to OYS. Gotta give him points for creativity
/r/askMRP17/10/22 03:51 AM
2

MRP welcomes men in LTRs to post in OYS
/r/askMRP16/10/22 11:45 PM
7

You are either trolling or completely blue pill still with zero understanding. You don’t need a woman to fix your shit smh
/r/askMRP16/10/22 08:23 PM
5

You’re misunderstanding spinning plates. When done right, it’s actually way easier than having 1 gf because you aren’t accountable to any of them, so you DNGAF if one or all of them drop off…. Because you’ll just replace them.
/r/askMRP16/10/22 08:12 PM
4

Better question is what makes you think you are?
/r/askMRP16/10/22 08:09 PM
3

It’s a sub-communication/shit test combo. Basically, she’s saying why do you love me so much when I don’t love you so much… but she’s also making sure your mental fitness level hasn’t changed (shit test part). You handle it the same way you’d handle any other shit test. When do you STFU? Always. Especially in your case.
/r/askMRP04/10/22 11:06 PM
3

Then you’re ghay
/r/askMRP27/09/22 06:51 AM
2

True. If he scores enough points he achieves Uber-nice-guy status, and blast onto new high scores
/r/askMRP21/09/22 10:59 AM
6

Don’t count on it any time soon. Frame only comes with work and time. Also, the paradox of frame is you won’t really understand what it is until you have it. Instead, focus on the basics that will lead you to frame: STFU, lift, sidebar
/r/askMRP20/09/22 08:53 PM
3

Yet another guy looking for the cheat codes. 1st you say you’re doing well with STFU, and then when presented with a situation where you should STFU, you DEER and argue instead.
/r/askMRP20/09/22 08:51 PM
4

Sounds like you used to be pretty alpha. Just be alpha again and you should be good to go.
/r/askMRP08/09/22 08:51 PM
2

It’s a long game. Consistent effort is vital, but it’s still going to take you 1 1/2 - 2 yrs to get to a good place MRP-wise. I’ve been at it for 6+ yrs and I’m still learning. It took a lifetime to learn all the blue pill ways, so it’s gonna take a minute to unlearn them.
/r/askMRP03/09/22 07:07 AM
1

The weight loss is one positive even if you lose a little muscle. Muscle memory is a helluva drug.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/22 11:28 PM
5

Leave him alone about lifting. He’s 347 Lbs, 14% BF
/r/askMRP01/09/22 03:09 AM
1

You should already know if she is DTF before bedtime. What does that mean that you swallowed the pill suddenly after 6 months anyway?
/r/askMRP01/09/22 03:00 AM
4

Dude you have some good titles lately
/r/askMRP27/08/22 09:46 PM
2

You have the whole premise wrong thinking you need to ask the right questions, which shows you still have covert contracts for sex. Why the hell are you giving her your playbook? STFU.
/r/askMRP27/08/22 09:45 PM
5

No, taking care of your wife does not mean living in her frame. That’s not the MRP position at all. Frame is an internal state. You can be in your own frame and take care if your wife or you can also be in her frame and attempt to take care of her. You will be much more effective if you are in your own frame. But, really this still looks like a leadership topic to me. So, what is the course of action going forth?
/r/askMRP24/08/22 10:06 AM
6

She basically gave you the ILYBINILWY speech, which is the kiss of death and she’s almost certainly cheating So, how do you be alone without hugging the ONEitis you love? You be alone without the ONEitis you love. Is that overly simplified? No, it’s purposefully simplified. Bottom line is you seem to think since your in shape there must be no other problems with you. Well, then why do you think she’s leaving you? For financial reasons only? I’m pretty sure that was just the final straw, that mad…
/r/askMRP24/08/22 07:43 AM
5

This more of a leadership topic than frame topic based on what you wrote. So, my question to you is how did she react to your advise? Are you trying to say that she reacted well since she was dtf if you had time? I want to make sure I’m understanding your point.
/r/askMRP24/08/22 07:30 AM
1

Lift. 5X5… whatever… just lift. If it was me I would just lift and focus on being about the same weight. Then, 6 months from now 193 would look much better on you. But, it’s not me because I’m not a squid.
/r/askMRP23/08/22 06:47 PM
6

You missed the point yet again. His point is simply STFU.
/r/askMRP12/08/22 10:32 AM
2

No, you’re not getting it. At all. It appears she wants the power because you are failing tests and then she’s forced to take the power. Also, you don’t DEER to avoid going rambo. That makes zero sense. What you do need to do is sTFU. Quit making it complicated. Here is what you need to do: STFU Sidebar Lift. How much lifting are you doing (lifts?). Whatcha sidebar books have you read?
/r/askMRP12/08/22 10:29 AM
3

How are we supposed to know why she pulled back when you have so few details about your behaviors other than these unattractive behaviors: Checking her phone ONEitis Anger issues Clearly not understanding STFU Put all of these together, and you have an insecure man who has his wife as his mental point of origin. Does that sound like a man she would want to fuck? Why are you surprised? Put your head back down and Lift Stfu Sidebar
/r/askMRP10/08/22 05:07 AM
8

Step 1: don’t be butthurt Why would you want to get in an LTR at your age… better yet, at her age. Get to work on the sidebar, lift, stfu
/r/askMRP07/08/22 07:42 PM
13

It is, but he won’t do it
/r/askMRP05/08/22 11:28 PM
8

I had no clue you wanted out until the very end, which tells me you don’t. So many things you wrote suggest you don’t want it to be over. Even your fucking title, “Wife wants out.” What you need to do is accept it is over since if it wasn’t before it is now that you burned down the village. What advice do you need exactly? It’s not complex. Get an attorney and get the divorce going… and quit acting like a butthurt fag£ot.
/r/askMRP05/08/22 11:24 PM
5

LOL all AMRP posts need a title going forth
/r/askMRP05/08/22 11:23 PM
5

Your premise is way off. You don’t need to be a “cuck” while you figure it out. You should practice STFU because you’ve likely been DEERring for years (whether you know it yet or not) You should be lifting You should be reading the sidebar. You will improve slowly if you do those things. It’s not like you need to reach a certain level with your head in the sand. Not sure what gave you that idea, but you misread it severely.
/r/askMRP02/08/22 02:14 AM
2

They don’t end. They just become effortless on your part if you’re doing it right. The fact that you have rage during them is a sign you have a long way to go. You should effortlessly get to a place of neutrality.
/r/askMRP31/07/22 12:19 AM
12

Do what is comfortable and efficient for you. I’ll caution you that generally a bunch of mumbo jumbo isn’t going to help you much when it comes to MRP though. Do the readings - the entire sidebar. Stick to the basics: STFU Sidebar Lift If you want to write while you do those things, have at it. Develop a mission, and everything should revolve around that mission.
/r/askMRP26/07/22 04:58 AM
11

Why would you want another relationship when you are having your cake and eating it too already?
/r/askMRP20/07/22 11:47 AM
2

Don’t believe that everything said in every book on the sidebar is accurate. They are all great books, but they also have flaws. This is a perfect example. Get through the sidebar and don’t overthink it.
/r/askMRP20/07/22 06:43 AM
2

Shit test and manipulation are 2 very different things
/r/askMRP20/07/22 06:39 AM
3

That’s not how shit tests work
/r/askMRP20/07/22 05:25 AM
7

Means nothing. Many women will even increase sexual activity while they are having an affair.
/r/askMRP20/07/22 05:23 AM
2

The medium is the message, correct. But, the messages are likely: 1) She feels guilty 2) She’s keeping you on the back burner in case “he” doesn’t work out You need to let it go man. You are t trying to see messages that aren’t there.
/r/askMRP20/07/22 05:22 AM
5

What would you do for a Klondike bar though?
/r/askMRP20/07/22 05:18 AM
17

Economized words perfectly. It can’t be said any better than this
/r/askMRP19/07/22 09:42 PM
4

You forgot the natural alpha part
/r/askMRP15/07/22 11:55 PM
12

Are you fucking her brother-in-law and other family members? How is that even a factor to keep you with a chick who is disrespectful and almost certainly fucking other guys? You presented mostly factors not even related to her other than your gay “checked boxes.” Checked boxes is something women do. Move on. I know you won’t though.
/r/askMRP15/07/22 08:34 PM
20

1) wife says she wants the kids passport or she’s filing for divorce. 2) OP call her bluff and files for divorce himself, but he doesn’t really want to get divorced 3) wife has a bunch of crazy divorce demands, which shows she basically has been thinking about it for a while and is relieved that he filed. 4) OP comes on here asking for what are the signs of her being invested. OP should instead focus on all the signs that she’s not invested Also, OP… “applying dread?!?!” First off, you don’t “ap…
/r/askMRP12/07/22 11:33 PM
9

Listen man, I’m gonna be straight up here. You already admitted you are probably in denial… be careful not to take so much responsibility that it sends you even deeper into denial. It’s obvious to anyone with half a brain that she’s cheating on you. Figure out whether you can live with that. Spoiler alert: most guys can’t. They try to tell themselves they can, but it eats away at them. I can already see you are going down rabbit holes. If you can’t deal with it, cut your losses and then just kee…
/r/askMRP11/07/22 12:14 AM
6

No man, SBIII was spot on. You need to seriously consider what he said. Throw away that brutally honest elevator pitch
/r/askMRP10/07/22 06:13 PM
3

Assume the divorce is happening. You are acting more like you don’t think it’s happening. That could get you blindsided in various ways. What are the reasons she said she wants the divorce? Did she say “I love you but I’m not in love with you?”
/r/askMRP02/07/22 03:01 AM
6

Yet you have time to DEER to internet strangers for 2 days straight.
/r/askMRP01/07/22 04:49 AM
3

The fact that you didn’t respond as to whether or not you normally post with another account pretty much tells me you do have another account you normally use to post on her and other Reddit pages
/r/askMRP01/07/22 12:21 AM
4

I’m guessing you have another account you normally post with on here. I said simple, not easy. It’s a simple solution but hard to implement
/r/askMRP30/06/22 04:59 PM
9

You have no comment or post history, and you’re DEERing all over this thread man. You have basically shot down all the advice you’ve been given and some of it is solid. It seems the biggest issue is she hates her job. That’s a simple fix - find a new one. In the meantime, be a stoic rock and don’t get drawn into her emotions. That goes a long way in leading.
/r/askMRP30/06/22 06:26 AM
9

Tl;DR I live in my wife’s frame and emotions
/r/askMRP29/06/22 08:56 PM
5

Ask the person who was telling you that. I was just explaining to you what he meant.
/r/askMRP24/06/22 02:59 AM
8

Not even close to what he was saying He’s saying you are getting good advice and not using any of it or working at it…. So it’s a waste of time for people to provide it.
/r/askMRP24/06/22 02:22 AM
36

You should probably put all the pros and cons into a spreadsheet, and then do an algebraic equation to figure this out.
/r/askMRP19/06/22 04:01 AM
14

What a train wreck. I couldn’t even finish it. Dude, she wanted to fuck, and you were too busy rubbing her clit for 20 minutes. DEERing - check Negotiating sex - check Not using kino, 10 second kiss… etc throughout the days to build tension- check Initiating at bedtime - check You are not getting it. You are listening to her words, but if you read between the lines, what she’s really saying is quit being such a faggo#. Quit using words and listening to her mouth noises. More action, less talk. A…
/r/askMRP17/06/22 08:36 PM
3

The correct answer is it’s none of their fucking business. Also, if you are not happy with her, leave. If your kids watch you be unhappy in a relationship and stay, all you are doing is teaching them how to stay in an unhappy relationship. You say that you have a strong frame, but I find that impossible to believe when you can’t even stfu when her mother attacks you. Then you set up a meeting with her dad??? Holy hell man, this is about as weak framed as you can get. Stop caring what they think.
/r/askMRP16/06/22 04:22 AM
3

Moonshine is preferred
/r/askMRP14/06/22 11:09 PM
5

No, if you aren’t getting proper sex on the regular, you are missing something. Hard to say what. If I was to guess it would be related to your frame. Could be one or more of several things. But the short answer is no, you shouldn’t need big wins to get proper sex.
/r/askMRP14/06/22 04:55 PM
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The fact that you are weighing income as a RP measure of attractiveness… This whole post feels more like a humblebrag than anything else, confirmed by you DEERing when someone called out the financial piece.
/r/askMRP14/06/22 04:46 PM
4

Your question was answered, and then you went on to post more retar#ed shit. Did you expect the top commenter to revise his comment?
/r/askMRP14/06/22 07:05 AM
2

You gave zero details about your marriage or relationship, and you haven’t said how long you’ve been at MRP. I’m guessing not long: in any case, it sounds like you’ve struggled socially your whole life. That’s not going to be an easy fix, but it is fixable. Set your expectations accordingly… that it is not going to happen overnight. Work on small improvements, small victories. Finally, Quit giving so many fucks what other people think. Read “the subtle art of not giving a f#*k.” What’s your heig…
/r/askMRP13/06/22 06:03 AM
2

Yeah that’s a start. But, it wasn’t the moment that got you in trouble. Lots of work ahead. Going back to the trading analogy, it was thinking they knew a lot more than they actually did that got them in trouble. It wasn’t the moment they made the actual trade. This is why we say start wit STFU, lift, and sidebar.
/r/askMRP12/06/22 11:51 PM
5

This reminds me of when I was a seasoned stock trader, and nee traders would make a horrible trade… they’d be down 75% looking for advice. Too late for advice at that point. In your situation, there’s not nearly enough context give for “advice.”
/r/askMRP12/06/22 07:41 PM
2

Still a victim line, even in that context. You’re not fucked because you have a lot of work: you’re lucky because you realize it’s so you can get started. Trust me, it may seem like splitting hairs, but that change in mentality is important
/r/askMRP02/06/22 06:21 AM
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Ok, so you showed potential right there (for the first time) with that reply… other than the whole victim thing at the end how you’re fucked Now, get to work Lift, sidebar, stfu
/r/askMRP01/06/22 01:34 AM
3

Guess which sex usually wants the other one to read their mind like you did when you didn’t tell her you wanted her to wait so you can ride? You have a 50/50 chance at the right answer.
/r/askMRP31/05/22 10:30 PM
2

Your analysis is off either way
/r/askMRP30/05/22 07:08 AM
7

First off, anyone who says they are alpha isn’t. We’ve learned that time and time again on here. But, then you confirmed it as you obviously are mistaking all those situations to mean you are alpha. But, If you still aren’t convinced, how do you think you were alpha and then your wife stopped having sex with you right after the honeymoon. The answer is the only reason she fucked you in the first place is she saw you as beta husband material. AKA beta bux… and by the sounds of it, she was right. …
/r/askMRP30/05/22 07:00 AM
4

Either way, you’d be way quicker at 200 lbs. I’m 6’1”, 202, and my lifts are more.
/r/askMRP29/05/22 04:57 AM
6

What is the point of all this mental mastrubation? Be attractive Don’t be a BP beta Once you do that, you won’t wonder about nonsense like this post since it will be so irrelevant to you.
/r/askMRP29/05/22 03:37 AM
4

I didn’t read it all, but upvoted for your name
/r/askMRP27/05/22 10:12 PM
6

First off, those aren’t shit tests. Shit tests don’t have to do with logistics. They are tests to see if she wants to continue fucking you. What you are experiencing is not shit tests… it is disrespect. She doesn’t respect you. Big difference. Secondly, you have no frame, and that is why you get so butthurt. Here’s the cycle: no frame,act butthurt, she can’t respect a man with no frame and gets butthurt so easily. Rinse, repeat.
/r/askMRP27/05/22 07:15 AM
7

Tbh I would love the excuse You’re probably lightening quick at 285 lbs.
/r/askMRP27/05/22 07:04 AM
2

That’s great, but you’re next step is internalizing … frame
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/22 05:38 PM
2

All the stuff you mentioned to improve are external. MRP is an inside job So, basically you missed the whole point.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/22 06:07 AM
4

He lifts forks and spoons
/r/askMRP18/05/22 07:20 AM
2

Did you put your sick in a ritualistic bath before you fucked her in the ass? I’m assuming you did after….
/r/askMRP18/05/22 07:20 AM
2

It means she won’t let him touch her cuz he’s a fat fuck
/r/askMRP18/05/22 07:18 AM
0

As soon as I read the title, I knew this post was horseshit. Wonder how many “she’” and “her” there are in this one.
/r/askMRP08/05/22 09:36 PM
4

Winning
/r/askMRP08/05/22 04:35 PM
3

So you got your answer. Quit wasting everyone’s time here and get to work
/r/askMRP05/05/22 08:53 PM
2

It’s a bunch of MRP buzz terms without any specific examples
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/22 09:26 PM
2

I’m gonna tell you the truth. Over the years on MRP, I’ve seen your type of scenario many times, and I can almost guarantee you will stay with her if she decides to stay with you because she can’t find a better option or her branch breaks. I’ve literally seen it dozens of times. My bottom line advice to you is don’t confuse religion and “signs” with knowing when to dump a cheating whore. Get mentally ready. I know you think you are, but you aren’t there yet.
/r/askMRP04/05/22 03:10 AM
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Ok, that tells it all. She’s buttering you up to make sure the divorce goes smoothly and putting you on the back burner in case the new guy doesn’t work out. Have some self-dignity and don’t be put on a back burner. “Fell out of love” is the equivalent of ILYBINILWY (I love you but I’m not in love with you), which translates to she’s cheating. Always.
/r/askMRP03/05/22 05:47 AM
2

Not nearly enough info here. For starters, Why are you separated and who initiated it?
/r/askMRP03/05/22 05:26 AM
3

Bunch of guys looking for that frame cheat code. Let us all know if you find it. In the meantime, Sidebar, lift, stfu
/r/askMRP02/05/22 08:30 PM
4

Have you read any of the sidebar yet? I’m guess no and your post shows it. STFU pissing her off? Good. Thats a start. Keep working on it. MRP is a long game. It’s going to take a year or 2 of solid work before you start seeing real progress.
/r/askMRP02/05/22 05:46 AM
13

You’re not understanding dread. Dread is something that happens naturally because you are a quality man.
/r/askMRP30/04/22 07:19 PM
3

And you’re wondering how to be bot butthurt by your wife. Start with not being butthurt by internet strangers. How? By not deleting your posts. Sit in that butthurt. Feel it, until it gets better
/r/askMRP28/04/22 04:51 AM
10

You clearly don’t understand what frame is. If you had good frame, this type of joke wouldn’t bother you
/r/askMRP27/04/22 07:25 AM
1

For sure, honestly giving way too many fucks is your biggest problem. You start building frame by not giving so many fucks about what others think
/r/askMRP26/04/22 06:01 AM
1

You were self conscious from the time you put your faggoty bands into the suitcase, to the time you were scared to go work out because they were all watching you, to the time you decided to do more than 2 sets of push ups. This is what total lack of frame looks like. Give way less fucks. Remedy book: the subtle art of not giving a f*ck Oh, and by the way if you were working out hard and in shape you wouldn’t need to work out on vacation
/r/askMRP22/04/22 08:51 AM
1

Actually the one above it from SBIII was the constructive response because it was honest and pointed out how ridiculous your post was. You clearly have done much work because becoming “outcome independent “ is an early stage of the MRP work. That means that you shouldn’t care what your mom thinks about your tattoos. That is where you need to get, to a place where she no longer has control over your emotions.
/r/askMRP21/04/22 11:57 PM
2

Wait… “could be leaner” isn’t a BF percentage? This MRP stuff is so confusing
/r/askMRP21/04/22 11:51 PM
5

This might be the best and most accurate thing I read on here in the last 6 months
/r/askMRP21/04/22 11:46 PM
1

You sound so alpha bro. We’re all pretty impressed. Mission accomplished?.
/r/askMRP10/04/22 09:40 PM
5

Red flag 1 You’re in a long distance relationship Red flag 2 You’re focusing on her job/career more than your own Red flag 3 You have a lot to lose by moving there and she has absolutely nothing to lose Red flag 4 You are considering sacrificing your future culture/heritage What could go wrong?
/r/askMRP10/04/22 08:26 PM
2

Sounds like this post wasn’t a total loss. That’s a big realization
/r/askMRP09/04/22 06:34 PM
2

Fair enough if I missed that, but if you did say it I also saw a lot of subtle excuses sprinkled in your responses. Just keep some self awareness of that is my suggestion
/r/askMRP09/04/22 06:17 PM
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Don’t be so hard on yourself. The fact you are recognizing bitch mode, even before the event is done is more than most guys can say. I don’t follow your story, but I’d be willing to bet you are progressing. Remember, it took a lifetime to become a bitch, so it’s gonna take a minute to undo it.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/22 10:09 PM
3

Dude I love that you are doing MRP at 69. You’re gonna be that 70 yr old in the gym pumping iron in a year
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/22 10:02 PM
1

No, he demands answers bro. 3 more answers and he will have the cheat code.
/r/askMRP08/04/22 09:58 PM
3

OK the question you asked whether lifting 1 day a week and rolling 2 was sufficient, and the consistent answer you’re getting is no, lift instead… but you don’t want to accept that. Why even post the question if you don’t want to accept the answer?
/r/askMRP08/04/22 02:41 PM
2

Damn dude you’re way more than 15 lbs overweight. You need to be lifting way harder, bump up your protein, eat clean. You need to be around 150 lbs
/r/askMRP08/04/22 02:08 PM
2

Hold off on JJ until you are your ideal weight. What are your lifts ?
/r/askMRP08/04/22 07:43 AM
5

Nailed it. And the fact that he’s bragging about it an AMRP post, suggests that he has a long way to go on sidebar, frame, STFU Lifting is a very small part of doing the deal, but it is still a very important part. If you don’t have the other parts, it’s almost meaningless
/r/askMRP07/04/22 04:55 AM
3

I read your 0YS, and you were giving way too much credibility to what she says. It’s standard shit test stuff that she is saying to you, and you are failing miserably. If my wife ever said any that shit to me, I would literally just laugh, and she would forget about it the next day. STFU is your first task (besides lifting and sidebar). Master it Oh, and by the way you are probably 25% BF with those lifts at your height and weight
/r/askMRP07/04/22 04:52 AM
1

You seem to be looking for a cheat code. He gave you a decent answer. Start working on operating out of your frame. Step 1 - STFU
/r/askMRP04/04/22 05:57 PM
1

Sounds like you are probably her best girlfriend arguing all this stuff with her. Do you two make up after each massive fight and go get facials?
/r/askMRP04/04/22 02:01 AM
2

You’re asking the wrong question. That’s why you got that answer
/r/askMRP02/04/22 04:31 PM
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You haven’t really given any details, so how are we supposed to help you? What work have you done on yourself? Most often, women are disrespectful when their man lacks frame. What have you read on the sidebar? What are the issues, and what changes have you made?
/r/askMRP01/04/22 07:21 AM
2

The thing a lot of fag#it’s can’t get through their thick skull is “read the ENTIRE sidebar.” They want to pick and choose or read the same 3-4 books over and over. And then they’re scratching their heads why they aren’t getting better.
/r/askMRP25/03/22 09:05 PM
1

It’s been on the sidebar for a couple years
/r/askMRP24/03/22 09:01 PM
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It’s on our sidebar for a reason. Read it.
/r/askMRP24/03/22 12:33 PM
2

You’re too younger be exclusive with a chick that has the issues you describe. There is a chance she will never get over them. Enjoy your youth- have fun. If she’s really into you like you say, she will get pst her issues… then, and only then should you even consider being exclusive. Do a pro/con list of going exclusive at all at your age.
/r/askMRP19/03/22 06:21 AM
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I’m calling BS on you currently fucking other “plates.” You have a scarcity oneitis mentality for this chick.
/r/askMRP18/03/22 03:15 PM
2

He should start slow, with a pic of his moobs
/r/askMRP16/03/22 08:43 PM
1

That’s cute that you linked a BP article in a RP page
/r/askMRP12/03/22 07:53 PM
3

Guy loses his shit in front of his wife over a parking spot and then asks internet strangers if he handled it correctly. Edit: then, he gets butthurt when the internet strangers tell him the truth and he downvotes them
/r/askMRP07/03/22 09:34 PM
2

Calm down. This is normal. Just stop doing it, stfu. Don’t have any further discussion with her about it. Let it blow over. Might take a few days.
/r/askMRP07/03/22 09:27 PM
2

You are nowhere near dread 6 if you can’t even get your wife to watch the kid alone Also, your lifts/height/weight puts you at least 25% BF At 14 months, you should be farther along. Focus on STFU, getting those lifts up, and practicing (not just reading) the sidebar.
/r/askMRP05/03/22 04:27 AM
1

Total garbage post. NPD - ok, that’s the current buzz term. Cool story bro. Lots of “her” and “she” - no accountability. Do the work and grow up.
/r/askMRP03/03/22 08:42 PM
2

My gut tells me that I am fighting against a natural progression of things (non-monogamous --> monogamous --> living together = no sex) My gut tells me you are making excuses for being unattractive because I’m married 13 yrs and my wife has sex whenever I want But if you want the truth, the chance she’s cheating and getting ready to branch-swing is very high… but that’s on you for not being attractive.
/r/askMRP03/03/22 04:31 AM
2

My money says she’s not on the lease
/r/askMRP03/03/22 04:28 AM
1

Highly likely
/r/askMRP03/03/22 04:26 AM
1

Dripping with sarcasm… nice
/r/askMRP17/02/22 01:30 PM
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It’s over. You just don’t know it yet.
/r/askMRP15/02/22 08:03 PM
9

So instead of working on your frame and STFU, lift, and sidebar, you decide you want a separation the first time she swears at you.
/r/askMRP15/02/22 05:49 AM
1

Read the entire sidebar and then read it again.
/r/askMRP13/02/22 08:02 PM
5

She’s giving you the silent treatment because you most likely acted like a woman during the desk argument. 3 days is a long time, and she’s obviously not missing your attention. Sooo…. Be attractive Don’t be unattractive
/r/askMRP12/02/22 11:44 PM
4

We were wondering where you were on discord bro. We need you back….
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/22 06:59 AM
6

I vote for ban
/r/askMRP07/02/22 08:57 PM
7

Garbage post
/r/askMRP06/02/22 06:41 PM
2

Rinse, repeat (the whole sidebar) and what /U/tyred_biggums becomes low hanging fruit
/r/askMRP01/02/22 08:49 PM
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The secret is lift, sidebar, and stfu… not a well kept secret
/r/askMRP01/02/22 08:15 PM
1

Bro you are so far from home. Finish the sidebar. Then start over.
/r/askMRP01/02/22 05:47 AM
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Wtf bro… you are misunderstanding pretty much every term you used. I don’t even know where to start. Removing time and attention doesn’t mean you evade talking to her about things. If you don’t like something, have a fucking conversation.
/r/askMRP31/01/22 09:17 PM
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She doesn’t find you attractive- your frame or just you in general. You can’t write everything off to just being a shit test. When you get attractive she will get pissed when you dont squeeze her ass.
/r/askMRP28/01/22 07:46 PM
2

Stick to A&A to start until you get good at it
/r/askMRP26/01/22 10:43 PM
2

Stfu doesn’t mean go mute. It means you use A&A, amused mastery, short answers… etc. Your problem is you are misunderstanding stfu so you don’t know how to apply it. An even bigger problem is you take her way to seriously. She is bored to death of you and repulsed… that’s why she’d rather go to work than hang out with you. Work on being more fun - for yourself, not for her. That will solve most of your problems
/r/askMRP26/01/22 06:39 AM
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MRP saves the man, not the marriage Get to work. Save yourself. Sidebar, lift, STFU
/r/askMRP17/01/22 07:53 PM
1

Yeah, and he says it like its a flex…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/22 05:08 AM
2

Even if folks read the guide, if they aren't doing anything or reading but not acting, they still won't be able to get their act together and make any progress. I agree with this, but most of them aren’t even completing the sidebar readings.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/22 05:04 AM
1

The behavior you described is beyond moody. She’s straight up ignoring you in favor of her phone.
/r/askMRP15/01/22 06:18 AM
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You didn’t mention her experiencing any kind of passive dread from your gains. For example, does she frequently vocalize her fear of you having sex with other, in better shape women? If dread is missing or not strong enough, she will never follow through with fitness - pretty much how you described. If dread isn’t strong, you have to ask yourself why. EDIT: Just checked your history and you have your BF% listed at 15-20%. Very big difference between 15 and 20% my man. With your lifts I’m thinkin…
/r/askMRP15/01/22 05:29 AM
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She’s not into you You are completely in her frame. You seem to care about her mood more than your own Be attractive Don’t be unattractive Check to see if you are possibly gay (no judgement)
/r/askMRP13/01/22 08:35 PM
4

You want canned answers on the extremes. It doesn’t work that way as every situation is different. You need to figure out when and how you need to speak up according to your specific situation. An internet stranger can’t know your situation as well as you. Sometimes it’s just trial and error. If what you are doing isn’t working, try something different.
/r/askMRP07/01/22 10:09 PM
8

She said you were boring and I suspect she says other similar things… so instead of just enjoying some silence of the car ride, you felt obligated to entertain her. If you were in your own frame, you wouldn’t care if she thought you were boring or not - you’d just enjoy some peace and quiet in the car ride. Also, if you respond in any way to that shit test other than STFU or laugh (a genuine DNGAF laugh, not a fake one), you failed the test.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/22 06:22 AM
1

Height: 6', 231 lbs, 25.6% BF (scales) Your lifts don’t support this… not even close. Quit lying to either us or yourself and lose the weight.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/22 08:15 PM
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He’s completely in her frame still… she’s even taken away a little silence in his head
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/22 08:10 PM
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u/hornsofapathy is right. You got the ILYBINILWY speech, which almost always means there’s another man and she’s attempting a branch swing. Everything she said beyond that is just mouth noises- don’t listen to them. We’ve literally seen this hundreds of times and it’s always another man. Don’t bother asking her or accusing her of being with another man because she will never admit it. Never. She will try to convince you she isn’t, and she will manipulate you into thinking there isn’t.
/r/askMRP27/12/21 06:16 AM
3

You need to ask yourself why you need her validation. Also, don’t rely o the other’s validation, even if they are telling you that you are awesome. It’s not the way. The big turning point is when you have internal abundance and you are happy with the progress you have made… but, you are still pushing forth. You are not there yet. You’ll know when you are there when people give you negative feedback and you DNGAF because you know the truth.
/r/askMRP23/10/21 04:15 PM
7

Not only in my marriage but I find myself doing this a lot at work. Well stop then … Or do your emotions control you like they control women? I don’t like painting. I let her paint. But she was leaving globs of paint on the floor and on the wall. I pointed it out and she got pissed. You are a special type of tard who doesn’t understand leadership by example. I stopped otherwise it ends in a fight. but now I’m left with globs of paint to scrape off the new tile. You don’t think she would clean it…
/r/askMRP18/10/21 07:45 AM
12

Step 1 Be attractive Step 2 Don’t be unattractive How? The whole sidebar, lift, STFU
/r/askMRP08/10/21 08:21 PM
4

No he’s spot on when he said You know nothing of what advice has been bestowed on you You won’t get this type of brutally honest yet pinpoint accurate advice anywhere else
/r/askMRP29/09/21 10:14 PM
4

As others have said, you are unattractive. Your ex is either just stringing you along for her ego or keeping you as a possible backup. She agreed to an open marriage because she wants to have sex with other, more attractive men You will find this out the hard way. She is just waiting for you to get laid first, but I have a feeling she might be waiting quite a while She will have way more options than you in an open marriage. Women can basically get laid whenever they want. Men almost always end …
/r/askMRP29/09/21 08:29 PM
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I’m going to break this down simply with bullet points: B is playing you, making you compete with other men. Don’t ever play this game Your stats are weak A left you, you didn’t leave her You have severe ONEitis for A, and she’s also playing you, stringing you along - Keeping you as an option on the back burner This is all needy behavior, and you clearly view both A and B as the prizes . They both view you as a back up option When a relationship advice thread’s comments are more red pill than yo…
/r/askMRP29/09/21 12:05 PM
5

Yeah you’re making it way too complex. Here’s an example of frame. Earlier today, wife says to me “why are you changing your underwear when we are about to have sex?” I don’t even think about it, don’t even get rattled in the slightest and immediately say “don’t talk back.” She says nothing. She was already wet before I even touched her. It’s not because I said the perfect thing. It’s because I have a strong frame proven over a long period of time that she knows is genuine and not LARPING. Frame…
/r/askMRP27/09/21 12:23 AM
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I can tell just by your title you have no idea what frame is
/r/askMRP26/09/21 09:29 PM
6

You pretty much made no mention about how MRP has impacted you to be a better man, and what you are doing to improve yourself. How are you handling shit-tests (specifically) Are you working on your weight issue? What are your lifts What books have you read, and what did you learn Which areas have you made progress and which are you specifically working on? This isn’t fucking Deadbedrooms, where are you come in here and bitch about how you don’t like things are going in your marriage and take no …
/r/askMRP18/09/21 08:55 PM
1

No way is this dude 22% BF. Notice how lifts were left out.
/r/askMRP18/09/21 08:50 PM
4

Spoiler alert 1 time means nothing. It will take many times before you really start getting it. I know you think you get it now, but you don’t
/r/askMRP12/09/21 11:14 PM
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The thing you don’t seem to understand about boundaries is without a matching consequence (the consequence should match the severity), you actually don’t have any boundary. None First, decide whether you want to go by yourself or just stay home Don’t go because you want to punish her. Instead, go because you want to go, or don’t go because you don’t want to go alone. Next, You have already set an ultimatum, but once again you don’t have a boundary because you haven’t given her a time to do it by…
/r/askMRP11/09/21 11:14 PM
12

Jesus what a bunch of garbage. I’ll keep it simple for you since you obviously like to make things complex…. You won’t be able to define frame until you have it. You won’t understand frame until you have it. But, even then, it will be difficult to describe it to someone else who doesn’t have it.
/r/askMRP05/09/21 09:10 PM
2

Yes, I’m almost positive it’s evolutionary. In the hunter days, you don’t get a day off if you got the sniffles, and you sure as fuck don’t ask her to fill in for you hunting.
/r/askMRP31/08/21 11:38 PM
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If you don’t feel like there is a benefit, then why the fuck are you in a relationship?
/r/askMRP31/08/21 11:35 PM
13

You are looking for a magic bandaid instead of fixing the core issues Frame lift STFU I’m a fan of Kino, but make sure you are doing it correctly. Research it.
/r/askMRP30/08/21 09:51 PM
2

Doesn’t matter who’s name anything is under if it’s a community property state, which most are… everything is divided 50/50
/r/askMRP30/08/21 12:28 AM
9

As usual, You are not asking the right question. First, define how unattractive you are physically first. Secondly, you should start by working on your game at a minimum… for example your kino game, your frame (yes, having a strong frame is a part of game), your social game (with males and females), your flirting game… etc. Getting that down is half the battle.
/r/askMRP26/08/21 06:07 AM
3

I haven’t even gone on TRP for months. It’s become a joke
/r/askMRP24/08/21 05:04 AM
2

“Dread game” This is a huge red flag. What do you mean by dread game. You are obviously misunderstanding dread, but if you tell me what you mean by that exactly I can point you in the right direction.
/r/askMRP24/08/21 03:08 AM
4

You are not going to internalize anything from this post. But, you need to understand these two principles so you can put them in to practice: never expect a woman to take care of you when you’re sick, so do whatever you can on your own. check yourself for covert contracts, which you clearly have here. Wax on, wax off…
/r/askMRP22/08/21 08:02 PM
4

No, the way she acted towards you was exactly what I’d predict given the way you were behaving. It’s female nature to react that way. I’ve been on MRP for over 5 years and it is a common theme. I suggest lowering your expectations and doing what you can yourself when you are sick. Are you on here to get answers to your questions or to dispute all the answers you get because you are apparently smarter than us?
/r/askMRP22/08/21 06:40 AM
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Never expect a woman to take care of you when you are sick. Anyone but how been around MRP and done the work knows that’s an AWALT You are mad at her for her female nature, which makes as much sense as being mad at a dog for not acting like a cat.
/r/askMRP22/08/21 03:42 AM
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I’m going to pinpoint exactly where you have a huge problem, so pay attention re#ard: I took care of the kids. Told her to go rest. Picked her up some food and flowers. Because I wanted to. You got her flowers because you wanted to? What a nice guy Did you also take care of her while she was sick because you wanted to? Or did you get resentful when she didn’t reciprocate? Research covert contracts on MRP
/r/askMRP21/08/21 09:08 PM
2

I know where you are. I’ve been there… years ago. You need to have more patience- don’t expect to get it right now, or even this year… it comes slowly, and it comes in layers. The reason you are having a hard time with STFU is because you have years of practice DEERING. So, you need to reverse that habit? And that takes time… months, maybe even a year or 2 before you really know and understand. Just have patience and progress slowly
/r/askMRP19/08/21 03:02 AM
2

You are LARPing. You do not understand frame because you don’t have it. That’s the paradox… you can’t possibly understand until you have it. You can’t get frame from reading. You get it from practice Start with practicing STFU… harder than it sounds. Then, work on A&A and amused mastery. It takes time and practice. Quit trying to outsmart it. Instead , do it Expect a lot more frustration…
/r/askMRP19/08/21 02:53 AM
1

I have never done a cut so that will take some research. Bump up protein. Cut out sugar. Shoot for 2 pounds a week. You will start noticing a difference in 2-3 weeks in your abs and definition with 4-6 pounds. Don’t try to go too fast, you’ll likely sacrifice muscle. What I do is lose the 4-5 pounds in 4-5 days and then replenish up 2-3 pounds over a couple days. Keep doing that until you reach your goal weight. Most importantly, do the same or harder weight workouts even if you have to struggle…
/r/askMRP13/08/21 07:54 PM
1

You are already in skinny-fat territory with those numbers. The benefit is if you cut to 170 first and then start bulking up uour appearance will be much better when you bulk back to 190. I don’t see any reason for you to go over 190. In that scenario, a 20 pound bulk is substantial. I mean you could go to 175-80 and then bulk… but the point is you’re better off getting leaner first. You are going to have to cut either way so you might as well keep a decent appearance over a longer time.
/r/askMRP12/08/21 10:11 PM
1

My goal is 200 before I cut. Your numbers are weak for 185. You should focus on maybe going to 190 but with 5 pounds of muscle. Either that or cut to 170 and then bulk up to 190 over a period of 6 months- year.
/r/askMRP12/08/21 09:55 PM
3

That’s not frame. This ^
/r/askMRP11/08/21 10:18 PM
12

So you tried something different and got a different result. Take note, au#istic r#tards.
/r/askMRP06/08/21 07:36 PM
6

Yeah man, pretty sure the other comments made it clear that she used you and now she wants to spit you back out. Expect a bunch of drama coming. She will try to make you think you are horrible (she already is) but that’s just part of the game she is playing. She has no intention of staying with you, so she’s going to try to escalate. The only reason she would possibly show up in 4 days or whatever is if she can’t escalate it “over the phone” enough. Don’t fall for any of this bush league bullshi…
/r/askMRP05/08/21 04:12 AM
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YOU are headed for a dead bedroom. Just you. She sounds like she can suck and fuck and take it up the ass like a champ... she will be fine. Gold
/r/askMRP31/07/21 02:20 AM
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I’ve been in this situation, and I know how hard it is to not say something. Top comment is 100% right. Bite your tongue at all costs and don’t say anything. This is something you need to figure out internally. You will never know for sure, so if you are going to stay it’s best to just give her the benefit of the doubt or just realize you were a complete faggo#. My money says you won’t STFU about it… only because I know how hard it is. No offense
/r/askMRP24/07/21 01:31 AM
7

while she’s living under my roof. How’s that mentality working out for you so far? Change your approach
/r/askMRP21/07/21 06:51 PM
2

not experienced enough That’s a bullshit excuse man. Watch some videos, tutorials.. I’m sure there are tons of them. Use your tongue alone maybe Btw, ALL women’s clits are very sensitive. So that’s a BS excuse also. But, as you touched on, you were a faggo# for a long time, so maybe she’s just not there yet. If she met Chad and he went down on her guarantee she’d have her first orgasm Become Chad
/r/askMRP21/07/21 06:49 PM
6

You should totally knock her up and start a family ASAP Don’t get a prenup either… they kill attraction.
/r/askMRP21/07/21 06:44 AM
4

I think I might remember your story. Just really focus on the gym. You’re not skinny-fat. You are on the way, one day at a time. It’s a subtle shift in perspective. TBH you don’t sound like you are ready to spin plates yet - you mill most likely just develope ONEitis at this point. Trust me I’ve seen it, even with very attractive men. Instead, day game just to day game, and work on your frame in social situations. Don’t shy away from uncomfortable social situations and practice keeping frame und…
/r/askMRP18/07/21 11:30 PM
8

Book of Pook is decent from the sidebar You should never stop day gaming, even if you are in a relationship. You need to stay fresh in that area for various reasons. But don’t be in a hurry to get in a relationship. That doesn’t make sense that you have ONEitis and you are the one who filed, so I’m guessing you aren’t telling us some key information. For now, continue to focus on the gym, the sidebar, and take a bunch of time to reflect about how you can improve your life and your frame. Also re…
/r/askMRP18/07/21 07:35 AM
3

Write it off and learn from it. Any other questions?
/r/askMRP17/07/21 09:23 PM
3

All that bullshit negotiating you did will just make it worse. For Christ’s sake, quit DEERing and trying to negotiate sex. It’s quite simple: You are not attractive, whether it’s your frame of physique or a combination. Clearly your frame is weak. Sidebar, lift, stfu. Become attractive
/r/askMRP17/07/21 09:21 PM
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She’s not attracted to you, and she could care less whether you withdraw attention. Much work to be done: Sidebar, Lift, STFU
/r/askMRP17/07/21 05:57 AM
2

He probably met her and is having a relationship with her in his head
/r/askMRP12/07/21 05:29 AM
3

After a while WTF does this even mean... this can be 2 weeks, 2 months, 2 years, 5 years .... This isn’t about your humor. This is about her not being that into you. Women will laugh at every dumb joke you tell if they are into you.
/r/askMRP11/07/21 09:55 PM
4

How the fuck do I counter this move? Follow the levels of dread Do an honest assessment of where you are currently, and then go to the next level or go back to any levels that need work. Don’t hurry it
/r/askMRP11/07/21 04:22 AM
1

You take her too seriously contrary to what you say and what she says. You are trying so hard to convince yourself (and us) that you don’t take her seriously, but your response to her is fake and forced. She knows it. You say you don’t take her seriously, then you say this I love her and I love her so much I tell her, I think to myself that I become a total beta by complimenting her and just going 😍😍😍 over her but yet she feels that. Quit lying to yourself
/r/askMRP11/07/21 04:18 AM
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What’s going on wrong? She is not attracted to you, has no respect for you, and just overall thinks you are pathetic. She was repulsed at your effort to LARP. And honestly, the way you handled it confirmed her beliefs about you. Become a higher value man with better frame before you try something like this
/r/askMRP11/07/21 04:14 AM
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Don’t assume what you read from commenters online represents RP... it has become very diluted and the message has devolved online. Instead, read the sidebar books - those should give you a real idea of what RP is.... something you clearly don’t understand currently.
/r/askMRP01/07/21 06:22 AM
1

Yeah it takes a long time to break the habit. You get better in stages - just try for a little progress. I remember how frustrating it was breaking that habit. I remember it taking many months.
/r/askMRP29/06/21 04:24 AM
1

OP trolling hard
/r/askMRP26/06/21 06:25 PM
3

I should have asked.. do you understand what DEERing is?
/r/askMRP26/06/21 06:23 PM
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First off, giving a weight without a height is meaningless. W: you need to stop two stepping everything M: I didnt two step anything, I put the clothing in the draws in the way that made sense to me How is this focusing on STFU? You are DEERing here... and then you DEERed again later. She owns you. You are responding to her like she’s your boss, so I guess that makes her your boss. Fix the DEERing issue and this should get better.
/r/askMRP26/06/21 02:47 AM
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Hit the sidebar, then if you still have questions submit it here
/r/askMRP23/06/21 11:51 PM
1

Well, you kind of saw it, but your response still misses the mark. A&A should be funny in your head. STFU is not going mute, but just giving a very brief response - if she keeps going, you either stfu or A&A it. Eventually you should get to the point where she is laughing with you. You are not near that yet. It takes a lot of practice and patience... and trial and error. But you are right/ the it care way too much about what she says, so that’s an inside job to NGAF. This is due to a weak frame.…
/r/askMRP21/06/21 09:11 PM
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I was a major drug abuser before. So you switched to alcohol. Check. Get your substance use disorder in control first and foremost. Until you do that you have no chance.
/r/askMRP20/06/21 10:06 PM
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Ok, well you just confirmed you are DEERING (defend, explain, excuse, rationalize). Why do you feel the need to explain? Why do you take her so seriously. Have you tried to A&A this situation?
/r/askMRP20/06/21 06:19 PM
1

And then what do you say to all that?
/r/askMRP20/06/21 12:39 AM
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The first thing you need to understand is it’s not about the reoccurring problem. It’s about her thinking you are a faggo#.... because... well... you are being one. Secondly, It’s not what she’s bringing to the table, but how you are reacting to it. You are most likely DEERING your response, which is causing her to repeat it. You are living in her frame Thirdly, read the sidebar, STFU, and lift. Other than that, you are going to get more specific... maybe give an example of one reoccurring situa…
/r/askMRP19/06/21 10:13 AM
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It’s pretty simple really... become attractive. Attraction is way more than physical. It’s having a strong frame. Read the sidebar and keep lifting. Is that Bench your 1 rep max? You have to start living your life for you. My gut tells me you care about what your circles will think of you get divorced. Losing some $ and a house is by far the better option than staying in a sexless marriage where you aren’t even attracted to her. Do you see your logic here... basically you are saying you want to …
/r/askMRP17/06/21 11:55 PM
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That’s a wrap
/r/askTRP17/06/21 06:54 PM
1

Yeah I believe you are having a hard time implementing them because the tools are ahead of your frame. Once you develop the frame, the tools will just come naturally and effortlessly. Getting better in social situations will improve your frame and increase your confidence. There’s hope for you as long as you keep doing those OYS and practicing frame building. Maybe not necessarily with your current wife because it may be too late (I don’t know but that’s what my gut is telling me), but hope for …
/r/askMRP13/06/21 09:16 PM
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Ok, understand that going through the motions of STFU, A&A, etc. mean nothing without a strong frame. She will see right through it - it’s biological and evolutionary - women are just much better reading and responding to social cues. It’s a big reason why they generally will have stronger frames. So, perhaps you just need more time practicing those while internalizing cues. I suggest day gaming - it’s one of the best and fastest ways to build abundance. Also, hobbies, enhancing your social life…
/r/askMRP13/06/21 07:29 PM
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That was a God damn work of art
/r/askMRP13/06/21 05:24 PM
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Alright kid, listen up. I like you so I’m gonna give you a decent answer. First off, get the fuck out of deadbedrooms- it’s a cancer that will keep you stuck. Secondly, you’re wife isn’t attracted to you, so I’m guessing you are either fat or skinny-fat. But, I digress. Here are the answers I promised: First off (for real this time), you are misunderstanding some basic concepts of MRP. For example: This— This has been really successful to the point that shittests are very rare nowadays Doesn’t j…
/r/askMRP13/06/21 06:42 AM
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General rule is the more desperate you look, the more she will pull a way. It’s a strange paradox, but you will find MRP is filled with paradoxes. At the end of the day, you have to focus on yourself and your future. There is an MRP term we use often “the stay plan should be the same as the go plan.” In other words, start setting up your life to be awesome, but do it for yourself, not to keep the girl... especially in this situation because quite frankly, it sounds like she’s already gone. Keep …
/r/askMRP10/06/21 02:34 AM
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I’m going to be straight up with you my friend... Get off deadbedrooms and the relationship reddit and never look back. They are a cancer to you and your soul You are only 2 weeks in, and /u/HornsofApathy is right. It’s too late Also, almost Guaranteed she’s having sex with someone else. You don’t have to believe it, but we’ve seen this scenario literally hundreds of times, and it always ends the same. She cut off sex but now wants to cool it down? She already cooled it down when she broke her w…
/r/askMRP08/06/21 03:49 AM
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Are you thinking about knocking a woman up so she can be chill? A woman will be whatever you make her, and if you are a fag#ot, she will act like the woman of a fag#ot. You got dumped because she figured out you were a fag#ot. You are looking for external factors (her having a kid) to fix an internal job- doesn’t work that way: Be less of a fag#ot, and any woman you are with will respond positively. Sidebar, lift, OYS weekly posts.
/r/askMRP04/06/21 12:16 AM
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First off, kick your lifting into gear... this is what a teenager might lift. Secondly, in answer to your question, no it’s not a shit-test, it’s genuine disappointment. There is a big difference. Thirdly, driving in a camper for 2 weeks for your honeymoon? I think any woman would be disappointed.
/r/askMRP28/05/21 06:03 AM
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5’7”, 180... but your lifts suggest you are 30% bf. Gtfo with 10%. Nobody is going to take you seriously coming out of the gate with this obvious BS.
/r/askMRP19/05/21 05:15 AM
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First off, no way you are only 15% BF with those lifts. You’re at least 25%. It was weak in the sense that I was rationalising why I was doing that, but wasn’t apologetic in my attitude Saying you weren’t apologetic is basically DEERING to us that you DEERed to her. You have majors Frame issues. You have a lot more work to do before you can go out and nuke shit like this. Hint: it escalated so badly because you need to focus on the basics— STFU, sidebar, and lift. You got way ahead of yourself. …
/r/askMRP16/05/21 08:40 PM
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He only uses plates bro... no need to ever use 25s, 35s, 10s... etc.
/r/askMRP14/05/21 07:42 AM
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If she needs help, do it. If you need help, let her help. You don’t need to ask every time and make a thing about it. This is where you are failing. You have no frame.
/r/askMRP01/05/21 02:52 AM
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Do what you think will work best with your life. It’s that simple. There’s no standard answers. We don’t tell you what major decisions to make in your life. Why would you want internet strangers to make major life changes for you anyway? What are your lifts?
/r/askMRP26/04/21 03:38 AM
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What is really important is you diligently track this on a spreadsheet. Best answer affirmed
/r/askMRP21/04/21 03:45 PM
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You should totally bring one into this world and be the sole person or 2 responsible for one if you “like” kids bro.
/r/askMRP21/04/21 06:45 AM
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But, she’s a snowflake bro. He can’t let this one get away...
/r/askMRP19/04/21 02:03 AM
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Nope, She’s just using the parent thing as an excuse to ride the cock carousel when he’s gone. Next.
/r/askMRP19/04/21 02:01 AM
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It helps a little to vent, but it’s only a bandaid. You need to do the readings, stfu, and lift.
/r/askMRP13/04/21 07:01 PM
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Sure - hit me up on dm if you have other stuff come up
/r/askMRP13/04/21 06:31 PM
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Drops mic
/r/askMRP13/04/21 06:29 PM
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Now I've got thoughts going through my head This is your insecurities creeping in. Take it out on the iron; Get super focused; get your ducks in a row; work on you. If you need it, get a good therapist as this type of thinking can spiral. Just know that the thoughts are BS onc you take the focus off her and start improving yourself- takes time. Sounds like you did pretty good with that situation.
/r/askMRP11/04/21 04:56 PM
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No affection means quit initiating... just so we’re clear. You initiating and constantly getting rejected is about as needy as it gets. If it’s truly over as you say, you should be putting the house up for sale, splitting $ and assets, hooking up/dating... etc. you should be lifting like you are single because you are if you are really separated. Be honest with yourself. BTW, I completely agree with whoever said he is buying time. She gave you the equivalent of the ILYBINILWY speech. She’s done.
/r/askMRP10/04/21 04:47 AM
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Perfect
/r/askMRP07/04/21 04:22 AM
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Excellent
/r/askMRP07/04/21 04:22 AM
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No
/r/askMRP06/04/21 08:33 PM
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I can’t beat this. You win the internet today.
/r/askMRP29/03/21 10:00 PM
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You didn’t give enough context in your post, and then you didn’t give any additional context when asked. You come on here asking questions and then you get defensive when people give answers, observation, and guesses (since you have insufficient info). Hit the sidebar and lift is your answer. It’s really that simple, but it’s work.
/r/askMRP29/03/21 04:56 AM
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Nice. I see what you did there.
/r/askMRP28/03/21 10:45 PM
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Excuses to not work out: Gyms all closed so I walk and do yard work Then, it changed to: Because I can't lift So there’s no possible way, huh? Ok. And also probably wouldn't have time to anyway But you have plenty of time to play your skin fiddle. Which of the excuses is the right one? Since you’re not lifting, you’re likely skinny-fat at 6’, 179 Nobody wants to fuck skinny fat. You need to get your shit together and become fuckable
/r/askMRP28/03/21 10:44 PM
2

But he’s gonna slay pussy bro. Haha- I just noticed your flair. Classic.
/r/askMRP27/03/21 07:18 PM
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It’s clear you have a lot more reading and lifting to do. We need more context. Why did the separation take place? Describe the events that led up to it. Btw, “career alpha” really means you are “Beta bux.” I’m guessing you haven’t been laid outside your marriage. What is stopping you from doing all that “smashing?”
/r/askMRP27/03/21 06:49 AM
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I agree with others who said you got the ILYBINILWY speech. That always means it’s over. Save your dignity and let her go without argument. I know you won’t though. But she’s emotionally checked out- just know that. The fiancé hitting her up around the same time is not a coincidence.
/r/askMRP26/03/21 03:50 AM
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Sounds like you are being viewed as possible beta bux. I’d take a look at that
/r/askMRP25/03/21 12:36 AM
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Agree - this is the key - find something that suits your personality. Having a “look” that fits you doesn’t necessarily have to be expensive or fancy. Some guys can pull off the white t-shirt with jeans and boots and get laid wherever they go because it suits them, and it’s actually a “look.”
/r/askMRP20/03/21 02:58 AM
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You are not attractive enough for her to step up her sexy game. It’s as simple as that.
/r/askMRP17/03/21 10:56 PM
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Wtf is this? You didn’t mention a GF, so I assume you don’t have one. The obvious is answer is no, you shouldn’t. If you can’t see why, I can’t help you. Fucktard.
/r/askMRP15/03/21 06:59 PM
2

Oh shit, you’re fucked. No wonder she’s already trying to start a big fight to get out of it
/r/askMRP14/03/21 04:43 AM
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I usually have 1 hit If I had a dollar for every stoner who said that to me and then proceeded to take “1 hit” every 10 minutes. Get honest with yourself and us... you expect us to believe you are a daily smoker but only take 1 hit? I mean you’ve already admitted to pot getting you in trouble in the past, which suggests you probably have a problem with it. Also, what a bullshit excuse that you can’t get to sleep without it. There are lots of sleep remedies that don’t include THC. As far as your …
/r/askMRP14/03/21 04:39 AM
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I agree with Red here. A woman doesn’t necessarily have to view the man as “higher.” However, she needs to view him as someone with options... a man who could go to the grocery store and get laid if he so chose to do so. However, your question speaks to a separate point. If a man is 2 or more SMV points below the woman, it’s a pretty big uphill battle long term. At the end of the day though, you should be improving yourself physically, mentally... in all ways for yourself.
/r/askMRP14/03/21 03:32 AM
2

Congratulations, you just described the first of hundreds (literally) of hurdles to starting, building, and maintaining your own business. You are making excuses of why you shouldn’t do it, which has completely paralyzed you. This is precisely how most people end up a slave to the corporate world for their whole life. First, you have to really want it. Then, you find ways to make it happen. Rinse, repeat, every step of the way. Entrepreneurship isn’t for excuse makers. Coffee is for closers.
/r/askMRP10/03/21 07:10 PM
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You want permission from internet strangers to leave a woman who has cheated on you multiple times? Permission granted. for the sake of our child and dealing with it as best I can. We were getting on okay on the surface Tell me more about how you want to stay miserable for the sake of your child. Do you even read bro?
/r/askMRP09/03/21 05:59 PM
3

Ironically, I had Cialdini as a professor in college for a psychology class. ALL the girls had a crush on him. He wrote the text for the class, and he is truly a unique pioneer. But, I agree with Stone on Practical Female Psychology as a good book on the topic.
/r/askMRP09/03/21 12:18 AM
1

PFP is the first one that came to mind for me also.
/r/askMRP09/03/21 12:16 AM
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If only there was a series of books somewhere that could help you with this question.... ———>
/r/askMRP08/03/21 06:29 PM
5

I usually turn these sexual I’ve found this to be the best move, but you have to be attractive to pull it off or you will look like a jackass. Either way it’s a win because if you can’t pull it off, you know where you stand.
/r/askMRP03/03/21 09:43 PM
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You know what it is only when you have it. The fact that you responded three times to my original comment suggests that you clearly don’t have frame. I don’t expect you to understand that
/r/askMRP02/03/21 08:44 PM
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You have to writ about frame from your own perspective. Frame is an inside job. You can’t write about it u til you have internalized it. The fact that you are approaching it the way you are conclusively proves you don’t have strong frame. So, my suggestion is to read all the posts about frame, and then when you have internalized frame, write about it: But, to do a “strong” post about anything in here, you have to k ow it j side and out, and you wouldn’t be worried about it. So, I’m guessing when…
/r/askMRP02/03/21 08:04 AM
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tells me that "she loves me, thinks we're perfect, and she doesn't deserve me" Considering you’re in the beginning stages of a relationship, I’d say this is a beta trap. She’s saying it to see your reaction. I’m guessing you are young. Start reading the sidebar and lifting.
/r/askMRP28/02/21 03:54 AM
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All the RP work I have done is now reset to zero, not due to the injury, but the fucking blow to my ego and game. It’s obvious you haven’t read much sidebar, so you don’t have much MRP gains to give up. If you read the sidebar, you’d know: don’t self-Deprecate to your wife (like a blow dryer to her pussy) Socialize with males (if you developed your social life, you’d have a man spotter) RP work is not reset... you must have the frame to STFU and move forth. Power through it. You have zero frame.…
/r/askMRP25/02/21 07:10 AM
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/u/AlohaMaui808 is 100% correct, and it’s better for you to read the sidebar and lift than for someone to explain why you have ONEitis. It is glaring. I suspect you wouldn’t listen anyway and the ball is already in motion.
/r/askMRP15/02/21 09:10 PM
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bipolar d/o can be overly diagnosed There’s a lot of keyboard psychologists diagnosing it... also narcissistic Disorder is a common one.
/r/askMRP12/02/21 08:55 PM
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How do you know she is bipolar? Serious question.
/r/askMRP10/02/21 04:06 AM
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You care way too much what she thinks. Hit the sidebar and lift, and you’ll start focusing on yourself more.
/r/askMRP03/02/21 05:04 AM
5

So you add females but you are pissed that she added a male. You need to get consistent or you have no leg to stand on. The fact that she’s talking to him about sex is a huge red flag. Not sure why you put a “LOL” on that. In womanese, her actions are suggesting she’s bored with you and he’s a possible replacement. Typical hypergamy.
/r/askMRP03/02/21 02:39 AM
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I stopped reading after the subject line and went right to the comments. Exactly what I expected.
/r/askMRP02/02/21 05:09 PM
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This is the first time I’ve seen a societal snowflake post. Congrats.
/r/askMRP31/01/21 06:20 PM
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The whole 'initiating sex' thing is bullshit and misses the point. Totally agree. You should know whether she’s DTF before you “initiate.” Whenever a guy says that here , I picture of them not doing any Kino or being attractive all day, and then trying to get some at the end of the night right before bed. The , getting butthurt and sleeping in the living room ... while she is relieved to catch up on housewives of X.
/r/askMRP26/01/21 08:58 PM
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But he’s hawt broooo... she just puts too much pressure on herself.
/r/askMRP26/01/21 02:28 AM
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What’s your sign? That’s probably the reason bro. Also, you should probably start negotiating sex. That usually fixes the problem. Don’t worry about the sidebar broski... It’s overrated.
/r/askMRP26/01/21 02:24 AM
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2 times? GTFOH
/r/askMRP23/01/21 12:12 AM
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Really? How is being preoccupied with bragging rights putting your kids first? Grow the fuck up, fag#ot
/r/askMRP17/01/21 06:31 AM
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Looks like OP turned himself from the "alpha" shiny trophy of a man to the well-known "beta-bux". Nope, he was never alpha... always just another beta-bux waiting to happen
/r/askTRP13/01/21 12:00 AM
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What a garbage post.
/r/askMRP12/01/21 01:38 AM
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Don’t you have locks on your doors? If not, put them on ASAP. Lock the door and STFU. It’s that simple.
/r/askMRP11/01/21 08:55 PM
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Empathizing helps sometimes, but I don't have the energy to "active listen" to her multiple times when I'm under so much stress. You want to fucking empathize with someone that is abusing you? This is NMMNG basics- your personal rights are being violated- but, it’s because you are a big pussy. The fact that you think empathizing with someone abusing you is the solution shows how deep you are in the BP rabbit hole. Horns nailed it. If you don’t want to be treated like a pussy, quit acting like on…
/r/askMRP11/01/21 08:12 PM
2

The answer is no different in lockdown than other circumstances: Be attractive Don’t be unattractive You’ll find the details in the sidebar readings.
/r/askMRP09/01/21 08:51 PM
1

It’s time to kill this puppy. Have the talk with her in the next week As far as social goes, just start talking to everyone wherever you go.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/21 04:15 PM
1

Are you saying that I should be lifting a lot heavier for that weight/BF% Yes, your BP 5x5 would be around 245 minimum She was a constant drain on my happiness and wasn't complimenting my life at all. Ok, why are you still with her then... especially since you split assets It could well be that she's just asking for permission to branch swing. At some point... but she will want to milk you first. I’d cut my losses and divorce if it was me. Keep this in mind... she knows what your ego wants to th…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/20 05:30 AM
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You seem totally confused, and you’re talking out both sides of your mouth right out of the gate... with a BF% that doesn’t match your lift numbers (not even close). I’m totally confused about what in the holy fuck you are trying to achieve with your wife... no plans of living with her. Listen, you are so confused that you can’t see the most obvious thing— you think you left her, but really you just ran away because you couldn’t hack it, and you’re still running away. Here is the big thing you a…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/20 09:55 PM
1

So you did everything ass-backwards, and now you want to make it worse by withholding sex (continuing the butthurt). Sounds like a great plan.
/r/askMRP25/12/20 04:08 PM
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I don't have oneitis, but lack abundance mentality since I don't have a life. Nope, You have oneitis. Feeling stuck with everything closed. Quit making excuses for being a faggo#. Just looking for tips from guys who tried to turn their life around with an infant in the picture An infant is another BS excuse for you being too much if a faggo# to stand up to your wife and get in the gym... You’re terrified of her because you have ONEitis and a scarcity mindset.
/r/askMRP12/12/20 04:10 AM
5

second chance to see what happens. Pretty sure you’ve already given her a second, third, fourth... etc Quit lying to yourself. You are still blue pill to the core. You have a scarcity mentality. Honestly, I don’t even know why you are posting on here because you’ve already given her 10 chances, and I guarantee you’re going to give her more until she finally dumps you for good.
/r/askMRP08/12/20 10:36 PM
3

But someday, I’m the last male in my family to carry on my name. That’s a shitty reason to bring a human into this world
/r/askMRP07/12/20 03:58 AM
1

And a big attorney bill down the road
/r/askMRP06/12/20 11:01 PM
4

Trickle Truth
/r/askMRP05/12/20 03:19 AM
18

You’re too young to get married. Live your life for you. Don’t ask internet strangers.
/r/askMRP01/12/20 05:26 PM
7

Any story that includes a pussy grab by a homeless guy is a good story
/r/askMRP01/12/20 05:11 AM
2

Thanks for a little entertainment
/r/askMRP01/12/20 04:30 AM
1

Good. Practicing the sidebar and lifting will help you get there much faster. Take your time on the books- quality beats quantity. I don’t recommend audio books. I know a couple guys that do audiobooks and it seems they both don’t grasp the concepts as well as reading- that’s just an observation. DM me if you have any questions - I like your attitude, and I think you have potential to get this thing.
/r/askMRP27/11/20 12:54 AM
2

Good deal. Where are you with the sidebar?
/r/askMRP26/11/20 08:45 PM
5

pain makes us grow... Only if you take responsibility... full responsibility. She just did what was in her nature to do since you were not a quality man. Hypergamy doesn’t care - that’s the pill you need to swallow and accept. Take full ownership for your life. This is about you and you improving as a man so you can put this in your rearview mirror. ——————————————— It starts with you doing the work: read the entire sidebar, lift, and start practicing the red pill way of life.
/r/askMRP26/11/20 07:37 PM
6

my ego took so many blows this year its practically non existing now... That’s actually great... perfect starting point.
/r/askMRP26/11/20 08:12 AM
2

I know the pill advocates every man to be a black hearted robot, Ummm... nope. Not sure where you’re getting that. The sidebar readings suggest you should have feelings with other men... but there is a difference between productive outlet and puke. I will do anything and everything to move forward, including victim puking and getting called a pussy online.. Now, that I can respect. I’m curious... what did you learn from this post and the comments that will help you move forward?
/r/askMRP26/11/20 08:11 AM
2

I’m not sure where idea that you get “one victim puke” came from... why the fuck would you want to victim puke in the first place? I mean, I can understand getting stuck and looking for direction, but a “victim puke” is a waste of everyone’s time. If you need someone to tell you you’re a pussy, just ask your wife. I’m sure she’ll be glad to do it.
/r/askMRP26/11/20 12:27 AM
3

Timely post, and you hit all the angles. Nice job.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/20 11:37 PM
4

Does it have to do with your cock size? Probably not since she’s fucking you. She doesn’t find you attractive enough to give you head, and your lack of frame is making it worse. I’m guessing you haven’t read any of the sidebar by your glaring blue pill misunderstandings in your post.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/20 12:33 AM
2

No. Don’t talk about any of it to her... ever
/r/askMRP07/11/20 04:34 PM
1

By all means, please tell us more about how you red pill someone. I want to learn this apparently advanced technique
/r/askMRP06/11/20 11:42 PM
3

Yes, you can get caught up in it, and you are basically training your mind to look for something that may not be there. It can easily be misconstrued as a gut feeling. The real danger that we see over and over is if you get a fight with her, guys tend to just blurt it out.... and then it’s out there and easily deniable by her. That’s the trap you really need to watch out for now. You have zero concrete proof. Trust, but verify (but don’t let the verification turn into obsession). This is easier …
/r/askMRP06/11/20 03:08 AM
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He nailed it. It’s a trap you don’t want to get caught up in.... it will drive you insane. The mind is powerful, and it can start connecting dots where there aren’t any. It’s called confirmation bias.
/r/askMRP05/11/20 02:54 PM
2

Well there you go. What’s your plan based on the comments here?
/r/askMRP05/11/20 01:40 AM
5

Wait... so, she says she hopes he works it out with his wife, and you view this as a 95% chance she cheated with him?
/r/askMRP04/11/20 09:01 PM
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Cheating is a hard next for me, but you have to determine where you are with that before you confront her, if you confront her. It’s hard to tell if you’re just hamstering or not since you omitted the most important info- what you overheard As it stands right now, it’s almost guaranteed you are going to blow up and call her on cheating - we’ve seen this scenario too many times.
/r/askMRP04/11/20 07:37 PM
3

Do both. As that easy enough for you?
/r/askMRP03/11/20 05:04 AM
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Figure out what you want. Then do that. I didn’t read the post because I already know it’s going to waste a few minutes of my life , so thanks for this TL;DR
/r/askMRP02/11/20 03:31 PM
3

TL;DR PU guy comes to MRP thinking he knows something Gets schooled, his little PU ego can’t handle it / cries for 2 days and deletes his post
/r/askMRP02/11/20 03:56 AM
3

My main mistake was investing too much and not surrounding myself with viable valuable backup options too instill enough competition anxiety It’s called ONEitis. Common mistake. At least your recognize it.
/r/askMRP01/11/20 06:14 PM
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experienced pu guy, Well, there you go. How far did that get you? You are a mess. You’re trying to figure out calculus and you don’t even know algebra. Start with the basics. This post was a rambling mess
/r/askMRP01/11/20 05:26 PM
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There’s a whole lot of “we,”our,” and “she” in this post What about YOU?. Sidebar? Lifts? MRP fixes The man, not the relationship (we/our/she) Fix yourself and everything else falls into place, with or without her. It sounds like she’s having some major issues and also like she lost respect for you- I suspect the 2 are related. This post tells us very little about you except you ‘were always alpha’ like almost every other guy posting in here.
/r/askMRP31/10/20 05:20 AM
4

90 day no fap, no sex, orgasm challenge First off, make sure you’re not being recruited by a cult. Secondly, this is fully retarded. You just have to get more creative as you get older - that’s what I’ve found when I hit 50... I’m still having sex 3-4 times a week with my wife, which is as much as I want. But, one thing I’ve noticed increases my libido is DHEA supplementation. Increased libido might help with your issue. As soon as I started getting as much sex as I wanted, I had no need for por…
/r/askMRP30/10/20 10:27 PM
4

Dr. prescribed "Sildenafil", Viagra knock off. Correct. Sildenafil IS Viagra
/r/askMRP30/10/20 10:22 PM
1

Com'on who do you think you’re fooling? You should be able to do 185 in 5x5 at your weight. I mean, easily if you were at 19.5%. How are you ever going to make any progress if you are BS’ing yourself
/r/askMRP30/10/20 04:38 PM
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5’9”, 187#, 19.5% BF Does not jive with Squat 70#, BP 55#, BR 75#, OHP 55#, DL 115#. Guaranteed you’re over 30% BF
/r/askMRP30/10/20 04:48 AM
3

The best way to change direction of a moving horse is slooooowly. Otherwise the horse will get uneasy and throw you off. You’re focused on the wrong thing. AKA: Don’t go Rambo
/r/askMRP29/10/20 04:09 PM
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This one, I've already shown such a weak frame that all of a sudden appearing as an oak will be a challenge to her, and not in a good way Ok, if you want to believe your own BS, feel free to co-sign it for yourself because I won’t. Also, don’t forget, you can leave (in a non-butthurt way) at any time or better yet...just be more busy in general. Why are you staying and allowing her to control you? Hint: You have no frame.
/r/askMRP28/10/20 10:34 PM
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Have you read the book “ How to Become Mr MRP in 6 easy steps: The 3 week guide for getting Unfucked from a lifetime of beta brainwashing “ yet? Seriously, slow down. Just learn STFU first. If you can do just that you will be ahead of most on here, believe it or not. Now, show me “wax on, wax off.” Don’t worry if you don’t get this last reference- it’s probably 15 years before you were born.
/r/askMRP28/10/20 10:00 PM
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schizophrenia My brother was schizophrenic. It’s what made me want to go back to school to get my degree in counseling/psychology. Listen, schizophrenia is progressive, so if you wanted to spend the rest of your life dealing with this but getting worse, go ahead. What you are seeing is just the tip of the iceberg with schizophrenia. The rabbit hole is bottomless
/r/askMRP28/10/20 09:01 PM
1

Yeah I already know what video it is, and it’s not that impressive/ doesn’t prove much. The guy is on camera and concentrating on driving.
/r/askMRP27/10/20 05:11 PM
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However, I don’t believe in letting her do whatever she wants while simply working on myself.. You are taking STFU to the extreme here... nobody worth listening to is suggesting this. STFU is so new guys can break the habit of DEERing and reacting in their woman’s frame... and it doesn’t always mean STFU completely... sometimes it means saying only what is necessary. You are taking the meaning too literally.
/r/askMRP27/10/20 05:09 PM
1

I’d say he’s at 5. The relationship is fucked, but he may as well use The remaining time to lift, sidebar, and stfu. If he can get to a place if IDNGAF , his next relationship might not repeat
/r/askMRP27/10/20 10:27 AM
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This is my last blue pill relationship. Nope. How do you expect it to change in your next relationship when you can’t change it now. ? For example: Constant arguing. Arguing with women is blue pill No respect from my girlfriend Why would she respect you? Shit tests that are just borderline disrespectful There is a big difference between shit tests and her being disrespectful. She has lost respect for you, and that is a reflection of your poor leadership and lack of frame. I feel drained. You are…
/r/askMRP27/10/20 05:47 AM
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ONEitis is a theredpill topic and I'm just not interested in it. So then you swallowed the blue pill to remain in ignorance to the true reality.... that reality which is you HAVE ONEotis. Until you get honest with yourself and acknowledge it, you will continue to have it. ONEitis is like a cancer, and until you find the cancer and remove it, it remains.
/r/askMRP27/10/20 03:04 AM
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How do you build desire in your woman? This is entry level thinking and will make you prone to ONEitis. The men who have passed this level of thinking are doing improving their selves for their own self, not for a woman. You are operating in her frame if you are doing it for her, and you are outcome dependent on her. It’s also coming from a place of scarcity. Once you learn to do it for yourself, you become outcome independent and you develop an abundance mentality.
/r/askMRP27/10/20 12:02 AM
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I’m pretty certain this doesn’t mean anything. Stop trying to overthink this crap My exact thought. Thank you for having the patience and tolerance to type it because I couldn’t do it.
/r/askMRP26/10/20 11:58 PM
1

I’d put this into the category of not only talking about fight club, but getting her actively involved in fight club. Can you not see how this is a dead end you’re heading into?
/r/askMRP26/10/20 09:30 PM
5

Jesus, is this real?
/r/askMRP26/10/20 09:13 PM
1

She is much more perceptive to IOIs and also negative reactions. Wait, your girlfriend is going to monitor IOI’s? Am I getting this right?
/r/askMRP26/10/20 09:07 PM
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They get them because it gives them more power and attention . Plain and simple. All the rest is Charlie Brown’s teacher talking
/r/askMRP26/10/20 09:03 PM
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Depends on where you are... tattoos aren’t a big deal anymore in most places... even the nerd in my neighborhood gym has a couple. In my state, they are very common. I have a half sleeve on one arm and 2 tattoos on the other arm- they have meaning to me. No big deal. I did notice I big uptick in IOI after I got them. At the end of the day, do what you want to do.
/r/askMRP26/10/20 04:05 PM
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Thank you for restoring me to retardation so I don’t have to own my shit anymore. It’s sooooooo tiring.
/r/askMRP19/10/20 09:49 PM
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I’m no longer shocked these guys lie to internet strangers. Imagine how weak their frame is in a relationship... oh, I mean an exclusive plate smh
/r/askMRP18/10/20 02:26 AM
5

For sure, it’s his too
/r/askMRP17/10/20 11:51 PM
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We have already agreed that we're not in a relationship You’re in a relationship. You’re exclusive with her, sleep over often, and you have a kid on the way. As Michael Caine said in Inception, “Come back to reality....” Also, quit fooling yourself thinking she doesn’t know you have a decent net worth. We all know you’ve dropped some hints to her to impress her. You better protect yourself. I agree with someone who said get an attorney immediately. Get a good one who knows about your type of sit…
/r/askMRP17/10/20 10:12 PM
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All I read was excuses and gonna do’s. Have OP get back when he’s doing something (besides making excuses)
/r/askMRP17/10/20 04:05 AM
1

Same. I also switched to dumbbell on overhead press, and my shoulder injuries vanished
/r/askMRP16/10/20 04:13 PM
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I’m curious as to why you don’t stay with her and just start implementing all those things....
/r/askMRP16/10/20 03:51 AM
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There shouldn’t be post breakup activities.... you should always be doing these things. The question is how are you going to avoid ONEitis next time? Hint: I gave you the answer.
/r/askMRP16/10/20 12:57 AM
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I actually don’t do barbell bench press. I use dumbbells which seem to hit the outer pec pretty well since I go deep. My overall chest thickness has increased dramatically since switching from barbell to dumbbell.
/r/askMRP16/10/20 12:53 AM
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Hitting different angles will give you a more muscular look if that’s what you’re going for. I usually try to hit at least 3 angles on every muscle group I hit. Example: chest - 4 sets of 8 bench press, 3 sets of 8-10 incline press, 2 sets of 8-10 close grip press... just one example. I like to switch it up ever few months because then you’re hitting more angles. I’m 6’1”, and I have a skinny skeletal frame. This type of approach offsets the naturally skinny look I had before a lot of lifting.
/r/askMRP15/10/20 09:06 PM
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You are showing big red flags of going Rambo. STFU for months-don’t be trying to implement your MRP knowledge until you really understand. You will think you understand, but you really can’t until you get months of experience. She shouldn’t notice a difference in your behavior at first. Implement very slowly.
/r/askMRP14/10/20 08:56 PM
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Yep, we’ve literally seen it dozens of times.
/r/askMRP14/10/20 08:53 PM
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Please tell us more about your alphaness Listen, slow down. This is a marathon, not a race. STFU and sidebar like everyone else. Start posting OYS weekly on the main thread . That’s where you’ll see the big progress along with the readings.
/r/askMRP14/10/20 07:13 PM
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You are a dumb stupid mother fucker if you stay ONE night in the place where you are being hit. Cause that bitch is setting you up. This. I remember towards the end my ex tried to push me as hard as she could. I immediately knew she was trying to get me in a rage and hit her or do something. I just sat down on the bed and laughed. Fail. Protect yourself. Often cops will side with the woman.
/r/askMRP14/10/20 05:28 PM
3

Pro tip: Eat less
/r/askMRP14/10/20 12:53 AM
3

Dude, I’ve said it before on here, so it’s no secret... I used to be the Most paranoid insecure BP bitch before I started swallowing the pill 4 1/2 years ago. I literally used to stay up all night looking for evidence that my wife cheated. I would mate-guard any time a guy talked to her. If she talked to a guy for a couple minutes, I’d chastise her for days. You just have to STFU and do the work. One thing that did help me is CBT training my own mind. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is basica…
/r/askMRP12/10/20 12:14 AM
2

OK then control your hamster. The truth is it doesn’t matter and you’ll never know. If you become a quality man it all comes out in the wash.
/r/askMRP11/10/20 06:10 PM
2

Watch all seasons of Mad Men. Study Don Draper and get back with us.
/r/askMRP11/10/20 06:08 PM
3

Did she feel a lot more broken in? That’s the million dollar question to your fag##t hamster fear But seriously, sidebar, lift, STFU I am curious about the question though
/r/askMRP11/10/20 03:23 AM
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That’s a great moment when you realize dread has shifted. As you implied, the gym alone won’t get you there... not even close
/r/askMRP10/10/20 08:48 PM
2

This guy is full of shit and his ego will never confront it. Not even close
/r/askMRP10/10/20 04:58 PM
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humblebrag End thread
/r/askMRP09/10/20 05:48 PM
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I doubt you’re spinning plates. I know guys like you in real life that think they are spinning a plate after getting a phone number. Then, she never answers. Also, if the end goal of “spinning plates” is a “lovely wife,” then you aren’t spinning plates. One or 2 of them will end up spinning you. How about some stats and sidebar readings Apollo Creed?
/r/askMRP08/10/20 09:21 PM
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Her thinking about divorce started way before this incident. You have this mentality that if you figure out the incident, you figure out your marriage. You are unattractive to her. Why? Lifts are at 0 You have no frame. You react to everything she says. You live in her frame. She owns you. She doesn’t want a weak man. Do The work Lift (consistently) Sidebar (Christ, you’re on your first book. Get cracking) STFU (You aren’t - you react to everything she says, even if it’s passive-aggressively) OY…
/r/askMRP08/10/20 05:27 PM
1

Ok, I’m gonna break this comment down a little (against my better judgement).... I let her know my desire was for "our bed to be a place unlike any other in the world - where you can be what you want to be without my judgment. Negotiating desire here I also let her know (again repeating what I'd said a couple of weeks ago) that I understand if she doesn't trust me like that yet, No. Quit talking about it. Become a man she wants to talk dirty to her - STFU until then I said that I've been holding…
/r/askMRP08/10/20 04:06 AM
1

I have started to become complacent. You never left complacency. This post is a disaster. You have to do the work or you’ll just continue to be a dancing monkey, which you still are. Sidebar, OYS. Also, if you didn’t want to get divorce raped, why the fuck would you work 2 jobs and add income?
/r/askMRP07/10/20 10:31 PM
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If you are worried about Covid, find a 24 hr gym and workout when there’s nobody there. Wipe down everything before you use it with antibacterial wipes. Problem solved.
/r/askMRP07/10/20 02:27 AM
1

So, just a temporary ban obviously +1 for the JP video
/r/askMRP07/10/20 12:15 AM
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What concerns me is that she has been propagated blue pilled ideas by our school which teaches a marriage class that has enforced her fairy tale ideas of marriage Dude, you are not getting it? You need to read the entire sidebar, not just a couple books. It’s not just her who has the fairy tale ideals - this is an AWALT thing. You think you are going up against different obstacles than everyone else, but it’s the same stuff we always see. Listen, I want to tell you to not get married because you…
/r/askMRP06/10/20 10:31 PM
1

LOL. Wait, are we getting banned for saying fag#ot, or was that on YouTube or something. If not, I need to step up my F word game Just a side note: how she says she was a Virgin and let him fuck her basically... it was screaming I rode the cock-carrousel before you to me. You get that nuance too?
/r/askMRP06/10/20 10:21 PM
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^ This. End thread.
/r/askMRP06/10/20 09:40 PM
5

Lifting heavy objects works even better - crushes the hamster wheel
/r/askMRP06/10/20 07:03 PM
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Give your hamster a break dude. Reading that made my hamster tired.
/r/askMRP06/10/20 05:29 PM
3

I actually L’d OL... like fer reelz
/r/askMRP06/10/20 02:22 AM
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Most likely, he broke Tomassi’s iron rule #5 NEVER allow a woman to be in control of the birth. NEVER allow a woman to be in control of the birth
/r/askMRP06/10/20 12:54 AM
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This reads like a dead bedrooms post where the only reason women have sex with those guys is for security (baby = more beta bucks). Read the sidebar since the babysitter definitely won’t fuck you. You’ve broken Tomassi’s iron rule #5, you have to adjust to the consequences. It sounds like you want us to write a paragraph and then you’ll be all good. Do the work Sidebar Lift STFU
/r/askMRP06/10/20 12:23 AM
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Most
/r/askMRP04/10/20 04:15 AM
2

Yeah I’m interested in hearing the hamster reason Though
/r/askMRP04/10/20 04:01 AM
3

I did Olympic barbell shrugs for a few months earlier in the China virus. I found the strengthened my grip in a different way, which was good. Now I’m back to dumbbell shrugs since I bought some heavy dumbbells. I might alternate every few months
/r/askMRP04/10/20 03:29 AM
3

Why the fuck is not getting drunk without you a boundary... especially if she’s just with women?
/r/askMRP04/10/20 02:14 AM
1

It’s for your traps, but grip is a secondary benefit. You only need to do 4-5 sets/week and you will start noticing a difference in your traps.
/r/askMRP04/10/20 02:08 AM
4

Do you do shoulder shrugs, Heavy dumbbell shrugs has helped my grip strength - I do 95’s (dumbbells) for quality sets. Grip is something I’ve just developed over time doing various lifts that require a strong grip. I personally prefer to focus more on squats than deadlifts.
/r/askMRP03/10/20 10:42 PM
3

It’s not going to happen overnight. Start doing OYS posts and reading the sidebar - that will speed up your process
/r/askMRP03/10/20 09:31 PM
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When you say you were in my position back in your blue pill days what do you mean exactly? Like this kind of behavior was present in your marriage and you found out she was cheating or? Thanks for the advice btw I’m talking about the blue pill mindset- obsessing over whether she’s cheating. I remember losing nights of sleep trying to play detective. It doesn’t matter if she’s cheating. I know that sounds counterintuitive, but that’s the red pill mindset. I don’t worry or wonder anymore because i…
/r/askMRP03/10/20 08:41 PM
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I am using it as a way to tease my wife by pointing out that other women are attracted to her and want me to "share" her with them lol. No. This is a horrible way of framing it. You are framing her as the prize I’ll fix it for you even though you don’t have the frame to pull it off: I am using it as a way to tease my wife by pointing out that other women are attracted to her me and want me her to "share" her Me with them Use it as a fantasy for her if that works, but if you don’t want to do it, …
/r/askMRP03/10/20 05:16 PM
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Man, I’ve been where you are in my blue pill days, and it’s a horrible place to be. You need to quit focusing and obsessing about her cheating. Quit asking her about it too. Make yourself a better man. STFU Lift, sidebar What is your height, weight, lifting numbers?
/r/askMRP03/10/20 05:09 PM
1

Ok checked - I’ll do it this weekend
/r/askMRP02/10/20 05:29 PM
2

She misses that you can’t negotiate real desire They all do - that’s their blue pill brainwashing. Think about the premise of almost every chick flick:she negotiates Desire (negotiates with herself) to finally pick the nice guy in the end. Then the live happily ever after... they never show the sequel where she fucks Chad on the side and hamsters a divorce because she never really desired beta Bob. BTW, men are subject to this same brainwashing into thinking being a “nice guy” makes him differen…
/r/askMRP01/10/20 07:05 PM
1

You're a fake poser unless you can provide any actual specifics, loser. That’s science in action there Johnny And science made him delete his profile LOL
/r/askMRP01/10/20 06:05 PM
2

I most likely won’t be in family counseling
/r/askMRP30/09/20 09:59 PM
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This.... Marriage Counseling is not good for your marriage. And this.... If you think you need counseling, go individually This applies to both of you, and that is how you should communicate it if she wants to go to couples counseling. I am 4 classes away from getting my masters in Psychology/Counseling BTW. So, I’m not an expert, but the classes I took on couple’s counseling suggest the systems they use for couples counseling are outdated and very rogue.... basically garbage IMO. Also, have you…
/r/askMRP30/09/20 08:48 PM
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It’s hard to tell true BPD from a woman who is just AWALT with a shitty man for years Nailed it
/r/askMRP30/09/20 06:00 PM
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She’s missing the core MRP tenet of leadership and how a strong high quality man is desired by his wife. All that “avoidant” and other terms do is break down why the couple went having sex. The real solution is the man’s leadership and being attractive. A woman therapist will usually not understand this concept of OYS approach we take here. Even if she does, explaining it would defeat the purpose since it’s a form of talking about fight club. Fair enough point on not throwing out the baby with t…
/r/askMRP30/09/20 05:15 PM
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...and we found the reporter lol
/r/askMRP30/09/20 03:55 PM
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I’d put that in the purple pill category
/r/askMRP30/09/20 03:54 PM
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Amused
/r/askMRP30/09/20 03:53 PM
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I read a google review. Between that review and your write-up, it actually sounds like it might be good
/r/askMRP30/09/20 04:49 AM
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This isn’t a question that we can just answer and then you’re all set. The answer to this question lies in the sidebar readings. First off, the way your question is phrased already has her as the prize, so you’re starting off on the wrong footing. In other words, your asking the wrong question.. But, that’s the case in 99% of these posts. The question is how do you become a quality man with leadership, frame, and great physical attributes.... and you have the reason wrong also. You do it for you…
/r/askMRP30/09/20 03:45 AM
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There is a whole book on the subject What are the highlights you learned from this book?
/r/askMRP30/09/20 03:37 AM
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I thought no way could this post be worse than the first one I read posted today... I was wrong. Hit the sidebar, lift, and start doing OYS posts. You need to have a basic understanding of MRP before you start making yourself look like an ass on here. It’s such a train wreck, I wouldn’t even know where to start
/r/askMRP30/09/20 12:02 AM
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LOL
/r/askMRP29/09/20 11:58 PM
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Her (38F): “The next guy has his work cut out for him because my intuition, my standards, my boundaries, my wants and needs are off the charts,” she said Bad news: in womanese she’s saying you’re needy And have no frame.
/r/askMRP29/09/20 11:54 PM
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I understand that, but I’d never give an opinion based on a big “if.” If you read long enough on here, you’ll find that most people’s (not just women’s) behaviors can mimic diagnosis like BPD for various underlying reasons and motivations. That’s why a formal diagnosis by a professional who really understands disorders such as these is vital before making your own diagnosis. You still haven’t given all the details of of specific behaviors that leads you to believe she is BPD.
/r/askMRP27/09/20 09:01 PM
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You can’t take OP’s word for it that she’s BPD. It’s the male version of how females diagnose the man they are breaking up with as “narcissist.” I know men in real life who have self diagnosed their ex with things like Bipolar. Then I ask them the her symptoms and they are not even close to Bipolar. I know this because I’m finishing my masters in Psychology and we studied mental disorders in-depth. I’m not claiming to be an expert, but it’s easy to tell when a diagnosis is way off. The point- do…
/r/askMRP27/09/20 07:36 PM
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First off, nope... you’re probably around 25% with these numbers... I'm 6ft 200lbs 16% BF. Benching 200lbs, squat 215lbs and deadlift at 290lbs. Married to a undiagnosed BPD for the past 8 years You and 75% of the other armchair therapists out there I've been and currently am being accused of having an affair with some made up girl How is this bad? Sounds like good passive dread to me. Use A&A and AM I am in the midst of gathering all the necessary info to potentially give over to my Divorce law…
/r/askMRP27/09/20 06:49 PM
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"learn to golf" there are way too many aspects for you to consciously comprehend and evaluate. The solution is to identify one aspect you want to improve on, ideally the one that will have the largest impact for the time and effort put into it, and work on it When I golfed a lot, at one point one idea to work on my chipping game because I realized that I could cut a lot of points off my golf score since I was just off the green many times in a game. So, for weeks, I would get a few buckets of ba…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/20 05:20 AM
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If you are in front of your wife and you feel an overwhelming urge to cry about your dad , do it. It’s not a sign of weakness, I mean... it’s your dad for Christ’s sake. However, me personally, I like to cry alone...But, if she happens to be there, I may cry a little. I just don’t use her shoulder to cry on. See, you can cry, show vulnerability, and still be masculine. At some point, it’s not even faking it - it’s who you become. Stoic, but able to show emotion without fear of what she or anyone…
/r/askMRP27/09/20 05:05 AM
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I don't want to try and force a professional relationship if it's impossible either. This is another sentence that signifies something is off. Why would you even have the though of trying to force a professional relationship. Keep it cordial. Use common sense Protect yourself
/r/askMRP25/09/20 05:17 PM
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To be honest I just want a normal coworker but I don't know if this is possible with her. Why did you feel it necessary to put “to be honest” in this sentence? It signifies something is off. What do you was to us to say? Use common sense and make sure there are witnesses around if possible if you ever communicate with her.
/r/askMRP25/09/20 04:28 PM
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So she controls your frame, guilting your into picking up and then DEERING. Your first step is to have the balls to pick up the phone when she shit tests you to pick it up.
/r/askMRP25/09/20 03:44 AM
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Thanks my friend. Red brought the inspiration- I just expanded You can learn probably more from in-person friends than on here, but you sure can learn a ton on here also
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/20 03:40 AM
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ONEitis -> rejection -> monk mode -> ONEitis Another variation I see (typically with the better looking , in shape guys) is: ONEitis -> spin plates -> ONEitis -> plates -> ONEitis However, they are never really spinning plates. They are able to pull HB9s and even HB10’s, but they can’t handle the stress of spinning plates, so they only spin plates for a couple months, and then it’s back to ONEitis. In actuality, they were never really spinning plates... more like auditioning for the next ONEitis…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/20 07:02 AM
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Skim rather than read Read, but read so much at once that they can't remember half of what they read I know some guys in real life who are “red pill aware.” Many of them are stuck in the mud, making the same mistakes over and over. Almost without fail, they go on to talk about how they just need to “listen” to TRM again. They keep listening to the same 2-3 audiobooks, and they never really absorbed it because, like you said, it’s a form of “skimming” and too much at one time. Then, they get ONEi…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/20 04:29 AM
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Pretty big red flag IMO. Sounds like she’s actually planning on letting herself go after the deal is sealed I’d probably laugh and straight up say in a joking way “why, are you planning on letting yourself go?” Don’t break eye contact and wait for her response... it should tell you a lot.
/r/askMRP22/09/20 01:32 AM
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Seems like bait for a ban. Careful everyone.
/r/askMRP21/09/20 04:52 AM
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quit when I got together with the gf So, you quit when you needed it the most. I'm quite attractive (need to build muscle) Women love muscle. That is what they are mostly attracted to. Having a good face is a start, but if you are skinny, skinny-fat, or just fat, you are selling yourself way short but fuck did I let myself go. Ah, so skinny fat it is Now I'm acting like a fucking 50s housewife throwing plates on the floor, yelling at every turn. And you have no frame Tomorrow I'll start getting …
/r/askMRP21/09/20 04:51 AM
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First off, this belongs in ask MRP, not MRP. You tell us you think your ED problem is because too much porn, but you told her it’s because depression. So, you lied to her instead of just stopping porn and fixing the problem. Either you are lying to her or us. Here’s a start - quit telling lies, it’s actually a really poor form of DEERing. Step 2, quit fapping. Step 3: STFU Problem solved. Edit: I looked through your history and you are on antidepressants. Pretty damn big detail for you to omit f…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/20 05:22 PM
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Interesting thread... I read some stories...I’m sure some are real, but you can tell a man was writing on some of them. Men and women just think and write differently. But, yeah... point stands about how that can be left up and MRP taking some lumps lately. I figured it was a matter of time.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/20 07:03 AM
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Wow, guess I haven’t been banned because I haven’t commented much lately. I listened to the YouTube link- pretty good
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/20 06:50 AM
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My first thought is this jas to be bad trolling, but I’m not sure. If this is real, you have a long long way to go... longer than most. Even in my bluest blue pill days I would have never allowed any of this.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/20 10:17 PM
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OP is so deep in his wife’s frame - he literally lives in her frame, so he doesn’t know any different.The core problem is he doesn’t know what frame really is. You don’t understand frame until you have it - that’s the paradox. Great comment.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/20 07:06 PM
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This is not a bad question for someone 2 months in. So, I’m going to give it a full answer even though you posted it 18 hrs ago. Even if only you see it, it might be worth the time. Many came here with low sex or no-sex marriages... the men who have done the work have turned that around... usually dramatically. The fact that you are worried how friend’s marriages will affect yours tells me you lack frame, and you are probably in a low sex (quality) marriage at a minimum... if you aren’t, you wil…
/r/askMRP18/09/20 05:52 AM
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Especially since this place is a lot about getting sex, and the kind of stuff guys put in their vision and mission tends to have nothing to do with being alpha Yep, AKA trying to use red pill methods to achieve blue pill objectives.
/r/askMRP11/09/20 09:49 PM
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This question is actually the best answer... i think we would to see OP’s answer before answering in a meaningful manner. Mission and vision have multiple meanings depending on the angle you are looking at it. In any case, comprehensively the sidebar will help greatly, but you have to read the entire sidebar. I’d say the sidebar is a prerequisite before looking at other more specific books...
/r/askMRP11/09/20 08:57 PM
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Yep, initially most guys in here usually think everything is a shit test. But, a shit test, comfort test, and straight bitchiness should all be handled differently, and to handle bitchiness like it is a shit test is the equivalent of excusing bitchy behavior with no consequences or acknowledgement. When it’s a shit test, I generally knock it out of the part almost like it’s tee’d up. But, if I mistake bitchiness for a shit test, I can tell pretty quickly by the way she reacts... so, then, I adju…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/20 05:15 AM
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Plain and simple: she found out you were a faggot. You don’t mention anything about lifting or sidebar, which verifies it
/r/askMRP05/09/20 06:08 PM
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I’ve said before men should learn the difference between a shit-test and straight disrespect. There are so many nuances in MRP and these things take time and effort to figure out. The initial response of newbs on here is to categorize everything and think that they can figure it out quickly. Your post has a solid point.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/20 11:29 PM
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Good to hear a data point on where you landed. Indeed. What a long strange trip it’s been. Great summary of stages.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/20 04:56 PM
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First step in frame her is not being scared of her feelings. I believe horns was saying he was scared because the situation, not because her feelings. Couple books for you: no more mr nice guy The subtle art of not giving a fu*k
/r/askMRP01/09/20 06:30 AM
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Damn, this was pathetic. You think you’re fogging and using sidebar techniques, but if you read the entire sidebar you’d simply know not to even engage in an argument like this with your MIL.
/r/askMRP28/08/20 02:47 AM
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You're a fucking liar. You've already posted an OYS, eleven days ago where you claimed you were lifting. Fucking guy is using a throwaway acct and lying. That’s all I needed to see. Faggot of the week award for this guy.
/r/askMRP27/08/20 01:47 AM
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Nothing is more unattractive than watching a faggot fiddle with knots. LOL kinda made my night- the visual
/r/askMRP25/08/20 02:27 AM
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What a train wreck. Hit the sidebar. We can’t help until you read it
/r/askMRP24/08/20 03:31 AM
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It’s not a “point.” It’s pretty much always the outcome. This is sidebar 101- TRM. Have you read any sidebar?
/r/askMRP23/08/20 05:57 AM
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The best bet for most men (all ages) that want TRT is to be in the best shape Very true. Lots of complications can occur if you are a fatty
/r/askMRP22/08/20 11:45 PM
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Give blood every 2-4 months... thick blood problem solved. The other issue is estrogen. A light blocker is often used
/r/askMRP21/08/20 11:41 PM
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Find a doc who specializes in it
/r/askMRP21/08/20 04:52 PM
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Dance Hamster Dance
/r/askMRP20/08/20 04:50 PM
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The important stuff has already been said... I’ll add this... I was shocked, but I had a shit-eating grin on my face and told her; “Let me know when you plan on leaving!”. It was actually really funny, to be frank. Women are way better than men at detecting nonverbal cues. If you think you didn’t show your shock, you’re kidding yourself. BTW, she’s looking for an excuse to move out. The hypergamy is obviously in play here. Are you familiar with that term?
/r/askMRP18/08/20 09:09 PM
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Texting is for logistics only The end.
/r/askMRP17/08/20 06:58 PM
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She lost a lot of weight at the time as well. The standard fallacy about these “diets” are summed up by your 2 words above “at the time.” How many times do people have to lose weight and gain it back to realize it doesn’t work long term. I stay within 3 pounds of my weight always - I never diet. I may bulk and cut or cut and bulk, but you should be practicing good eating habits always. Get off the diet roller coaster and just start treating your body right. If you are doing it right you don’t ha…
/r/askMRP14/08/20 08:42 PM
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Title doesn’t mean anything... if she’s a main, than she’s an LTR
/r/askMRP11/08/20 02:21 AM
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Ouch haha... no, actually I have several friends who think they are spinning plates, but they never really were... and then the denial when they are in an LtR... it’s textbook. Most men are not mentally capaby of truly spinning plates in my experience... so they lie to their selves that they are spinning plates... they usually read TRM over and over and it’s just not enough. That’s why we always tell newer guys to read the sidebar and do OYS weekly posts
/r/askMRP11/08/20 01:47 AM
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Ask me how I knew?
/r/askMRP10/08/20 11:59 PM
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That's some Inception level faggotry right there. A dump within a dump.... very clever Mr. Cobb
/r/askMRP10/08/20 05:29 AM
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a... plate... fuck off. Haha . A “Main” plate... whatever the fuck that means. Guy can’t just come out and say it’s his LTR when we all know it is. He’s lying to himself, us, or both. That’s about where he lost me too
/r/askMRP10/08/20 05:25 AM
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That has faded fairly quick; especially, after being in lockdown together for a couple of months. Wait... so you’re a year into MRP, and you just recently proposed under pressure from her family? Now, you want us to fix your major fuck-up. This reminds me of my stock trading days... I was a good trader, so I had guys asking me for advice on what to do. 9 times out of 10, it would be after they put themselves in a horrible position with stock options. Her family views you as a beta they can push …
/r/askMRP09/08/20 03:35 AM
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So basically you think she’s on the verge of an affair or is already fucking him, so your response was to act like it was all about gun safety. Hell, you even tried to convince us it was about gun safety, and then you thought you’d casually drop it about how you were uncomfortable with her flirting with Chad, which you think is the real reason why she goes over there. Of course, you lied to us there too Scott, didn’t ya.. and you told us she was there to see granny. I picture you pacing around f…
/r/askMRP04/08/20 07:33 AM
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First, Here’s the bad news: You are a DEERing Faggott with no frame Now, Here is the good news: If you read the sidebar, lift, and stfu, you might become a man she’s satisfied with.... More importantly, a man you’re satisfied with. This isn’t about the gift. In womanese, she’s saying she regrets her choice picking you as an LTR. I rarely give my wife gifts. When I feel like it , I do... yet she’s told me how much she loves me like 5 times today already, and we had sex twice before 1PM. You are s…
/r/askMRP02/08/20 11:32 PM
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Always practice catch and release no matter what your relationship status. It will help you keep an abundance mentality and create passive dread because she will know that you are gaming successfully. She will just know. Plus, you can never have enough practice and it will keep your chops fresh... Now hit that sidebar and do OYS weekly. This is all basic sidebar info
/r/askMRP30/07/20 04:39 AM
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You should never stop catching and releasing btw Never
/r/askMRP30/07/20 03:24 AM
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not lifting yet (hurt my arm + gyms closed due to Covid) but cycling 3 times a week, doing stomach crunches and I'm not much overweight. If you are not lifting, you are skinnyfat at best. Like /u/UEMcGILL said, quit making excuses. One of the first things I did when this thing broke out was look for lifting equipment and weights. I couldn’t find anything new in stores, so I had to plow through used sites several times a day until I ended up getting (one by one) a bench, squat rack (was the harde…
/r/askMRP28/07/20 04:27 PM
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my whole night is not ruined, it's not about donuts. I just wish you'd respect the opinion of the person who you claim to be the smartest person you've ever met. That's the shit my stepmother pulls on my dad: ask his opinion on something, he says it's not a good idea, and she forces him to do it anyway. So, you DEERed about donuts and you were butthurt because she forced you to get donuts. If you really think you’re on the right track, I don’t know if this if fixable.
/r/askMRP26/07/20 04:42 AM
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Do the work, fix yourself... everything else falls into place
/r/askMRP23/07/20 03:41 AM
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Hopefully, it will be at some point. You don’t even need an attorney to get 50/50 in my state, unless there’s serious allegations like child abuse
/r/askMRP22/07/20 10:28 PM
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This is where I am right now. I spend most of my time filling in where she doesn't. Next, start delegating you her. Delegate as you “fill in”
/r/askMRP22/07/20 10:26 PM
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If you spent half as much time practicing good parenting as you do trying to fix her, you could lead by example. Maybe she’d follow, maybe not.... but at least the child would have one present parent.
/r/askMRP22/07/20 05:02 PM
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Yes, 50/50 or close to it is becoming the norm in many states - 50/50 is default in my state now
/r/askMRP22/07/20 04:58 PM
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I would only even consider if it I vetted someone for a number of years And yet her we are .. you making her an LTR after only a few months. Actions speak louder than words.
/r/askMRP21/07/20 06:37 AM
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read a couple of books, lifted a few baby weights and thinks he's "red pill". Textbook description of the guys we see on here who don’t want to do the work. They read a book or 2, lift a few weights (enough to be slightly past skinny-fat), and call their self “Red pill aware,” or in this case RP consumption. A little red pill consumption and they have a degree... a degree to repeat the same mistake less than a year after a divorce.
/r/askMRP20/07/20 05:11 PM
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You faggots love to use slippery wording, I noticed. You also like to omit important details. Examples: move forward with my ltr. WTF does that mean “move forward” exactly. left out detail -The current state of your ltr She had some issues with threatening to end the relationship Issues, or threats? How many times has she threatened this? Left our detail - how long have you been with this woman? My time divorced involved heavy red pill consumption Again, WTF does this even mean? Also, you left o…
/r/askMRP20/07/20 04:56 AM
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That’s a start. Now you just have to do it so much that you no longer care about the outcome. When you are outcome independent, paradoxically, your results will get better. One suggestion I’d make is instead of “offering” to go out for drinks... say...”hey, let’s go out for drinks.” Don’t say when even. Wait... don’t speak before her. It’s a subtle difference between a man of confidence (assuming she’ll want to go) and an apprehensive man. Good on you either wait for breaking the ice- like I sai…
/r/seduction12/07/20 05:37 AM
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I wish it was that simple It’s a mind-set issue. But, most of us came here because of that nagging feeling that something about the way we think just isn’t right. It takes a lot of time and effort to de-brainwash yourself from a lifetime of BS.
/r/askMRP12/07/20 03:05 AM
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It's about you. And you're asking the wrong fucking question. Like 99% of these posts
/r/askMRP11/07/20 08:28 PM
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A running hamster is good. It should always be running to a degree due to passive dread - this is natural. A hamster running off the wheels is not good. Just add in a little comfort, combined with Agree & amplify Don’t think of a running hamster as a bad thing... just learn to control it.
/r/askMRP10/07/20 03:13 AM
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You sir, are a good thinker
/r/askMRP07/07/20 01:19 AM
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Am I not showing enough attention, since that’s her main currency that she wants? This alone tells me you haven’t absorbed much sidebar. A quality man doesn’t obsess about giving his wife enough attention.... she obsesses about giving him enough. Secondly, words are cheap, so if she’s talking about how she’s going to get in shape “after,” why would you praise her for something she hasn’t done? I’m curious, has she put on a lot of weight besides the baby’s weight? I mean, are her thighs and butt …
/r/askMRP06/07/20 11:33 PM
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Yes, it’s a rationalization so you don’t have to OYS
/r/askMRP30/06/20 06:13 PM
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Translation: "I chose you because you were inherently beta-izable." Is that the right translation? Close, but the translation is she viewed you as beta bux already. Notice her wording, “I chose you” like you had no options better than her in her mind... like you had no choice. She views herself as the prize.. the fact that you didn’t catch this means you probably view her as the prize also, but most likey you are unaware of it due to your blue pill conditioning. what should I do? The same thing …
/r/askMRP30/06/20 05:13 PM
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OP sure is trying to get us on that radar
/r/askMRP28/06/20 09:17 PM
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Do what you want. Weigh the pros and cons. It’s really that simple.
/r/askMRP28/06/20 01:57 AM
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Do you have a certain timeline while spinning plates (i.e. 6 months, 8 months, a year, two years, etc.) before you consider bumping a woman up to relationship status? Since you’re asking this question, I already know how it ends. You already have someone you’ve been seeing and either she has already declared you exclusive with her or she will very soon. You have the blue pill attitude that going exclusive is a natural result or even end goal of spinning plates. As long as you keep that attitude,…
/r/askMRP27/06/20 05:09 PM
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Sounds like you have a snowflake there. Good luck. After meeting this women I've realized how underdeveloped I am in multiple areas in my life and she is clear more competent and experienced than me in life. This is often the case, at least on the surface with women vs men in their early to mid 20’s. I believe it’s a result of hypergamy- just my personal theory. Young women go out of their way to learn so that they can land a quality man.... Thousands of years of evolution. Oh wait, maybe she’s …
/r/askMRP27/06/20 05:05 PM
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What advice would any of you give to; Successfully maintain a healthy relationship with a women you’re co-habiting with? You just have to keep reading, lifting, and stfu until you get a grasp on “hard mode.” No matter how ready you think you are for hard mode, you’re not if you’ve never done it for an extended period. Practice, practice, practice....
/r/askMRP27/06/20 01:43 AM
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Agreed.
/r/askMRP25/06/20 05:06 PM
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Seriously, you should consider practicing with your current for a bit... you’re not going to learn on your own... books are useless without experience. At a minimum, work on Stfu, some AN, A&A, maybe some fogging....
/r/askMRP25/06/20 01:25 AM
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so much damage has been done to this relationship If this is true, then cut your losses. If not, you will most likely repeat the same mistakes. Even if it didn’t work out, you working on yourself would be a great practice field for any future relationships.. Personally, if I ever got divorced (again) with 4+ yrs of swallowing the pill, I would spin plates for at least 10 years. It’s easier said than done though. I’ve seen some good friends thinking they are RP now only to fall into yet another c…
/r/askMRP25/06/20 12:33 AM
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This is called a compliance shit test. When I was BP, my wife did these constantly, especially when there were other people around. You are making it too complex. If it is more convenient for you to do whatever she is asking, sure, why not. But, if it requires more effort than her or equal effort, nope. So...next time she asks for a snack when you’re sitting together, keep it lighthearted and say something like “I got a snack for you right here.” Then, give her a snack on the butt. Her reaction …
/r/askMRP24/06/20 07:27 PM
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A few months you’ve been at this? You need a year or 2. STFU and lift. Also, I recommend reading the side bar one book at a time instead of reading the way you were reading it. In my opinion, it’s much more effective. You are basically quitting before you even put in the work.
/r/askMRP24/06/20 05:38 PM
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So you were arguing with her a lot, and you married her. Now, you’re still arguing a lot. Did you not learn the first rule of MRP - STFU, never argue with a woman? You tell us 2 books you read, and then say you read half the sidebar. Which one is it? This post is all a out her. Tell us what you learned by reading and following MRP.... You’ve learned nothing- including your MRP time. You will likely get divorced and repeat the same train wreck with another woman.
/r/askMRP24/06/20 05:15 AM
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You should get a t-shirt for surviving that
/r/askMRP22/06/20 05:32 PM
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LOL, same... but it was in a Facebook deadbedrooms. I gave some red pill advice and talked about how I had sex with my wife that day. Some fat chick commented and said “if you’re having sex with your wife, you shouldn’t be in here.” If you’re not miserable like them and offer solutions, they don’t want to have anything to do with you Banned.
/r/askMRP21/06/20 10:01 PM
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Dead bedrooms is Cesspool of faggots and fat chicks giving bad blue pill advice... all feeling sorry for their selves and taking comfort that others are also suffering... offering zero solutions that are helpful
/r/askMRP21/06/20 07:39 PM
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And like he said, stay the fuck away from deadbeadrooms. They are like crabs in a barrel. None of them ever have solutions, and they will just keep you down with them.
/r/askMRP21/06/20 02:19 AM
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Slightly more than you put into this post
/r/askMRP20/06/20 10:47 PM
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Horns is being literal when he say work at it a couple more years. Have you done any work though? Sidebar readings?
/r/askMRP20/06/20 04:50 PM
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You’re basically expanding on my point.
/r/askMRP20/06/20 04:41 PM
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What are your interests? I am a musician- a hobby musician, but I could do it for a living if I wanted to. So, I’m in a couple bands. Like I said, it’s specific to the person and their interests. Do what you enjoy. Find people who enjoy the same things
/r/askMRP19/06/20 11:28 PM
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The way I see it “abundance” would no longer be real, but tied into a contract Abundance is a mind set, not necessarily your physical situation
/r/askMRP19/06/20 04:24 PM
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My question is, what clubs, activities, events have you done or would recommend? Do what you like, not what other people like or have done. Do you have any hobbies? Sports? Hiking? Obviously, you have frame issues based on the fact that you are asking internet strangers what hobbies you should do. Do you enjoy toastmasters even? The best way to expand socially is through activities you like because it’s more natural and you have a natural excitement.
/r/askMRP19/06/20 04:21 PM
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What sort of positions are the guys in who are flying to Hong Kong, NYC, etc? That'd be the dream. You sound like a 16 year old girl here. The same job that travels in one company may not in another. Look at international companies if you want to travel, and express your willingness to travel. You sound like you think the first choice you make is going to be the rest of your life. It rarely works out that way. Pick something and try it instead of doing mental gymnastics. I can tell you I was in …
/r/askMRP10/06/20 07:18 PM
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What’s up with all these posts Lately saying it’s “my victim post.” I don’t remember seeing a memo saying you get a victim post. Try OYS for a while, than maybe you won’t have to do a victim post. I guess it’s a lot easier to do no work and do your victim post. What’s up with the pre Covid lifts? How is that relevant? Where you are now is the only thing that matters. Let me guess, you stopped lifting after Covid. Wanna know where my lifts are? The same as pre-Covid because I took swift action an…
/r/askMRP10/06/20 12:12 AM
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So, you think OP has a IDGAF attitude? Really? This whole post is about her and what should he do. He wouldn’t be doing this faggot post if he DNGAF
/r/askMRP08/06/20 12:18 AM
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When I have brought up her being distant, she is adamant that she is happy If you’re “red pill aware” you should know the term “Acta Non Verba.” Watch her actions not words. She is turning down sex and you aren’t even a year in She is distant The wrong is on the wall. Are you familiar with the term “hypergamy.” Quit focusing on her, and focus on yourself. Start doing weekly OYS, sidebar, and lift. Lest, you repeat history a 3rd time (since you are clearly repeating here).
/r/askMRP08/06/20 12:16 AM
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/u/sbIII nails it. End thread
/r/askMRP07/06/20 07:23 PM
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This is a low quality, low effort post. What about you? Height, weight, lifts? Sidebar readings?
/r/askMRP01/06/20 12:48 AM
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Yep, we’ll be lucky if we get a follow up when it goes how we thought it would. I know people just like this in real life. A couple of them even started swallowing the pill... er.. well, maybe they put the pill in their mouth for a minute like it was a juicy cock. It’s always predictable, but they get stuck in these lifelong patterns, and they’re not willing to try something different. One of them actually comes back and says “by golly, you were right,” but only if you’re gentle like they are a …
/r/askMRP30/05/20 05:30 AM
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So everyone tells you it’s a bad idea... someone even shows you the master’s iron rule... and still going forth. We’ve seen this type of scenario dozens of times, so we already know the outcome... because it’s always the same. Why even come on here an ask the question if you aren’t going to listen? I suggest you do weekly OYS for at least 3 months.
/r/askMRP30/05/20 01:37 AM
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So, it sounds like you already decided you are doing this... am I wrong?
/r/askMRP30/05/20 12:59 AM
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Waiting for the next post to drop a month after he moves in "guys she says I got her pregnant, what do I do? Shit, unfortunately these guys usually have their mind up, and the script is already written, and they want us to co-sign their Bs. When we don’t, they think to their self, they don’t understand... this is a snowflake situation
/r/askMRP29/05/20 11:24 PM
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Moving in doesn't necessitate a monogamous relationship That’s total bullshit. A “relationship” is based on actions, not on words. In other words, you can hamster it and say it’s not a relationship, but the action of moving in with her is an action you take in a relationship... matter of fact, it’s a big move in a relationship. It’s next level stuff... and you are considering just jumping a few steps and going right to the move in. You are lying to yourself man. Scarcity- moving in with a chick …
/r/askMRP29/05/20 11:23 PM
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If she wants a relationship, perhaps giving her white lies/leading her on about us being together but 'just don't like to use labels' is a decent strategy for the 2-3 months I plan on doing this for. Newsflash: if you move in with her, you’re in a relationship with her. Quit fucking hamstering. This is scarcity thinking at its finest, and you are rationalizing to avoid realizing it
/r/askMRP29/05/20 10:43 PM
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Once you get the whole thing once, there should be an itch to revisit it
/r/askMRP29/05/20 05:10 PM
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Yes, I like to phrase it using red pill tools to achieve blue pill objectives. Why is it that every guy that comes on here tells us he only read 2-4 books off the entire sidebar when they should have been through the entire sidebar. Then, they wonder why they’re stuck
/r/askMRP28/05/20 10:41 PM
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I’m waiting for the part that shows he’s red pill now, rather than an angry blue pill faggot.
/r/askMRP26/05/20 04:23 PM
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This is all just “noise” she is creating, and like a good beta, you are following the noise like it means something. The game is... She says jump- you say “how high?” It’s all bullshit. For sure you need to get clear cut documents on custody. First, approach it in a “let’s put together a custody agreement” way, and if she pushes back, then take it to a court mediator . You don’t necessarily need to spend a ton on a lawyer, depending on your state. In my eye, you wouldn’t need an attorney since a…
/r/askMRP24/05/20 05:39 PM
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Definitely go Olympic. 1 inch is for teenagers. I had a hard time finding weights/bench/rack equipment in a reasonable time, so I just bought some Olympic plates of various sizes on FB marketplace and offer up. I think I paid a little over $2/pound. I did get a bench from Amazon, but I feel like I got lucky. I tried to buy a squat rack from Rogue, but it said they were out and to get on their availability email list. If I were you, I’d use what you have for now until gyms open for an while where…
/r/askMRP17/05/20 09:10 PM
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Why didn’t you just google this? The snip procedure has a very high success rate I’m more curious about this: Working on myself and making plans for next stage. What does this look like, details Are you doing OYS posts? What are your lifts, Sidebar?
/r/askMRP14/05/20 06:38 AM
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Damn just say what procedure she fucking had... I’d be willing to bet it’s debatable that it’s bad for her and dangerous to the baby. I’m not going to argue the point either way because I don’t know enough about it, but if it’s an epidural, that’s definitely a pro/con decision. Here’s my official advice: Let it go faggot Or You can take the cop out and call it irreconcilable differences, which translates to you having a hissy fit because you didn’t get your way.
/r/askMRP12/05/20 10:15 PM
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Also, if you're scared of showing vulnerability your frame is shit. Ding ding ding ding OP, you’re trying to be Mr. Alpha, evidenced by her saying you should show more vulnerability. In other words, she sees through your act, so she’s trying to get to the real you. It’s a shit test, but it’s also a comfort test. Well, it’s a “shitty comfort test.” Don’t be so afraid of vulnerability. If you show it for I’m a position of strength, it can still be masculine. Just don’t go full beta Billy and start…
/r/askMRP11/05/20 05:42 AM
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Sure does
/r/askMRP08/05/20 04:27 AM
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Well, you’re on the right track, but there’s no such thing as one plate. If you only have one plate, that’s called a girlfriend. Plates are to be spun in 3 or more. It sounds hard, but if you are in shape and have strong frame, it’s actually quite easy because you will have abundance. Women can smell abundance. When you get to that point, you will always have 3 spinning and 3+ wanting to get in the rotation. Then, you won’t care if a plate breaks because she will be replaced immediately. This is…
/r/askMRP07/05/20 04:59 AM
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T> I do worry about her apparent vindictiveness You should. When you originally left, the event was her acting like you were abusing her. In 4 years on here and other pages, I can’t tell you how many times I’ve seen this domestic card being pulled and destroying men’s lives. Now, she’s had 2 years to think about ways she could screw You over. It’s not worth the sex. That is scarcity thinking. Get in shape, build some frame, and slay all the pussy you want. I have a feeling you already made up yo…
/r/askMRP07/05/20 03:28 AM
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Yet another troll post
/r/askMRP07/05/20 01:17 AM
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She tells me not to bust her balls. I looked her straight in the eye for some seconds, told her she's lying again. What did you hope to accomplish here besides letting her know she’s running dread on you very effectively? STFU about it. Don’t bring him up again. It’s a lose/lose- is she’s fucking him, she’ll lie. If she’s not, she’s going to keep dreading you with it. You clearly have ONEitis. You need to start working on yourself to reverse this situation. She should be the one worried about yo…
/r/askMRP06/05/20 08:26 PM
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About three years in she found incriminating messages between me and an ONS. I denied, timed moved on, but she voiced how much she regretted "letting me off easy". Damn, I can’t believe you omitted this. This seals the fate of the relationship. She’s trying to draw you back in so she can fuck you over. Trust me. It will be an epic mistake. She already showed her hand with the domestic violence threat. Don’t be a dumbass and let her execute it.
/r/askMRP06/05/20 04:00 AM
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Cut carbs and and eat within an 8 hour window and you can literally eat as much of whatever else you want and lose weight without even exercising. I agree intermittent fasting works. Last time I bulked, I put on 19 pounds. I used intermittent fasting to lose 10 of it when I cut - 2 pounds a week for 5 weeks... my easiest cut ever. I don’t agree about the Keto part, but I’m usually in the minority here on that. I view it as just another diet fad. When I did that 10 pound cut, I just made sure I h…
/r/askMRP06/05/20 03:45 AM
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The divorce process has not been combative, but slow I stopped reading here because I k ow BS is to follow It doesn’t take 2 years to have a divorce in a non-combative filing / I don’t care what state you live in. What is your height/weight, lifts, Sidebar? I suspect you are a fat beta. If you had done any work whatsoever, it’s pretty damn easy to get a woman to commit to marriage. In any case, the fact that’s your goal speaks volumes about your lack of abundance. You should be smashing pussy fo…
/r/askMRP06/05/20 03:25 AM
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No, the wording was very precise.... “overt” loss of frame... you are correct- he didn’t have frame, and it manifested overtly 5 times in 24 hours.
/r/askMRP05/05/20 06:33 AM
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I’m going to try to open your eyes to why you are lost and confused. So, I’m going to break down most of your post. You’re probably not going to like what you read because it’s the truth. It’s shark week, she’s been difficult. I STFU’d while she went on about how I care about my friends more than her. I snapped 1st overt loss of frame I complained a little about why moping for a whole day because of a 1 hour issue wasn’t good for anyone. 2nd overt loss of frame Two minute later she calls back, I…
/r/askMRP05/05/20 03:36 AM
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The general picture is good support for everything except handling your own emotions OP - This is just another part of the pill you have to swallow and accept. It’s also sidebar 101 material. Go to bros for support, but don’t be a whiny bitch. If you don’t have any bros, find some. Also, if she is your only support system, you will develop ONEitis ... I’m guessing you already have it though.
/r/askMRP03/05/20 04:47 PM
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I’d take a stronger bench over squat... but that’s just me.. it’s taken me a long time to build my bench to where it is. Alternating in 1 day a week close grip bench pushed through a 5-year plateau, and then I literally went up 40 lbs, 5x5 Honestly my squat isn’t where I want it to be, but it’s decent considering never took it seriously until joining MRP 4 yrs ago...
/r/askMRP02/05/20 06:04 PM
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Just back off more. Provide a little more comfort.
/r/askMRP01/05/20 04:12 AM
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I'm not in the right headspace today to do XYZ", "I've never liked [blank] and would prefer [blank]", etc. - my ego wants to push through her resistance and label it a shit test because if I let her have her way I no longer feel like I am in control NO. You’d end up looking butthurt. That’s the last thing you want to do during sex. If she says no, sometimes the reasons are actually valid like end of cycle, not feeling well... etc. just go with it and do it on a dominant way because you don’t giv…
/r/askMRP30/04/20 04:49 PM
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These are mostly “shitty comfort tests.” In other words, she wants to see you’re strong (shit test), and then she wants you to comfort her. You lack the frame to recognize and act appropriately to this type of situation. You are taking it personally, again because you lack frame. So, how do you build frame? STFU for starters.
/r/askMRP29/04/20 11:29 PM
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The years i have been married/ltr i live in tension, either from going beta and living with a bitch, or keeping my game at all times If you’re stress while keeping your game, then you’re just not there yet. When you have rock solid frame, you’re indifferent to her trying to start fights. You live intuitively, and you just know when to STFU, when to AM, A&A, fogging, grab her and pull her in for a kiss.. etc It sounds like you have a potato chip up your ass, fully in tact: lighten up and quit bei…
/r/askMRP29/04/20 03:35 AM
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Absolutely zero understanding of the material. That about sums up this post. It doesn’t make any sense. Pass.
/r/askMRP27/04/20 05:17 AM
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Have had tons of arguments in the last 6 months So, you have no frame Tonight I'm trying to get my 3 year old to take a bath but she doesn't want to for some reason, and is crying so I dropped it. And you let your 3 year old run stuff She calls me lazy, because I spent an hour watching the nfl draft last night. And you have no leadership Anything else you want to let us know about? How about you stop writing less about her and more about you. Lifts, height/weight which sidebar readings have you …
/r/askMRP25/04/20 01:56 AM
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He’s more interested in DEERing on here than seeing the problem and taking action. It’s gonna be groundhog’s day
/r/askMRP23/04/20 06:25 PM
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If im missing something please correct me. Otherwise im gonna go pop some popcorn and wait for the fireworks. I’d say LOL, but that’s too cliche’. But I’ll say I did laugh out loud
/r/askMRP23/04/20 06:22 PM
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You’re missing the point. You are overlooking big red flags, which is what I’m trying to make you see
/r/askMRP23/04/20 04:48 PM
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Wait, you you married this chick you met overseas 7 months ago post and now you’re surprised she’s in the country looking for independence? You’re surprised she’s ignoring you and on social media after you gave her a free ride into the country? This is the dumbest post I’ve seen in a while, and there’s been some doozies lately When this question was asked: This the same woman you were "falling hard for" 7 months ago? What is wrong with you? You answered: Yes. No regrets.
/r/askMRP23/04/20 06:28 AM
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In modern society if a woman decides she wants to fck an alpha she gets half his worldly possessions and keeps the kids as prize money - enslaving the man. This goes beyond even men. For example, if the man has a wealthy family, sometimes a woman will be more likely to have multiple children (beyond what she even wants) because they are like little insurance policies for the mother. She can then continually use the wealthy family’s mother’s weak spot (time with grandchildren) to continually ask …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/20 12:11 AM
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Key difference: a man can train a virgin to be a whore just for him, but a woman can't train a beta to be an alpha. This is the main point that OP missed, and it’s probably the most important point
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/20 12:06 AM
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You just wasted 2 minutes of my life
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/20 05:20 PM
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I don't currently have anyone to replace her with my emotional problems You do this with men, not women. This is Sidebar 101 information, so I doubt you read the sidebar. Why would therapy be cheating? I don’t even understand why you would ask this question.
/r/askMRP21/04/20 02:42 AM
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Her cheating early in is the least of your worries, and did she really cheat or were you not exclusive with her yet? You’re very vague here, and you don’t say how long you’ve been together, which would give a lot of context. This feels like yet another troll post, so I’m going to keep it short and to the point. So, you woke up at 40 and found that you don’t have much going for you. OK, well, get it going then
/r/askMRP20/04/20 09:57 PM
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Like I said, start with STFU. If you do it right, it will take you a good amount of time to figure it out because it’s different for everyone. Develop your brand of STFU through trial and error STFU doesn’t mean go mute. It means talking less... less DEERing, less babbling, less butthurt... etc. don’t expect it to happen overnight. Have patience.
/r/askMRP18/04/20 07:34 AM
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what condition do I need to be in, in order to re-engage in a healthy relationship?" This sentence sums up your main issue. You are trying to achieve blue pill ideals through red pill means. You will be lost until you realize this You need to focus on a better you , not better relationships. Better relationships are the byproduct of a better you.
/r/askMRP18/04/20 07:27 AM
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Frame is the real struggle for me. And I naturally learn things well, but it's probably my weakest point even though I've done the most reading on it Ok, this is a good starting point. Reading on frame won’t do anything unless the practice is alongside it. If you have weak frame, it essentially means you seeks others approval more than your own. If you have frame, nothing can shake it. You seem to be looking for the right responses at the right time based on your next couple lines (after your fr…
/r/askMRP17/04/20 05:06 AM
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Support the writers for helping you get your balls back and helping you transform your life...cheap fuck
/r/askMRP17/04/20 03:30 AM
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You should be able to find free weights on FB Marketplace or other online used sites like Offer-up at this point. You just have to check a few times a day, so not being able to get weights is no longer an excuse... i checked a few times last week and I saw Olympic plates available several times on FB Marketplace. I could see pull ups as a decent alternative, but definitely not push-ups. Pull-ups is not enough for a well rounded back workout. As a general rule you should be hitting at least 3 ang…
/r/askMRP17/04/20 01:32 AM
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What parts of MRP am missing? The parts you missed while you were “dabbling.” It would be helpful if you explained to us what dabbling means to you It’s pretty simple really. Not sure if you’ve seen this, but the formula is Sidebar (Read the whole sidebar, and reread. Rinse. Repeat. Lift STFU It takes time. Your wife if probably used to you being a faggot, and she’s not going to change her mind overnight. I’m not going to spoon feed it to you beyond that... especially since this feels like anoth…
/r/askMRP16/04/20 09:43 PM
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Man, these troll posts seem to come in waves
/r/askMRP15/04/20 01:15 AM
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As the gyms started closing, I immediately bought a nice Olympic bench and 300 lbs weights. It took a couple weeks for delivery, so I borrowed some 45’s dumbbells from a relative until they got there. Now, I’m lifting heavy, as usual. I didn’t skip a beat really. Sounds like you’re a lazy fuck full of excuses. Instead of coming up with a backup plan and executing, you’ve decided to go back to faggot workouts. This Quarantine is throwing most people's plans into disarray. No it’s not. Only the fa…
/r/askMRP15/04/20 12:35 AM
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What do you want then? Medical advice? B-b- uuut... he “follows” MRP and has “no issues.” Perhaps, he’s the only guy on here that has graduated , figured it all out, and has zero issues. He’s so alpha he probably needs his own special flair.
/r/askMRP14/04/20 08:45 PM
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developed into Coronavirus symptoms. First, you said she was exposed to coronavirus, and then you say the lady had “Coronavirus Symptoms.” So, if she wasn’t diagnosed with it, then you don’t know. Secondly, it sounds like she’s been well for a while now. Here’s my advice: Quit being a faggot and go on the internet to do your own research and /or have your wife discuss it with her doctor or you discuss it with your doctor. They have a lot of teledocs available these days
/r/askMRP14/04/20 04:21 AM
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work how did you meet a red pill women?. 7-11 is your best bet. Hang out there all day until you find your future snowflake
/r/askMRP12/04/20 06:50 AM
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I couldn’t control myself lambasting them verbally to my wife, making fun of those people on social media via memes, etc. You just needed to take the word “couldn’t “ out of your vocabulary and replace it with wouldn’t or won’t You were speaking the language of a victim and victims don’t take responsibility for their actions. As soon as you stopped being a victim of yourself and start making an effort to change your behaviors, your life got better. Owing a bad behavior without making behavioral …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/20 04:11 AM
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/u/Sepean nailed it
/r/askMRP08/04/20 09:32 PM
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I hate spoilers
/r/askMRP08/04/20 09:31 PM
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Wow, where to even start.... I look at her and say you wanted me to shower when I got home, so I did. Mommy is glad you’re taking orders so well. Does She tell you when to poop also? Can you see how it’s A) A faggot move - you should take showers whenever and wherever you want And B) A faggot answer (It’s actually a subtle form of DEERing) it’s good to see you, too.” She gave me a look like I was out of line. It was a mistake NO - this is probably your best move in this train wreck of a field re…
/r/askMRP08/04/20 04:50 AM
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I kinda skimmed it. Missed that lol
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/20 12:13 AM
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I’m going to make this really simple: She’s just not that into you
/r/askMRP07/04/20 11:18 PM
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Found this... seems to support exactly what I experienced . I also started to have higher blood pressure as this suggests. It makes logical sense too me since water retention can cause high BP. However, it’s important to note I may have been loading at unsafe levels, so it doesn’t necessarily cause these issues. Creatine and creatinine
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/20 10:17 PM
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Fair enough. The only reason why I bring it up is because I had been loading for several years and I went in for a physical in my kidney enzymes for creatinine were high, and they’ve been high ever since then. The strange thing is they ran further testing on my kidneys and determined that there’s nothing wrong with them
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/20 05:06 PM
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What about the possibility of overworking your kidneys if it loads up too much ( for older people , 50+)? It can happen with a lot. I actually showed some high kidney enzymes, and the eventually traced it back to super high B12 from supplementation. That’s my main concern. Often times, it’s hard to trace why somebody might have a kidney enzymes. And if somebody is taking creatine for many years and then shows high kidney enzymes, the doctor might not put two and two together. I’m just throwing o…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/20 10:15 PM
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Lol. I probably couldn’t honestly. My head doesn’t have a conducive shape for the “bald look.” So I’m pretty glad I have my hair.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/20 09:38 PM
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/u/RStonePT Looks like you know the science of creatine. I just know when I used it, I seemed to be able to get an extra rep or 2. And recovery times between sets was shorter, which did help me gain muscle. I don’t use it anymore since I don’t know the long term effects. I think I read you should cycle it... but like I said that’s about all I know about creatine- my experience. I’ve never researched it much.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/20 09:21 PM
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All you look now is more bloated in the chest due to high E2. I had the exact thought. Dude looked better at the lower weight. He just needed some more trap work. Now, he’s been unnecessarily taking a substance that he doesn’t know the long term effects to have bitch tits. I’m not against T. I could have gone on it probably when I was 40 due to low levels from a med I need to take. I grinded it out for 9 more years with low T and hit the gym extra hard. I probably added 10 lbs of muscle between …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/20 09:10 PM
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You want some magical formula. Ok, here’s your magical formula: Become more attractive Read the sidebar Lift develop frame
/r/askMRP03/04/20 04:58 PM
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That’s bullshit. You should have been working in your game all along. If you have a reasonable amount of game and frame , you should easily be able to get laid. What is your height/weight/lifts?
/r/askMRP03/04/20 02:00 AM
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Pain is a temporary emotion. It will pass - it always does. But it’s been a whole 2 months after a 7 year marriage. She should be cured since he’s a “long time lurker.” But, seriously OP, the thing you are missing is you have a severe case of ONEitis. It’s a disease. Man, what a blessing it is to be free to take RP Principles and hit up up some fresh poon.
/r/askMRP02/04/20 08:09 PM
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This is a reasonable boundary to set up front. Just do it like a man, not like a faggot and you’ll be fine. Be straightforward. If she doesn’t agree, it’s an easy next.
/r/askMRP01/04/20 09:47 PM
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Make the sex better, and it won’t be duty sex anymore. But if she’s initiating , you probably have some dread going on... so that’s a positive
/r/askMRP29/03/20 11:22 PM
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Treat it like summertime when the kids are off. Keep it simple
/r/askMRP26/03/20 04:05 AM
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LOL - Solid addition
/r/askMRP24/03/20 09:21 PM
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Yes, always practice safety when working out
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/20 08:25 PM
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Why would you take the next step with someone you are losing sexual interest in She’s already packing on pounds because she’s so confident she has her beta boy locked in. Imagine how her weight would balloon once you move in together. Oh yeah, then, she’ll lock you into the next step again.... marriage As Michael Caine says in Inception “Come back to reality.” No seriously, you need a reality check. You have to do what’s right for you long term or you will end up just another blue pill AFC. You …
/r/askMRP24/03/20 06:21 AM
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Been a long time lurker. “red pill aware “ - check Ive been athletic my whole life and i consider my looks to be of that of an alpha Used to be alpha as fuck - check Insecure as fuck about his woman cheating (disguised in a post about it) - check So by deduction, I assume your question is will your wife cheat on you? The answer is yes because you are a passive aggressive faggot who doesn’t even have the balls to straight ask a question to internet strangers
/r/askMRP24/03/20 12:10 AM
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Yeah I did some prep too for sure. I think I now own literally 20 lbs of high quality protein power. Also, I bought an Olympic bench and enough weight to do bench and incline press as well as the ability to hit all other body parts. Your right look Ming back at it now... it was more the people going overboard in full panic mode I was referring to, which isnt you. So, basically I’m changing my stance after reassessing your post... probably read into it a bit much. Also, I bought a new block and a…
/r/askMRP23/03/20 08:29 AM
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I know you’re being Funny... but I’ve never had an issue with them. I used one for several years as a regular part of my back workouts.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/20 01:13 AM
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Tell us more about how alpha you were.... I don’t see what the confusion is. This is a no-brainer next
/r/askMRP17/03/20 10:55 PM
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I get that but just because You post an article doesn’t mean you believe everything in it. You know about critical thinking. I suggest people look at multiple sources and come to conclusions- kinda like the sidebar- you don’t just look at one source and sometimes they contradict each other
/r/askMRP17/03/20 09:05 PM
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Haha yep
/r/askMRP17/03/20 09:03 PM
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Going to have to disagree. The way it is being treated is causing a recession already in a very short time.
/r/askMRP17/03/20 03:19 PM
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That’s not what I’m reading. They are already testing, and they’ve found a vaccine that works in mice. Not on a mass scale, but they are very close to a vaccine for those at high risk. In an emergency situation, things can happen a lot faster. Every year they get the flu virus out based on the strain. This shouldn’t be any more difficult. There’s a lot of fake news out there.
/r/askMRP17/03/20 12:48 PM
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follow business as usual. Is this a joke? Lockdowns and layoffs sweep as nation They are shutting down everything systematic. Today, San Fran starts A house quarantine for ALL residents. They can’t go to work or anything- basically only to the grocery Store. Watch this spread across the country. Big retailers are shutting down, neighborhood clubhouses, schools, sporting events... and it’s getting worse. If San Fran is the test, and I think it is, the rest of the country will take it on also, jus…
/r/askMRP17/03/20 12:39 PM
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Vaccine is right around the corner Amazing how responsive our best minds can be.
/r/askMRP16/03/20 03:06 AM
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There’s a difference between learning from mistakes and eating paint. Don’t overthink it at 3 months. It always takes a year minimum to start really getting it. Take your time.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/20 02:14 AM
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You can’t RP someone... especially when you yourself do not even have a basic concept of what dread is dread. I told him not to initiate contact for at least 1-2 weeks. This is not dread. It’s weak. Click For a better understanding of Dread levels It doesn’t say anything about faking a social or sex life... because that’s a blue pill beta move.
/r/askMRP16/03/20 12:44 AM
1

H1N1 had a much lower fatality percentage... closer to a regular flu.
/r/askMRP15/03/20 02:18 AM
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Yep I’m 51, and I’ve seen enough of these scary corrections to know it will come back. The last one took many years, But then it surpassed greatly. I sold real estate to the top 1% when everybody was so panicked they put their 401k in cash at a big loss. If they would have just held.... The 2 no-brainers are real estate and stocks
/r/askMRP15/03/20 02:15 AM
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Time will tell. I’ve done some research on pandemics, and shutting down the country just tends to slow it down and drag it out. The end result of fatalities is about the same, but when it’s dragged out, it hurts the economy much worse. People are split. I know they are because I meet lots who share my opinion. Most on that side are scared to post about it - probably smartly. Im going to stop discussing it because nobody wins ever.... just like discussing politics. Im adding corona onto the list …
/r/askMRP14/03/20 04:48 PM
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If you are going to let a virus that has killed 40 people affect your next 6 months while the flu has killed 18k this year, you might want to not go with the cattle on this one. Tell me how you plan on changing the next 6 months based on a virus that is weeks away from a vaccine?
/r/askMRP14/03/20 06:18 AM
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This!!!!!
/r/askMRP14/03/20 04:27 AM
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We’ve been through worse. Swine flue killed 14k before the Obama administration even acknowledged it Yes, we shall see. But, this post was more about stocking up and preparing for the zombie apocalypse (that’s sarcasm). Now, I agree with just about everything Steel puts out, but this isn’t one of them. I’m not stocking up on anything, so we’ll See if I regret it. Yes some old people and pre-existing conditions people are going to die. But, we have 60k dying from the flu, mostly elderly and with …
/r/askMRP14/03/20 04:08 AM
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Buy when there's blood in the streets -- Warren Buffett This. I promise you, the 1% will
/r/askMRP13/03/20 11:00 PM
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My daughter had the corona and it was nothing more than a bad virus to her. This is killing the elderly and those with preexisting conditions. Just try to protect those groups. I don’t think this is going to be as bad as the the bird flu, which killed 14k. The caught this one early in the US. So I’m not stocking up on anything. The current administration seems to have a great plan for this The worst thing people can do is panic. The panic would be much worse than the virus effects This will prob…
/r/askMRP13/03/20 08:21 PM
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Yeah, he’s “red pill aware”
/r/askMRP13/03/20 05:14 AM
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We don’t care about your above average height and income. What are your lifts, height/weight, and sidebar readings?
/r/askMRP13/03/20 04:38 AM
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Yeah I was building in a little muscle growth after the weight loss... probably wishful thinking
/r/askMRP10/03/20 10:54 PM
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I know my wife well enough to know that she’d tell him to fuck off, The fact his wife didn’t say anything might be an indication... then again, it is he boss, and some women are just very non-confrontational. You have to wonder how he behaves with OP’s wife when he’s not there though (if he says that while OP is there). Whether it was an alcohol induced statement or not, this is a situation where OP should have called him out on the spot.
/r/askMRP10/03/20 09:46 PM
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You just became 2/3 wolf. Well put
/r/askMRP10/03/20 09:40 PM
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You need to lose a good 25-30 with those numbers. Get honest with yourself
/r/askMRP10/03/20 09:37 PM
5

You cracked the code!
/r/askMRP10/03/20 05:10 AM
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It's not more complicated. B-b-ba-buuuuut his wife is a snowflake. She NWALT
/r/askMRP10/03/20 03:34 AM
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Or, go LIFT. I think I put on at least 5 pounds of muscle in the first 6 months lifting at her
/r/askMRP10/03/20 03:02 AM
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Yes, I like this. It's brutal, but very clear. I'm going to make this my own. That’s the only correct answer btw
/r/askMRP10/03/20 02:57 AM
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What’s your height and weight? Your lifts are very weak. kept calm and didn't DEER. I also didn't back down and just kept re-iterating my point You are DEERing if you keep reiterating your point. Go broken record once or twice, and then STFU. This is how I understand the whole dynamic ... I've started .. Blah blah blah... nope. She’s not attracted to you and hasn’t been in a long time. It’s probably too late for your situation. She almost certainly been fucking someone based on her overblown rea…
/r/askMRP09/03/20 11:52 PM
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Know the difference between shit tests and just plain disrespect. They are treated differently. She may be right (you have no balls) if she is being outright disrespectful, and you are not nipping it in the bud.
/r/askMRP09/03/20 11:42 PM
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It’s common knowledge around here. Keep reading posts... read the sidebar, lift, and STFU until you get a grasp on this stuff
/r/askMRP07/03/20 02:31 AM
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Well that’s even sadder
/r/askMRP07/03/20 02:30 AM
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None of her responses were about sex no fucking adventure time for you late at night if u can’t let me sleep in the AM ass hat That’s not about sex? Look, you come on here looking for advice and then you argue with people trying to help you - you’re missing the mark by breaking some standard MRP tenets like texting only for logistics . You’ve taken enough of my time.
/r/askMRP07/03/20 02:03 AM
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Way too much texting. Texting for logistics only and for sure not for fighting You fell right into her spider web by responding. You should have ghosted it and then acted like the text never happened when you got home. She might start thinking she’s married to a real man who she can’t easily pull into her frame. Basically, what happened is she’s not attracted to you, so she found a BS excuse to not have sex with you. That’s not a shit test. Learn the difference between shit tests and disrespect/…
/r/askMRP06/03/20 06:09 PM
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AWALT is also on a spectrum for if they turn on you. I’m sure there are reasons you married your last wife. I’m sure she appeared like she was high quality, otherwise you wouldn’t have married her. LTR’s are auditions. You don’t really find out who a woman is until a couple years in... and trust me, they ALL have some AWALT negative characteristics... on a spectrum. But, if a woman is really trying to kill the puppy, she can swing to the ugly side of the spectrum. So, not only is AWALT on a scal…
/r/askMRP06/03/20 01:06 PM
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Sounds like you found a snowflake
/r/askMRP06/03/20 02:32 AM
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True, they have to have a base to work with... but a high quality man with great leadership can turn a surprising number of women into quality women... the 1000 ft rope is real
/r/askMRP05/03/20 07:38 PM
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forget about your wife and go get those GILFS! Lol good stuff
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/20 07:08 PM
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My relationship with my wife is behind where I thought it was. We haven't had a main event A main event is not a necessity... not sure where you got that idea At the same time, I am staying disconnected from her actions and results Are you? Because the whole first part of your post was about how you’re making alterations (mostly verbally) to change her results . Not a bad report , but you’re talking out both sides of your mouth here
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/20 07:04 PM
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I completely lost frame the second some girl I don’t care about acted a little bit sad At least you recognize it. But, you should continue dating or at least hooking up. One common mistake is I see guys go into “monk mode” to improve their self , but if you want better frame you have to practice
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/20 06:57 PM
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Finding her was pure dumb luck. Good comment, but this is BS. Give yourself credit
/r/askMRP05/03/20 06:52 PM
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I gave my wife a full body workout to do and some light weights. She did it at home for 3 weeks , and then she switched to Pilates. I wouldn’t put a lot of effort into this.
/r/askMRP05/03/20 05:36 PM
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This seems so crazy that I assumed it had to be a troll post. But, your account appears to be valid. There’s so much wrong, I don’t even know where to start. You should have listened when we all told you the ILYBINILWY speech was her begging you to kill the puppy. Get your ducks in a row. Stop all physical contact because you are too much of a faggot to not get drawn back in (by your ego). BTW. Your ego convincing you that you were alpha and turning the situation around is really a defense mecha…
/r/askMRP04/03/20 07:38 PM
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There is no perfect way to measure. Even the Navy method can be off because various bodies are different and carry fat in different spots. I personally like the visual method. Can you see your abs? Are your muscles defined? Do you have love handles... etc. Take some good hard looks in the mirror from various angles, and decide whether you are happy with the way you look. Be brutally honest. If not, get to work until you look in the mirror and say to yourself, “damn I’m ripped, jacked, and cut.” …
/r/askMRP04/03/20 12:38 AM
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Apparently, it is for him
/r/askMRP04/03/20 12:32 AM
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Cool bro. Thanks for the humble brag. Now, read the sidebar and STFU
/r/askMRP03/03/20 06:49 PM
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She ... blah blah blah Her blah blah blah Damn, you need to move on form caring so much about her... even your victory comments sound like you are stuck on her.
/r/askMRP01/03/20 01:43 AM
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Yes, you’re right , but this example is a bit different since there’s controls (danger) forcing him to stay focused. In real life, you have to dig deep within
/r/askMRP29/02/20 05:14 AM
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He’s concentrating on not crashing, so not the best example IMO He probably barley hears anything she’s saying because he’s concentrating
/r/askMRP28/02/20 11:50 PM
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Excellent. This is why we do this! Right here ^
/r/askMRP27/02/20 06:17 PM
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I’m not against it for philosophical discussion when the OP clearly has a grasp on the basics... I’m not getting that here. I see a guy trying to split hairs about topics he has very little understanding
/r/askMRP27/02/20 02:17 AM
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You are overthinking this thing to death. Get the basics down: lift, sidebar, stfu
/r/askMRP26/02/20 09:37 PM
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9 times out of the the numbers don’t jive. Glad that helped you.
/r/askMRP25/02/20 06:00 PM
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Nothing to add except you are at least 25% BF with those lifts, height/weight
/r/askMRP25/02/20 03:15 AM
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You don’t give any Timeframes Lifts Height/Weight Sidebar readings Without these it’s impossible to get s good picture of your situation
/r/askMRP24/02/20 11:58 PM
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He has time for meditation books and meditation but no time for the gym.
/r/askMRP23/02/20 05:51 PM
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I accepted that the friends I have are either bluepilled or trash. So i rather be alone. Even my couple friends who think they are red pulled are mostly blue pill. So, yes, in red pill matters , it’s usually best to stick by yourself or this forum. For OP: On ordinary issues, take it to another man. He doesn’t need to be red pilled to handle ordinary conversation. For red pill issues, refer to sidebar readings and Reddit
/r/askMRP19/02/20 01:28 AM
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How long have you been in your position? This is not necessarily a woman issue - it could be a corporate culture issue. It doesn’t sound like you have any male superiors for comparison though. Just watch your back, and if the writing is on the wall, check out other companies... or if you have the balls, start up your own company on the side until it grows enough to get out. Entrepreneurship is not for the weak though. If you think corporate is tough, try flying without a net with your own busine…
/r/askMRP18/02/20 12:11 AM
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He’s at least 120 lbs. over ideal RP weight. I picture Bob from fight club. “Because of his "bitch tits", Bob is the only known member who is allowed to wear a shirt.”
/r/askMRP15/02/20 01:07 AM
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Your lifts don't matter when you EASILY have 100+ pounds of fat on your body. My exact thought. With all that fat,nobody can even tell OP even liftts
/r/askMRP14/02/20 11:16 PM
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I’m unsure how my woman will react to me becoming full on MRP. No stats, no sidebar readings... your post and comments make it clear that you have no idea what you are talking about. Get to work
/r/askMRP07/02/20 05:57 PM
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Dear skinny fat: Sorry, it’s not possible
/r/askMRP06/02/20 11:52 PM
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This post is along the lines of 5 beta guys hanging out together at a party because their wives told them too... so, they start telling jokes about how marriage killed their sex life. OP needs to read the sidebar. We can’t reaaaaaccccchhhhh yooooooouuuui iiiinnnnmmn tttthhhhheeeerrrrreeeeee. Did I hear a niner?
/r/askMRP06/02/20 11:50 PM
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/u/HornsOfApathy - On fire - in the zone.
/r/askMRP04/02/20 09:20 PM
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The legal advice I sought back in Nov was that 50/50 shared care for the kids is unlikely because my youngest is only 2 and she needs to spend majority of the time with her mother. I don’t know what state you live in, but get a 2nd opinion on this - sounds like BS. You would be interviewing at least 3 attorneys. What. The. Fuck. Is. Your. Question? All I see is rambling whining and excuses.
/r/askMRP03/02/20 05:44 AM
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So much wrong, I don’t know where to begin. First off, the bar is unstable. You are going to hurt someone. Step one is get that bar steady, wedged in. Also, I don’t understand why you’re leaning forward at the beginning. That’s partially why the bar is unstable. Go to a lower weight and work on your form. Get the bar nice and stable, situated breathe in as you go down Straight down until 90 degrees start to blow out as you go up. Keep get planted firmly, chest out, and go get straight up It’s no…
/r/askMRP01/02/20 05:17 AM
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I don’t understand what you want here. You know what needs to be done, so just do it.
/r/askMRP01/02/20 05:08 AM
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Would you mind expanding on this? I think some details could really help OP here
/r/askMRP30/01/20 06:53 AM
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This is textbook . We see this all the time. She’s either cheating or has a guy or 2 lined up. If you read any of the sidebar you’d know this. Of course, absolutely no mention of sidebar readings in your post. You need to start mentally preparing yourself for what’s coming. Based on the fact that you are replying to her ridiculous texts, you don’t have the frame for this whole situation. respond with you know what I expect, lets talk at home...that's very degrading to me... let's talk at home...…
/r/askMRP30/01/20 06:51 AM
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Since it was brought up eh... Well since it was brought up, it must be important. Thanks for keeping us in the loop
/r/askMRP28/01/20 02:44 AM
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Instead of “”digesting “ the pill, which is the equivalent of “being red pill aware,”. Which is the equivalent of being a faggot... Do a year of weekly OYS posts, lift (WTF - those were my 9th grad lifts) Start owning your life (Your concept of snakes is holding back your ownership) Read the sidebar (not even a mention of one book in your post) Thr only thing you have digested is your blue pill lifestyle and mentality. You just went from sucking on the BP lifestyle to deep throating it Get to wo…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/20 02:19 PM
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I don’t know why you think someone else having the same injury is going to help you on here? A doctor should be well equipped to tell you how to handle it. As far as your wife goes, this shouldn’t change anything. You just need to have frame, and frame is mostly mental although lifting will help with frame. Either you have frame or you don’t. That injury sounds shitty, and I’d be pissed too, but I don’t understand what you are tying to accomplish on here... sympathy? Medical advice? Frame advice…
/r/askMRP27/01/20 05:25 AM
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This post is almost too cliche to be true I wouldn’t even know where to start
/r/askMRP26/01/20 08:37 PM
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That’s all true... but my point was more along the lines of being careful with “techniques” - start very small ... eventually, it just becomes natural, so it’s no longer a “technique.” That’s my experience
/r/askMRP25/01/20 09:26 PM
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Differentiation is a term often used in family therapy. Families or couples are either high differentiation or low. Low means boundaries are unclear and crossed easily, and the couple (in MRP context) has a hard time thinking of their self out side the marriage. High differentiation does imply better frame because the man sees the world through his own lens and what his partner does doesn’t effect him. This is out of my textbook learning, masters in counseling. High differentiation is encouraged…
/r/askMRP25/01/20 09:04 PM
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I’m not a fan of listening to some other guy’s opinions on RP when we have a sidebar and forum to learn from your own perspective. This guy sounded a bit purple to me I compare it to super religious people who never read the Bible and take everything a pastor says as truth (not that I’m religious)
/r/askMRP24/01/20 09:27 PM
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Yes, fogging is a double edged sword. Start small and build. Don’t try to be a fogging expert out of the gate. But I think you’re mostly right on the progression
/r/askMRP24/01/20 09:25 PM
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That’s why I think it’s important to have partners... different strengths. My main partner is a work-a -holic... literally I’m better at taking a step back and finding efficiencies am catching important stuff that’s missed. Delegation is my specialty (j/k - little AMRP subtle joke there)
/r/askMRP23/01/20 02:04 AM
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I have the opposite problem, taking a break at 50% and then getting sidetracked. The key is awareness and making the change slowly. 10% is 100 percent better than zero%
/r/askMRP23/01/20 12:48 AM
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Case closed I would think. You’d think, but damn it’s easy to lie to yourself and ignore all the signs, which is exactly what OP is doing
/r/askMRP22/01/20 10:17 PM
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Yep, we started a business last year, and it really is all about planning and follow through. It’s a 7 day a week gig until you can get a strong base of people in our business. It’s easy to turn on the TV and put it off, so it does require a ton of discipline . You have to think of it as going to a job and putting in the hours.... and learn from mistakes, which are frequent
/r/askMRP22/01/20 10:15 PM
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Yeah, I wasn’t there for that incident you referred to, but there’s other interesting stuff with my boys too, Which I won’t say on here . But, they are holding up pretty well. One is now engaged, but I think he set like a 5 year engagement +1 for TRP. The other one is reasonably content and living life to the fullest... sold his house and he’s been living out of a small camper... allows him to build his business and keep his costs down... but more importantly, flexible to enjoy nature and hike a…
/r/askMRP22/01/20 08:04 PM
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Ok now I’m pretty sure you’re trolling
/r/askMRP22/01/20 07:43 AM
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Top notch comment /u/rstonept
/r/askMRP22/01/20 05:14 AM
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The demographics are changing around here... expect more and more BP faggots to try to take this place over. We have enough red berets/MRP approved to ward off... for now
/r/askMRP22/01/20 04:42 AM
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Doe a DEER, a female deer
/r/askMRP21/01/20 10:17 PM
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So, it took you 16 months after the ILYBINILWY to make this decision?
/r/askMRP21/01/20 10:13 PM
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I am a good looking guy. Doesn’t matter. Your weak frame makes you unattractive
/r/askMRP21/01/20 10:04 PM
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The rock is stacking for sure. Be probably has a good dr helping him so he doesn’t have a heart attack at 55 (not that he still won’t)
/r/askMRP21/01/20 09:44 PM
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You are weak and unattractive, so naturally she looked for the first excuse to get the fuck away from you and out of your life. This isn’t about your little advices, Abby. Tell us exactly which sidebar books you read. Also, what is your height/weight and lifts?
/r/askMRP21/01/20 07:38 AM
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8% has a high probability of being 20%
/r/askMRP21/01/20 01:49 AM
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Yeah the message was more clear. It’s hard to keep up with the droves who read a couple posts and now think they’re alpha and red pill lol
/r/askMRP20/01/20 10:29 PM
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I’m an administrator or a RP page on FB, and we keep it ver small (under 100 men). I’ve only had to ban one guy in the last year, and it was because he took a hardline stance about how it was “creepy” that a 40 yr old member was dating a 20 yr old. Point is... the larger the group is, the more bannable offenses... probably more than half the AMRP posts should get banned, but I guess you have to give them a chance to take their lumps and start doing the work. I’d say OP used up his chances
/r/askMRP20/01/20 09:20 PM
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Your physical stats don't add up. 8% at 200lbs is enormous, but your squat and deadlift are low. This jumped out at me too. Of course, OP omitted his height, which is very relevant. The more information these guys give about stats, usually it becomes more obvious they are BS’ing either us or their self... or both. An eye opener for me the other day is I was looking up Barry Bond’s weight after he juiced up, and he was only 228.. I think 6’2ish. I would have guessed like 250-260, but he was proba…
/r/askMRP20/01/20 09:15 PM
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This is true, including good looks and muscles. When I was in HS I got a decent amount of pussy just by STFU and a cool leather jacket. When I got to college, I was as good looking and built... but... I didn’t get pussy... because I lacked frame , and I was a try-hard. Fast forward a few decades, now I get tons of IOI and even unsolicited proposals for sex from women. So, I’m 51, but women are way more attracted to me know than when I was 20. The difference... frame and confidence
/r/askMRP20/01/20 05:29 AM
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Agreed
/r/askMRP19/01/20 09:37 PM
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Lol. I like to think of it as layers. As you pass harder and harder shit tests , they become even harder... that’s the real frame tests disguised as “crazy.” But, yeah, go through a nasty divorce and you’ll see the worst enemy you can imagine.
/r/askMRP19/01/20 08:18 PM
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Same way you deal with any argument with a woman... STFU, A&A, fogging, pressure flip... etc. You forgot to put your lifts and books you read. Your biggest mistake there is leaving butthurt. If you leave, you leave well after transpiring events with a smile on your face. Second mistake is communicating about it after you leave... I’m guessing by text (texting outside logistics would be your 3rd mistake) Your 4th mistake is coming back and getting right back into it. Have you read anything? This …
/r/askMRP19/01/20 06:56 AM
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TL;DR: I live in my sister’s frame and want to control her mating decisions. Good luck with all that
/r/askMRP18/01/20 10:36 PM
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Her: nothing Me: fuck off Are you 15 years old? So you act like a jackass and now you want us to fix it?
/r/askMRP18/01/20 10:35 PM
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Wonderful girl, intelligent, briliant, good relationship dynamics, same view on the path we want for our lifes, excellent sex life. Unicorn ✅ Know everything about her within a year ✅ and that after that she never contacted him again. Nope, alpha widowed ✅ low self esteem/no frame for OP ✅ Chad fucked your gF and she wanted more. ✅ I’m not sure why this would surprise you and why you care now (a year later) Become Chad, don’t envy Chad
/r/askMRP18/01/20 10:30 PM
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This reeks of trolling, but I’ll entertain anyway.... You obviously haven’t read the sidebar. What are your lifts? She doesn’t want to fuck a pussy with no frame. That’s what she’s really telling you.
/r/askMRP17/01/20 10:56 PM
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”You're just laying there" She wasn’t just laying there for Chad and hour after she met him in a seedy bar.... Chad wasn’t afraid to give his lifts
/r/askMRP17/01/20 10:52 PM
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Yep. OP is just rewording negotiating desire and as “stating your needs.” 6 of one, half dozen of the other.
/r/askMRP17/01/20 10:50 PM
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I’m very familiar with Navy method. I’m not a big fin of it- you already pointed out one of many possible limitations of it. I like the picture method as crazy as it may sound. Find internet pics of different body fat % and see where you might fit. If you google it, there’s lots of them, so look at a bunch of them. But, definitely keep working on your lifts. Your bench should be at 225 minimum at your height/weight. Also, look at my 2nd part of the parent comment that I just added about determin…
/r/askMRP17/01/20 06:17 AM
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At 6’2”, 196, those lift numbers don’t jive with someone at 11% BF. I’m thinking you’re probably 20% minimum. You either need to increase your lifts or get down to about 175 to be at 11% with those number. The math doesn’t add up. For example, I’m 6’1”, and my 5x5 bench is 250 - 90 pounds more than yours, and I’m around 13% body fat at 200 lbs weight. How is it possible for my numbers to be so much higher and you have a lower BF-%? Hint - it’s not. Get honest with yourself. However, good that yo…
/r/askMRP17/01/20 05:56 AM
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I didn't either. She had a problem with it because I didn't disclose it upfront. Don’t be a flip flopper. You owned it in your initial post, and as soon as someone says something different your flopped back here. Weak Here’s where you initially owned it: Now that I look back, I made a mistake by not disclosing up front. My bad You need to decide whether or not you lied by omission. Don’t let others make that call for you. It shows how weak your frame is.
/r/askMRP17/01/20 05:47 AM
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However I do get called selfish, a jerk, And that’s a bad thing? house, which I had before the marriage and is still only in my name). Most states would award her additional equity accrued during the marriage it’s your residence. If it was an investment property, different. I took a draw 8 months back and she found out and confronted me. Ok, now I’m getting a clearer picture. Taking a secret equity line is a blue pill pussy move. And before you say it wasn’t secret and it’s none of her business.…
/r/askMRP17/01/20 05:27 AM
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Do you have the frame and constitution to pull it off? What are your lifts?
/r/askMRP17/01/20 02:59 AM
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It sounds like you’re “MRP aware.” Oh, it’s always a “beta orbiter.” Ok if that makes you feel better, but if he’s fucking your wife, he’s Chad and your not. What are your lifts? But this is probably at least an emotional affair, and most likely a full blown affair by now. 100% the latter Here’s what you need to ask yourself— Do you have the balls to serve the papers? Do you have the balls to follow through once you serve the papers? What are you going to say when you present the papers (this is…
/r/askMRP17/01/20 01:52 AM
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I’ve noticed a huge difference with women in general, but you have to remember there are other variables like increased muscle mass, strong frame, better dressing, increase confidence ... etc... so, it’s tough to conclusively say whether women can sense high T... but that’s just more “bro science.” Which came first, the chicken or the egg? At the end of the day it doesn’t matter. Improve your physique for you, work on your frame, and you will see results in all areas of your life
/r/askMRP16/01/20 09:18 PM
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it could help you become less of a faggot, but you still have to do the work: Lift, sidebar, STFU There’s plenty of jacked dudes who are faggots because they don’t do the work. If you are just a jacked faggot, it’s still unattractive. However putting in the work on TRT if your bloods are low will certainly help... you’ll see gains pretty quickly if you hit the gym hard. In my case, I was hitting the gym pretty hard just to maintain, so I went onto TRT with the attitude of putting in even more ef…
/r/askMRP16/01/20 08:23 PM
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Damn. Have you been keeping a spreadsheet of these? Lol Gold!
/r/askMRP15/01/20 02:37 AM
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A-fucking-men!
/r/askMRP15/01/20 02:35 AM
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But Chad knows better, he knows that she’s drooling, because muscles on a man are like tits and ass on a woman. I actually had my wife tell me pretty much this exact same thing. I often wear short sleeve shirts that show off my arms. One day as I was leaving, she said me showing my big arms is the same as a woman showing cleavage. I just chuckled, and left
/r/TheRedPill14/01/20 06:16 PM
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Solid post Bobby, and relevant to many OYS posts too. You nailed the intent of the post. I was particularly thinking about recent OYS and AMRP posts
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/20 05:58 PM
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The danger in the “one month per year of beta faggotry” guideline Agree. That’s why I added in “at least” one month per year. But, yes, everyone is coming from a different spot, so it could be shorter or longer... or never /u/rstonept nailed the intent though... to keep newer guys from going Rambo (eating paint)
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/20 05:47 PM
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I’d agree with that. The “aha” moments should come naturally if a person is doing the required work- lifting, read and reread the entire sidebar, and more importantly practice material from the sidebar. Everything is just a theory until it gets put into practice. There was a guy who heard about a cow? And how they make delicious milk. So, he went out and found the exact description of a cow, saw the milk and drank it. He died . What he thought was a cow was a statue of a cow, and it was dripping…
/r/askMRP13/01/20 07:35 PM
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/u/mrchad_thundercock I’m wish I could upvote your comment to the top. Can of whoop ass, but so many helpful RP truths Edit: looks like the cream rises to the top anyway
/r/askMRP13/01/20 06:31 PM
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OYS can be a guide to keep you on path The biggest benefit I found doing OYS is simply seeing my own BS in writing. Do it weekly, and you start to be less of a faggot because you have more awareness of your pitfalls
/r/askMRP13/01/20 06:27 PM
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You have to take action. Practice STFU, lift, work on frame, hobbies, read the ENTIRE sidebar, OYS... etc
/r/askMRP13/01/20 05:56 PM
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Just quit being a faggot and start doing OYS posts. Someone already told you that, but you want an instant cure. It doesn’t work that way
/r/askMRP13/01/20 05:37 PM
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Absolutely. It’s tough to see in the early stages because OP can’t see that he is perpetuating the arguing by engaging. It takes a long time to be comfortable with STFU. His wife probably has a dozen or more buttons she can push at any given time to get OP engaged. Once he stops reacting to her pushing those buttons, the buttons lose their power.
/r/askMRP13/01/20 03:21 AM
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She only an expert if you keep practicing with her
/r/askMRP12/01/20 11:44 PM
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Simple. If she wants to go with her friend, her friend has to pay for it. Simply tell her that and to transfer your half. I honestly don’t understand why that is hard to do. The holding frame part comes if she freaks out and tries to start a fight about it. Just don’t engage... go broken record once or twice, STFU, and let her argue with herself
/r/askMRP12/01/20 11:12 PM
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she's clearly only "attracted" to two things: how I make her feel, and my resources. You got one of the 2 correct Quit snooping around and use that time to read the sidebar and lift. Oh, and it sounds like you got a snowflake otherwise.
/r/askMRP11/01/20 06:33 PM
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Yep, he did not give a fuck and it literally lasted less than a week.
/r/askMRP11/01/20 02:04 AM
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Ok, but cut it in your mind also. It’s a thinking habit you’ve formed over many years to protect your ego.
/r/askMRP11/01/20 02:02 AM
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George Clooney - dude fucked probably thousands of women in their twenties with no issue - granted celebrity - but he’s a man who takes care of himself, dresses well and has that old dude swagger - no homo. That’s ok. Leonardo DiCaprio is my man crush- no homo But to your point...Jack Nicholson... still pulling poon in his 70’s... Mick Jagger, Steven Tyler...same because of swag and didn’t get fat
/r/askMRP10/01/20 09:52 PM
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I'm introverted to the bone, More excuses. You seriously need to take a look at that
/r/askMRP10/01/20 05:41 AM
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Am attempting to be OI about not getting laid, but there’s zero chance my wife is buying any of that, my frame is weak as hell. Well, then don’t attempt. Stick with STFU Ditto for say, rock climbing, but that’s exactly the kind of people I like hanging out with. At 56, there’s also the problem that I’d be “that old guy” hanging out with all the young people. Quit making so many damn excuses. If you could pull off rock climbing with young people at 56, dread would be through the roof. I just read…
/r/askMRP10/01/20 04:39 AM
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Start by turning everything sexual- conversations, grab her butt... etc Then, during sex give her a spanking before or during... its kind of goofy and serious at the same time. It might arouse her.. and you. Eventually... Give her a good serious pounding.
/r/askMRP09/01/20 03:56 AM
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I got comfortable and said some dumb shit over time and she has judged me or bashed me for it. I think you’re still missing the point. You seem to be making an excuse her. If she judged you or bashed you, you shouldn’t care. You do because your frame is weak. Your weak frame not only was scared to answer a simple question, but you DEERed on text after it. Texting should only be for logistics. That’s MRP 101 stuff. DEERing is weak. That’s also MRP 101. Read “The Subtle Art of Not Hiving a Fuck” n…
/r/askMRP08/01/20 03:46 AM
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My wife if 48 (I’m 51), and she has sex with me whenever I want. Literally I think I married a unicorn Or something Oh never mind , I forgot ... I lift, read the sidebar, and have good frame.
/r/askMRP07/01/20 05:19 AM
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ED due to excessive alpha Gold
/r/askMRP07/01/20 05:13 AM
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I’ve taken a step back the last few days to make a list of things I need to get started on. Don’t start making up your own shit. Keep it simple. If you lift, do the readings, practice the readings, and mostly STFU, it will come in time. Don’t be in a hurry- that’s a mistake. Do it for you That is the most important part. The fact that you haven’t had sex in a year does not bode well... that combined with the fact that she’s openly flirting in front of you... Well, the likely implications of that…
/r/askMRP06/01/20 11:27 PM
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First conversation Her: “who did you vote for?” You: “ X “ (who you voted for) Conversation over Second conversation. Her (on text): “blah blah blah” You: Ghost Problem - You are terrified by your wife. Solution - Lift, sidebar, and STFU until you are not
/r/askMRP06/01/20 01:58 AM
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You spent the day building your ego like an air balloon with things like outdoing others in waves (nobody gave a fuck), getting a table (that’s what restaurants do), and then the rest of the night was your wife systematically burning your paper frame. She knows how weak you are and she has zero respect for you. I agree with others that ILYBINILWY is usually textbook code for she’s cheating. The writing is on the wall. 1) quit being a homo and lift some real weights so you can get some real muscl…
/r/askMRP04/01/20 06:20 AM
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I view that as her being desperate for some comfort. Generally (not always) , if her sentence starts with “I, ” it is a comfort test if she’s telling you about her feelings. If it starts with “you” it’s more likely to be a shit test. This was clearly a comfort test. It takes some time to recognize the difference. Don’t just listen to the words... watch her body language, tone of voice... etc. I’d be willing to bet these things screamed “I need comfort.” You are best using STFU until you can deci…
/r/askMRP03/01/20 06:12 PM
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It was just a comfort test... required some comfort
/r/askMRP03/01/20 04:29 PM
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I immediately recognized this as another shit/comfort test. It’s a major problem that you think shit tests and comfort tests are the same thing
/r/askMRP03/01/20 04:35 AM
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Most PCPs won’t touch it with a 10-foot pole, but it’s often a convenient starting point to get your blood tested if you are getting physical blood drawn anyway. I think I started showing symptoms when I dipped below 500
/r/askMRP03/01/20 04:31 AM
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She sent you the workshop link so she can tell everyone she made an effort. This is all textbook. She has moved on emotionally and mentally. In the meantime, increase your weak lifts / hint: if you were 10% BF, your bench would be around 275 at your height/weight. 3 months isn’t jack. Get to work on the sidebar and lifting. Work on STFU. You are not ready to end it. So, work on yourself for now.
/r/askMRP02/01/20 05:06 AM
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All different ages, but I’m 51. I get hit on by women from the 20’s through 50’s... the one that told me I turned her on out of the blue was probably 55ish. Sexy for her age, so she was probably just throwing out bait to see if I’d take it. When I was separated from my wife for a few months last year, I had a beautiful 26 yr old . Closed her the same day I met her at Target. I know what you mean... it’s tempting sometimes, but I think I’d divorce my wife before cheating... not a morality thing..…
/r/askMRP02/01/20 01:10 AM
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For sure, lots of unsolicited advances. I had one woman I hugged, and she whispered in my ear how much I turn her on... etc. she sold me I had an aura about me- I’m wondering if she sensed the T. It completely caught me off guard, but I played it cool. But yes, I have women hitting on me often - sometimes much younger. Before I was on T, I don’t recall that happening, but it could be I was too Beta to read it in part
/r/askMRP01/01/20 09:41 PM
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Same. My heart was always racing and I couldn’t figure out why . I was losing muscle monthly. When I finally had it tested , it was 189. Got on T, and my lifts were back up. Within 6 months my lifts were better than ever (at 50 yrs old). My confidence went through the roof, and I found myself doing cold approaches just for fun.
/r/askMRP01/01/20 05:43 AM
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Have fun. Take all her clothes. I’m curious as to why you think OP should put her clothes in storage.
/r/askMRP01/01/20 02:54 AM
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I’m inclined to just not say anything, and let my disapproval just be a weight in the air. So your plan is to act butthurt? No, ho have fun and ask yourself why you are thinking and acting like a chick. Think about it, keeping a big surprise and then getting upset when the partner doesn’t meet expectations... that’s what chicks do. Be a man, go out and have fun. So much fucking fun that you won’t even be mad at her. She will be pissed AF though when she realizes you had fun without you, and my g…
/r/askMRP01/01/20 02:52 AM
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You want advice for being a weak bitch? Ok For your mental weakness - instead of just reading the sidebar, apply the concepts. If you were applying the concepts, you wouldn’t have married her after she ballooned up 100 lbs (even though you were “MRP aware” for a couple years. For your physical weakness - hit the gym
/r/askMRP01/01/20 02:00 AM
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A year ago I finally choked down the rest of the pill and started doing shit about it. Yet, you married her a year ago, 100 lbs heavier than when you met her... or are you going to tell us she put on 100 lbs in the last year. Your lifts are weak. Even at 175 lbs, your probably skinny fat with those weak numbers.
/r/askMRP01/01/20 01:29 AM
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Your time is better spent in the gym with those numbers. You are skinny fat But, in answer to your question... the fact that you are asking internet strangers strongly suggests you don’t have the frame to pull it off. No mention of any sidebar reading, and it shows. Get to work on lifting and reading.
/r/askMRP31/12/19 05:33 PM
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Ask a dr to test your testosterone levels at a physical or whenever if you’re concerned. Google the symptoms
/r/askMRP29/12/19 10:22 PM
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I can relate. I cut 12 pounds in 6 weeks on TRT and it was easy AF to keep the muscle. Day and night vs. without TRT. The only concerning trend with TRT is Guys getting on it too young who don’t really need it. Time will tell if there are long term consequences. I’m pro-TRT, but only if necessary. I’m sure some will disagree
/r/askMRP29/12/19 08:47 PM
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Just own it. Bust all over her. This is a good short term fix, but OP needs to learn how to last longer. When I was a teenager, my gf used to take me right up to orgasm and then hold it for a minute or so. Then, she’d do it a bunch more times. She heard about it from a friend and implemented it since I was new to sex, and always had premature ejaculation. She did it for a week so so, and then I was able to control it much better and pound her as long as I wanted. OP could implement this himself …
/r/askMRP29/12/19 12:02 AM
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Just keep on being MRP-aware and everything will be great Nice work
/r/askMRP28/12/19 12:50 AM
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Me too
/r/askMRP23/12/19 07:16 PM
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This info changes everything. Get busy on the sidebar, lift, and get on TRT. She might not be cheating given this information, but it’s still suspicious that she doesn’t seem to care about your health. She may have just given up since you haven’t initiated in 3 years. That is demoralizing to women as well as men- I did a bunch of research for my business on dead bedroom Facebook groups, and I was surprised that half of them were women. In any case, get to work and quit Deering
/r/askMRP22/12/19 07:07 PM
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I dont have any proof of that and Ive never suspected it. Until now. My money is on her cheating from that reaction. Tell more about the DB. Do you initiate? How does she react? Need more details there In any case, quit DEERing.
/r/askMRP22/12/19 12:18 AM
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This ^
/r/askMRP21/12/19 01:31 AM
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Increase the reps like you are, and then add weight to your 5x5. Rinse. Repeat. Until you plateau Then, start mixing it up, hitting different angles on each muscle Once you start hitting those angles, your muscles will have more definition and depth
/r/askMRP20/12/19 05:57 PM
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You had me until You can't be an oak unless you have a balance of alpha and beta. You don’t balance the 2. You let your natural alpha come out and provide comfort when necessary... that comfort should come from alpha still
/r/askMRP18/12/19 08:25 PM
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Lose your virginity and take it from there... faggot
/r/askMRP18/12/19 12:59 AM
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It’s a story of a psychopath unraveling from the start to finish
/r/askMRP18/12/19 12:31 AM
2

The Christian Bale formula
/r/askMRP17/12/19 08:39 PM
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It’s all contextual. I agree with /u/man_in_the_world here based on an experience way before I even knew about TRP. I was in a band, and sometimes men would hit in my woman while I was on stage. One time my BIL said some guy was totally hitting on her while I was on stage, and I instinctively went into fight mode and asked where the guy was. Then, my BIL told me he was joking. Immediately, I saw excitement in my wife’s eyes because I was going to go beat some (imaginary) dude’s ass. That night w…
/r/askMRP15/12/19 10:43 PM
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The reason you can’t get aroused is because your alpha isn’t real yet. So when she shit tests you like that it sets off your real nature, Beta. This is part of the purpose of shit tests- to see if your alpha is genuine... and it’s not. That’s not to say that it won’t develop over time. I can relate. My wife used to do this thing where she’d make me wait and wait to fuck her. We live busy lives, so we’d set a time... then, she’d show up late, super late... make a bunch of stops on the way home...…
/r/askMRP14/12/19 05:19 AM
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I read as much as I could (MMSLP, NMMNG, RM, etc/ I almost stopped here. You should be through the entire sidebar 2-3 times . You are not doing the required work. Later that night I told her that if it weren’t for the kids, I would not have come back at all and it would be completely over between us So, you showed your hand dumbass Your wife had an emotional affair, possibly physical You may have been going a little Rambo, but it’s hard to tell from the limited information you gave. So, get to w…
/r/askMRP13/12/19 11:54 PM
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Nothing but continued whining, excuses, and victim mentality even after an eye opening response
/r/askMRP12/12/19 12:21 AM
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Guy lives in his wife’s frame Guy does everything his wife tells him willingly because he has no balls Guy plays the victim card over all choices he made Guy asks internet strangers how to get out of the shitty situation he got himself into. Do you even lift?. Where are you on the sidebar? Based on your post you haven’t done any work and want a quick bandaid fix for a complex situation. Can’t help you there. Start by doing some actual MRP work and quit digging your grave
/r/askMRP12/12/19 12:18 AM
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Even on a “normal” TRT dose, you should have much better gains than without it. But , like everyone is saying, it’s simple ... eat more, preferably clean, and workout hard
/r/askMRP11/12/19 07:54 PM
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You have passive dread. Why are you entertaining a conversation on this? You need to read practical psychology on the sidebar. Basically, by you continually being drawn into her frame on this issue, you are in the process of betaization. I’m not going to go into the full process or explanation- you need to do the required reading. In short, you are fucking this up badly. Passive dread is good if you balance it with a little comfort. The fact that you don’t know that speaks volumes
/r/askMRP11/12/19 05:32 PM
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I’m not sure what the smallest removable needles are. I use a 25ga. The draw is a 15, or maybe 12... can’t remember. It literally takes me less than 10 seconds to draw and only because a pull it in and out a couple times to get a full draw
/r/askMRP11/12/19 05:25 PM
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Actually you got yourself into it. But, I believe you can get yourself out if you play it right
/r/askMRP11/12/19 02:02 AM
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Yes because if you file, she can tell the story of how you cheated on her and then filed to be with your whore. The longer you wait, the worse it will get
/r/askMRP11/12/19 12:07 AM
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No dude. The oil is contained in the main area. You can swap the needles in literally 2 seconds. Trust me. Check with your local Walgreens- they usually have some. I’m surprised your doc or whoever is selling you the T doesn’t have them
/r/askMRP10/12/19 10:27 PM
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Yes, either she’s doing him or she’s 99.9% sure he’s lined up Either way she’s setting you up to look like the bad guy
/r/askMRP10/12/19 10:25 PM
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She was looking hard for evidence of you doing anything with other females even though she left you and you are separated. 9 times out of 10, this means she’s been fucking someone else and she’s looking to deflect it on you - turn you into the bad guy. It sounds like you fell right into her web. So you want us to hold your hand while you go file. Grow the fuck up and quit asking internet strangers to make major life decisions for you
/r/askMRP10/12/19 09:42 PM
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Are you talking in some kind of code? Perhaps, it would make more sense if your question was not a fragment....
/r/askMRP09/12/19 06:29 AM
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So you are going to punish her into wanting to fuck You instead of becoming fun and fuckable? Good luck with that.
/r/askMRP08/12/19 11:16 PM
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If you don’t want any more kids, control your destiny by getting snipped. I know you won’t since you’re too scared to even tell your wife to stop asking. How and where did you ever set a boundary? If you did, she wouldn’t be asking anymore. That’s how boundaries work. Read the sidebar and lift Pussy
/r/askMRP08/12/19 02:21 AM
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I partially agree. But, I’d draw a line there, otherwise she’s going to just use it as an excuse whenever convenient. Is it negotiating sex? No. It’s not because it’s a basic prerequisite to get her to a normal baseline. You need to get her to a normal baseline in order for her to respond sexually. So, if she’s unwilling to seek medical remedies, I’d consider that a dealbreaker. This chick has manipulated you every step along the way. Do you want to live the rest of your life with this bullshit?…
/r/askMRP07/12/19 09:58 PM
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Then my Estrogen shot up to 75 due to improper AI on TRT and I was sobbing hysterically because I ran over a squirrel Interesting. Mine was up to 80 before requesting and estrogen blocker, but I didn’t experience emotional problems like that... just high water retention
/r/askMRP07/12/19 07:39 AM
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She wont do HRT because she had a bout with breast cancer 8 years ago. Has she seen a Dr about this? There are safer ways to do HRT for women who have had breast cancer or are higher risk.
/r/askMRP07/12/19 07:36 AM
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So, it sounds like you feel you are being manipulated. Why are you still with this woman? You know, you do have a choice every day.
/r/askMRP07/12/19 03:45 AM
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1 of 2 things is happening here: A) She’s done no matter what you do . By the way, congrats on 2 months, but it’s really nothing until you can get at least a year. Even then, you could still drink. Or B) She’s waiting to see if you are really going to stay sober It’s tough to say, but I’ve seen similar situations where no matter what the wife was going to leave (that’s the A scenario) Another thing to understand is your sobriety might actually scare her at some point. She may wonder who the hell…
/r/askMRP06/12/19 06:26 AM
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Yeah, troll ... it’s especially noticeable in his comments after the post
/r/askMRP05/12/19 07:23 AM
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Yes Make sure you count out loud though. That is the key.
/r/askMRP04/12/19 07:38 AM
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Nah, women have this down. We men can learn much, After, refer to as “confused” or “it just happened...”. Or my favorite, referring to it as “a mistake...” You know, in the same category as bumping into a stranger at the airport. Just choose something that takes away personal accountability... think in terms of your body being temporarily a robot because that’s a real phenomenon...
/r/askMRP04/12/19 01:20 AM
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Seems like a troll post to me also. The giveaways: 1) saying he’s ave cock size at 5.5 in, and his dick is bigger. Women don’t say things like this after they cheat. They usually blame it on mental/emotional characteristics 2) handy man, no physical pushover 3) the tattooed bad boy part (too chiche) 4) “Asking for alpha advice” Really? Doesn’t get much more trolly than that.
/r/askMRP02/12/19 07:05 AM
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This probably won’t be read much or upvoted much since I’m late to it (4 hours is an eternity in AMRP time). I’ve been at this for years, so naturally I’m not usually a first poster on here anymore . That’s the way it should be if you are progressing in MRP. it appears you like to complicate the fuck out of this. That’s okay and pretty normal for how new you are to this. These are your main problems You gave way too many fucks about what she thinks, and that’s why you are living in her frame You…
/r/askMRP01/12/19 10:44 PM
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/r/askMRP01/12/19 05:22 AM
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And…cue butthurt. I completely played it off if front of her, but it was there. And it really pissed me off that it was there. Nope. The more you try to play off butthurt, the worse you will look. Women are much better than men at reading social cues, especially one they live with. If you are butthurt, she will always see it. Trust me on that one. Your best move is to STFU and embrace The butthurt. There is a reason you are feeling it, so allow yourself to feel it... better yet, use it to fuel y…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/19 03:08 AM
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Have you read anything? Do you lift? This doesn’t even belong on MRP since you clearly aren’t doing any of the suggestions. You are asking the wrong question. The question you should be asking is “why the fuck am I still with this woman?” I’d be interested in your answer
/r/askMRP29/11/19 06:06 PM
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/u/SBIII strikes again! I lived that scenario given in full, my first marriage... to the T. My 2nd marriage was heading down the same path since I learned very little from the 1st... until I found MRP. So, here I am ... 1st marriage 14 years (married at 23)... current marriage 11 years. My current marriage was heading down the same path, and I couldn’t see why until I found MRP almost 4 years ago. My point? OP should listen because it’s spot on - I know because I lived it, and now things couldn’…
/r/askMRP28/11/19 07:26 PM
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Yeah I was being nice with 30% tbh. Probably closer to 35% with those weak lifts.
/r/askMRP28/11/19 08:23 AM
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I pictured a Mopheus meme when I read this, and I heard it in his voice
/r/askMRP27/11/19 03:47 PM
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First off, there’s no way you’re at 20% BF with those lifts and your height and weight. Getting honest with yourself is the first step. I’m guessing 30% Secondly, cardio takes time to build.
/r/askMRP27/11/19 03:42 PM
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I can only speak from experience. There are tons of so-called experts out there all saying different things. But, I have found eating on lift days whether it’s cutting or bulking is the best way to go. Also, bump the protein way up on bulking or cutting cycles. For cutting, I found intermittent fasting for about 16 hours five days a week very effective. I’ll always eat a big meal after fasting, then work out, then a big protein shake. You can still keep your calories within range for a 2 pound a…
/r/askMRP26/11/19 09:36 PM
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Yeah I’d do it solely for the awakening. I bet you can hire a guide from online or somewhere. So, was the actual experience as scary as the thought of it or how scary you thought it might be? Or, were there just moments....?
/r/askMRP26/11/19 03:40 AM
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Peter Gabriel at his Apex there
/r/askMRP25/11/19 11:37 PM
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As a hail Mary, OP should try waiting outside her residence and when she comes out surprise her by wailing and sobbing "I need you." for at least 90 min. Don't forget flowers.. With a boom box
/r/askMRP25/11/19 10:38 PM
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You make it sound like it was out of nowhere that she wanted to separate. That proves that your head was too far up your ass to see a miserable(l Almost identical to my first thought on this post
/r/askMRP25/11/19 10:35 PM
3

Did you do shrooms alone? My daughter gave me some that she grew, and I’m considering it because I see how it has completely transformed her... but not sure if I should do them alone
/r/askMRP25/11/19 10:33 PM
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Someone downvoted, but I’m gonna get you back to even assuming this is sarcasm
/r/askMRP22/11/19 05:32 PM
2

I’m 6’0” 168lb, at about 15% BF, Skinny fat. Be an example I’m 6’1”, 203, 13% BF, and I’m 51. Quit fucking around and lift heavy
/r/askMRP22/11/19 05:27 PM
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It’s bigger than that. It’s the feminine imperative promoting compliance tests.
/r/askMRP20/11/19 10:55 PM
6

General rule for me is if she can do it just as easily as me, she should do it. If it’s something heavy or opening a jar or whatever... that’s me. Keep it simple
/r/askMRP20/11/19 10:53 PM
1

Yeah you’ll get there. I used to bulk massively, and it serves a purpose once or twice, but now that I’m 6’1”, 203 I find putting on a few pounds of muscle over a couple months, and then another few... etc is probably more effective. I just went from 200 to 203, and I notice a big difference because it’s all muscle. My arms are tight in my large shirts, but it looks more fitted than“ afflictiony “ 215 would be a good weight for your height, 220 would probably give you that Thor look, but it’s go…
/r/askMRP20/11/19 10:49 PM
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This . OP is not giving the whole picture because he wants to ignore huge red flags. Even the title is misleading “trying to reach a settlement.” It should say “She doesn’t want to go because she wants to ride the cock carousel “ Why the fuck would you want to invest in This . She wants out. Give it to ber. Great research /u/SBIII
/r/askMRP20/11/19 11:41 AM
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She has never wanted to initiate sex, never has. It’s always been me to initiate but she has always seemed to enjoy it, I believe?! Ok, now I know you haven’t read the sidebar Do the work. You are acting pathetic. 1) She’s checked way the fuck out 2). You are making it worse by practically begging Your only response should be “the door is right there” And start to move on. Also, there’s a good chance she’s fucking someone else or has one lined up.
/r/askMRP20/11/19 11:34 AM
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Yeah you have to get comfortable with the silences. Those are opportunities to gauge her interest... how she acts during the silences
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 07:36 AM
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I’d rather have the bane look personally, and honestly I think it’s more attractive to women as long as you have the frame to pull it off. I just notice that I get way more IOI at 13-15% BF vs 8-10%. BuT I don’t do it for women- I do it because I like the way it makes me feel. The IOIs are an added bonus... and the dread from the IOI’s is extremely effective to the point where I get zero hard no’s for about 2 years now. You have to do what feels right for you, but 6’4” ,179 is probably detractin…
/r/askMRP20/11/19 05:57 AM
1

fasting I seem to be losing 3 or 4 pounds a week, That’s way too much at your height/weight. I’d go a pound or 2 a week max. That’s probably why your face is looking Anorexic. Honestly, if you’re 6’4”, 179, that’s probably not attractive to most women... I’m guessing you look like a cyclist. You should be around 200 lbs at your height. I’m 6’1”, 203 lbs, and I pretty much get IOI from every woman I talk to. Chicks love muscles. I’m probably around 13% body fat, and that’s about as low as I want …
/r/askMRP20/11/19 04:45 AM
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Her attitude sucks because she’s been married to a drunk captain. You’ll feel a slight tug when the 2000’ rope grabs her. So is she fat? Oh, and your numbers suck. I’m guessing you are 25%+. Lose some fat and you libido and your Testosterone will go up. Most doctors won’t presc T at 470. Do everything you can before getting on it because it’s for life and it can have negative side effects if you get a dr who doesn’t know what he’s doing. I didn’t get on T until I was 50. My total T was 190 , mos…
/r/askMRP20/11/19 04:00 AM
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Most guys make “escalation” and asking a girl out way too complicated. Strong eye contact and strong frame is more than half the battle. The other half is talking less and getting her to talk. If she’s into you she will talk your fucking ear off... then as far as escalation... touch her on her hand or arm and see how she reacts. If good, escalate touch slowly. If bad, back off and reconsider whether you want to waste time on her. There are billions of women, and some of them will be into you... …
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 01:58 AM
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Simple. Don’t DEER and own it
/r/askMRP18/11/19 05:18 AM
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Yeah, she’s happy she knows his whereabouts so she won’t get caught. Great point haha
/r/askMRP16/11/19 07:16 AM
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Same. Too big. Not really that interested anyway TBH
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/19 05:22 PM
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Comment if the week, hands down /u/johneyapocalypse He doesn’t want to do the work to get out of it, so your post will probably go right over his head, but it’s good shit for those who are more ready
/r/askMRP14/11/19 07:36 PM
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This is a decent FR, but don’t start thinking you got this after a month. Not to discourage you, but rather to prepare you... the shit tests graduate to new levels. You will be thrown for some serious loops, I promise. Just be aware and ready. Your fogging was entry’s level... but that’s good- keep it basic, STFU, and lift. Your first FR was pretty weak, but that’s how you learn. You really should be doing Weekly OYS
/r/askMRP13/11/19 01:31 AM
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You are confusing ego with self esteem and a healthy voice in your head. The ego we say to kill is false pride There is healthy ego and unhealthy ego Kill the unhealthy ego- the false and overinflated pride. It holds you back from being honest with yourself. It’s that simple
/r/askMRP11/11/19 05:35 PM
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Yeah honestly, I don’t know how much of the sex I have with my wife is dread induced and how much is attraction... probably a combination. I’m sure there are times she doesn’t want to and does anyway... for example during PMS sometimes. I don’t really care though. All I know is she is pretty much DTF whenever I want. But, you bring up a good point for new guys and hysterical bonding. I just remember when I first noticed dread was working.
/r/askMRP11/11/19 06:34 AM
2

Jack Whites old band?
/r/askMRP10/11/19 05:56 AM
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First off, dread is not working, evidenced by this : Still zero sex and not any initiating from myself or the wife. Secondly, don’t try active dread. It will bite you - she will see right through it. Become attractive. Follow the levels of dread , one at a time. Levels of dread Quit the mental mastrubation, and get to work faggot. This post is 90% mental mastrubation.
/r/askMRP09/11/19 05:40 PM
4

What are your dad’s lifts?
/r/askMRP09/11/19 04:35 AM
2

Agreed.
/r/askMRP09/11/19 12:24 AM
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It's true I am soft around the middle. I looked at your lift numbers, height, and weight, and I think you are closer to 30% BF. Be honest with yourself. Your numbers are weak. I see you are getting conflicting opinions, especially on the divorce thing. My gut feeling is you’re not strong enough for it, but quit fucking deering. If she says she wants a divorce your only reply should be, “the door is right there.” Then stfu. This is very weak and deering: "What do you mean by that?" "I feel like y…
/r/askMRP08/11/19 07:42 PM
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It’s a bit Rambo, but I like it
/r/askMRP08/11/19 07:27 PM
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Hi If you are raging, it’s usually because you normally push your feelings down. Push anger down enough, and it surfaces as rage. Learn how to feel your feelings... as the meme says... let the hate flow through you. But, don’t act on it. Take some anger management classes before you’re forced to take them. I suspect you are Mr Nice Guy when you’re not raging. Finish the sidebar and take your anger out on the iron... which you obviously haven’t been doing
/r/askMRP08/11/19 01:34 AM
1

Use a draw needle to pull the oil. It’s a hundred times easier. Then, just change the needle head to inject. Yeah, some docs make you come in. I like the flexibility/ I shoot it up to 4 times a week, but generally 2 times (same amount, just split). I do 100mg/week. Anything above that, and it gets on the 1600+ range, which can have serious side effect. My hemoglobin is right at the top of the range. I might have my doc write a prescription to give blood once a month for 4 months just to get the …
/r/askMRP07/11/19 09:46 PM
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Man, I’ve added 10 pounds of muscle (at least) last yr on TRT, and I’m 51. I felt like I was walking in water pre-TRT, and I was always struggling to keep muscle. Towards the end I was losing muscle. I was eating right, but a med I take was killing my T levels. It’s one of the best decisions I made- to go on TRT. I do give blood every 60 days to keep hemoglobin in check, and I had to ask the doc for an estrogen blocker- since I’ve been in the blocker, I lost about 5 lbs water retention. So, it l…
/r/askMRP07/11/19 07:36 AM
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Cut out sugar as much as possible. It is the DEVIL! This! Ever since I cut out sugar, I have to make sure I’m getting enough calories to maintain my weight... and I’m 51. Most people my age are fat and way out of shape. I keep up with the 30 yr old guys at the gym- usually run circles around them because I’m there to lift, and I don’t fuck around OP, make sure you are getting enough calories if your main goal is to add muscle- plain and simple. Eat clean with lots of protein
/r/askMRP06/11/19 11:35 PM
3

I've thought about starting a business, but it doesn't really click and I lose interest. What about a business selling your art dipshit. There’s this thing called the internet where you could totally do it brah
/r/askMRP05/11/19 06:49 AM
2

Exactly my thought. op deered the fuck out of it and doesn’t even know it. Shit test severely failed
/r/askMRP03/11/19 02:42 AM
4

You have mental issues that you're in therapy for. You think you have ADHD (why doesn't that surprise me?). Oh shit. Now I remember this guy. Jesus
/r/askMRP01/11/19 03:01 PM
1

I'm on 40 mg every three days of test Cyp. That puts my total testosterone and free testosterone in the normal range. What do you think about doing 20mg every other day? I’ve been trying it for the last couple weeks, and it seems like it’s improved my libido and functioning like a 20 yr old. Not sure if it’s psychology or not... but I also wonder if it’s healthy shooting a small dose every other day
/r/askMRP30/10/19 11:09 AM
2

Man, I’ve literally been thinking this same thing for the last few days. Fuck that, it’s her turn
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 06:07 AM
2

Hard to argue with that
/r/askMRP29/10/19 01:37 AM
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Look at her actions, not words. You are listening to her words. She needs plausible deniability, and you keep turning it back at her, which is the opposite of what she needs. The fact that she is continually bringing it up suggests she wants it. It may only be because her friend did it, but regardless her obsession suggests she’s very intrigued at a minimum. She’s looking for you to make the call, but you are being autistic. Grab her one day, and say “ok, get ready, let’s go to the titty bar.” A…
/r/askMRP28/10/19 07:22 PM
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If she’s talking to her sister about your inadequacies and then you deer’d, I’d say you got yourself in a very bad spot. You break up with her and hold frame ... see what happens. When I say hold frame, I mean over days or weeks. She will either move on or want you back. If you hold frame I’m guessing the latter... but you may decide you want to move on . Tl;dr— quit being a faggot
/r/askMRP28/10/19 07:12 PM
2

I forgot to use the sarcasm font
/r/askMRP28/10/19 07:08 PM
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OK, you never said whether you want a divorce. You’re a doctor, and you left out a vital detail like that? 11 years! Fuck! I knew you were on TRT as soon as I saw your lifts at 56. Hood for you. What dosage are you on, and so you take an estrogen blocker or do anything else in Conjunction with the TRT. I give blood every 3 months to keep red blood cells in check. I wanted to ask since you’re a doctor and might have more input. My libido is through the roof, but the last time I tested , I was off…
/r/askMRP27/10/19 05:43 AM
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/thread
/r/askMRP26/10/19 09:18 PM
2

Exactly! I’ve observed it on several different occasions
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/19 11:54 AM
1

Great point... and I agree, diets in general don’t work. That’s why I used the term “next diet fad.” In my fitness coaching business I coin it the “diet roller coaster.”
/r/askMRP26/10/19 11:53 AM
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If you don’t believe that, look no further than social media. I knew a girl who would take the filter off of black and milds and take pictures pretending they’re blunts even though she didn’t smoke weed. A little off topic, but if you are with a woman (exclusively), pay close attention to how she poses in selfies with you. For example, watch to see if she is doing a seductive gaze at the camera (advertising), tilts away from you, wants you to kiss her while she looks at the camera... etc. body l…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/19 07:29 AM
1

I will flirt with them and they will respond in kind. I will do this partly for my own entertainment and partly because I know that it will get my wife all hot and bothered. So hot and bothered, that she will fuck my brains out Ain’t that the truth. I find my wife gets all hot and bothered when other women flirt with me unless she is hotter than my wife... which usually means younger since my wife is 48, and I pretty much never see hotter women her age. I had a woman flirt with me on the plane y…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/19 07:22 AM
3

No, it's basically impossible without PEDs at the age of 55 if he wasn't doing any form of lifting before hand. That part of the story seems very fishy. Yes, the joints and ligaments need tome to strengthen or it’s an injury waiting to happen. I’m 51, and I max out close to 300 on bench, but I’ve been lifting nonstop for decades
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/19 07:13 AM
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sure enough, it didn’t last but a few months before she was back to her bullshit Yeah, I kept thinking 3 months isn’t shit
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/19 07:07 AM
2

Naw, Watch your thoughts during those tough times and master your thoughts. Then you won’t buffer by overeating
/r/askMRP26/10/19 12:14 AM
1

Yeah I just listen to my body mainly. It’s always different. But I’ll IF several days a week when cutting
/r/askMRP26/10/19 12:13 AM
3

I don’t eat either of those, but I suggest checking the ingredients and seeing how much fiber there is. Lots of ingredients is a red flag in general. Pretty sure oatmeal is pretty clean though- not sure about it’s fiber content. I generally like everything I eat to add some kind of value— fiber, protein, vitamins, veggies, fruits... stay away from empty and processed calories
/r/askMRP25/10/19 11:45 PM
4

However, if there's a big disruption (the last time being I moved to another country then moved back, then also changed work) then the weight suddenly starts to creep back up. It's like I just lose focus and one day I look in the mirror and I'm like - wow, WTF happened here? Congrats- you just got to the core issue- blaming your propensity to overeat on external situations. Overcome that, and your problem is solved. MRP can help with that. Start doing OYS posts
/r/askMRP25/10/19 11:44 PM
2

I was hallucinating at the 30 hr mark but made it. You sure you weren’t on schrooms?
/r/askMRP25/10/19 11:41 PM
2

Don’t lump in sugar/flour carbs with good carbs like potatoes, Ezekiel bread... etc. good carbs curb your hunger, fuel your workouts, give you more energy, stabilize glucose... etc. bad carbs do the opposite. Again, not a doctor, but this whole cut out carbs bullshit needs to be clarified
/r/askMRP25/10/19 11:38 PM
4

Yes it is one method, and I’ve tried both keto and intermittent fasting, and I’ve found intermittent fasting to be much more effective. I don’t have weight issues for several years now- I only use IF to cut after a bulking cycle, and I always keep all the muscle and drop the weight at 2 lbs / week. I am currently experiencing with a less aggressive form of bulking where I put in only 3 pounds- probably 1-2 muscle. Then, once I feel like I’ve achieved all 3 lbs of muscle, I’ll go up another 3. So…
/r/askMRP25/10/19 11:31 PM
1

I've always needed to crash to lose, however, once I do it, it's easy for me to hold that weight Seems like a contradiction using the word “always” which implies several times
/r/askMRP25/10/19 11:27 PM
1

I get that, but like I said my experience with men using keto is zero% success over 2 years. Limited sample yes, but that’s all I can go by
/r/askMRP25/10/19 11:25 PM
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Most will disagree with me, but I think keto is just the latest fad BS diet. Sure, you may lose a bunch of weight, but every single one of my friends have gained it all back within 2 years. Before somebody starts spouting out about how keto works great for you, has it been 2 years? I’m not a doctor, but I have experience I don’t know what the fuck happened to eat a balanced diet. Eat lots of protein, get some good carbs that include fiber since fiber gives you a full feeling and also fuels your …
/r/askMRP25/10/19 10:40 PM
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I think you’re leaving out a lot - my gut feeling. It’s probably not the first time you did this. Also, my gut tells me you Deer’d the fuck out of it and profusely apologized, which just shows your extreme weakness. I think /u/judgedoom69 nailed it, and you are most likely a heavy drinker also. Listen, I put on 10 pounds of muscle in my first year of MRP just because I was always pissed at her (in her frame). Put down the bottle and pick up some iron. And for fucks sake, read the entire sidebar.…
/r/askMRP25/10/19 08:53 PM
1

This is some cringy shit... so need to beat your kid in a foot race to feel better about yourself? His post read “I am a fatty with no frame.” Now he’s DEERing to himself that he’s not that fat. Until a person takes responsibility for their circumstances, it just gets worse even with sidebar readings. The practice needs to be alongside the readings, and the fitness needs to be there
/r/askMRP24/10/19 09:12 PM
5

Oh, thank you very much for your permission!" Nope. You give too many fucks. I wish there was a book about giving less fucks
/r/askMRP24/10/19 06:49 PM
2

Quit acting like a butthurt faggot, act appropriately, and see how that changes things. You’re worried about ‘right and wrong’ which leads to butthurt S. Instead of right and wrong, un-cloud the situation first by not acting like a faggot, and then right and wrong will become much clearer
/r/askMRP24/10/19 08:27 AM
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You didn’t answer his question, which means you haven’t read jack on the sidebar. You are probably a fatty. Soooo.... a fatty with no frame... and you wonder why she doesn’t show you any respect. Also, your whole post is riddled with contradictions and denial. Get to work faggot. Do OYS posts and hit the sidebar and lift. This isn’t a fucking bandaid to fix your faggotry
/r/askMRP24/10/19 04:12 AM
2

True that nobody likes it, but I always get a little empathy from my man friends. It’s nust a reminder to never whine to a woman. It doesn’t make them evil. Like I said in my previous reply, I believe there are evolutionary reasons... just like there are evolutionary reasons for some of men’s AMALT flaws. Yes, Men have evolutionary quirks also. But, I digress
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 03:31 AM
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This! 11 years into my marriage I made the mistake (and I knew better) of complaining like a little bitch to her, which I don’t really do anymore. It was met with zero sympathy or empathy. However, it’s important to recognize the evolutionary reasons- women couldn’t stay with a weak man in the hunter/gather days... Hence, the birth of hypergamy
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 10:50 PM
3

OP comes across like a little boy whistling the dark... he lets his wife come over and fuck, but he’s nowhere near advanced enough to not let her turn it back into a shitty marriage. He’s going into deep waters and he doesn’t know how to swim. The ending is predictable. Since he hasn’t filed and he’s still fucking her. Listen, OP, quit bullshitting yourself. You are still deep in her frame. If you weren’t, this whole thing would never happen Meanwhile my wife has been extra cunty. Complaining sh…
/r/askMRP23/10/19 09:33 PM
6

If she asked, you should have instantly said no. She’s active dreading you
/r/askMRP21/10/19 05:06 PM
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I can tell you’ve done zero sidebar reading by this statement: That fucking bitch I dated in high school fucked me up. Yes, you are a faggot... but you are a faggot because of you Sidebar, lift. That’s all the time you’re getting from me. You need to do the work like everybody else, homo
/r/askMRP20/10/19 08:44 PM
2

If there was only a sidebar book that taught you the subtle art of not giving a fuck....
/r/askMRP20/10/19 05:36 PM
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Getting a social life is part of dread level 3 My advice is to get checked for autism
/r/askMRP20/10/19 03:32 AM
2

Yes, this is red pill 101 stuff. It seems like there’s a wave of blue pill people infiltrating this sub. They probably mean well, but they are clueless to even the basics of red pill such as this example
/r/TheRedPill19/10/19 06:24 PM
2

Exactly, when an OP hits an exact pivotal point you went through, it’s very easy to see.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/19 04:19 AM
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I’d say OP is right to a degree. He handled it wrong... negotiating sex. The thing I do believe happened is he does have some dread, so even though he acted like a pussy, dread slightly outweighed him being a pussy. I’d say OP should not use this tactic again as soon him being a pussy will outweigh the dread
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/19 10:18 PM
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I hate when I come here all ready to pronounce wisdom, read the top comment and realize, there's nothing left to say. That’s usually about a half hour after a post
/r/askMRP18/10/19 09:49 PM
2

You're in an LTR with a girl who lives in another country. This is not a relationship. Faggots have a different set of rules for what constitutes a relationship
/r/askMRP18/10/19 09:47 PM
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