I have noticed that persistence is rarely talked about here. A lot of people don’t realize that persistence can be attractive. But it can also be a death blow.I can’t tell you how many times I’ve overheard stories of women saying “well, I just curious because he was so persistent”.

At the same time, persistence is a slippery slope. If you are persistent after a woman rejects you, you can easily be seen as a creep and desperate. Depending on the woman, she may even decide to expose you to her friends or in public. As such, most men don’t risk it or chase it. But one thing that seems to differentiate men and women is that in many cases, the “chase” can be seen as attractive to some women. Almost no man on the other hand finds a persistent woman hot.

I’ve even met women that borderline found a level of persistence I found creepy attractive. For example, this one girl after we blocked each other unblocked me after a day saying “why didn’t you use another number to try to contact me? I was waiting for you.” Granted, she likely found me attractive, but why play this game in the first place?

You might pretend as if these kinds of women are rare but they are not. A HUGE percentage of women love playing these kinds of games where they want to feel like they’re being chased but also want to feel like they’re the ones doing chasing. It’s obviously toxic but what’s interesting is that men rarely do this.

How many times have you heard a story of a man blocking a girl to see if she would use a different number to text him so that he can test how “much she wants him”.

On the other hand, how many times have you heard of a woman play these kinds of games where they try to test to see if you really want her? I bet almost every single guy on this sub has a story like this. If you do, feel free to share