SeX iS eXpEcTeD - Man is trying to coerce9 woman to have sex with him and everyone is cool with this??

GodILoveTheEnglish · 2021-12-12T03:20:40+00:00

“I doubt a grown man is going to date a woman for 5+ months just to have sex and leave her”

… have they ever MET a man?

Biracial_tooth_fairy · 2021-12-12T03:26:52+00:00

Do men have a different concept of time than we do? Like, it's fine to string a woman along for 5+ years with the mAYbe they'll get married "someday" but 5 MONTHS without sex and they cry like little babies? What the actual fuck?

kumquat_fds · 2021-12-12T05:16:13+00:00

A lot of the comments have some variation of “obviously you don’t have to have sex with him if you don’t want to BUuUUuUTTTTTT-”

There is no “but”, she doesn’t owe him anything… 5 months… Why is he crying over this?? Either he’s severely mentally unwell or being extremely manipulative. Dear god.

Fuckdoesithurt956 · 2021-12-12T04:26:17+00:00

I just want to point out that on another thread in another sub, 4k+ men are praising a man who told his date he wanted to go emotionally slow because of past trauma from his relationship 3 years ago.

Meanwhile here's a woman who wants to go physically slow, also due to past experiences, and she's a "bitch". The worst "bitch" any of these men have ever seen. Ever.

gingerwabisabi · 2021-12-12T03:17:14+00:00

Why are men so weak nowadays? Like, seriously... I haven't had sex with a guy BEFORE 5 months in and many men through history have had to wait years and until after marriage to get it. This guy has been conditioned to think women have to show attraction through sex and if she hasn't done it yet she MUST not really like him... yet they also complain constantly about th0ts etc. I'm old enough to know just how badly men have gone downhill since I was a teenager and it's disturbing to watch.

tuberosetears · 2021-12-12T03:36:12+00:00

FUCK THIS.

He reminds me so much of my ex it's scary. What a weak little manipulative piece of shit. She was probably the first woman he'd dated who didn't fall for the guilt tripping earlier and he got desperate. He was crying out of frustration with himself because he'd never dated someone with boundaries and his brain couldn't handle being told to wait, so he threw an emotional tantrum hoping that she'd let him fuck out of pity.

Edit: Holy shit I went over there to read the original post and that guy is a massive red flag. Gotta throw the whole man away.

Why doesn't HE walk away if he feels he's giving too much? If someone's not giving you what you need, it's your responsibility to leave them, not stay and sob/whine/cry/complain about how they're not doing enough. No amount of creepy manipulation tactics can get anyone (man or woman) to give you what you want if they're not into it.

JulyParade · 2021-12-12T05:24:06+00:00

I don't understand wanting to have sex with someone who obviously doesn't want to have sex with you. That's just all round awful. I hope she ditches him.

Edited to Add: Shortly after writing this I got my first Reddit Cares message. Although I don't think Reddit cares much that its platform may be full of rapists.

Fuckdoesithurt956 · 2021-12-12T04:25:52+00:00

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motioncaptureF · 2021-12-12T04:26:06+00:00

I cant imagine how he would react if she said she's waiting till marriage ! 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-12-12T04:41:38+00:00

So he's only taken her on 10 real dates in 5 months? I would still consider him a stranger.

AyemHerself · 2021-12-12T03:26:15+00:00

"I doubt a grown man is going to date a woman for 5+ months just to have sex and leave her"

Meanwhile guys in manosphere subs are talking about doing just that to get back at women who "make them wait" while not being virgins.

The_Cat_Empress · 2021-12-12T03:51:05+00:00

I don’t want to seem over dramatic…but this is r@pe culture to me.
The fact that she has to “put out” when SHE STILL feels uncomfortable is disgusting. Regardless of how the dude feels and whether he FEELS emotionally or physically neglected I’ll say this until the cows come home…women have a higher risk during sex. Men don’t have to deal with pregnancy. If the woman was crying because of lack of intimacy I wouldn’t be as bothered, but these men forget women deal with the most risk. FFS.

Carneliancat · 2021-12-12T05:34:36+00:00

What an entitled, sniveling manipulator he is. The fact that he, or ANY man, thinks that a woman has to turn herself into a human trampoline because a man took her out on dates is revolting.

News flash, you clod--being graced by a woman's company and having her make YOU look good by her mere presence is how YOU benefit from dates with women. Yes, being seen with a lovely woman raises your social currency, and you KNOW IT. She has already "paid you back" for whatever money you have spent on her during the dates, and sex is not part of the package until she is goddamned good and ready for it and feeling respected, CONNECTED, cherished, aroused, and SAFE. Sex on the woman's terms ALWAYS. HVM get this, and don't whine and turn on the tears like a child being denied a chocolate bar by mummy at the grocery checkout

And this fool also wants to lay HIS head on HER chest ( what is he, an infant??) because then he will be at the perfect place to start fiddling with her tits to try to get her to change her mind about no sex. YES, WE SEE YOU and your game is not subtle. When a dude has this much entitlement, "cuddling" sounds like a prelude to rape, frankly. Don't lie down with a man like this. Open your door and throw his shoes out into the yard, with him behind them.

Jandi18 · 2021-12-12T05:45:51+00:00

Thé comments are calling her a weirdo for waiting 5 months? Mine was a year 😂😂😂. Btw scrotes bringing out a condom and asking a woman if she is ready will dry her vagina faster than the Sahara on a windy day. Ever hear of romance?

aquietsword · 2021-12-12T03:31:35+00:00

He must have such low self esteem if building a relationship slowly isn't enough for him and he CRIES when he doesn't get sex. It has ONLY been 5 months, she potentially still knows shit about this guy and yet he starts manipulating her for sex. He should use his grown man legs to walk out of her life because she deserves better.

Imagine the other times in life where he will make HIS lack of patience HER problem. Pregnancy lasts 9 months, imagine being pestered for sex by this man while you're literally creating life because he's that needy.

imnotfitforexistence · 2021-12-12T04:37:40+00:00

Oh my! I feel so sorry for her! It would be great if you could dm her with the FDS link, OP. She surely needs it.

lansburysoda · 2021-12-12T04:43:08+00:00

It’s sad but my first reaction was “at least he didn’t rape her” 💀 as if that proves he’s a great person.

The bar is hell

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Title	SeX iS eXpEcTeD - Man is trying to coerce9 woman to have sex with him and everyone is cool with this??
Author	everythingandlove
Upvotes	115
Comments	39
Date	December 12, 2021 3:08 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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