"Men don't actually like women, they want to have sex with female anatomy, but they don't like women."

SupermarketObvious92 · 2021-11-26T14:26:15+00:00

So he ends with “one group of people will benefit more than others, and that’s not how it has been in history so far.” To whom is he referring?

miniicinny · 2021-11-26T14:41:45+00:00

I recall one tweet from a man stating something to the effect of "I like pussy but I don't like women the same way I like ketchup but I hate tomatoes."

And that says it all honestly...

Sage_Planter · 2021-11-26T15:37:46+00:00

I used to frequent a different sub where men would frequently talk about their inability to get dates. Yet, for whatever reason, it was also extremely clear that none of them actually like women, respect women, or want to spend time with women. They talk about their future hypothetical partners like bangmaids that they spend zero time with outside the bedroom unless that time together results in sex (eg. "I'll take her to dinner if she blows me."). It's gross.

GlitteryMoss · 2021-11-26T12:44:36+00:00

One comeback I've always had for men who start to criticise women or complain about wives in general is "if you don't like women why don't you date/marry men?". Shuts them up.

Aocwannabe · 2021-11-26T13:04:12+00:00

“Attraction to straight men is proof that sexuality is not a choice.” I would be a lesbian if sexuality were just a social construct. I even tried kissing a woman once and I just don’t feel the sparks I feel with a man. And I’ve met hot butch women that were “masculine” but something is missing for me. I imagine it is similar to how gay men can appreciate beautiful women but do not want sex with them.

Like my choices are that I can get with a hot Angelina Jolie look- alike or a schlubby Seth Rogan and so…I choose celibacy.

I love his takes and this is a perspective…That I absolutely disagree with🤣 but I also feel that white gay men have a habit of not staying in their lane. And they still whitesplain and mansplain so some of their advice to straight women is seriously misinformed.

ItsFreezen · 2021-11-26T14:36:24+00:00

I'm coming to the conclusion that men only want to date and marry women to PROVE their not gay.

just_because_needed · 2021-11-26T14:46:02+00:00

Men are heterosexual but homo-romantic. Prove me wrong.

Sallou9 · 2021-11-26T17:04:32+00:00

I find this to be the most obvious thing in the world. Make more lesbian friends- and see the difference between men and people who are attracted to women AND actually like/love/adore them. Night and day,

BedazzledSwashbuckle · 2021-11-26T15:28:21+00:00

Sounds like his fantasy of how things will neatly workout for a happy ending across the board.

In reality, if this were possible, women have already thought of it and would be doing it in droves.

I've noticed, over the years, that friends who are blessed with a more flexible sexual orientation assume that *everyone* is the same way "if only they'd let go of their inhibitions." In reality, some of us are more toward one or the other end of the orientation spectrum and don't have a lot of alternative options if we want to feel genuine attraction. A bit narrow-minded and short-sighted to assume everyone's orientation is the same, IMO.

vanillahcupcakes · 2021-11-26T13:56:24+00:00

Yeah. This is the one. This is why women shouldn't blame themselves or have low self esteem. The patriarchy will gaslight you to death if you let it. There is power in seeing it for what it is and then acting in your self interest and wellbeing.

Specific-Composer300 · 2021-11-26T17:18:07+00:00

I don't agree with him that heterosexuality is a "construction." I doubt he'd like people saying homosexuality sexuality is "all a construction."

The_Cat_Empress · 2021-11-26T15:25:18+00:00

SMH men need to start grooming like gay men because this man looks clean.

But first, I hate the term "q*eerness"....it's a catch all term and I get it's trying to be "taken back" but it still feels icky.

Secondly, the way he's speaking of heterosexual relationships is that it's not at all common and women are just brainwashed into liking the feeling of men despite being utterly repulsed by them. If FDS has taught me anything (a lot tbh) it's we all like men...but if we could choose lesbianism we would.

It's not a choice!

Sallou9 · 2021-11-26T17:13:15+00:00

Men are turned on by female bodies.

But they are homoromantic often, homosocial almost always, and seem to value femininity over femaleness.

(Think of the amount of "straight men" who when asked, tell you they would rather have sex with a male, in his butt, if he was crazy feminine/he could cover his face etc, over a really masculine butch woman. ie "every holes a goal! LOOL". I have had men literally tell me that if the choice was an unattractive butch woman or a pretty feminine man theyd pick the man.

I respond "Well that means you value femininity more than femalness. That means femininity is more important/essential to you and your sexuality than wanting females. Otherwise, masculine Female would always trump Feminine male.)

In conclusion- men like how pussy makes their dick feel. They like a caricatured version of the female body. But- that pussy in a porn body needs to come wrapped up in "femininity". And outside of all this, as people, they dont like women at all.

They value mens opinions, experiences, talents, creativity, company etc,

Equal-Ear2312 · 2021-11-26T16:44:26+00:00

he is so right!

let's face it!

it's not like in 2021 we have more bi and lesbian women than we did in the 50s. but more women stop ignoring their gayness and start living their true lives!

gay people have always existed. we just never heard of the numbers because of the sexist and homophobic society.

Zurflu · 2021-11-26T18:27:01+00:00

I'm sorry but it's kinda funny that he thinks we don't already know most straight men don't actually like us. Woaahh groundbreaking 🤯

Title	"Men don't actually like women, they want to have sex with female anatomy, but they don't like women."
Author	Bbqchilifries
Upvotes	524
Comments	43
Date	November 26, 2021 12:22 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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