If men treated women like women treat men

dammitmitchell · 2021-12-28T07:46:52+00:00

The first sentence .. 10 seconds Literally while dating met a woman who mentioned my ability to provide for her ... So I reversed the questions. She got upset and we didn't date again. Oh and I still had to buy dinner

Altctrldelna · 2021-12-28T11:20:39+00:00

Randomly watched a youtube video of Henry Cavill being hit on by multiple celebrities and my god, if the roles were reversed about 90% of the clips would be used in sexual harassment claims. The other 10% would be restraining orders.

happy2beeme · 2021-12-28T17:12:16+00:00

I follow this sub because I genuinely want to learn more about the differences in what is considered acceptable in society for men vs women. Every single day, sometimes more than once, I find myself confused and saddened by just how awful people treat each other, and the fact that it's actively encouraged to treat men as less than human is heartbreaking.

I love my man. He is wonderful and has the most beautiful soul. He's my joy; the light of my life and the fire in my soul. And I want him to know that. I tell, and more importantly show, him to the best of my ability that he is loved, wanted, valued, and anything else that I can think of. Aside from just being a decent person to other people, I don't understand how anyone can consider themselves in love or want to bind their lives to someone that they don't think is a cut above the rest.

I couldn't care less how much money he makes. The feminism that's either hated or loved allows me to make money on my own. I don't want or need 'a strong back and a weak mind' like I've heard some women ask for. I want my companion, a partner in laughter and tears. That I can build and entwine with. Why would anyone choose to be with someone that doesn't brighten the dark places? He dazzles and delights me, makes me laugh, protects me and offers me the support to protect myself. And I'd do the same for him. I'd burn the world for him. So far as I was able anyway.

Make no mistake, I personally believe that men and women are equal and opposite compliments of each other. I also kinda think that everyone needs to treat everyone else like they're people and not some object. We're all people, good and bad. I'm glad these issues were brought to my attention I didn't know until I knew, and there's still plenty of things that I don't know or don't understand. I'm sure the difference of perception goes both ways. However, there are women who genuinely love their men, and we want things to be better for everyone. Men should feel special and wonderful. Because y'all are.

Some people might think the dichotomy is too defined and that we can never understand, and perhaps we can't, but the idea that we can all just be kind and decent to one another definitely has merit at the very least.

Just keep in mind that we're listening. We're learning, and some of us are trying to meet in the middle.

Edited for spelling.

ShiZniT3 · 2021-12-28T08:04:29+00:00

men would be happier in general.

Odd-Box-3578 · 2021-12-28T17:29:15+00:00

Better yet, if men treated women like women treated women. I wonder how long it’d take for women to cry, cry foul,scream misogyny, or even report them for harassment or something. That would be interest

LondonDude123 · 2021-12-28T08:16:56+00:00

If Women were treated how Men are treated, they would end up in a Mental Institution. OH WAIT, ONE OF THEM DID!)

allCuntsStink · 2021-12-28T14:04:16+00:00

Even in movies, I was watching John Wick 3 the other day, and I don’t remember seeing a movie where the women get killed by a man. You see all these women (either protagonist or antagonist) and they kill men left and right, hitting, shooting, cutting dick and balls off, and it’s supposed to be funny and ok. But you never see a man killing a female character or even hitting them, and when they do, they don’t film it with detail like they do with men. Or if they do kill them, it doesn’t really show and if it happens…it’s a merciful death, no throat cutting, no brains on the floor. Like really? This is equality? Hollywood pussies

DaLordOfDarkness · 2021-12-28T08:46:15+00:00

More of the hypocrisy of mankind.

Jay-Ames · 2021-12-28T10:36:49+00:00

Be ready to hear "How dare you let me pay for my own things"

SAVAG3_B3AR · 2021-12-28T22:30:44+00:00

There are women already trying to equate MGTOW to terrorism. Casual Bachelor (YouTuber) did a video on it. I can link here if it's ok.

Busy-Ad5287 · 2021-12-28T13:18:37+00:00

I treat women like a man is supposed to. I don't put up with drama. I don't do the whole yelling and crap. If a woman even tries to act like she is going to boss me around out the door she goes.

Big_Shot12 · 2021-12-29T00:06:43+00:00

Like 2 seconds. The society simply doesn’t give a shit about men

D0wnVoteMe_PLZ · 2021-12-28T11:59:12+00:00

There will be workd records and the fastest time would be in milliseconds.

riverview_man · 2021-12-28T12:42:39+00:00

Less than 3 seconds

themolestedsliver · 2021-12-28T16:09:19+00:00

One thing I always notice is that women can have mostly girl friends and that's not weird but a guy having mostly guy friends? Oh that's a sausage fest.

Like I remember first hearing that term and it made me cringe because it sure as shit doesnt go the other way not to mention the fact it villainizes friend ships for not being diverse enough.

xTheVyrusx · 2021-12-28T21:19:39+00:00

It wouldn’t take long as soon as they see an opportunity to bitch, whine and complain it’ll be instant, fast and harsh. I had a girl try to get me on the hook for a date at a restaurant, I knew she would stand me up so I went out with friends for beers. I got a text 2 hours later “omg I forgot I forgot”. I told her no worries I went out for beers with friends. She got upset that I chose my friends over her. I told her it took her two hours after the fact to “remember” about the time we set up and immediately deleted the number and never spoke to her again even after a few attempts of her trying to setup another date. Rule of thumb for me is if we set up a time then we go no excuses and you only get one chance to fuck it up, I don’t do rescheduling.

lIlIlIlIlIlIIIIIlll · 2021-12-29T03:59:41+00:00

we would still be on the 1700s where women would have a reason to complain about, not now.

Slow-Brush · 2021-12-28T20:43:56+00:00

I stopped dating 10 yrs ago. I am done I had enough troubles, I have a son who just turn an adult and I always teach him about the dating game.

MarBitt · 2021-12-28T12:54:52+00:00

Many / never.

I don't see anything specific that bothers so much as to call it terrorism. As mysogyny can be labeled anything, that word has almost lost its meaning in common discussion.

GrandpaTheBand · 2021-12-28T13:00:06+00:00

Ha! Gotcha-women can't be violent against men, just like you can't be racist against white people.

Swedishplumber21 · 2021-12-28T10:41:46+00:00

I dunno if it's ever happened to u guys but I literally got banned off 5 subs? Why u ask? I complimented woman and on another one I said if a guy ever tried to hit on my gf I would punch him in the face. Like wtf.. I just feel like some people literally hate men for no reason

Training_Position642 · 2021-12-28T12:00:19+00:00

How come when I create a post to start in our forum it doesn't post? It's not inappropriate or breaking rules.

42nanaimobars · 2021-12-29T02:48:31+00:00

You said: “I … bet … that women take more pride in receiving [participation] trophies than men.”

I disagree with that statement. As a female studying math and physics, I pride earning my way by merit. I don’t need a participation trophy. I know what I have and have not participated in. I strive for excellence. If my excellence is recognized, so be it.

EnvironmentalWar4627 · 2021-12-28T10:10:27+00:00

How do 'women treat men' that could be construed as violent misandry and terrorism?

Women treat men just fine in my opinion with some women being psychopaths. Just like men treat women just fine with some men being psychopaths.

So how do you feel women treat men that is an issue?

Edit: I'm anticipating a lot of downvotes here but also for no one to explain how 'women treat men' that is an issue.

DavidByron2 · 2021-12-28T16:53:00+00:00

Zero because it already has been.

Nk-O · 2021-12-28T17:56:55+00:00

-9000

ampjk · 2021-12-29T01:19:31+00:00

But its equality isn't that happing now./s

SearchAdventurous586 · 2021-12-29T03:04:46+00:00

2 seconds…

btickles · 2021-12-29T04:04:11+00:00

A free and prosperous country would be born for them to ruin. Kinda like child birth.

Training_Position642 · 2021-12-29T07:56:19+00:00

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1308246/Why-women-teachers-like-treat-boy-illness.html

Stranger_Memer · 2021-12-29T15:10:29+00:00

Luckly you are lying

ZoombomberGuy · 2021-12-29T18:38:19+00:00

The first word on the first second

Isabellaboo02 · 2021-12-28T18:30:30+00:00

Lmao if women treated men like men treated women. Y'all would cry genocide of males and would actually know that this post is stupid.

Mobile_Passenger9325 · 2021-12-28T13:59:27+00:00

You mean they don't?

Least_Chemical_7022 · 2021-12-28T08:02:47+00:00

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Hefffallump · 2021-12-28T13:51:41+00:00

" Hey it must be the money"

DanganFuckery · 2021-12-28T22:25:02+00:00

I don’t see your point here. If roles were reversed, and you have the position of “men are treated poorly by women,” then the reverse would be “women are treated poorly,” then technically, they’d be right to call it as misogyny.

I get your point, but the issue here isn’t that women call out misogyny, that’s a good thing. The issue is that people don’t call out misandry.

emlint · 2021-12-29T01:41:44+00:00

Go to the Middle East, africa and Asia then you weirdo

Adventurous_Health93 · 2021-12-28T22:43:01+00:00

It's kind of like racism in a way. If you call a black person the N word its gonna be way more offensive than a white person being called a cracker or something because of history. For example if a man were to call a woman, woman, in a degrading manner itd be a lot more offensive than a woman calling a guy, man. Not to say this is always the case, but it's still relevant.

AdArtistic8290 · 2021-12-28T15:44:44+00:00

On tumblr, maybe 8.

Title	If men treated women like women treat men
Author	Bara-enthusiast
Upvotes	876
Comments	311
Date	December 28, 2021 7:02 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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