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Incels on the rise: The percentage of men between ages 18-30 with no sex partners has tripled from 08-18

_Twixes_

March 25, 2021
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Title Incels on the rise: The percentage of men between ages 18-30 with no sex partners has tripled from 08-18
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_Twixes_

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Date March 25, 2021 2:34 AM UTC
(5 years ago)
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Comments

[–]nieces-piecesFDS Newbie 125 points126 points127 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

And may they stay that way 🤲

[–]liarliarpantsonfirexFDS Newbie 41 points42 points43 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

On god lmaooo

[–]Elfenlicht23 points 5 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

And may they stay far away from all women and girls 🤲

[–]nieces-piecesFDS Newbie 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

🤲🤲🤲

[–]spinsterchachkiesFDS Disciple 336 points337 points338 points 5 years ago (43 children) | Copy Link

Have they tried being less unattractive

[–]PapaverinumFDS Apprentice 75 points76 points77 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No no no! Taking care of self to become more attractive to women? That's what SIMP does! /s 🤡

[–]angryclarinetistFDS Newbie 202 points203 points204 points 5 years ago* (29 children) | Copy Link

I might be disagreed with for this, but I think every single man out there has the potential to be attractive. However, often it requires a lot of effort (like women put in day in and day out) yes, taking care of your body is very important. However, you should be able to develop your sense of style. Your skills. How to treat women with respect. Every time I find a man who is funny, gentle, clean and respectful I always end up crushing to some degree.

Edit: It is perfectly ok for women to care about looks! Honestly, I admire that they know what they want. I find that attraction blossoms over time for me, and it is ok not all women are like that.

[–]c_a_t_ladyFDS Newbie 62 points63 points64 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I agree with you, Angryclarinetist. 😊 I am not saying it applies to everyone's preferences, but it does to mine! 😃

I could find pretty much any man, who's around my age, attractive based on the genetic features they have (such as height, facial features etc.). ☺

Things like style, hygiene, intelligence, personality, the way they treat me and others, their values and things like that have a major effect on my attraction.

They could make a person who's socially seen as "not so attractive" look desirable to me. 🥰

For example, I once liked a polite, intelligent and kind guy that my friends thought didn't look good. I was a bit hurt by their comments at the time, and I did defend him. I still don't think he is/was "ugly" or "ew".

I also explained how to me it wouldn't even matter that much, which was something my friends couldn't understand because they saw appearance as a major factor.

Which is also okay! I don't judge them for having preferences, of course not. 😄

And also the other way around! They could make a person who's generally seen as "hot and attractive" look rather unpleasant to me.

To be clear, I am not saying any of you should lower your physical standards! This is just something that has applied to me. 🥰

It doesn't inherently apply to everyone, and I am not trying to convince you otherwise. 💕

[–]constellationofsunsFDS Newbie 38 points39 points40 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yes! Less shitty men are definitely more attractive even if they aren’t the best looking

[–]c_a_t_ladyFDS Newbie 23 points24 points25 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Definitely! Respectfulness, kindness and intelligence look good to my eyes. ❤

[–]forbiddenphoenixFDS Newbie 21 points22 points23 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Completely agree with you here. I was pretty surprised when I started working full-time and my coworkers would comment on how I was out of my then-boyfriend's league.

Later, when we married, those same coworkers remarked they understood once they saw how he treated me 😉

[–]c_a_t_ladyFDS Newbie 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lovely if he treats you well! 🥰

That's wonderful to hear. 💕

Looking attractive means absolutely nothing, if they treat you poorly.

[–]GoldandGlowingFDS Newbie 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Hard disagree. There are a lot of unattractive men out there that skate by because women are socialized to look at personality before anything else. I don’t think being nice here will help things; if a woman doesn’t want a man as he is, that’s okay.

[–]angryclarinetistFDS Newbie 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes I agree with you! I totally forgot about that in my original comment, so I made an edit saying that. It is 100% fine if a woman doesn’t want a man for ANY reason, even looks.

[–]fds_account58 16 points17 points18 points 5 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link

Yes!! Exactly. Women aren’t shallow like men. Them thinking we’d reject them for unchangeable attributes of their physical bodies is pure projection.

[–]ZirniaisuspirgaisFDS Newbie 30 points31 points32 points 5 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

I would reject a man based on height or facial structure because I want to be sexually attracted to the man I'm going to have sex with. Revolutionary concept.

Tired of this "women don't see looks" bullshit that men then take as an excuse to look like a rotting potato while chasing 10/10s. Women are trained to suppress their natural attraction. All those uggos you're courting for their "personality" are definitely not entertaining you for yours.

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[–]ZirniaisuspirgaisFDS Newbie 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Girls here who picked for "personality" honestly think those heart of gold trolls would have chosen them if they looked anything like they did. I'm sorry, if he doesn't care for himself and gives zero fuck for your physical desire, he's not really that kind or empathetic.

[–]angryclarinetistFDS Newbie 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

I actually agree with you here. I am talking about men who have pulled their head out of the dirt and have made effort to clean themselves off. Are there some things that are genetic that are no deals for some woman? Of course. There is no way in hell I would pick only personality, I was trying to say personality + putting effort into their body and appearance. I apologize if that wasn’t clear enough!

Edit (I want to be more specific here): women have every right to say no because of how the look. u/Zirniaisuspirgais is right when she said women are forced into not caring about looks. I hope I am able to come off as respectfully as possible here

[–]ZirniaisuspirgaisFDS Newbie 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Appreciate your respectfulness and clarification. The topic is a sore spot for me because it's a huge societal double standard.

[–]angryclarinetistFDS Newbie 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh no problem, I appreciate it. I am very new to communities like this and I appreciate when someone points out something that I missed. It makes me reconsider everything that the world tried to program into my brain.

[–]fds_account58 14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

But it is VERY rare that a man is ugly because of genetics. I mean men who are ugly due to genetics are probably more rare than HVM. How you look is very much up to you for the most part. These men put 0 effort into styling, hygiene, or skin care and wonder why no one is attracted to them. Women are so forgiving of physical defects. Women will date fat hairy short balding men. They do it every day. If you can’t get a woman it’s either not because of your looks, OR it is because you have put in such little effort or such misguided effort that she can tell you’re a lazy or clueless dude who will be lazy and clueless in other ways, too.

It’s just insane because they have no theory of mind. They don’t want to date a fat girl, but they’re fat. They don’t want a girl with acne or blackheads, but they won’t wash their face (or worse, they splash generic brand cetaphil on there for 20 seconds once a day and think they should be praised). They don’t want a girl with any body hair below the neck, but they have itchy needles poking out of their faces and pus-filled ingrown hairs, a treasure trail that could be seen from space, Sasquatch legs, butt hair you could braid, etc. They want a girl who wears the exact right boring slaving amount of natural makeup to which they are oblivious but they won’t set foot inside an Ulta themselves even though a lot of them could probably “looksmax” more easily with makeup. They want a woman who smells nice but they use dish soap in the shower, avoid Bath and Body Works and make fun of women for spending money there (see Ulta above) and have no clue what cologne is. They want a woman who dresses sexy—not high maintenance or revealing, now, no fun or agency, but they want to see her curves while she remains humble—but they’re really wearing an ill-fitting, hole-filled free camp t shirt from middle school with a pair of raggedy stained sweatpants.

Is that enough? Shall I go on?

Fix all of that. ALL of it. Then fix your personality because let’s face it, you’re a dude, it’s probably shit. Then complain if you still can’t get girls—no wait, don’t, you probably think you fixed everything because you didn’t actively assault the last girl you saw and you smeared some Irish Spring on your face two days ago.

Maybe they’re right, in a way. Maybe it’s all over for them.

[–]ZirniaisuspirgaisFDS Newbie 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Omg nothing but facts! Feeling called out on generic cetaphil tho👀👀

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[–]ZirniaisuspirgaisFDS Newbie 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

For me personally everything unscented works well. I have used 40 dollar to 1 dollar stuff and honestly a tin of one dollar nivea works like a charm when expensive stuff does little a lot of the time.

[–]HeavyMetalLobsterFDS Apprentice 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago* (6 children) | Copy Link

I agree with you completely

I have dated men who are conventionally unattractive physically but had amazing personalities. That’s honestly what matters the most (to me personally and any any all women have the right to have standards. You are totally correct for wanting a man who is attractive according to YOUR standards)

Someone beautiful on the inside (to me. someone who I find beautiful on the inside, as this is my standard, and not meant to shame any other woman for whatever their standards are)

Edited to remove confusion

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[–]HeavyMetalLobsterFDS Apprentice 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Let's define further then

"I've dated me who are conventionally unattractive physically" -- men who are shorter, chubby, whatever, whom I find attractive. I liked their faces. I liked the symmetry. This doesn't make me a pick-me for finding men attractive who are conventionally unattractive

"but had amazing personalities" -- they put me first, took me on dates, paid for me, did not pressure me into anything, made me laugh, put effort into the relationship, respectful of me/my choices/my life

"someone beautiful on the inside" -- I want a man who is gentle, caring, thoughtful, emotionally intelligent, humble, etc. These are *my* standards

Tell me why I am a pick me for being attracted to what a man does and his personality? Why am I a pick me for finding these "conventionally unattractive" men attractive? I was attracted to them, and I won't feel ashamed just because you or anyone else didn't, because they treated me well

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[–]HeavyMetalLobsterFDS Apprentice 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Thanks for the explanation. Next time I will add "to me" to the end of those so as not to confuse you or anyone into thinking I am making a blanket statement

I'm not making any rule for any other woman. For me personally I care about someone treating me right. Women deserve to be with men they find attractive, in any way, and I have not tried to shame any woman for their standards. I never said a woman is asking for "too much" for having physical, standards, quite the opposite. That's why I am here. That's why we are all here.

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[–]HeavyMetalLobsterFDS Apprentice 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It was not my intent at all to reinforce e notion that unattractive guys are nicer.

It matters to me that a guy treats me well. Attraction and looks absolutely do matter.

  • If I found a guy attractive who treated me badly, I wouldn’t date him.

  • If a guy treated me well but I was not attracted to him, I wouldn’t date him.

  • If a guy treated me well and I was attracted to him but he wasn’t “conventionally attractive” then I would date him because it’s my standards that are fulfilled - 1) treats me well, 2) I’m attracted to him, 3) other peoples standards of “conventional attractiveness” do not apply

[–]souredskittlesFDS STRATEGY COACH 55 points56 points57 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

They took 500 showers but no luck :(

[–]Champagne_bitchFDS Newbie 12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Pretty sure the only took 500 showers in their emtire lifetime because they are ToO BuSy

[–]supremelyparanoidFDS Apprentice 18 points19 points20 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Hahaha! I’m sure they’ve never tried it

[–]ZirniaisuspirgaisFDS Newbie 26 points27 points28 points 5 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Appalled at the chorus of pickmes here going "it's all personality, women don't care about looks." Women have been shamed for wanting physical attraction for too long. Trust me, all those guys you're significantly better looking compared to are not here for your personality and wouldn't entertain you if you were on their level physically.

[–]GoldandGlowingFDS Newbie 10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This. A lot of men are genuinely ugly. Women shouldn’t continue to be forced to focus on personality only.

[–]gcsubthrowFDS Apprentice 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes! And their lack of a skin care routine, childish dress and hair style 🤮 need I go on?

[–]souredskittlesFDS STRATEGY COACH 13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Yeah... same. I thought we were beyond catering to men’s feelings.

Plenty of men are ugly by most women’s standards.

[–]gcsubthrowFDS Apprentice 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

If we judged men on the 1-10 scale like how they judged us and really let it all come out, most men would be 2’s at best, and in the negatives at worst.

[–]souredskittlesFDS STRATEGY COACH 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Damn this is pure facts. Most are below average a few average and even less are hot.

Now that I’m on BC it got worse for me. I legit was gagging the other day when my friends unattractive bf came in wearing a hentai sweater.

On average when I’m out and about it’s RARE to see a random hot guy.

[–]Geocities_SEO_ExpertFDS STRATEGY COACH 157 points158 points159 points 5 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link

I bet a lot of that 27% came from families where the parents said boys are easier to raise than girls. Oops.

[–]Platipus6183 points 5 years ago [recovered] (13 children) | Copy Link

I know I shouldn't laugh but I'm lmao so hard at China for killing all the female babies so "their line could continue with a son"... only to end up dead-ending their line because there's no-one to marry their son off to.

[–]Kylie_FanFDS Newbie 74 points75 points76 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

It's tragical and funny! It's not like the sons can "continue their line" without a woman!! They need women to carry the descendants to term.

Actually, logically and biologically speaking a woman can absolutely continue the lineage by many means (sperm donor, marrying her off to whoever), all she has to do is have sex and the bar is low, whereas the man really has to be worthwhile if he should be selected by a woman to carry his offspring.

[–]Platipus6FDS Disciple 95 points96 points97 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

In their misogynistic culture, they believed that if you have a son, you gain a daughter and your line continues. If you have a daughter, you lose her and your name ends. They're quite rural so to be fair there was a lot more physical labor and daughters were viewed as useless during the 1-child policy. Now the women are excelling in college and are bringing much more money back to the family home hahahahahahaha.

These leftover men are really begging, crying and doing the mating dance to get a wife. They're really learning what happens when you pervert nature :)

[–][deleted] 25 points26 points27 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

A bit ago, NYT ran an article saying that the last member of this indigenous tribe had died to COVID, and their traditions were forever lost. In the article, it mentions his daughters leaving and marrying into a new tribe. Their kids wouldn’t speak their father’s language, but it’s worth noting that they weren’t all dead with the last man. They corrected the headline in their next daily briefing in a footnote, but what a way to say women aren’t real people, NYT.

From the article: “In 1999, with the death of his brother-in-law, Mr. Juma, who like many Indigenous Brazilians used his tribe’s name as his surname, became the last remaining Juma male. The tribe’s extinction was assured.”

Article: https://www.nytimes.com/2021/03/14/world/the-last-living-man-of-the-juma-people-in-brazil-has-died-from-covid-19.html?0p19G=6214

[–]Platipus6FDS Disciple 24 points25 points26 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

More of the tribe's DNA would be in their X than in his shitty Y

Mitochondrial DNA is the powerhouse of the cell! NYT needs to learn more memes.

[–]perfectangellicgirlFDS Newbie 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

whereas the man really has to be worthwhile if he should be selected by a woman to carry his offspring.

This is why men are so much bigger and stronger I think

[–][deleted] 67 points68 points69 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Patriarchal countries like China, India, and Pakistan: Let's kill female infants on a genocidal scale

Now men greatly outnumber women. Who would of guessed?

[–]intergalacticanon44FDS Newbie 49 points50 points51 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

someone on twitter mentioned this is why forced-marriages are prevalent in these countries -- the women wouldn't marry them by choice otherwise

[–]Platipus6FDS Disciple 36 points37 points38 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank god the logical men are in charge.

[–]throwawayheyyy5FDS Newbie 83 points84 points85 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They played themselves 😅

[–]intergalacticanon44FDS Newbie 23 points24 points25 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

this still baffles me, what did they think was gonna happen 😭

[–]CowgirlMollyFDS Newbie 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Population reduction.

[–]CowgirlMollyFDS Newbie 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The one-child policy was meant to reduce the population and that it has!

[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple 22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Excellent point/burn. Like what, social skills, are just for girls?

[–]Platipus6150 points 5 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

So you could say they're ..... going to die alone?

They should check out FDS for tips on getting boxed wine and cats!

[–]spinsterchachkiesFDS Disciple 31 points32 points33 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

😂😂😂

[–]Kylie_FanFDS Newbie 67 points68 points69 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Damn, 27% that is unreal!! That's basically 1 in 4!

[–]sleepysiriFDS Newbie 195 points196 points197 points 5 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link

If only they could redirect their energy into improving or accepting it rather than murdering women left right and centre

[–]souredskittlesFDS STRATEGY COACH 98 points99 points100 points 5 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link

This is what honestly scares me. Also I’m scared of the moment when all lock downs lift and they are going to be hunting like thirsty animals since old isn’t yielding much for them.

[–]Worldly_SellPickmeisha™️ 29 points30 points31 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Oh shit, I haven’t thought of how savage their going to be once they are able to go out again. I was going to date when social distancing lessens but now not so sure. All these men cooped up that haven’t been able to go out and cheat or have one night stands are going to ramp up their degeneracy.

[–]DutyKookyPickmeisha™️ 21 points22 points23 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

in isolation, they have lost all of their social skills and have not seen women other than in porn. They have not interacted casually/normally in an every-day setting with women for over a year. Pandemic has accelerated their brain rot 100%. Expect more flashers, pathetic come ons, etc after social distancing ends. Bars and streets after dark will not be safe for women.

[–]souredskittlesFDS STRATEGY COACH 18 points19 points20 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yes and I could tell. I’ve had frequent famished stares at grocery stores and been followed when I’m shopping for band aids. I do want to go out after it’s safe but I’m taking my entourage of friends, no way in hell I’m going anywhere alone.

[–]DutyKookyPickmeisha™️ 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

good for you for having friends entourage... mine seem to have dissolved during the pandemic.

[–][deleted] 53 points54 points55 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I received so many desperate pandemic texts from men I hadn’t seen in months/years, so I know these guys are just itching for human contact.

[–]stelladiver512FDS Newbie 10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Same

[–]DutyKookyPickmeisha™️ 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

and even when they are desperate, the quality of their attempts at contact/ text is pathetic. They can't even master a decent way to approach women - no wonder they are and should be single.

[–]stelladiver512FDS Newbie 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Truth. One I hadn’t heard from in a year (I forgot block #) just texted “how are you?” That it. He was fishing to see if I would still make myself available. But couldn’t even bother to be creative and engaging in his text

[–]sleepysiriFDS Newbie 47 points48 points49 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Normally things like sex dolls and such are so depraved but this is the only instance where I advocate donating as many as possible to these kinds of sick men.

[–]souredskittlesFDS STRATEGY COACH 63 points64 points65 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It’s a nice thought to just give them sex dolls but honestly it won’t matter, they will want to escalate the abuse using real women.

[–][deleted] 34 points35 points36 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Sex dolls have a similar effect on the brain as the use of porn does.

[–]pinkgirly111FDS Newbie 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

this is so spot on. maybe creepy, but i'm just gonna go ahead and say it....i go into work sometimes and work in STEM (all men) I feel like they lose it when i take off my mask (obviously at a safe distance) like they've been dying without seeing women's faces, the male gaze has been that impacted by the pandemic. just a thought. shudders.

[–]souredskittlesFDS STRATEGY COACH 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ooooo girl! I work in stem as well. When the office is full of men standing around and I walk in I noticed they collectively look for a few seconds. I remember it was not like this before.

[–]Phoenix__Rising2018Ruthless Strategist 62 points63 points64 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It's up from 8% to 27% in the picture from the link!

[–]BBQCoolRanchQueenFDS Apprentice 167 points168 points169 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

No surprise there. Porn rotted their brains and social skills away.

[–]souredskittlesFDS STRATEGY COACH 83 points84 points85 points 5 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

Honestly, yeah. It’s known to cause social anxiety and depression.

[–]burpleseaurchinPickmeisha™️ 31 points32 points33 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Even if they overcame those two things, they'll still be left with the main problem extreme porn addiction causes: they'll hate women and we'll sense it from across the room easily. 🤡

[–][deleted] 113 points114 points115 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

For most of history women did get handed out as rewards by their fathers to men who managed to impress them. It's hilarious how male philosophers used to describe men as some kind of pinnacle of evolution when in reality they fail so hard at adapting to new situations to the point of letting the species go extinct before trying to come to terms with the fact that women get to choose now and they would have to give women a reason to want to be with them.

[–]throwawayheyyy5FDS Newbie 114 points115 points116 points 5 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

In the long-run this is good for the gene pool.

[–]supremelyparanoidFDS Apprentice 67 points68 points69 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

I came to say this too! But then I look at the types of people who are breeding and I’m like 🥲 I don’t know how true that is

[–]throwawayheyyy5FDS Newbie 95 points96 points97 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

If women continue to level up and reject modern men than there will be less LVM to breed with. I know it's sounds mean but so many of these incel types should not have been produced. One of my favorite FDS like YouTuber made a candid video about this. As soon women go back to be extremely selective with who the have children with ( or if they should have any all), society will have less of these anti-social personalities around.

[–]ApprehensiveGiftBoxFDS Newbie 16 points17 points18 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Lol watch the scrotes screenshot this "muh eugenics". I thought cold rationality was in boys. Or is it only for you to justify wanting to fuck underage girls.

[–]throwawayheyyy5FDS Newbie 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh they don't like the reality that women are the chooser. If we don't prove yourself worthy of the father of our children, your genes end with you. Adios.

[–]lumijumalatarThrowaway Account 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It’s so funny how men hate when women talk about natural selection and biology when it does not profit them.

[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple 28 points29 points30 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Absolutely. They're not shining examples of survival of the fittest, are they? That's what happens when Mother Nature is subverted.

[–]souredskittlesFDS STRATEGY COACH 51 points52 points53 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Scrotes doomed.

Now how many of those only have had sex for a brief moment in their life but are sexless. Maybe they should try harder lmao

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[–][deleted] 37 points38 points39 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Or what about religious sects who take a chastity vow like monks and nuns? They’re doing fine and live long enough to old age lol

[–]DutyKookyPickmeisha™️ 17 points18 points19 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

except in male monasteries they get drunk and have depravity with each other. whereas female monastries they cultivate peace and productivity

[–][deleted] 14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Honestly I should have just said nuns 😂😂

[–]DutyKookyPickmeisha™️ 16 points17 points18 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

at least most eastern men have to do actual work to survive, so while they too are pieces of shit, at least most of their day is occupied with earning a livelihood, so they have to leave the women alone for most of it.

[–]DutyKookyPickmeisha™️ 89 points90 points91 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

sounds about right, and that number shuld be even higher, as more women wise up. If you are not financially. emotionally and mentally stable, with your life mostly figured out, you should not be having sex. If you live in parents basement, have no sufficient source of in come for yourself and no path in life, you have nothing to offer and need therapy and skills training, not sex. Sex is a privilege that you have to earn, not an entitlement.

[–][deleted] 61 points62 points63 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

It’s shocking how many women on average have themselves together on all levels while it’s nearly a miracle these days to meet a man who is employed, pays his bills, is not overweight, is emotionally/mentally stable, AND can maintain an erection.

[–]DutyKookyPickmeisha™️ 19 points20 points21 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This seems to be even more pronounced in the cities. City women level-up & overall mostly educated, accomplished, have careers and apartments, are involved in social causes. While city men degenereate into pathetic lazy fuckboys.

In the country, women have limited options and often fade in isolation faster, and that is why all ambitious women leave for the city.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yep! This is esp true for the East coast.

[–]fds_account58 42 points43 points44 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Incel is a mindset, not a situation. A man may not have a partner, but he could just be leveling up or enjoying the single life without obsessing over sex and relationships.

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[–]fds_account58 12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Yes. That’s the thing MGTOWs can’t admit. They never go their own way. They are totally dependent on women for sex. Even if they just rape women, they’re still dependent. Beer doesn’t consent to being drunk, but alcoholics still depend on it and are slaves to it.

Most men can’t even conceptualize going their own way. “Sex-free” is something they can’t even wrap their minds around.

This is why WGTOW is inactive—what is there to talk about? Those ladies are busy living life. MGTOW is full of guys seething and strategizing how to get sex. Which does not count as going your own way.

[–]souredskittlesFDS STRATEGY COACH 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Even if they just watch porn they are still dependent on women lmao

Unless they go full monk they are full of shit lol

Deborah cooper made a video about this and was posted her a day ago. Great listen.

[–][deleted] 38 points39 points40 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

When all they do is play video games all day, what do they expect?

[–]Worldly_SellPickmeisha™️ 23 points24 points25 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Right? You don’t know how to approach or have conversations with women because you’re content to watch tv/ play video games. This shit really isn’t that hard. Why can’t they cultivate a personality and learn basic social skills?

[–][deleted] 14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It takes work. It is incompatible with being criminally lazy.

[–][deleted] 61 points62 points63 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Have you noticed this?

When a woman can't get married, it's women's fault.

When a man can't get laid, it's women's fault.

[–]HydraSkyFireAt-Risk Pick Me Youth 12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well if a woman can't get married it's because she won't lower her standard. If a man can't get married it's because women won't lower her standards.

To put it more correctly: if a woman can't get married it's because men are trash. If a man can't get married it's because he is trash.

[–]throwRA8935747835FDS Apprentice 26 points27 points28 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's what happens when you waste your life away with porn, video games and bro culture. If you are not a well-rounded person that are able to socialise, obviously you aren't able to get any kind of intimacy.

The problem is that they will blame it on everyone but themselves 🙄

[–]LordDunderheadFDS Apprentice 27 points28 points29 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Definitely porn related (Pornhub was released in 2008) but I also think general smartphone/social media addiction have played a massive role. The difference between the genders here is that women tend to use social media to WIDEN their circles, while men tend to isolate themselves even further and are naturally more irresponsible and reckless when dealing with addictions.

Not to mention dramatically declining testosterone levels since the 1980s.

Men have become so unattractive and pathetic across the board yet refuse to change.

[–]souredskittlesFDS STRATEGY COACH 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That’s interesting. We also use it to solidify our groups as in I have the same people across different platforms.

They only use these apps for porn.

[–][deleted] 53 points54 points55 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Having sex with men just makes them even more sexually entitled

[–][deleted] 16 points17 points18 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Who would have thought that when you're a woman-hating, detestable person that...women don't want to be near you or have sex with you. This isn't rocket science. Men aren't having sex because they are not likeble people.

[–]maracat1989FDS Newbie 16 points17 points18 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

This actually scares me.... will it correlate with a rise in male violence??

[–]ZirniaisuspirgaisFDS Newbie 14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It inevitably will. Even if they're all soft and squishy overgrown toddlers now, the gun gives them all the power they need to do damage.

[–]Salt_SatisfactionFDS Disciple 11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

The sexist ones will see this graph and say "feminism has gone too far" or that feminism is dooming civilization 😂

This looks about right for a society where you're supposed to prepare for your professional career and start building it in your late teens and early twenties. People have more options and possibilities than never leaving their village in their life and start having babies to tend to the farm.

[–]souredskittlesFDS STRATEGY COACH 10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I think they already did create a thread on this. Blamed feminism for high standards.

[–]spinsterchachkiesFDS Disciple 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lmaoooo high standards hahaha

[–]FkthekiritFDS Newbie 12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

How can they have sex even if women accepted them when they all have erectile dysfunction from porn

[–]warinmymind94FDS Disciple 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You don't say! Haha men are probably scratching their balding heads wondering why they can't get laid let alone hold down a relationship so they trying to be all cool and hip being Red pill and going their own way but really they are so angry they can't get laid.

You know if you did further research on these men I guarantee you that there will be a strong correlation between poor hygiene, high BMI, and presence of dark triad personality traits. I know for a fact majority of these scrotes are prematurely balding, live in mom's basement, eat fast food or other heavily processed foods, are slobs, smell, and also dress awfully. The problem is them.

[–]wielblademFDS Newbie 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I think it is not right to call all these men in the survey "incels". They're under 30 and reporting no sex partners at least since 18, but some of them may still be close to 18, for one. Even if they're feeling lonely and would like to date and have a partner, it's still not the same as incels, a label which takes specific attitudes and a specific type of broad entitlement and resentment of women.

I'm between 20 and 30 and haven't slept with anyone since I was under the age of 18, but that doesn't make me a female incel either.

[–]warinmymind94FDS Disciple 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They will all turn into big Eds as they age: not only does he look horrendous but he has way too much audacity and still lies and treats women like poop!

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I know this is not funny, but my first reaction when I saw that a third of these losers are not getting laid was to laugh.

[–]JaneIsaPainFDS Newbie 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Survival of the fittest.

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