TW; SA (Title in post)

HuckleberryThis2012 · 2022-08-02T15:06:51+00:00

I mean I guess it technically counts as having had a penis inside you, but let’s be real here, any guy who is counting that as some negative point for the woman is a lunatic.

I will say tho after having been in a relationship with a sexual assault victim that I wouldn’t do it again. Realized that I’m not able to handle the issues some victims get from what happened to them. It’s not their fault, but I don’t believe it’s anyone else’s fault if that’s too much for them.

Mobrowncheeks · 2022-08-02T14:40:02+00:00

What kinda of mental gymnastics do you have to do to consider sexual assault in someone’s “ sexual partner count”

You are really going to punish a woman for something that was forced upon her?

Edit: after reading the first few comments here, maybe I’m not as red pilled as i thought. I’m convinced these guys don’t know a single woman in their lives.

flakybottom · 2022-08-02T14:46:39+00:00

No freaking way.

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2022-08-02T15:14:47+00:00

This is a third rail topic...

I legit don't care about body count... but.. I'd never date a rape victim. You can call it fucked up if you'd like. But I'd rather date a woman with a body count of 50 than one with a body count of 3 one of which was rape.

Mental baggage? Been there done that. It was miserable and I hated my relationship even though i loved the person. I tried it twice actually, and third time is NOT the charm.

I would stay away not because the person is dirty or it was their fault (it's not and it wasn't) but because I personally don't have the emotional bandwidth to care for a rape victim or deal with one's quirks.

RRBeachFG2 · 2022-08-02T15:05:17+00:00

No. Of course not, wtf is wrong with u

pinktuliplover · 2022-08-02T15:14:41+00:00

Y’all hate feminists, but then comment the disgusting things that you do on here.

Lack of common sense. Lack of empathy.

BittererWegwerf · 2022-08-02T14:42:55+00:00

Ayo wtf. Of course it doesn't count. Jesus Christ how is this even a question? Consent is paramount. SA is probably one of the most horrible things that can happen to someone. How could anyone hold that against someone?

Cobra_x30 · 2022-08-02T15:06:03+00:00

I don't think this question needs to be asked, or this topic discussed.

63daddy · 2022-08-02T15:08:06+00:00

I’ve never used a “body count” as a determining factor in dating and personally don’t know anyone who has so whether or not sexual assaults count is a moot point.

Personally I prefer women who are experienced and have the talent that comes with experience.

wtknight · 2022-08-02T15:25:56+00:00

I don’t care about N count. I care about consensual casual sex experience. Since sexual assault is not consensual, it would not factor in to whether I decided to date someone or not.

CanOfWoody · 2022-08-02T15:31:56+00:00

IMO yes.

But even outside of it countihg for N, I would not want a woman who was raped. Usually messes them up mentally. Women are already hard enough to deal with without the extra problem of dealing with them having suffered rape.

ririsbaby · 2022-08-02T14:47:15+00:00

KayRay1994 · 2022-08-02T14:44:50+00:00

“my body count is 7.5, i was sexually assaulted once” - the autism just keeps on peaking here

Ohmaygahh · 2022-08-02T14:31:12+00:00

It counts. But not as a raw number. More like a giant negative.

At best, everything can be normal but one wrong gesture or move during being intimate, one wrong phrase, one thrust that feels a little too hard, and she will freak the fuck out in the middle of having sex.

At worst, she either hates sex, or tries to reclaim her sexual power and has gone through a sexual spree after the assault.

In other words, unfortunately, this is a negative that she has to have worked through, or never did resolve. Either way doesn't bode well for a healthy, well adjusted sex life.

It's awful, but that's how it is. Personally have had my fair share of women that have gone through it.

SwimmingTheme3736 · 2022-08-02T14:55:27+00:00

Are you being serious? Just stay away from all women with that attitude

DerekMorganBAU · 2022-08-02T14:31:48+00:00

Yes it counts

And unfortunately that comes with baggage and hang ups that men shouldn’t have to deal with. Sad but true.

Imagine paying the price for what another man did to her? I’m good on that

Mood swings, sexual hang ups/trauma with intimacy, hostile/volatile responses, who wants to go through that?

So yes it counts as one and then some.

Teflon08191 · 2022-08-02T14:59:16+00:00

It only "counts" insofar as it predicts potential problems you might not want to deal with.

Obviously you can't hold her being assaulted against her, but you can hold the behaviors she'll subject you to as a result of her being assaulted against her.

Barely-moral · 2022-08-02T15:13:34+00:00

Does assault count for "body count purposes"

No.

That being said I am not equipped to deal with the issues that come with a partner that was sexually assaulted. So I am not interested in a woman that went through that.

Mobrowncheeks · 2022-08-02T14:53:19+00:00

I personally wouldn't count it but I also would most likely not date someone like that due to them most likely having serious trauma and I think that is fair on my part since women count out men for much more superficial things vs this which is a pretty serious issue.

Play_Muted · 2022-08-02T14:35:53+00:00

if she got raped I dont want her. I cant deal with that shit.

ExpensiveShoulder580 · 2022-08-02T15:19:04+00:00

It's in a category of its own.

It doesn't convey the same things about a slut, however she isn't exactly a virgin either.

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Karmanger · 2022-08-02T14:57:40+00:00

Depends on the guy.

I would not count it, as long as she got therapy for it.

Slyfer_Seven · 2022-08-02T15:15:01+00:00

Does it count for "n count", no, but it does count for something unfortunately.

My brethren may be poorly articulating what that something is, so they lump it in with n count as it invokes similar feelings of aversion, but really it is its own separate category.

peteypete78 · 2022-08-02T15:17:27+00:00

Does assault count for "body count purposes"

NO.

Only time SA has any impact is if she hasn't healed from it.

thedeadpill · 2022-08-02T15:31:22+00:00

It depends on what you want to use the data point for, IMO.

If it's your N-count and it's for bragging rights: I wouldn't.

Title	TW; SA (Title in post)
Author	FragrantFlowerChild
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Date	August 2, 2022 2:02 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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