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Male Pandering At Its Finest.. Embarrassing.

Meadow97

March 5, 2021
313 upvotes
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Title Male Pandering At Its Finest.. Embarrassing.
Author

Meadow97

Upvotes 313
Comments 61
Date March 5, 2021 4:57 PM UTC
(5 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/lyg8xo/male_pandering_at_its_finest_embarrassing/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/male-pandering-at-its-finest-embarrassing.1191607
https://theredarchive.com/post/1191607
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Comments

[–][deleted] 375 points376 points377 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is the most childish pickme bullshit I've ever seen. Imagine prioritising a man's sexual attention over your own financial security. Shameful.

[–]coldfoot23FDS Newbie 321 points322 points323 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

You got ass and still didn’t get picked huh?

[–]advice1988 236 points237 points238 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Well you can buy an arse but you can’t stop being one! Once an arse always an arse. Money keeps buttocks plenty warm; own your own house and paying your own bills & pay for a private trainer to build one if you so chose! But knowing your worth ? Priceless (MasterCard ad approved 😂)

Enough not to do this kind foolish behaviour thinking disrespecting women doing better than you, will lead to anything but attracting other arses.

‘One dimensional’ just like her unoriginal take on her own internalised misogyny. She’s a victim.

[–]LogisticBirdFDS Newbie 181 points182 points183 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Imagine the sheer power we would have if we banded together and supported each other as women. We have been taught from a very young age BY MEN to tear other women down based on their looks. It’s not a coincidence that men own most of the cosmetics, media, and fitness companies. Pickme women fall right into their trap.

[–]advice1988 77 points78 points79 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Imagine she said ‘ ladies with the 50k and their own houses and cars, help a girl out’ you know women would be giving her mad advice and opportunities. And she wasted it for male validation...?

[–]KnowledgeOk5995FDS Newbie 134 points135 points136 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

How am I supposed to find a sisterhood when so many women think like this and are so male centered. Why why why must everything be about catering to men and making men happy. Why can’t women just support other women .

[–][deleted] 117 points118 points119 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

She seems really jealous of this hypothetical financially secure woman lmaoo

[–]PahapanFDS Disciple 33 points34 points35 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She's probably convinced herself her OnlyFans will still generate income when she's a senior citizen, lol.

[–]_moonessFDS Newbie 31 points32 points33 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I know right, the projection is strong

[–]donttextme_kFDS Newbie 115 points116 points117 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

She deleted the video, I went to her account to read the comments 👀

[–]Nat_at_allFDS Newbie 61 points62 points63 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Well at least she deleted it. God, the laughing at the end was so horribly mean.

[–]Sensitive-Shoe-1079 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Idk...I didnt find it mean. I just felt sorry for her the whole video. This is someone thats so far gone, she may never learn to respect herself.

[–]Greendreem 109 points110 points111 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Then he cheats with a woman with no ass. Who will be the one laughing then? Women like this have yet to understand that MEN DONT TRULY CARE when it comes to getting their dick wet. If trees had soft, wet holes, they’d be his side chick.

[–]PrincessBeefloofFDS Newbie 96 points97 points98 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I am so embarrassed for this woman

[–]blilolaFDS Newbie 91 points92 points93 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

This is embarrassing. What does she have to gain from this? Aside from a misogynistic dusty sliding into her dms to applaud her

[–]Throwawayrightaway28FDS Newbie 24 points25 points26 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Dick

[–]_moonessFDS Newbie 37 points38 points39 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Dick is abundant, cheap, and easy to get. She doesn’t have to do all this for dick, surely she knows that??

[–]blilolaFDS Newbie 13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

True. Men are literally at every corner. Plus the HVM are too busy living fulfilling lives to see this nonsense. So what does she stand to gain??? 😭😭

[–]airhostess_inthe60sFDS Newbie 65 points66 points67 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol! Sure cuz you'll keep that ass forever. Once it turns into play-doh, or a bouncier one comes along, who's going to hold it for you?

[–]NannuhBannanFDS Apprentice 50 points51 points52 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Someone, please, take her phone.

[–]EffectiveHoneydew422FDS Newbie 52 points53 points54 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

her "bursting out in laugh" was so deep uncanny valley it made me wince

[–]spinsterchachkiesFDS Disciple 46 points47 points48 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I have an ass and I’ll trade it for the job and the 401k hands down

[–]wagonwheel_FDS Newbie 46 points47 points48 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Okay but once I do these squats, she still gon be broke...?

[–]Nat_at_allFDS Newbie 38 points39 points40 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ew. What the hell. This was so cruel and condescending.

[–]PahapanFDS Disciple 35 points36 points37 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I have a flat ass and it's literally never been a hinderance to "getting a man". Getting a man isn't an achievement. Having a great job, earning 50k+, having your own things, and having your own car, on the other hand, are achievements.

Let me know when you're 80 if your ass keeps you fed and sheltered, lol.

[–]Davina33FDS Disciple 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

My bum is small and I'm happy with it just the way it is. I cannot believe this video, what's so special about a big arse anyway? The size of our bottoms is irrelevant and doesn't determine our success.

[–]biggestsigh 30 points31 points32 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Is she...drunk or high? Because that is what it seems like. You know when you say something and you think you sound like you are saying something profound but it's just...this?

[–][deleted] 29 points30 points31 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Pickmes do the most time wasting bullying bullshit and still don’t get the love they’re posturing for.

[–]shockingupdateFDS Newbie 48 points49 points50 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Oh...oh. She was serious. I thought she was making fun of the men who say that

[–]Nat_at_allFDS Newbie 23 points24 points25 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

SAME! I thought so too!

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I had to watch it multiple times like... did it get cut off? Where's the joke? Woosh

[–]pikkpieFDS Newbie 22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh jeez what a toxic woman. I almost down voted the post!

[–]Khentiamentiu42FDS Newbie 22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She will end up on here one day after initially wondering what happened and we will all be here for her

[–]SadMadNomad43 points 5 years ago [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link

Everybody has an ass. I dislike how 'small' equates to 'nonexistent'—but only when it applies to ass and tits.

If someone has small hands, we don't tell them they have no hands. If someone drives a small car, we don't tell them they have no car. If someone lives in a small house, we don't tell them they're homeless. But if a woman has a small butt or small breasts, then she has "no ass" or "no tits" because men are obsessed with big asses + boobs. (Imagine if we told men they have no dick or no stature because they're small-dicked or short.)

For all of our "body positivity", it's still acceptable to mock women who aren't curvy. When I see other women doing this, I know they value male attention more than they value self-respect.

And yes, I'm skinny and petite. I'm not going to pretend I have it worse than overweight women, but I wish people understood women are constantly made fun of for being the "wrong" type of skinny aka not slim thicc.

Edit: Thanks for the silver!

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This is such a good point and a perspective I never thought about.

[–]SadMadNomad20 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Thank you. Small isn't nothing. It may not be someone's preference and that's okay, but 'small' and 'nonexistent' are two different things.

And as other commenters pointed out, having a big ass doesn't guarantee a man's devotion. Women of all body types get cheated on, abandoned, and mistreated. Having financial stability is far more useful and promising for a woman's future.

[–]midwesternwinds 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I've said this for ages!! It's like pickmes and guys think boobs and butts are ghosts- if they can't physically see it in a really obvious way must not exist 😂 All it does it suggest big is normal, so anything smaller isn't even real. I have small boobs and a small butt and they're very much real and have gotten noticed. (And as a side note, I also hate when people say small or thin lips = no lips. Nobody says small noses don't exist!)

Also, you can be curvy while being small. It just means you have a defined waist. I'm also tired of people using curvy synonymously with plus size, big breasts, thick, etc. You can be curvy and Rebel Wilson's size or curvy, or Taylor Swift's size. I'm curvy, just in a way subtler way than say, Sophia Loren. Audrey Hepburn was curvy and super thin. All the Victoria's Secret models are too. (Although there's obviously nothing wrong with being "ruler shaped" either, which most women are!). It's just another way society tries to put beauty in boxes. If that makes sense.

[–]SadMadNomad4 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Agreed. Small physical traits, including small lips, are normal, and a woman can be curvy at any size. A defined waist and wide hips create curves too, and thin women can have those features. Someone like Candice Swanepoel isn't what people would consider to be thick, but she has subtle yet noticeable curves with her waist/hips.

Truth be told, sometimes I get tired hearing about curves because it comes across as curvy women wanting revenge for all the years where willowy figures were fashionable. So much of "body positivity" is focused on praising women with hourglass shapes, whether slim or thick.

If anything, the body standards for women have gotten more brutal than the ultra-slim figures of the '90s. Now you have to be thin, curvy, toned, and thick all at once, with surgically-altered proportions. Sure, most women won't look like a svelte supermodel, but most won't look like Kim Kardashian or Cardi B either. Women have moved on from one hard-to-reach beauty standard to the next, and yet, it almost seems more taboo to call out the obsession with being "thicc" than the obsession with being thin, imo.

[–]iaintgonnacallyouFDS Newbie 19 points20 points21 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I hate to say this because it sounds like I’m tearing women down, but these kinds of women really hold us back. Imagine if pickmes didn’t exist.

[–]KelandryFDS Newbie 13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I feel like shes drunk... she must have been... What even is this "I own over 50k a year" ?

[–]RememberthekantFDS Newbie 12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ok ?? How confident can you be when you are judging the worth of another woman by her ass size ? Surely you have other things to offer the world?

[–]maraslove 25 points26 points27 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Foreign black women.... are better than this.....

Disgusted with this girl. Also, that “man” will leave you for someone with no ass btw....

[–]MagnfiqueMaleficentFDS Disciple 11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I can buy an ass. You couldn’t pay me to be this silly for male attention. 🤡

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You can buy an ass but you can’t buy a brain 🧠

[–]NurseBubbleGumFDS Apprentice 10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I have both and am literally no better off in the dating pool because men are shit.

[–]FrozenExpanseThrowaway Account 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Translation: "They chose books, I chose looks, and now the only thing I have going for me in life is my fading sex appeal to LVM and I'm salty as fuck about it."

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not to mention she didn't realize you can have looks and books

[–]daisy_0720FDS STRATEGY COACH 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She'll feel so validated once she gets picked by a guy who doesn't bother looking twice at her because he's too busy watching porn featuring women with giant asses.

Women like this are a cancer. There is a world of difference between Pickmes who hurt themselves (due to a lifetime of social conditioning) and Handmaidens who actively tear down and destroy other women to score Cool Girl points.

[–]IAteTheDragonFDS Newbie 15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ass aside, she sounds high 🥴

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks. I hate it.

[–]BaekseoulhuiFDS Newbie 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ah yeah.... The one thing that men look for in a woman... Ass and titties... Pardon me ill just leave then lol

[–]RikaRikaw 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Pickmeisha AND body shamer Great

[–]eveloeFDS Apprentice 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Maybe if she earned £50k a year she could afford a shirt with sufficient buttons.

Also I have single friends that earn £200k plus and the biggest problem for them is avoiding gold diggers. They could buy arses if they really wanted 😂

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ok? He'll fuck you in the ass and then when he's bored he'll cheat on you and leave you. What's your ass gonna do for you then? Only thing you'll be able to do with your ass is offer it up for men to fuck for money :)

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I have one, I just don’t show it like you do.

[–]midwesternwinds 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Did a guy dump her for a smaller-butt girl? Did someone make fun of her for having a big butt? I'm not even asking to be mean. That's a thinly-veiled tantrum brought on by someone with a different body type hurting her in some way 😬

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What's she gonna do in 5-10 years when the beauty standard changes again and slim women are back in?

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Sad and pathetic.

[–]Volperossa_FDS Newbie 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Imagine being proud that the only thing you have to offer is your ass

[–]NeuroticNurseFDS Newbie 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh no, I have a steady career and make more than enough money to support myself, but I still don’t have enough ass for some scrote to squeeze and fondle every night when I’m trying to sleep so I can get up early for work in the morning while he sleeps until noon to prepare for a full day of video games and porn!

/s

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